Lessons Lived

About Lessons Lived

Collecting the life lessons of every human being's unique life and disseminating those lessons for humanities betterment.

Publisher

Michael Puente

Category

society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

29 Aug 2019

Latest episode

11 Mar 2021

Latest episodes

14 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   11 Mar 2021

   #14 Lynn Burnett, Understand the roots of the issues you care about

   #14 Lynn Burnett, Understand the roots of the issues you care about. Lynn is a former high school history teacher and youth mentor. He is the creator of CrossCulturalSolidarity.com & the White Antiracist Ancestry Project. LYNN’S LESSONS: 1) Help build the world you’d like to see, with people you admire. 2) Understand the roots of the issues you care about. 3) Put your body into diverse spaces, and build solidarity across difference. NOTABLE QUOTES FROM THE EPISODE: If more people collectively across the country can understand all of that history, I think that we can move forward to build the kind of world that we want to see. I feel like one of the key things to living a life that has a sense of purpose is to be able to wake up every morning and to know that there's something that you care about, something about the world that you would like to improve. You know, if we wake up in the morning and we know that we're working to make the world a better place, I think that that is a really positive feeling to have. No community is perfect. This is something that I've discovered too. So I think if you're on a quest to find the absolutely perfect community, that might be something that you can never find. I could say that was an experience for me to have; if I hadn't put my body there, I would never have had that specific type of experience of myself, which was a big moment of waking up for me. I was teaching incarcerated kids in Arizona and this is where I started teaching history because the issues that they cared about were all racial justice issues. And I found that to help them understand the roots of the issues that they cared about, I could help them understand those issues through history. We have to be willing to ask the question, “Is it okay for me to be here?” It's important that, when we're putting our body in an organizing space, the primary thing would be, “Is this something that we really believe in? Is it something that we're really committed to?” Then, it is a matter of checking out when the meetings are and asking how you could be a service, and letting people kind of direct you towards how you can show up in a way that they would appreciate for their group. https://crossculturalsolidarity.com/ (https://crossculturalsolidarity.com/) https://www.gofundme.com/f/the-white-antiracist-ancestry-project (https://www.gofundme.com/f/the-white-antiracist-ancestry-project)

2. 

   24 Sept 2020

   #13 ALEXANDRA DANIELI, Follow your heart

   Don't be afraid of Change NOTABLE QUOTES FROM THE EPISODE: I was always believing that there's a bigger something out there, that's been just a big support and guidance for me so I felt just safe with following my heart. If I ever did anything that wasn't true to my heart, I didn't stick with it for a long time. All my life, as long as I've followed my heart, there has been guidance and things just came in when they needed to come in. As soon as you have to justify something or explain something it's from the head, but If you are in a place or with a person or with a decision from your heart, you don't need to justify it. You're just like, “That's what I want to do.” As much as I like things to stay safe and the same in some respects, it's much more beneficial to me and in my life when I remain open to change. The brain can only perceive what it's losing and not what it's gaining. And with my own personal work too, as it's always scary, when I let go of something that doesn't serve me anymore, it's like a part of me dies and I cry and I let go of a piece of me that I don't have used for anymore. As soon as I let go of something that I don't need anymore, the universe sends me something bigger, better, and more precious than I could have ever thought of. And that's why I personally can't believe in being afraid of change anymore.

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   26 Jan 2020

   #12 ANIA MARIA, Follow your heart

   I was a bit of a troublemaker, I was always like cutting classes was hanging out with the wrong crowd, but it just felt good to me. I really wanted to take a look at trying to do some sort of plant medicine to talk a third eye view of my life and what can improve or really face these problems that are occurring in my life that maybe at times I'm not so aware of. All all the lessons that I learned through life, of sacrificing in order to find love or be in partnership was really not what the key ingredient is… it's to always follow your heart, follow your heart, stay in integrity Don't worry about the world understanding you. It's about you understanding yourself. So many people are in such headspaces or confusion. They're trying to understand their lives and they'll question yours. Why wouldn't I want to just stop and like get to know who I am, every little bit of it and discover who I am and experiment with art or cooking or creation and you know, we were gifted this life and why? Why try to have everybody else understand it. Just be fluid in it. If you can just follow your heart and know yourself, then you're going to be living a much more easeful and satisfied life.

4. 

   27 Nov 2019

   #11 DR. ROOP SIHOTA, Be conscious of the paths available to you

   Roop travels the world teaching athletes of all backgrounds how to use movement as a diagnostic tool and mobility as a tool to improve performance. "Everyone should have the ability to maintain their own body without reliance on others." Roop is a husband and father. ROOP’S LESSONS: Be conscious of the paths available to you. FIND ROOP AT: jagroopsihota@gmail.com https://twitter.com/roop_sihota?lang=en https://www.linkedin.com/in/roop-sihota NOTABLE QUOTES FROM THE EPISODE: I've been able to continually evolve my thinking about movement and coaching and to a practice now where I'm working a full time gig but still get to spend a lot of time at home, which was a huge must for me when it came to professional life. Life became about going from A to B to C to D thinking that if I'm not happy at A, if I get to B, I'll be happy. Well, if I'm not happy at B, if I get to C… I was chasing a carrot. Every time I got to that carrot, the carrot wasn't big enough. I became so extreme that I could not enjoy being around other people that were living the life they wanted to live because I always felt like I needed to put my finger on it and say this is how you should do things. People genuinely did not like hanging out with me because it was just too difficult to be around me. If I died tomorrow and there was one message that I could leave behind for Avia, it'd be, “When you are thinking about doing something, don't do it just because somebody told you to.” The question that I ask myself is, one, am I going to enjoy doing this? Am I having fun doing this? For the first time to be able to recognize that I haven't figured it all out and to be okay with not figuring it all out.

5. 

   30 Oct 2019

   #10 Yoni Shechter, The obstacle is the way

   Yoni Shechter is an entrepreneur, business strategist, and technology expert, who is obsessed with optimizing systems, wellness, and longevity. Yoni is co-owner of MIA to SF, head of strategy & marketing at Primal Goods Co., and co-host of The Modern Cavemen podcast. YONI’S LESSONS: 1) The obstacle is the way 2) Dream big and write it down 3) Have a routine CONTACT YONI AT: yoni@miatosf.com SOME QUOTES FROM THIS EPISODE: If you're not growing, you're dying to some extent. When I'm calm and I'm fed and I'm well-rested, I'm building a more resilient self in thicker skin and also with more skills. All those obstacles are the things that we're stressing out about in the day to day life. And it's just basically the obstacles-- I've got to take care of this shit, so I'm going to go take care of it now. Deal with it, then you're not worried about it. A lot of times, some goals will be impossible to achieve in one year. If you think about five years down the road, you can think bigger-- what do I want my life to look like? Cause you know what, in five years it's actually possible. If I start working on it now, in five years I can actually get to this specific place. What would my life look like in a bigger picture? Am I gonna have kids? Am I gonna have dogs? Am I going to live in a house? Am I gonna live in an apartment? Are we going to have one car or two cars? How many hours a day am I working? How many days a week am I working? Or a month? How much money am I making? ... We're talking about five years down the road. So I've written down my stuff. My life plan is clear and allows me to do more of what I want to do, whether it be the movement practice, spending time with my family... All of those things that I figured out are very important to me. How can I make them happen? … Give yourself five years. If you're in a routine, you're kind of conscious of things even though you're letting the routine actually help you not be conscious of what you have to do… You're able to be conscious of what you're doing while you're in it cause you're not worried about what's happening next.

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   14 Oct 2019

   #9 Harold Plasterer, Don't get caught up in making money

   Harold Plasterer has been a mechanic, dairy farmer, Ferrier (shoes horses), jockey, and blacksmith among other professions. HAROLD’S LESSONS: Don't take yourself too seriously Don't get caught up in chasing money. I started out at 12 cleaning stalls in a horse farm and learning how to ride. And from there I did any number of things in the animal industry. I've always connected well with animals, cows, horses, dogs... things like that. It was like riding a thousand pound rocket with no stop and no go. I would work two days straight without sleep, just trying to make money, just trying to succeed. And now I'm closer to the “out” gate than I am to the “in” gate, and I see things a little differently… I don't think anybody would write on their tombstone, “I wish I would've worked more.” If I had to do it over again, I may have gone to college or a trade school or traveled… taken the opportunity to see the world a little bit before I got all caught up in the melee. I've learned to open my heart. That's what the message is for me on this retreat. It's been over and over again. I feel way more connected than I've probably felt ever in my life.

7. 

   3 Oct 2019

   #8 Yasmen Mehta, You're the only one in charge

   Yasmen is a CrossFit trainer and Mobility Specialist at San Francisco CrossFit. She also teaches Pilates. Find Yasmen at: www.nayastudio.com (http://www.nayastudio.com/) yasmen@sanfranciscocrossfit.com (mailto:yasmin@sanfranciscocrossfit.com) Yasmen’S LESSONS: 1) You're the only one in charge of your actions and thoughts. 2) Thank God for your failures, how we should thank God for ours. NOTABLE QUOTES FROM THE EPISODE: At age eight I was sent away to boarding school in India by my parents, and you were on your own, you don't have any mother and father to run to. If you made a mistake, or somebody, was bullying you or if you were homesick, you had to deal with all that at age eight. And my boarding school was pretty far away. It was three nights and two days on the train away... At that early age, I learned not to rely on anybody else. If you failed, you failed and you had to get up, pull up your bootstraps and just do it again until you got it right. Whether it was academics or sports or relationships with your friends, all that took its toll on me. Stop getting your knickers in a twist when something goes wrong… But what's the big deal? I mean, you're a human being after, all right? So you're not perfect. Nobody's perfect. Nobody expects you to be perfect. Most people want to be successful. Most people want to be loved and appreciated by everybody. But at some point, everybody makes mistakes. Everybody says things, not what they're supposed to say. Everybody can be mean at times. I hear a lot of people don't want to take responsibility for when they make a mistake or they say it's not my fault--someone else did it, but then there's two problems. First of all, they're not taking responsibility. Second of all, they can't correct it next time. The funny thing is if you're not afraid to fail, you're a happier person. There's always somebody who's going to be better than you at something and the good news is you're almost better than somebody else as well. My daughter was fast asleep in bed and I would just sit next to her and all that stress would just go away--there was a sort of a sense of happiness and a sense of wonder and a sense of peace and a sense of love that would come from just sitting and watching her sleep. Sometimes you don't have access to the credit card or there's no money in the bank and if that's where you get your happiness for that instant gratification then you'll be devastated. So find it, find it within yourself, find that depth and happiness within yourself, excluding all outside factors.

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   22 Sept 2019

   #7 Janet Fernandez, It is OK to say no

   I met Janet last year at an Ayahuasca retreat in the Sacred Valley in Peru. The changes that have happened in the past year are amazing. You’ll have to listen to the episode to understand the depths of pain she was dealing with prior to coming to the retreat in August 2018. She confided in me before the interview that now she wakes up happy every day! Her transformation is a testament to the power of these entheogenic plants we have available to us. Today, Janet is a lovely young woman who I am honored to call a friend. Thank you, Janet, for sharing your story. LESSONS: It is OK to say no Solitude is not the same as loneliness NOTABLE QUOTES FROM THE EPISODE: He would kind of put me back into my place. It's just like, “What are you doing? You're showing vulnerability. People take advantage of people who are vulnerable.” And I started to believe that and that made me believe that the world was very evil. My biggest getaway was adrenaline. Anything that gave me adrenaline, and a lot of that was risky behavior, like risky sex, a lot of substances. I would put myself in danger with the police doing crazy stuff just to see how far I can get away with things. That would give me the best feeling, especially if I was under a substance and doing risky stuff. It's just like I was on top of the world! And at 15 was my first overdose and a lot of my family found out. It was a big shocker to them because they didn't even know I smoked (weed) at that time. They found out because I was in the hospital and this was on Thanksgiving. Anytime a holiday comes, I just picture that day where they were together at a family house and then them having to find out Janet is not going to be here because she's in the hospital. She just tried to kill herself. So I started to really hate holidays after that. So 15 was my first overdose, and then 16 was my second, and third 17 and then I had another one… That was my fourth. At 18, I was fine. 19 I had my fifth and my sixth and seventh... I started taking large doses of mushrooms by myself. The first large dose I took was 5 and ½ grams, and it was absolutely the most horrifying thing I've ever done at that point. The last thing I remember was waking up 18 hours later and instead of me being this very scared, very depressed girl, after I woke up, I told myself there's a deeper meaning behind this. There's a reason why I keep on waking up. I had to do the tough decision and tell my dad that I was going to stop school. Hey, it's okay to say no. But a lot of the times, I thought that I was very selfish for saying no to people, I thought it was selfish. I thought it was a form of an unhealthy boundary. If I am so easily influenced by people whenever I don't want to do something and they kind of pressure me into it, they are disrespecting me. They're not respecting my boundaries. I need to choose what's right for me and you know. Anything else I need to just say no to it. My biggest challenge from this lesson was to not feel guilty, not to feel guilty for looking after myself. Not to feel guilty for doing things that are beneficial for myself and omitting everything that's not doing me any justice, not doing me any good. It's okay to think for yourself and decide for yourself. Time and energy are yours. So be responsible. No one else is responsible for how happy I am. No one else is responsible for how successful I'm going to be in life, whether it's, you know, physically, spiritually, mentally, anything. No one is responsible for that, but myself. I started realizing by spending time by myself that I didn't like doing a lot of the things that I was doing pretty much my whole life. It's such an empowering feeling. Learning how to be in solitude, be with yourself, know yourself, exactly what to be comfortable with yourself.

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   16 Sept 2019

   #6 Elena Hudan, Take yourself into your own hands

   I grew up in the Soviet Union. I knew I was different. When I was 14, I read a book on female sexual abnormalities and learned a word to describe myself - a lesbian. I had to hide it from everyone because in the Soviet Union, lesbians were committed to mental institutions and gay man were put in prison. From the age of 14 to 28 (when I came to the USA) I thought I was abnormal - not an easy way to live a life. It took a lot of therapy, psychology, human sexuality classes to understand that people like me just wired differently. Until eight years ago, I was a hard, harsh, and somewhat rude person without even realizing it and attributing it to just being Russian. My transformation began after I became a bodyworker and, eventually, energy therapist. Energy work melted my hardcore and unwound my sole. But, while my core was no longer hard and I felt unwound, the scars on my soul were still there and my unwinding was not complete. Learning about the experiences of ayahuasca led me to believe that is exactly what I needed to let it go and evolve. After sitting in a few ayahuasca ceremonies I arrived to the place of love, light, compassion and humility. But my journey to amazing is still in progress and I can’t wait to evolve to a higher level of my being. FIND ELENA AT: www.elenahudan.com ELENA’S LESSONS 1. It's never too late unless you're in the casket. 2. Take yourself into your own hands and one to let it go for about seven years. She's got a very interesting background. NOTABLE QUOTES FROM THE EPISODE: I came to the United States at the age of 28 and pretty much had to start on the bottom --so a dishwasher and night housekeeper in the hotel. I can't squat-- Just every night, hey, 10 minutes a day I started to just lower myself down and tried to move my hips and finally started to feel better. I took the first class, came home and told my partner this is what I want to do for a living. So by then, I'm 52 years old. In the Soviet Union, when you are 50 or 52, you're ready to retire. And so I'm with 52 starting a new career. Continuously remake yourself. So it's never too late, never delay it, never delay. It's like whatever it is, people are afraid to make a reel stab at it because they are in a secure job. It's never too late. You just limit yourself and die inside because you have to do something. So came home and told my partner, “Yes, I just became a massage therapist, but I don't think I want to do that. I think I want to learn more about Ortho-Bionomy” Energy is energy, light is light, there is no bad energy. My body was just made up all kinds of precious stones and I had to leave the room because my heart was expanding and therefore the universe wasn't big enough to hold my heart. And so I got helpers who were holding space for me and they just like, “Hey, hey, don't worry. The universe will expand to allow your heart to expand. So I went to the source and it was a bright light and then I melted away.. And I had this feeling of melting, melting and the feeling of being in the womb. That was the happiest, the happiest time of my life that I can remember. One lady came- she couldn't walk, right? 74 years old. She had very, very bad knees. She couldn't walk-- now runs, I mean runs! She can move so now she can get around. Wow. Just to be able to pick up the groceries and improve your life. I worked with this guy who was paralyzed from a gunshot. 18 years old, he's paralyzed. And so, he lost 60 pounds. He improved himself and now at 20, he wants to become a physical therapist. Wow. You have to take yourself into your own hands. Nobody's going to do it for you- they are certainly not going to do it for you. You have to take care of yourself.

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    7 Sept 2019

    #5 Matt Carruesco, Find balance in your life

    Matt is an explorer in the world of health, seeking ancestral wellness in the modern world. He is a Yogi, student of movement under the Ido Portal Method, and driven to spend as much time creating a lifestyle closely aligned with our primitive roots. Matt is the Founder of Primal Goods Company and the Co-host of The Modern Cavemen Podcast. FIND MATT AT: Primal Goods Company The modern Cavemen Podcast LESSONS: 1) Create balance in your live 2) It's either a “hell yes” or it's a “no.” 3) You can't fill up a cup that's already full 4) Don’t make your happiness conditional SOME QUOTES FROM THE EPISODE” When I was 14 years old, I got a freak diagnosis with cancer. I broke my back in a football game and during football practice got an MRI and the doctor's like, “You know, you have a compression fracture that sucks. You're not playing football this year. But also… there's this big mass in your chest…” I got really interested in making sure that something like that didn't happen again. I think the human body wants to be well, and if you put all these conditions to be well, it's going to be well… You start throwing the weird shit in there, I think the body will stray from that path. We stopped doing that like a couple hundred years ago and all this weird shit started popping up. That's been my main thing- to get back to that sort of “primal lifestyle” One of the biggest things lately is getting uncomfortable. I'm so comfortable all the time and I think it's good for us to not be comfortable. So now I have to program in periods of discomfort; I'm getting in the shower and I'm taking a cold shower purely to be uncomfortable. Your body's made to be able to manage those extremes and temperature discomfort. And if we never pushed the body to get there, then we're going to lose that capability. I mean every now and then we want to throw something on Netflix. We put on our blue light blocking glasses…People come to our house and are, “What the fuck are all these candles doing here?,” It's like , “You guys got some kind of ceremony going on later?”... “No, this is just Wednesday” Humans have been moving around since the entire life of our species... we had to...it's only now that we don't actually have to. You'd have to be like hiking through the woods, forging for shit and trying to kill some big animal--now you can just push this little buggy around at Whole Foods and swipe your card and it's there. Hey, you are living in 2019… Sometimes my girlfriend wants to go out and have pizza for dinner. Sometimes we want to watch a TV show late at night and eat some ice cream. Sure! And that's about one of the lessons: that you create balance. What you see in the modern person, it's very heavily weighted on professional growth and financial growth-- It's at the expense of everything else...sometimes, I try to go the other way. It's not necessarily a bad thing to be that way, but still give energy in these other areas. Take care of your health and spend time with people you care about. It's really about finding a balance between all these different modalities of life. I find my creativity, new ideas, possibilities, new thoughts--all that stuff happens when I'm in these almost like, vacuums, where there's nothing else going on in my mind You can't welcome new things in your life unless there's space. I started Primal Goods Co. when I broke my ankle and I was in a wheelchair for three months and laying on the couch at my parents' house. I couldn't do anything else and I was just kind of sitting there bored. The universe gave me that time and said, “You need to sit down”

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    29 Aug 2019

    #4 Camden Hoch, Embody your life-wisdom

    Camden Hoch is the founder of the Awareness Transformation Method, creator of the Truth & Dare podcast, and author of her soul-stirring memoir, Roadmap to Radiance. She a wisdom-educator, life coach, author, yogini, wife, and mom to two beautiful young women. Her Life’s Work unfolds through retreats, speaking, workshops, classes, and her Digital Sanctuary spaces. She passionately supports her clients to discover their heart’s true wisdom—from which they create and experience more peace, power, and prosperity in all aspects of their lives. Her thought leadership, fueled with her own metamorphosis, makes her an inspiring and powerful activist for good in the world (one being at a time). LESSONS: 1) Embody your life-wisdom 2) Live with an open heart. 3) Awareness and resilience are your master keys SOME QUOTES FROM THE EPISODE: “I was very empathic, very intuitive, and I would get hurt really easily. And so what I decided to do, whether consciously or subconsciously, whatever I was a child, it was like, how do I best protect myself? The best way was to shut my feelings down.” “This went on for a really long time in my life and I got very destructive, self-destructive with drugs and alcohol. I tried to kill myself and I was just super low. I really didn't care what happened to me.” “I'm going to open my eyes more and open my heart a little bit more and, and we're going to go step by step.” “When there's trauma inside, we do our best to hold it in because it's painful. We shelve it, we compartmentalize it, we put it away. When that pain comes up, the thing to do is to grab that thing that pushes it back down” “Now the part of that I think that's important to recognize is that we do have feelings and we're not meant to rush through them-- grief, loss, when we move, when we get divorced, even when we get married.. They are changes in life and life's transitions, but we need to give ourselves space to process what it means for us and what is the wisdom that we can garner from those experiences.” “I call the heart the digestive center of the body with regard to feeling, because we do digest through that emotional center and all kinds of feelings go through it.” “Part of messing up is part of the practice of life, of being awkward, and of being accepting of ourselves, and of being silly and curious and childlike and all those things. If we're trying to be perfect, we're pushing out the feeling.” “If we all look at all the people around us, they're the ones who really trigger us from the outside-- when we get pissed at somebody, or we are in pain about something, or somebody just gets under our skin-- that is the person that we can learn the most about ourselves from.” “I think that we're explorers and the more that we can all be curious about ourselves and about connecting to other people, the more that we can be compassionate towards ourselves and towards others. We're all going through this together.” “We're always looking for our purpose and our contribution, but it's all right here and it all opens up as we really choose to dive into our deeper personal transformation.” FIND CAMDEN AT: https://camdenhoch.com (https://camdenhoch.com/) IG & Twitter @camdenhoch FB https://business.facebook.com/camdenhoch/ (https://business.facebook.com/camdenhoch/) Camden’s Book: https://www.amazon.com/Roadmap-Radiance-memoir-Camden-Hoch-ebook/dp/B01GDET0DO (https://www.amazon.com/Roadmap-Radiance-memoir-Camden-Hoch-ebook/dp/B01GDET0DO)

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    29 Aug 2019

    #3 Toan Lam, Find your truth

    Toan Lam is Founder of Go-Inspire-Go. He's a filmmaker, a storyteller, a motivational speaker, university instructor, and most recently, he's working on a youtube series called Style Your Spirit, which consists of short videos with simple designed tips to have a big impact on your space and your life. LESSONS: 1) Find your truth 2) You need a spiritual practice 3) Give back to others SOME QUOTES FROM THIS EPISODE: “I was eight months old and my parents decided to take all five kids and any family members that wanted to come on a boat in the middle of the night-- we escaped the country… They gave everything up. And we ended up in a refugee camp in Indonesia for a couple of years.” “Following your truth is hard. Maybe you instead want to be a musician, or own a cupcake shop--if you don't follow that truth, you are betraying yourself. Figure out a way to do what it is that excites you.” “It's about storytelling and it's about representing other Asian males and the Asian community out there, because there are very few Asian males on air. For me, it’s about inspiring people to be better and do better for themselves and other people.” “I believe that we should all be more present to the beauty around us. And I'm not just talking about interior design, but the design of nature, or the design of this beautiful, present conversation. Right now, I'm not looking at my phone. I'm looking you in the eye, and speaking with you, and we're sharing this moment. When you are being present to the beauty around you, and then that feeling you get inside you-- something changes.” “When your home is cluttered or dirty, there's stuck energy there. When there's dust bunnies everywhere, that's stuck energy. Somehow the energy isn't flowing into your life.” “Worry is like poison, because worry steals the present moment away from you.” “The biggest thing for you to think about is you still have to make time for you, and doing the things that excite you.” “So many people are like, ‘You know, when I make more money,’ or ‘When I have more time, I want to do what you're doing.’ And I'm like, ‘No. Now is the time… the next moment is not promised.’” “Challenges are here to teach us something. That's what they are. If you don't learn from it, it comes in a different way, shape and form-- It will keep coming back.” FIND TOAN AT: http://StyleYourSpirit.Co (http://styleyourspirit.co/)

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    29 Aug 2019

    #2 Max Conserva, Find purpose through solving your personal problems

    Max Conserva- Coach at San Francisco Crossfit. He is the creator of Adaptive Athletics and “The Good Leg Project” Find Max at: http://maxconserva.com/ (http://maxconserva.com/) LESSONS: 1) If you have a difficult or complicated problem you need to overcome, you need to be the driver of the process 2) Find purpose through solving your personal problems Some Quotes from the Episode: “If my opinion of myself is so great, why can I solve the biggest problem in my life, which is my own physical condition and my own perception of my physical condition?” “Don't let other people define what you can and can't do; don't let other people define what's important” “We're constantly taking nods from other people in order to build a framework of how we should operate in the world. Those are some basic guidelines so as not to run into major problems, but I think as you get older, it's incumbent on yourself to reassess those guidelines” “If you just got into it because it was a prestigious position and people told you it was a good thing and people pat you on the back while you got there, you'll end up chasing something that you don't really think is important” “If you're there telling yourself that some day, once I get X amount of money, I'm going to make the jump and do something else… That is a trap that most people fall into, that unfortunately is really hard to get out of” “This is about taking control of your situation rather than allowing society... the doctors… whoever... to tell you what your options are-- you’re in the driver's seat” “I went from being like patient “N” in a normal distribution of outcomes, to being the ideal patient to work with because I was taking the responsibility in my own hands” “I can function so much better by just having a concrete understanding of what my body's supposed to be able to accomplish” “Improvement is SO possible. There's always improvements to be made” “I would do this and not get paid for it-- and that's what I started doing” “I really enjoy finding people that have had nagging problems for their whole life. I like piecing the puzzle out for those people to help them build a physical practice, a way to be conscious of their body, to move their body in the world, and ultimately, just be more functional” “You can feel purpose when it hits you”

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    29 Aug 2019

    #1 Michael Puente, Everyone has something to teach the world.

    Michael Puente is the founder of the Lessons Lived project, LessonsLived.com and The Lessons Lived Podcast. He is a husband and father to two very sweet boys. Find Michael at: Website: https://www.lessonslived.com (https://camdenhoch.com/) FB https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=404936563693424&ref=br_rs (https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=404936563693424&ref=br_rs) Email: Mike@lessonslived.com (mailto:Mike@lessonslived.com) LESSONS: 1) Realize that everyone, including yourself, has something to teach the world. Some Quotes from the Episode: “What would you teach the world is a heuristic for self reflection that leads to increased self awareness.” “So, now, when you look at your neighbor … you look at them from a different angle and wonder what they have to teach you. You can wonder about what they have learned in this world.” “We can use this philosophy and this awareness to live a better life in community with others. So, instead of reacting to challenging situations with another person with anger, or annoyance or irritation, we can contemplate, “What would you teach me if given the opportunity?” “Part of my mission is to have everyone realize that they have this incredible value that they can add to the world and that their life is meaningful, and their life is worth learning from.” “All our mistakes, all our failures, all of our errors, are opportunities to do better next time. When we learn something from our mistakes, we can benefit by not repeating that mistake, and, by sharing what we’ve learned, we can make if of value to others.” “Imagine a place where millions of lessons that are the result of millions of lives are available for the people of the world to learn from.”

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