Life | BL With COM•ME•TIVE By Aam

About Life | BL With COM•ME•TIVE By Aam

Welcome to With (Boys’) Love by COMMETIVE, hosted and written by Aam Anusorn. Come for the BL. We’re honest about the mess. A podcast about Boys’ Love, fandom, entertainment, relationships, culture, and the reality behind the fantasy. We talk openly about the industry, the people who create it, the fans who support it, and the conversations others avoid. Serious, messy, funny, and honest. Episodes in Thai and English. Visit commetivebyaam.com for more. #COMMETIVEByAam

Publisher

Aam Anusorn

Category

tv & film

Language

en

Explicit

Yes

First episode

25 Oct 2020

Latest episode

29 Aug 2026

Latest episodes

41 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   29 Aug 2026

   BL Sold You the Fantasy—Then Blamed Fans for Believing It

   The BL industry creates chemistry, sells intimacy, encourages fans to believe in romantic pairings—and then acts shocked when fans become emotionally invested. In this episode of With (Boys’) Love’s Podcast, filmmaker Aam Anusorn examines the complicated relationship between fanservice, marketing, actors, companies, and BL fandoms. Fans must respect privacy and boundaries, but the industry must also acknowledge its role in deliberately blurring fiction and reality. When does protection become intimidation? Why does every stupid online comment require another official announcement? And can companies continue profiting from emotional attachment while blaming fans for feeling it? A serious, relatable, and slightly sarcastic conversation about responsibility on every side of the fantasy. 🖥️ YouTube’s Store https://go.commetivebyaam.com/youtubeshop 📍 Interesting investment for upcoming projects ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://go.commetivebyaam.com/invest⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (https://go.commetivebyaam.com/invest) Character Voice: Generated by ElevenLabs ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://try.elevenlabs.io/Aamanusorn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (https://try.elevenlabs.io/Aamanusorn) Script Writer: Aam Anusorn Soisa-ngim Produced by: Commetive by Aam LLC Check It Out More… 🎞️ Watch BL films & Series, Announcements, Read about BL & love https://go.commetivebyaam.com/ 🔞 Join membership and get Exclusive https://go.commetivebyaam.com/joinmember 🛍️ Download | Buy Merch at Boys Love & More 🖥️ YouTube’s Store https://go.commetivebyaam.com/youtubeshop 📍 Interesting investment for upcoming projects ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://go.commetivebyaam.com/invest⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (https://go.commetivebyaam.com/invest) © 2026 Aam Anusorn Soisa-ngim / Commetive by Aam. All rights reserved. No reproduction, redistribution, or re-uploading of this episode or script without written permission. #BLSeries #BLIndustry #BLFans #Fanservice #AamAnusorn

2. 

   4 Aug 2026

   Love or Adrenaline? The Psychology Behind James and Ait in Call It What You Want | EP.33

   Was it love at first sight—or was it anxiety mistaken for attraction? In this episode of With (Boys’) Love, we explore James and Ait’s first meeting in Call It What You Want through the Suspension Bridge Theory, a psychological idea suggesting that fear, stress and adrenaline can intensify romantic attraction. Both characters meet during emotionally vulnerable moments. James is struggling with professional pressure, while Ait is entering a BL industry that immediately begins judging his appearance and identity. Did they fall in love instantly, find safety in each other, or experience a spark that slowly developed into something real? Watch Call It What You Want in remastered 4K with English subtitles on the official COMMETIVE By Aam YouTube channel. 🖥️ YouTube’s Store https://go.commetivebyaam.com/youtubeshop 📍 Interesting investment for upcoming projects ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://go.commetivebyaam.com/invest⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (https://go.commetivebyaam.com/invest) Character Voice: Generated by ElevenLabs ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://try.elevenlabs.io/Aamanusorn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (https://try.elevenlabs.io/Aamanusorn) Script Writer: Aam Anusorn Soisa-ngim Produced by: Commetive by Aam LLC Check It Out More… 🎞️ Watch BL films & Series, Announcements, Read about BL & love https://go.commetivebyaam.com/ 🔞 Join membership and get Exclusive https://go.commetivebyaam.com/joinmember 🛍️ Download | Buy Merch at Boys Love & More 🖥️ YouTube’s Store https://go.commetivebyaam.com/youtubeshop 📍 Interesting investment for upcoming projects ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://go.commetivebyaam.com/invest⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (https://go.commetivebyaam.com/invest) © 2026 Aam Anusorn Soisa-ngim / Commetive by Aam. All rights reserved. No reproduction, redistribution, or re-uploading of this episode or script without written permission.

3. 

   29 Jun 2026

   The (Not So) Sexy Problem with BL Sex Scenes Today | EP. 32

   Are sex scenes in BL series becoming too predictable? In this episode of With (Boys) Love Podcast, filmmaker Aam shares his personal opinions on one of the most talked-about parts of modern BL dramas. From endless slow-motion kissing scenes and unrealistic swimming pool romance to overpowering background music and never-ending montages, this episode explores why some intimate scenes no longer feel emotionally authentic. This isn’t a criticism of sex scenes themselves. Instead, it’s a conversation about storytelling, chemistry, and why trusting actors and strong writing can create far more powerful romantic moments than visual clichés. Whether you’re a BL fan, filmmaker, writer, or simply enjoy discussing romance on screen, this episode invites you to look beyond the fantasy and ask what really makes an intimate scene memorable. What do you think is the biggest problem with sex scenes in BL series today? #BL #BoysLove #BLSeries #ThaiBL #Podcast #WithBoysLove #BLDrama #LGBTQ #FilmMaking #Romance 🖥️ YouTube’s Store https://go.commetivebyaam.com/youtubeshop 📍 Interesting investment for upcoming projects ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://go.commetivebyaam.com/invest⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (https://go.commetivebyaam.com/invest) Character Voice: Generated by ElevenLabs ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://try.elevenlabs.io/Aamanusorn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (https://try.elevenlabs.io/Aamanusorn) Script Writer: Aam Anusorn Soisa-ngim Produced by: Commetive by Aam LLC Check It Out More… 🎞️ Watch BL films & Series, Announcements, Read about BL & love https://go.commetivebyaam.com/ 🔞 Join membership and get Exclusive https://go.commetivebyaam.com/joinmember 🛍️ Download | Buy Merch at Boys Love & More 🖥️ YouTube’s Store https://go.commetivebyaam.com/youtubeshop 📍 Interesting investment for upcoming projects ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://go.commetivebyaam.com/invest⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (https://go.commetivebyaam.com/invest) © 2026 Aam Anusorn Soisa-ngim / Commetive by Aam. All rights reserved. No reproduction, redistribution, or re-uploading of this episode or script without written permission.

Reach and audience

Public platform figures. Ratings count people who left a rating, not total listeners.

YouTube views

96,015,071

Score snapshot 15 Sept 2025

Spotify

5.0 / 5

2 ratings

Podcast Authority Score: 43 / 100

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Quality

37

Social presence

0

YouTube

93

Engagement

32

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