Let's Dig into That

About Let's Dig into That

Let's Dig into That is a proclamation, a call to connect. Jordan and her (current) husband, J.T., invite you to dig into life's restless realities in pursuit of growth and lasting change. Jordan and J.T. volunteer their vulnerability because they believe sharing your shit is the only way to shake the shame. Together, they have made it their mission to remain curious and honest as they explore the chaos of being intentionally human. With each episode, Jordan and J.T. turn personal confessions into relevant insights on the taboo topics of our time. His empathic perspective and her lack of filter shed an intimate light on one couple's quest for connection and understanding. Diggable discussions include intimacy, equality, boundaries, addiction, divorce, grief, spiritual evolution, service, relationships, body image, fear, parenting other people's kids, errant nipple hair, and so much more. Let's Dig into That means not shying away from the challenging or subversive. It means finding those who celebrate your authenticity and using your words to express how you feel. This is the podcast where we learn to thrive side by side. It's brave to be yourself - and scary as hell. Join the conversation: you'll laugh, you'll cry, you'll relish in the unabashed candor. We're all in this together! DISCLAIMER: Let’s Dig into That is not a replacement for therapy. The advice, recommendations, and tips discussed are provided as thought-provoking, curiosity-poking insights aimed to inspire conversation, not as specific professional, therapeutic, or psychiatric guidance. Views and opinions expressed are from personal experience and perspective. Listener discretion is advised. Please seek the mental health care that best serves your needs.

Publisher

Jordan & J.T. Coppinger

Category

society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

24 Oct 2024

Latest episode

23 Aug 2025

Latest episodes

59 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   23 Aug 2025

   S3E19 | Cuddling With a Cactus: Love & Attachment Styles

   Prepare your safe word because we're pokin' some triggers. Jordan and J.T. are digging into attachment theory, and things could get prickly. Attachment theory explores how early interactions with caregivers influence our ability to form secure attachments and how those patterns can manifest in our adult relationships. Attachment Styles & Their Impact on Relationships: Secure adults tend to have healthy, trusting, and supportive relationships. Anxious adults often crave intimacy but may struggle with feelings of insecurity and fear of abandonment. Avoidant adults are likely to avoid emotional closeness, may prioritize independence over intimate relationships, and long for connection with a fear of getting too close. It can be helpful to notice patterns, but the goal isn’t to diagnose everyone. It’s to understand ourselves better—so we can relate with more compassion, not more control. Fill In the Blank: The best relationships are ___________. a. Uncomplicated b. Like a team c. Safe Moving Towards Secure Attachment: Self-Awareness: Understanding each partner's attachment style is crucial for recognizing the patterns and triggers in the relationship. Open Communication: Both partners need to communicate their needs and boundaries clearly and vulnerably. Therapy: Couples or individual therapy can provide support and guidance for addressing attachment patterns and developing healthier relationship dynamics. Self-Regulation: Both partners can work on regulating their emotions and developing a sense of security within themselves, rather than relying solely on the other. Building Trust: Creating a safe space for vulnerability and emotional connection can help build trust and foster a more secure attachment style. For Any Anxious Love Ninjas: Delay the impulse to reach out—set a timer for 15 minutes and do something nourishing in the meantime. Movement: walk, shake, dance out the jeebies Breathe! Try a slower exhale. Journal the worst-case scenario - then write a compassionate response to it. Send yourself the text you want to send to your partner. Reframe the mindset: “I can survive discomfort without needing immediate resolution,” or “Just because they’re distant doesn’t mean they’re leaving.” If you have an inquiry or topic you’d like Jordan and J.T. to dig into, please send an email or voice memo to letsdigintothat@gmail.com (mailto:letsdigintothat@gmail.com) Enjoy the conversation? It would mean the world if you had a second to SHARE this episode - or your favorite episode! If you haven't already, please SUBSCRIBE/FOLLOW on the homepage at letsdigintothat.com (http://letsdigintothat.com) or wherever you find your podcasts. THANK YOU, Love Ninjas! The impact of your support is greater than you can imagine.

2. 

   16 Aug 2025

   S3E18 | Silence & Stillness: Seeking Peace In the Chaos

   In a culture of constant stimulation, stillness is a skill, an act of resistance. When was the last time you truly experienced bone-deep, cellular silence? What does the noise help us hide? Join Jordan and J.T. as they explore the idea that peace is not found in the absence of chaos, but in our refusal to be controlled by it. Listen to discover: - Reliance on external validation can keep you small - Dr. Brené Brown: Proving is a prison! - Power of the pause: Is your response aligned with who you are or how you (momentarily) feel? - Stillness as a radical act of inner protest (aka some folks won't care for your desire to change) - The effect of our hyper-connected, 24/7 accessibility on our nervous system and anxiety - It's ok not to be liked. - Regulation Station: beep beep! - The chaos isn't going anywhere. How much chaos are you willing to consent to? - ENERGY! Your energy (your tank) is your POWER. Sacred expenditure on unimportant stimuli. - Silence is not a sign of weakness. The quiet is not fear or indifference, but intentional consideration: clarity. If you have an inquiry or topic you’d like Jordan and J.T. to dig into, please send an email or voice memo to letsdigintothat@gmail.com (mailto:letsdigintothat@gmail.com) Enjoy the conversation? It would mean the world if you had a second to SHARE this episode - or your favorite episode! If you haven't already, please SUBSCRIBE/FOLLOW on the homepage at letsdigintothat.com (http://letsdigintothat.com) or wherever you find your podcasts. THANK YOU, Love Ninjas! The impact of your support is greater than you can imagine.

3. 

   9 Aug 2025

   S3E17 | Milestones, Schmilestones: Time Is a Scam and You're Not Late

   Jordan and J.T. deconstruct the traditional life timeline and explore why we should reclaim our nonlinear stories. Listen to discover: - The subtle tyranny of "by this age, I should have..." - Who decides if we're "on track?" Is "being on track" setting us back? - Goals vs. Milestones: who keeps score? - Reframing 40 not as a crisis, but a quiet rebellion. - Relationship milestones that aren’t "We’re Pregnant!" - Is being chosen overrated? How can we choose ourselves more fully more often? - Is there a petty timeline flex you're secretly proud of? - The power of celebrating personal success **Let us know! What is a nontraditional milestone you feel we should celebrate? (Ideas: Freedom and Rebellion Milestones, Emotional Milestones, Petty But Powerful Milestones, Slightly Feral But Totally Valid Milestones, etc.) - Love Ninja Milestone: "Realized I wasn’t the problem... but also wasn’t the main character." - JT's Next Milestone: took a nap instead of seeking validation. If you have an inquiry or topic you’d like Jordan and J.T. to dig into, please send an email or voice memo to letsdigintothat@gmail.com (mailto:letsdigintothat@gmail.com) Enjoy the conversation? It would mean the world if you had a second to SHARE this episode - or your favorite episode! If you haven't already, please SUBSCRIBE/FOLLOW on the homepage at letsdigintothat.com (http://letsdigintothat.com) or wherever you find your podcasts. THANK YOU, Love Ninjas! The impact of your support is greater than you can imagine.

Who has been a guest on Let's Dig into That

Names identified in recent episode analyses. Showing up to five guests.

• Alyssa Scarano
• Ed Vargo
• Karen McNenny
• Cassie Fortman

Reach and audience

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YouTube views

443

Score snapshot 15 Sept 2025

Apple Podcasts (US)

5.0 / 5

5 ratings

Spotify

5.0 / 5

3 ratings

Podcast Authority Score: 59 / 100

A composite of feed quality, social presence, YouTube performance and engagement. Read the methodology.

Quality

79

Social presence

0

YouTube

66

Engagement

32

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