About LIKELY LOSER - Clarity Coaching, Confidence, Calling, Christian Entrepreneur
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🫵🏾Are you tired of feeling different, like the odd-ball-out, overlooked, misunderstood?
🫵🏾Do you feel called to grow a Kingdom online business, to lead, to serve, to make more money and more impact, but you don't know how?
🫵🏾Are you sick of feeling pressure to be more talkative, bolder, or more experienced before you even start?
There is a way to grow your business, grow your confidence, without completely dismantling who you are.
Hey I'm Sheereen aka Reen, I am a Christian Business Coach, CEO, and speaker all while being the quietest weirdo ever.
Want to learn how?
In this podcast, I will teach you how to:
-＞ Grow your online business without having to be talkative, on social media 24/7, or experienced
-＞ How to lead with unshakeable confidence
-＞ How to stand out and make money from your faith-based business by using your personality and God-given talents
-＞ How to grow spiritually and trust God first as Christian women entrepreneurs
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Reen | Christian Business Coach, Purpose Coach, Online Marketing Strategist
Repost | Mastering Preparation: The Key to Achieving Your Goals
In today's episode, we delve into the transformative power of preparation and how it can elevate your endeavors to new heights. Drawing from biblical wisdom and practical insights, we explore the importance of preparation in aligning with God's purpose for your business and achieving success with integrity and excellence.
What's Next:
To Email Us: Reen@cupsofcoco.com
3 Mar 2026TRANSCRIPT
121 | Once You Know Your Calling, How Do You Reach People aka Grow an Audience?
Key Takeaways:
🔥 1. Calling Without Reach Is Like Light Under a Basket
Let’s start here—because this matters.
📖 Matthew 5:15 — “Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl…”
If God entrusted you with insight, skill, or truth, hiding it is not humility—it’s mismanagement.
Truth punch:You’re not called to be visible for attention.You’re called to be visible so others can be helped.
Audience growth is not about ego.It’s about access.
🧠 2. Why Introverts Struggle with Growing an Audience
Identity moment—this is important.
Introverts often believe:
“I don’t want to be seen.”
“I don’t want to be loud.”
“I don’t want to perform.”
So they assume audience growth requires becoming someone else.
You don’t need a big personality—you need clear service.
Introverts don’t struggle with depth.They struggle with distribution.
God didn’t call you to be louder.He called you to be faithful and consistent.
🛑 3. Stop Trying to Reach Everyone—Start Reaching One
This is where most people go wrong.
They ask:
“How do I go viral?”
“How do I grow faster?”
“What platform should I use?”
Wrong starting point.
📖 Luke 16:10 — “Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much.”
Truth punch:If you’re not faithful with one person, you’re not ready for one thousand.
Audience growth begins with:
One clear problem
One specific person
One consistent message
Reach one well—and momentum follows.
🧭 4. Your Message Is the Bridge Between Your Calling and Your Audience
People don’t follow callings.They follow clarity.
Ask yourself:
What problem does my calling help solve?
What question do people keep asking me?
What pain do I understand deeply?
Your audience grows when your message:
Names the problem clearly
Speaks their language
Offers hope and direction
📖 Romans 10:14 — “How can they believe in the one of whom they have not heard?”
No message = no movement.
🌱 5. Audience Growth Is Built Through Consistent Presence, Not Performance
This is freeing.
You don’t need:
Perfect content
A flawless brand
Constant posting
You need:
A rhythm you can sustain
A place to show up consistently
A message you repeat without apology
Truth punch:Trust is built through repetition, not reinvention.
Consistency is spiritual discipline in modern form.
📖 Galatians 6:9 — “Let us not become weary in doing good…”
Let’s Take Action:
📝 Step 1: Define Who You’re ReachingAnswer this in one sentence:
“I help ______ who are struggling with ______.”
Clarity attracts. Vagueness repels.
📢 Step 2: Choose ONE Primary PlatformDon’t try to be everywhere.Pick where your people already are:
Email
Podcast
Instagram
Facebook
Depth > reach.
🗣️ Step 3: Share From Service, Not Self-PromotionBefore posting or speaking, ask:
“Will this help someone feel seen?”
“Does this solve a real problem?”
“Would I say this to one person?”
That’s ministry in motion.
📆 Step 4: Commit to Consistency Over GrowthDecide:
How often can I show up without burning out?
Weekly is enough.
Faithful beats frequent.
🙏 Step 5: Release the OutcomeYour job:
Show up
Serve clearly
Speak truth
God’s job:
Increase
Impact
Expansion
24 Feb 2026TRANSCRIPT
120 | How To Chase After Your Calling (Not To Be Confused With Your Purpose)
Key Takeaways:
🔥 1. Your Purpose Is Fixed — Your Calling Is Flexible
Let’s settle this first.
The Bible is clear about your purpose:📖 “Whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.” — 1 Corinthians 10:31
Your purpose is to glorify God.That never changes—no matter your season, job, or title.
Your calling, however, is:
The skills you use
The problems you solve
The people you serve
The assignments God entrusts to you over time
Truth punch:You don’t need to “find” your purpose.You need to express it through obedience.
Calling answers how.Purpose answers why.
🧠 2. Why Calling Feels So Confusing for Introverted Women
Identity moment—this matters.
Introverts tend to:
Overthink decisions
Internalize pressure
Delay action until things feel “right”
So instead of chasing calling, you analyze it.
You ask:
“What if I choose wrong?”
“What if this isn’t what God wants?”
“What if I miss it?”
Sharp insight:Calling is rarely revealed through contemplation.It’s revealed through participation.
📖 Psalm 119:105 — “Your word is a lamp to my feet, not a floodlight to the future.”
God gives light for the next step, not the whole staircase.
🛑 3. You’re Not Waiting on God — You’re Waiting on Certainty
This is where many believers get stuck.
You say:
“I’m praying about it.”
But what you really mean is:
“I don’t want to move unless I can’t fail.”
Truth punch:Faith doesn’t eliminate risk—it responds to God despite it.
Biblical calling always required movement:
Abraham left before knowing the destination
Peter stepped out before the water felt solid
Esther spoke up before safety was guaranteed
📖 Hebrews 11:8 — “By faith Abraham obeyed and went, even though he did not know where he was going.”
🧰 4. Your Skills Are Not Random — They Are the Vehicle
Here’s where many Christian women minimize themselves.
You think:
“It’s just something I’m good at”
“Other people can do this better”
“This doesn’t feel spiritual enough”
But Scripture says otherwise.
📖 Romans 12:6 — “We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us.”
Your calling is not separate from your skills.It flows through them.
Calling = the means by which you glorify God.
Teaching. Writing. Coaching. Organizing. Creating. Leading. Building.
God doesn’t waste gifts.He deploys them.
🌱 5. Calling Is Chased Through Faithful Action, Not Perfection
Calling isn’t a destination you arrive at.It’s a direction you commit to.
You don’t chase your calling by:
Waiting until you feel ready
Having all the answers
Eliminating fear
You chase it by:
Saying yes to what’s in front of you
Being faithful with what you already have
Adjusting as God redirects
📖 Proverbs 16:9 — “In their hearts humans plan their course, but the Lord establishes their steps.”
Movement invites refinement.
Let’s Take Action:
📝 Step 1: Separate Purpose from CallingWrite this down:
My purpose: To glorify God
My current calling may look like: (list skills, opportunities, burdens)
This removes pressure immediately.
🧠 Step 2: Inventory Your SkillsAsk:
What do people already come to me for?
What feels natural but impactful?
What problems do I feel responsible to help solve?
Those are clues—not coincidences.
🚶 Step 3: Take One Obedient StepNot the whole plan.Not the forever decision.
Just:
One post
One conversation
One offer
One act of service
Clarity follows obedience.
Inside a recent episode
121 | Once You Know Your Calling, How Do You Reach People aka Grow an Audience?
Published 3 Mar 2026 · Transcript excerpt
[…] Is there a problem and what does my calling help solve? What question do people keep asking me? What question do people keep asking me? I was a stylist for a long time. I love clothes, right? And people kept asking me because I styled a lot of people and I used to dress them according to, like, they're going to conferences, right? Just a lot of different business events. And at the same time, I was giving business advice. And then people just started to keep coming to me for that, right? And I was like, wait a minute, I probably need to make some type of switch here. Okay, because I'm good at that. […]
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