

Live Laugh Loads
Hosted by Dario and Ryan · Ryan and Dario
4.7from 15 ratings
- 19
- Episodes
- 15
- Ratings
- 2025
- First episode
- 2K
- YouTube views
About Live Laugh Loads
Live Laugh Loads is a fun podcast for gay men exploring authenticity and vulnerability, where we talk about gay culture, mental health, relationships and sex. Come take a load off with Ryan and Darío.
- Publisher
- Ryan and Dario
- Category
- health & fitness
- Language
- en
- Explicit
- Yes
- First episode
- 24 Mar 2025
- Latest episode
- 30 Mar 2026
Latest episodes
19 episodes in the feed.

30 Mar 2026
Ep 10: Undetectable & Unstoppable
What if everything you think you know about HIV is wrong? This week, Darío and Ryan sit down with Alex Garner — writer, artist, community advocate, and proud Chicano queer man who has been living openly with HIV for 30 years. Alex works with MPact Global, the only worldwide organization dedicated to building community and defending human rights for gay, bisexual, and queer men across 62 countries. This is not a sad episode. It is an honest one. We go deep on what HIV actually means in 2026 — medically, emotionally, and sexually. We talk about the science of Undetectable = Untransmittable, the history of fear that medicine has outpaced but stigma has not, and what it looks like to build a life of pleasure, community, and zero shame while living HIV positive. In this episode: The real story of HIV from the 80s to now Why stigma has not evolved as fast as medicine Sex, desire, and disclosure — navigating intimacy with HIV How dating apps are still failing HIV positive people PrEP, access, and why treatment is still a privilege Alex's personal journey — including his experience as a sex worker and performer What thriving looks like versus just surviving Resources mentioned: MPact Global: mpactglobal.org PrEP online: HeyMistr.com SF locals: Magnet SF Alex's writing: advocate.com/authors/alex-garner Follow Alex: @alexgarnerla Follow MPact: @mpact.global Live Laugh Loads is a queer-centered podcast about sex, joy, identity, and community. Subscribe, leave a review, and share this one — it matters. Follow us on: Instagram @livelaughloads.podcast (https://www.instagram.com/livelaughloads.podcast) Bluesky @livelaughloadscast.bsky.social (https://bsky.app/profile/livelaughloadscast.bsky.social) YouTube @LiveLaughLoadsPodcast (https://www.youtube.com/@LiveLaughLoadsPodcast) Website Livelaughloads.com (https://www.livelaugloads.com/) Check out our Blogspot (https://livelaughloads.blogspot.com/) Ryan's Instagram @hes.tryan (https://www.instagram.com/hes.tryan) Dario's Instagram @tattooedgay (https://www.instagram.com/tattooedgay) Alex's Instagram @alexgarnerla (https://www.instagram.com/alexgarnerla) Mpact Global's Instagram @mpact.global (https://www.instagram.com/mpact.global)

2 Mar 2026
Ep 9: Comedy, Queerness, and a Murder Musical
What happens when you take capitalism, rage, healthcare horror, and queerness... and turn it into a musical? You get Luigi the Musical, and you get our guest Caleb Zeringue. This week we're diving into satire, risk, and why queer artists are expected to be palatable instead of unsettling. We talk about the musical everyone's buzzing about (yes, the one about that alleged CEO murderer), the "you only talk about being gay" critique that never dies, and whether going "wide" means growth or erasure. Also: thirst traps, bathhouses, and the eternal question — are gay friendships real or just advanced networking? If this episode makes you laugh and feel a little uncomfortable? Perfect. That's the point. Guest: Caleb Zeringue — stand-up comedian, co-writer of Luigi the Musical, and co-writer of a new comedy show with Jenny Zigrino debuting at Netflix is a Joke Festival this May. 🎭 Murder. Musicals. Moral panic. Let's go. Follow us on: Instagram @livelaughloads.podcast (https://www.instagram.com/livelaughloads.podcast) Bluesky @livelaughloadscast.bsky.social (https://bsky.app/profile/livelaughloadscast.bsky.social) YouTube @LiveLaughLoadsPodcast (https://www.youtube.com/@LiveLaughLoadsPodcast) Website Livelaughloads.com (https://www.livelaugloads.com/) Check out our Blogspot (https://livelaughloads.blogspot.com/) Ryan's Instagram @hes.tryan (https://www.instagram.com/hes.tryan) Dario's Instagram @tattooedgay (https://www.instagram.com/tattooedgay) Caleb's Instagram @Caleb.meringue (https://www.instagram.com/caleb.meringue)

9 Feb 2026
Ep 8: Abs, Anxiety and Artificial Aesthetics: Pt 2
Part 2 If Part 1 asked why we’re spiraling, Part 2 asks what we’re doing about it — and at what cost. 💉🪞 In Part 2, we get into artificial aesthetics: Botox, fillers, bleached anuses, painful procedures, and the pressure to keep fixing ourselves without ever feeling finished. We break down white beauty standards, fitfluencer culture, AI-enhanced bodies, and the illusion economy selling perfection that isn’t natural, sustainable, or even real. We talk about pain as currency, discipline as worth, and how “self-care” can quietly turn into self-punishment when mental health is ignored. This isn’t anti-beauty — it’s about intention, honesty, and choosing peace over impossible standards. ✨🧠 Follow us on: Instagram @livelaughloads.podcast (https://www.instagram.com/livelaughloads.podcast) Bluesky @livelaughloadscast.bsky.social (https://bsky.app/profile/livelaughloadscast.bsky.social) YouTube @LiveLaughLoadsPodcast (https://www.youtube.com/@LiveLaughLoadsPodcast) Website Livelaughloads.com (https://www.livelaugloads.com/) Check out our Blogspot (https://livelaughloads.blogspot.com/) Ryan's Instagram @hes.tryan (https://www.instagram.com/hes.tryan) Dario's Instagram @tattooedgay (https://www.instagram.com/tattooedgay)

19 Jan 2026
Ep 8: Abs, Anxiety and Artificial Aesthetics: Pt 1
Part 1 Abs didn’t fix our anxiety — so we started here. 🪞 Part 1 dives into gay beauty standards, body weight obsession, hair loss panic, gym culture, and the slow creep of body dysmorphia. We talk about how muscular, masculine, and often white-centered ideals become invisible rules — and how chasing them can leave you leaner, stronger, and somehow more insecure. From calorie-earning workouts to “natty” lies and comparison culture, we unpack why the gym can shift from grounding to punishing, and why unattainable goals don’t motivate forever — they exhaust. If you’ve ever felt hotter but less at peace, this part sets the stage. 💪🏽🧠 Follow us on: Instagram @livelaughloads.podcast (https://www.instagram.com/livelaughloads.podcast) Bluesky @livelaughloadscast.bsky.social (https://bsky.app/profile/livelaughloadscast.bsky.social) YouTube @LiveLaughLoadsPodcast (https://www.youtube.com/@LiveLaughLoadsPodcast) Website Livelaughloads.com (https://www.livelaugloads.com/) Check out our Blogspot (https://livelaughloads.blogspot.com/) Ryan's Instagram @hes.tryan (https://www.instagram.com/hes.tryan) Dario's Instagram @tattooedgay (https://www.instagram.com/tattooedgay)

22 Dec 2025
Ep 7: Just Roommates: Pt 2
Part 2 We’re diving into the messy middle: queer coding, queerbaiting, erasure, and why creators keep dancing around queerness instead of owning it. This half gets spicier, sharper, and way more chaotic. We break down: • Queer coding vs queerbaiting — the difference between hinting and hustling • The Finn & Poe heartbreak that Disney still pretends didn’t happen • T.A.T.u, Luca, Supernatural, and all the times queerness was teased then denied • Straightwashing, gaywashing, and how fandom often tells the truth before creators do • Who gets to be represented — and who Hollywood still sidelines • Why we cling to queer-coded divas, and how corporate Pride keeps fumbling the bag • Our listener poll and the wildest “almost gay” moments in pop culture A full buffet of canon crimes, representation wins, and the queer chaos we love. Follow us on: Instagram @livelaughloads.podcast (https://www.instagram.com/livelaughloads.podcast) Bluesky @livelaughloadscast.bsky.social (https://bsky.app/profile/livelaughloadscast.bsky.social) YouTube @LiveLaughLoadsPodcast (https://www.youtube.com/@LiveLaughLoadsPodcast) Website Livelaughloads.com (https://www.livelaugloads.com/) Check out our Blogspot (https://livelaughloads.blogspot.com/) Ryan's Instagram @hes.tryan (https://www.instagram.com/hes.tryan) Dario's Instagram @tattooedgay (https://www.instagram.com/tattooedgay)

24 Nov 2025
Ep 7: Just Roommates: Pt 1
Part 1 Queer media has come a long way, but babes… the glow-up had some messy chapters. In this first half, we unpack how representation evolved from Madonna’s covert radicalism to today’s intersectional shows and unapologetically queer artists. We get into: • Why Benson Boon’s “Electric Blue” backlash exposed how fast we judge queer-coded art • How social media flattens nuance in queer storytelling • The jump from 90s stereotypes to the layered representation of Pose, Sense8, and Heartstopper • What makes representation actually good, and when it turns into tragedy porn • The never-ending debate about straight actors in queer roles If you’ve ever yelled “Just make them canon,” this one’s for you. Follow us on: Instagram @livelaughloads.podcast (https://www.instagram.com/livelaughloads.podcast) Bluesky @livelaughloadscast.bsky.social (https://bsky.app/profile/livelaughloadscast.bsky.social) YouTube @LiveLaughLoadsPodcast (https://www.youtube.com/@LiveLaughLoadsPodcast) Website Livelaughloads.com (https://www.livelaugloads.com/) Check out our Blogspot (https://livelaughloads.blogspot.com/) Ryan's Instagram @hes.tryan (https://www.instagram.com/hes.tryan) Dario's Instagram @tattooedgay (https://www.instagram.com/tattooedgay)

3 Nov 2025
Ep 6: Sexpectations: Pt 2
Part 2 – Sexpectations: Going Deeper What happens when the chemistry fades mid-act? How do you disclose STI status or personal boundaries? And why does respect make sex hotter? In Part 2, we get into consent, disclosures, kinks, group play, and the messy reality of “oops” moments. We wrap it all up with the reminder that the best sex starts with clear communication, shared expectations, and a little humor when things go left. Follow us on: Instagram @livelaughloads.podcast (https://www.instagram.com/livelaughloads.podcast) Bluesky @livelaughloadscast.bsky.social (https://bsky.app/profile/livelaughloadscast.bsky.social) YouTube @LiveLaughLoadsPodcast (https://www.youtube.com/@LiveLaughLoadsPodcast) Website Livelaughloads.com (https://www.livelaugloads.com/) Check out our Blogspot (https://livelaughloads.blogspot.com/) Ryan's Instagram @hes.tryan (https://www.instagram.com/hes.tryan) Dario's Instagram @tattooedgay (https://www.instagram.com/tattooedgay)

13 Oct 2025
Ep 6: Sexpectations: Pt 1
Part 1 – Sexpectations: The Basics From first hookup etiquette to lube logistics, this episode is your roadmap to sex that’s hot and respectful. We unpack who should host, what to bring, how to keep it clean, and why bottoms allegedly get priority. Along the way, we laugh through thirst traps, share our gay sexual awakenings, and remind you that just because it’s casual doesn’t mean it has to be careless. Follow us on: Instagram @livelaughloads.podcast (https://www.instagram.com/livelaughloads.podcast) Bluesky @livelaughloadscast.bsky.social (https://bsky.app/profile/livelaughloadscast.bsky.social) YouTube @LiveLaughLoadsPodcast (https://www.youtube.com/@LiveLaughLoadsPodcast) Website Livelaughloads.com (https://www.livelaugloads.com/) Check out our Blogspot (https://livelaughloads.blogspot.com/) Ryan's Instagram @hes.tryan (https://www.instagram.com/hes.tryan) Dario's Instagram @tattooedgay (https://www.instagram.com/tattooedgay)

22 Sept 2025
Ep 5: The Rules of enGAYgement Pt 2
Part Two – The Rules of enGAYgement: Red Flags, Real Talk & Reciprocation In Part Two, we’re stepping beyond the first date and into the real tea. What are the early green signs that someone’s worth it—and the red flags that scream “run”? We talk ghosting, avoidant partners, and how to check in with yourself and your date without losing your mind. Is love bombing just flattery? Can you date when you’re emotionally depleted? And what does it mean to show up with intention? Bonus: Solo tackles a listener’s question about navigating avoidant behavior in a partner, and we share this week’s queer tip to keep your heart smart. Follow us on: Instagram @livelaughloads.podcast (https://www.instagram.com/livelaughloads.podcast) Bluesky @livelaughloadscast.bsky.social (https://bsky.app/profile/livelaughloadscast.bsky.social) YouTube @LiveLaughLoadsPodcast (https://www.youtube.com/@LiveLaughLoadsPodcast) Website Livelaughloads.com (https://www.livelaugloads.com/) Check out our Blogspot (https://livelaughloads.blogspot.com/) Ryan's Instagram @hes.tryan (https://www.instagram.com/hes.tryan) Dario's Instagram @tattooedgay (https://www.instagram.com/tattooedgay) Special Guest, Solo @solodolobcyolo (https://www.instagram.com/solodolobcyolo/#)

1 Sept 2025
Ep 5: The Rules of enGAYgement Pt 1
Part One – The Rules of enGAYgement: Who, What, When, & Where Dating is hard—but dating as a gay man? No script, no rules, and a whole lot of guesswork. In Part One of The Rules of enGAYgement, we’re joined by social media influencer, music producer, and behavior specialist Solo to break down what dating even means in our world. From defining your intentions to figuring out who (and how) to date, we talk capacity, compatibility, and the queer dating pool shrinkage no one prepared us for. Plus: how to ask someone out, where to go, and whether it’s okay to kiss on the first date (spoiler: it depends). Follow us on: Instagram @livelaughloads.podcast (https://www.instagram.com/livelaughloads.podcast) Bluesky @livelaughloadscast.bsky.social (https://bsky.app/profile/livelaughloadscast.bsky.social) YouTube @LiveLaughLoadsPodcast (https://www.youtube.com/@LiveLaughLoadsPodcast) Website Livelaughloads.com (https://www.livelaugloads.com/) Check out our Blogspot (https://livelaughloads.blogspot.com/) Ryan's Instagram @hes.tryan (https://www.instagram.com/hes.tryan) Dario's Instagram @tattooedgay (https://www.instagram.com/tattooedgay) Special Guest, Solo @solodolobcyolo (https://www.instagram.com/solodolobcyolo/#)

11 Aug 2025
Ep 4: Swipe Left or Act Right Pt 2
Part Two – Swipe Left or Act Right: Nudes, Labels, and Letdowns In Part Two, we’re baring it all—literally. We dive deep into nude etiquette, sexual preferences, and the awkward dance of arranging to meet IRL. What makes a good pic? When is a block self-protection vs. self-sabotage? And how do we stay kind in a culture built for fast rejection? Plus: a listener question on queer code-switching, and a tip that involves dicks and decency. Follow us on: Instagram @livelaughloads.podcast (https://www.instagram.com/livelaughloads.podcast) Bluesky @livelaughloadscast.bsky.social (https://bsky.app/profile/livelaughloadscast.bsky.social) YouTube @LiveLaughLoadsPodcast (https://www.youtube.com/@LiveLaughLoadsPodcast) Website Livelaughloads.com (https://www.livelaugloads.com/) Check out our Blogspot (https://livelaughloads.blogspot.com/) Ryan's Instagram @hes.tryan (https://www.instagram.com/hes.tryan) Dario's Instagram @tattooedgay (https://www.instagram.com/tattooedgay)

21 Jul 2025
Ep 4: Swipe Left or Act Right Pt 1
Part One – Swipe Left or Act Right: Horny or Human? Hookup apps promise instant gratification—but what happens when our need for connection collides with the chaos of digital desire? In Part One of Swipe Left or Act Right, we explore the emotional whiplash of hookup culture, the art of pic etiquette, and why being horny doesn’t mean forgetting your humanity. From taps that lead nowhere to the emotional cost of ghosting, we unpack how to swipe smarter, chat better, and flirt with feeling. Follow us on: Instagram @livelaughloads.podcast (https://www.instagram.com/livelaughloads.podcast) Bluesky @livelaughloadscast.bsky.social (https://bsky.app/profile/livelaughloadscast.bsky.social) YouTube @LiveLaughLoadsPodcast (https://www.youtube.com/@LiveLaughLoadsPodcast) Website Livelaughloads.com (https://www.livelaugloads.com/) Check out our Blogspot (https://livelaughloads.blogspot.com/) Ryan's Instagram @hes.tryan (https://www.instagram.com/hes.tryan) Dario's Instagram @tattooedgay (https://www.instagram.com/tattooedgay)

30 Jun 2025
Ep 3: mask4masc Pt 2
An anonymous guest discusses the personal cost of hiding one's true identity, revealing the challenges and courage required to overcome fear and societal expectations in this interview.

11 Jun 2025
Ep 3: mask4masc Pt 1
Hosts Ryan and Dario explore how queer individuals navigate societal pressures to conform, often diminishing their authentic selves to gain acceptance and belonging.

23 May 2025
Ep 2: Shrink me baby, one more time! Pt 2
Hosts Ryan and Dario explore sensitive topics like sexual assault, drug use, and abuse, sharing personal breakthroughs and breakdowns from therapy in this episode.

2 May 2025
Ep 2: Shrink me baby, one more time! Pt 1
The hosts of Live Laugh Loads podcast share personal experiences and insights on navigating therapy, including sensitive topics like abuse and trauma, to promote self-discovery.

9 Apr 2025
Ep 1: Coming out, Pt 2
Hosts Ryan and Dario introduce themselves and the podcast's purpose, exploring themes of coming out and self-discovery in this episode.

25 Mar 2025
Ep 1: Coming out, Pt 1
Hosts Ryan and Dario introduce themselves and the podcast's purpose, discussing coming out experiences in part one of this episode.

24 Mar 2025
Live Laugh Loads Intro Video
This episode introduces the Live Laugh Loads podcast, previewing the first episode about coming out.
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- YouTube views
- 1,610
- Score snapshot 15 Sept 2025
- Apple Podcasts (US)
- 5.0 / 5
- 9 ratings
- Spotify
- 4.3 / 5
- 6 ratings
Podcast Authority Score: 59 / 100
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- Quality
- 52
- Social presence
- 94
- YouTube
- 68
- Engagement
- 51
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