LET’S TALK WITH BEN, BRAD & COIT

About LET’S TALK WITH BEN, BRAD & COIT

This isn’t just another men’s podcast. It’s real conversations. Real laughter. Real growth. Hosted by Ben De Boef, Brad Dorethy, and Coit Willis, this show blends lighthearted humor with honest discussions about the issues men actually face — faith, leadership, marriage, fatherhood, struggles, purpose, and everything in between. Whether you’re saved, searching, skeptical, or somewhere in the middle, this podcast creates space for men to talk openly, grow intentionally, and pursue becoming fully devoted followers of Jesus Christ. We’ll make you laugh. We’ll challenge you. We’ll move you forward. Because men were never meant to do life alone. New episodes weekly. Pull up a chair and join the conversation.

Publisher

LET'S TALK

Category

comedy · religion & spirituality

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

20 Feb 2026

Latest episode

13 Oct 2026

Latest episodes

33 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   13 Oct 2026

   THE REAL TEST OF INFLUENCE

   In this episode, Ben, Brad and Coit discuss the concept of influence, emphasizing that everyone has the ability to impact those around them. They explore various spheres of influence, the importance of recognizing one's own influence, and provide biblical examples of individuals who stewarded their influence effectively. The conversation explores the themes of stewardship, influence, and character in the context of faith and personal development. It emphasizes the importance of being intentional about one's convictions and the often mundane nature of impactful living. Takeaways Influence is available to everyone Stewardship of moments is crucial Stewardship leads to influence Character is key to impact Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Influence 07:46 Defining Influence and Its Spheres 11:32 Recognizing Personal Influence 16:14 Biblical Examples of Influence 24:09 Stewardship and Moments of Influence 25:07 The Power of Stewardship 28:52 Influence Through Faithfulness 30:46 Character Over Compromise 36:10 Determining Convictions Before Challenges 40:01 Ordinary Impact in Daily Life 44:25 Maximizing Impact Through Proximity

2. 

   6 Oct 2026

   YOUR JOB CAN BE MINISTRY-IF YOU STEWARD IT RIGHT

   What does a real ministry calling look like, and how do you tell the difference between ambition and obedience? In this episode, the guys share funny church stories, personal calling moments, and hard-won wisdom about serving faithfully in ministry, business, and everyday life. Not every calling looks like a stage, a title, or a paycheck—sometimes the most important work is simply feeding the sheep right where you are.Key topics The guys open with funny church stories, including the longest sermon they endured and a scramble golf outing announcement gone wrong. They compare different paths into ministry and how those backgrounds shape their understanding of calling. Brad shares his conversion story in 1995 and the moment he felt God tell him to spend his life giving Jesus away. They discuss Jesus’ words to Peter, “Feed my sheep,” as a picture of ministry focused on serving others. They explore ministry roles beyond preaching, including teaching, administration, counseling, evangelism, missions, and men’s ministry. The conversation examines the difference between calling and ambition—and the temptation to chase titles, visibility, or a bigger platform. They reflect on contentment, faithful service in small assignments, and trusting God with growth. Coit shares how police work prepared him for the emotional and spiritual weight of pastoring. The guys discuss boundaries, accountability, mentorship, and protecting health, marriage, and family. They close with the idea that business can also be ministry when you steward what God has entrusted to you. Timestamps 00:00 – Welcome to Built for Influence and the shift from general calling to ministry calling 01:18 – Fun church stories, embarrassing announcements, and the longest sermon ever 03:00 – The scramble golf outing announcement that went very wrong 05:53 – What is a ministry calling, really? 07:02 – Jesus restoring Peter and the meaning of “Feed my sheep” 08:56 – Ministry roles beyond preaching on Sunday 10:23 – Golf small groups, humor, and influence as kingdom impact 11:34 – Brad’s salvation story and the call to give Jesus away 14:01 – Passing on encounters with God so others can experience Him too 16:31 – God works in you before He works through you 17:08 – Separating calling from personal ambition 18:36 – The tension between being gifted and being truly called 22:09 – Contentment as a sign of healthy ministry calling 23:25 – God promotes faithfulness, not self-elevation 25:52 – The weight of ministry and carrying other people’s burdens 26:49 – Comparing police work stress and pastoral stress 29:30 – Walking with people through failure, crisis, and hard conversations 31:38 – Business, entrepreneurship, and ministry calling together 33:33 – Using business influence to advance the kingdom 35:14 – How to walk out a ministry calling with health and humility 36:29 – Why boundaries matter in ministry and in life 39:18 – The value of mentors, small beginnings, and faithful stewardship 41:45 – Closing encouragement, conference invite, and prayer for fresh calling Practical takeaways Ask yourself whether you’re pursuing a title or faithfully serving the assignment you already have. Look for ways to “feed the sheep” now, including through behind-the-scenes service. Build accountability and mentorship into your life. Set boundaries that protect your health, marriage, and family. Treat your work, business, or leadership role as a place of ministry—not just personal success. Stay faithful in small beginnings and trust God with what grows.

3. 

   29 Sept 2026

   YOU HAVE NO SECOND-CLASS CALLING

   Built for Influence: Calling, Purpose, and Why There’s No Second-Class Calling This episode of Let’s Talk brings together Ben, Brad and Coit for a practical conversation about calling, purpose, and identity for men. They open with some hilarious job stories, then move into a serious question many men wrestle with: how do you know what God is calling you to do, and how do you avoid confusing your job, title, or season with your real purpose?In this episode, Brad and Coit share a clear framework for thinking about calling, the pressures that keep men stuck, and how to discern whether a transition is God-led. It’s a grounded, faith-centered conversation for men who want more than a career. They want direction, influence, and purpose. Timestamps 00:00 - Welcome to the series and the calling conversation begins 01:58 - Funny job stories: dairy farm mishaps and asbestos removal 05:05 - Why men spend so much of life trying to figure out who they are 06:03 - Defining calling as both general and specific 08:06 - Identity, purpose, and not letting career define you 09:02 - Fatherhood as a deeper form of calling 10:31 - Drawing identity from calling instead of titles or hobbies 12:11 - How confirmation and inner prompting help reveal calling 14:06 - The pressure of leaving security to follow a clear call 16:55 - Why career, finances, and family pressure make transitions hard 18:24 - Calling beyond ministry: police, fire, medicine, education, business 19:29 - “You don’t have a second class call” 20:10 - Salt and light in every place, not just church 21:52 - When grace lifts and transition may be ahead 23:07 - Identity, calling, and purpose all working together 24:17 - Don’t run someone else’s race 26:13 - What keeps men from calling: attack, comparison, fear 27:27 - Comfort, distraction, and why growth is uncomfortable 29:50 - Past success can keep you from the next assignment 31:50 - Discovering calling by moving instead of waiting 33:32 - What moves your heart and points toward purpose 34:35 - Surrounding yourself with men who speak truth and life 35:37 - Start with God, not opportunity 36:29 - Final encouragement: no second-class callings Action items Pray specifically about your calling and purpose this week. Write down where you’ve been confusing identity with occupation. Ask two trusted men what gifts, burdens, or callings they see in you. Identify one step of movement you can take instead of waiting for perfect clarity. Recommit to being faithful in your current season. Call to action If this conversation challenged you, take time this week to seek God about your identity and purpose, then talk with a trusted man who can help confirm what you’re hearing. Keep walking, keep listening, and keep trusting that God has a specific race for you to run. Marriage conference - Thousand Hills Church (https://thousandhillschurch.churchcenter.com/registrations/events/3814158) - OCT 24

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Apple Podcasts (US)

5.0 / 5

9 ratings

Spotify

5.0 / 5

8 ratings

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