Let's Be Better

About Let's Be Better

Welcome to Let’s Be Better! I’m Bobby Brandzen, father of six great kids. I believe that one of our greatest responsibilities as a society is to provide children with the nurturing guidance they deserve. Moms—dads—everybody, our children flourish when we give them our best, because their future is shaped by our presence. We’re all far from perfect. Let’s give ourselves grace. Let’s have faith. Let’s pay attention to our daily habits. Let’s be better. Let’s live inspired. Let’s break cycles, build bridges, and raise the next generation with love, intentionality, and purpose. Growth starts inside—in what we think, what we say, and what we do.Our habits form our character, and our character shapes our destiny. Becoming better means choosing grace over guilt, discipline over comfort, and purpose over distraction. Let’s live with a commitment to self-improvement. Family is sacred. It’s where attitudes are born, habits are formed, character is shaped, and values are passed on.Our children don’t need perfection; they need our presence, our patience, and our example. How we live today becomes the legacy they carry tomorrow. Let’s live with a commitment to being the best parents we can be for our children. Faith isn’t just a Sunday thing; it’s a daily walk—trusting when we don’t understand, obeying when it’s hard, and loving when it’s inconvenient. When we anchor ourselves in our faith, everything aligns. Let’s open our hearts, listen for His voice, and let Him shape us from the inside out. Let’s live with a commitment to God. Learn more about our mission at Let's Be Better (https://letsbebetter.org) and Mothers and Fathers Truly Matter, Inc. (https://mothersandfatherstruelymatter.org)

Publisher

Mothers and Fathers Truly Matter

Category

education · kids & family

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

25 Dec 2025

Latest episode

5 Nov 2026

Latest episodes

1 of 9 episodes have a transcript.

1. 

   5 Nov 2026

   Tuesday with Tanya feature with Founder Robert Brandzen

   Bob Brandzen, founder of Let's Be Better and Mothers and Fathers Truly Matter, is featured as a guest on Tanya Signore's podcast, Tuesdays with Tanya. Check out Tanya's podcast and follow along for more conversations! Tuesdays with Tanya: https://www.facebook.com/p/Tuesday-with-Tanya-100057563074622/ (https://www.facebook.com/p/Tuesday-with-Tanya-100057563074622/) Voices for the Children Tour: Learn more about our nationwide movement advocating for children and family court reform. https://mothersandfatherstrulymatter.org/voices-for-the-children-tour/ (https://mothersandfatherstrulymatter.org/voices-for-the-children-tour/?utm_source=chatgpt.com) Get Your Free Family Court Pamphlets: Download pamphlets customized for your state and county to help spread awareness and advocate for change. https://mothersandfatherstrulymatter.org/brochures/ (https://mothersandfatherstrulymatter.org/brochures/) #familycourt #parentalalienation #sharedparenting

2. 

   27 Oct 2026

   E8 - Carl Roberts - The War on Fatherhood and the Fight for Our Children

   In this episode of Let's Be Better, Bobby Brandzen welcomes Carl Roberts, founder of Colorado Resilience, for a conversation about fatherhood, family court reform, parental rights, healthy masculinity, and the importance of protecting children's relationships with both parents. Carl shares his personal experience navigating a decade-long custody battle and explains what motivated him to become an advocate for families. Together, Bobby and Carl explore equal shared parenting, due process, accountability in family court, and the importance of turning personal adversity into meaningful action. Join Us: 2nd Annual Men & Families March Colorado Resilience is hosting the 2nd Annual Men & Families March in Denver, Colorado. Join us as we stand together for families, parental rights, shared parenting, and stronger communities. Event Details: Date: Saturday, November 21, 2026 Location: Colorado State Capitol, Denver, Colorado 10:00 AM: Gathering, activities, and food trucks 12:00 PM: March begins 1:00 PM: Guest speakers Throughout the day: Family activities, food trucks, and community organizations Admission: FREE, with registration encouraged Everyone is welcome, including men, women, and children. Register and learn more: https://coloradoresilience.org/march/ (https://coloradoresilience.org/march/) Voices for the Children Tour Mothers and Fathers Truly Matter continues its nationwide Voices for the Children Tour, bringing communities together to advocate for children's rights, shared parenting, and meaningful family court reform. Upcoming Stops: Indianapolis, Indiana: November 8, 2026, 12:00 PM at the Indiana Statehouse Jackson, Mississippi: December 12, 2026, 12:00 PM at the Mississippi State Capitol San Antonio, Texas: January 15, 2027, 6:00 PM at Plaza de Las Islas Canarias Austin, Texas: January 16, 2027, 12:00 PM at the Texas State Capitol Find the complete schedule and learn how to participate: https://mothersandfatherstrulymatter.org/voices-for-the-children-tour/ (https://mothersandfatherstrulymatter.org/voices-for-the-children-tour/) Free Custom Brochures Available Nationwide Mothers and Fathers Truly Matter provides FREE educational and advocacy brochures customized for counties across all 50 states, including boroughs and parishes where applicable. These materials include local legislative contact information and are designed to help everyday citizens raise awareness, engage lawmakers, and advocate for meaningful family court reform in their communities. Find and download your local brochures: https://mothersandfatherstrulymatter.org/brochures (https://mothersandfatherstrulymatter.org/brochures) Children deserve meaningful relationships with both loving parents whenever safely possible. Together, we can build a better future for the next generation. Learn more about Mothers and Fathers Truly Matter: https://mothersandfatherstrulymatter.org/ (https://mothersandfatherstrulymatter.org/) #LetsBeBetter #SharedParenting #FamilyCourt #ParentalAlienation #Fatherhood #FamilyCourtReform

3. 

   20 Oct 2026

   E7 - Rachel Ware - Family Courts Are Not In the Child's Best Interest

   n this episode, Robert Brandzen sits down with Rachel Ware to discuss her experience navigating the family court system while fighting alongside her husband, Josh, to reunite him with his daughter. Rachel shares the challenges of finding an attorney, the financial and emotional toll of custody battles, and the unfair treatment parents can face throughout the legal process. Together, they take an honest look at the frustrations, obstacles, and injustices families experience within the family court system. Every child deserves reasonable access to both parents. Support Mothers and Fathers Truly Matter Voices for the Children Tour Join our nationwide movement advocating for equal shared parenting and family court reform. https://mothersandfatherstrulymatter.org/voices-for-the-children-tour/ (https://mothersandfatherstrulymatter.org/voices-for-the-children-tour/?utm_source=chatgpt.com) Get Your Free Family Court Pamphlets Help spread awareness by downloading and distributing pamphlets specific to your state and county. https://mothersandfatherstrulymatter.org/brochures/ (https://mothersandfatherstrulymatter.org/brochures/) Learn More About Our Mission https://mothersandfatherstrulymatter.org/ (https://mothersandfatherstrulymatter.org/?utm_source=chatgpt.com) #familycourt #parentalalienation #sharedparenting

4. 

   15 Oct 2026

   E6 - Dwayne Simmons - Local Non-Profit and Hip Hop Artist

   In this episode, we sit down with Dwayne Simmons, Executive Director of the Greater Attleboro Area Council for Children and hip-hop artist known as Dagha. Dwayne shares his passion for giving back to the community through the Greater Attleboro Area Council for Children, a local nonprofit dedicated to supporting children and families in need. We discuss the organization's mission, the programs and resources it provides, and the importance of creating opportunities for young people to thrive. The conversation also takes us into Dwayne's artistic journey as Dagha. He reflects on his experiences in the hip-hop industry, his evolution as an artist, and how his passion for music intersects with his commitment to mentorship and community service. From making music to making a difference, Dwayne's story highlights the power of creativity, purpose, and using your talents to positively impact the lives of others. Learn more about the Greater Attleboro Area Council for Children: https://www.councilforchildren.org/ (https://www.councilforchildren.org/?utm_source=chatgpt.com) #LetsBeBetter #Dagha #DwayneSimmons #CommunityImpact #HipHop #Nonprofit #YouthEmpowerment

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   10 Mar 2026TRANSCRIPT

   E5 - Chris Papin - 168 Hours & Behaving Like a Business Owner

   In this episode of Let’s Be Better, we sit down with Chris Papin, CPA and licensed attorney, to discuss his new book “168 Hours: A Startup Business Guide That Respects Your Time: A Smarter Way to Start, Structure, and Scale a Small Business.” Chris shares insights from his experience as both an attorney and CPA, explaining how entrepreneurs can approach business ownership with structure, discipline, and a smarter use of their time. The conversation centers around a simple idea: everyone has the same 168 hours each week, and how those hours are used determines whether a business becomes sustainable or overwhelming. Chris breaks down how new and aspiring entrepreneurs can start and scale a business while respecting their time, avoiding common structural mistakes, and building a foundation that supports long-term growth. We also discuss the mindset shift required to truly behave like a business owner, from financial organization to strategic planning. Chris is also the host of the BLABO – Behave Like A Business Owner Podcast, where he helps entrepreneurs develop the habits and systems needed to run successful businesses. Learn more about Chris Papin, his podcast, and his book: https://papinspeaks.com/ (https://papinspeaks.com/) Purchase the book: 168 Hours: A Startup Business Guide That Respects Your Time: A Smarter Way to Start, Structure, and Scale a Small Business https://www.amazon.com/168-Hours-Business-Structure-Business/dp/B0GHQ9WRYJ?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio&fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQMMjU2MjgxMDQwNTU4AAGnfngASTEeU6vj306qvAfHziIJ1HI9LJbyNitippZUk8MlFDnAHt2Mca-Xstk_aem_4NuasuKOjp7C-eGY1I_25w (https://www.amazon.com/168-Hours-Business-Structure-Business/dp/B0GHQ9WRYJ?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio&fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQMMjU2MjgxMDQwNTU4AAGnfngASTEeU6vj306qvAfHziIJ1HI9LJbyNitippZUk8MlFDnAHt2Mca-Xstk_aem_4NuasuKOjp7C-eGY1I_25w) A special thank you to Design Tunnel in Oklahoma City for providing us with a last-minute location that allowed us to record this episode. Design Tunnel 11 NE 11th St Ste. 209 Oklahoma City, OK 73104 https://www.designtunnel.com/ (https://www.designtunnel.com/) Owned by Jimmy Owens, Design Tunnel provides creative workspace and production space that supports entrepreneurs, creators, and businesses bringing new ideas to life. If this conversation resonates with you: • Subscribe to the channel • Like and share this video • Comment your thoughts and experiences • Follow this account for more conversations on business, personal growth, and building a better future. Stay connected with Let’s Be Better: https://linktr.ee/letsbebetter828 (https://linktr.ee/letsbebetter828) Use these links to join the email list, sign up for upcoming runs, support the mission of Mothers and Fathers Truly Matter (MFTM), and stay up to date with everything we are building. Together, we can continue learning, improving, and becoming better. #Entrepreneurship #SmallBusiness #BusinessOwnership #TimeManagement #LetsBeBetter #StartupStrategy

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   27 Feb 2026

   E4 - John Faria - The MFTM Mission and Family Court Reform

   In this episode of Let’s Be Better, we sit down with John, Board Member of Mothers and Fathers Truly Matter (MFTM), to discuss the mission of strengthening families and ensuring children have meaningful relationships with both parents.** Jon shares his nonprofit leadership experience and explains how MFTM is building a national advisory board, advocating for shared parenting, and creating resources to support parents and children. Together, we explore how access, engagement, and intentional parenting can help break cycles and build stronger families and communities. As Jon explains, the goal is to “bring betterment to people… improving the lives of boys and girls, improving the lives of parents that struggle.” Mothers and Fathers Truly Matter exists to support families, promote shared parenting, and ensure every child has the opportunity to thrive with the guidance of both parents.** --- Learn more and support Mothers and Fathers Truly Matter: https://www.mothersandfatherstrulymat (https://www.mothersandfatherstrulymat)... (https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbFRqb2lidXphUW54ZFVYdG5vTGl1cDRyNE1nUXxBQ3Jtc0trQ2RkX2QzT1RkbTRqRjROVkdxMXlseU5kYnd6LUpWOWwycThMa3ZHcUVuMlJ3amhmenRMMF9Kbk1rNzlhM1lTZ1ZZelpfVTNXVEZpZzRyU2ZFWmg3dGdoOFRySFpfbGVZUC1rdjlCN01qQUh0T2hwVQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.mothersandfatherstrulymatter.org%2Fdonate&v=lSdPtDfjckw) --- If this conversation resonates with you: • Subscribe to the channel • Like and share this video • Comment your thoughts and experiences • Follow this account for more conversations on family, parenting, and personal growth Together, we can build stronger families and a better future for the next generation. #SharedParenting (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/sharedparenting) #FamilyCourt (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/familycourt) #ParentalAlienation (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/parentalalienation) #Parenting (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/parenting) #LetsBeBetter (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/letsbebetter)

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   3 Feb 2026

   Let's Be Better - Matt Bissonnette

   Today, we're joined by Matt Bissonnette, founder of the ADU Exchange, a mission-driven business that helps families cultivate opportunity, stability, and a space to grow by creating affordable housing solutions. But Matt's story goes deeper than real estate. He's overcome addiction, taken control of his health, embraced reading and learning, and committed to becoming the best version of himself. Proof that when you rebuild your life from the inside out, everything else follows. Matt also sits on the Board of Directors for Mothers & Fathers Truly Matter. To learn more about ADUs, visit http://theADUexchange.com (http://theADUexchange.com) For more resources, and to learn more about our mission, visit us at http://letsbebetter.org (http://letsbebetter.org) and http://mothersandfatherstrulymatter.org (http://mothersandfatherstrulymatter.org)

8. 

   25 Jan 2026

   What Parents Can Do To Protect Their Teens: "The Anxious Generation" Book Review

   On today’s show, we are going to review one of the most important books I’ve ever read: "The Anxious Generation: How the Great Rewiring of Childhood is Causing an Epidemic of Mental Illness" by Jonathan Haidt. We recognize that as a teacher, coach, or parent, it can be difficult to work with kids—especially today—and it can be even more difficult BEING one of these kids. We’ve got two massive problems: 1. Overprotective parenting, and 2. Technology that has fractured our attention and fundamentally altered how we connect—with our kids, with each other, and even with ourselves. In "The Anxious Generation," Jonathan Haidt does a masterful job of sharing the evidence and truth, and while not blaming any one of us, he rallies us to protect our teenagers. Haidt reminds us of what we already know, “... whatever we tolerate today, our children will inherit the consequences.” I can see that we are looking down the barrel of a weapon, and it’s locked and loaded, and pointed at all of our children. Today’s show isn’t about blame, it’s about clarity and leadership.The numbers are in, and we’re going to look at them.

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   25 Dec 2025

   Pilot: Let's Be Better - Jimmy Murray

   Welcome to Let’s Be Better. Our greatest responsibility as a society is to give every child the nurturing guidance they deserve. Children thrive when moms, dads—all of us—show up with our best. This space was born from a hard truth: too often, systems meant to protect families end up dividing them. But this podcast isn’t just about what’s broken. It’s about who we can become. It’s about grace—for ourselves and for each other. It’s about reclaiming what truly matters. It’s about faith—the belief that even in a complicated world, ordinary people can create extraordinary change. Let’s be better. Let’s live inspired. Let’s break cycles, build bridges, and raise the next generation with love, intentionality, and purpose. Today, we’re kicking off our very first episode with someone who embodies what this movement is all about. We’re sitting down with Jimmy Murray— entrepreneur, real estate investor, and proud Rhode Island native whose story is a testament to betting on yourself. Jimmy walked away from a secure career at Fidelity Investments to build Lyon Property Group, and he never looked back. He stepped out in faith, embraced the unknown, and turned vision into impact, not just in business, but in the lives of the people around him. What makes Jimmy’s voice especially important today is his heart for families. He serves as a director on the board of Mothers and Fathers Truly Matter. Jimmy believes, as we do, that strong families are the foundation of a strong society and that every child deserves two parents who show up. Jimmy is not just here to talk success. He’s here to talk about the responsibility we all share to become better for the next generation.

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E5 - Chris Papin - 168 Hours & Behaving Like a Business Owner

Published 10 Mar 2026 · Transcript excerpt

[…] Or spiritual or athletic. When you wake up in 10 years with a big fat bank account and these visionary leadership skills and the ability to help people get to their objectives, that didn't happen overnight. That was a result of a day after day after day commitment and the compounding effect, right? […]

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