Join us on a podcast adventure where we explore the all encompassing experience of living with a disability. We delve into how disability influences our interactions with the world around us—and how the world responds to us. Along the way, we share our personal journeys and open up about how our lives and identities have been shaped from the seat of a wheelchair where we're always looking up.
Join us and our guests for these heartfelt and often humorous conversations—and gain a deeper understanding of what it takes to navigate life on wheels.
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Samantha Guerry, Angelique Lele, and Laura Hallissey
What if hope isn't just about wishing for the best? 🤔 In our latest episode, we talk about hope shifts our sense of what is possble--especially in uncertain times. It's a deeply personal episode that comes at a time when many of us are feeling the weight of the world and its many dysfunctions. Hope might feel fragile or elusive to you right now...or even naive. But hope is not a passive feeling. It is an active and resilient force that allows us to navigate life's uncertainties, encourages us to embrace both joy and pain, and helps us foster a sense of gratitude for the present moment.
To frame our conversation, Samantha shares her favorite passage from an essay by Václav Havel. Havel was a Czech poet and revolutionary, who survived persecution and imprisonment under the Soviet Union to then become the first democratically elected President of the Czech Republic. Havel distinguishes hope from optimism. Hope is not merely an expectation of positive outcome but rather an "orientation of the spirit."
In this episode we explore what that kind of hope means to us and how we experience it in our own lives. It serves as a heartfelt reminder of the importance of nurturing hope within ourselves and our community as a means of--in Angie's words--"keeping that little light inside of us burning."
Leave a comment and tell us how you're leaning into hope these days and nurturing resilience. We love hearing from you!
Tags: hope, resilience, personal growth, Václav Havel, Stockdale Paradox, mental health, community, gratitude.
17 Dec 2025
Seen & Unseen: How We Navigate Identity, Needs & Time
What's obvious to us may not be so obvious to others. In this episode, we continue our conversation about the disparities between how we see ourselves and how others see us. The gaps in those perceptions often create misunderstandings and unmet needs and has an impact on our lives in ways that surprise even us. We get into some of the nuances of the disabilities that others can see and the ones they can't--like chronic pain. Along the way, we take some funny detours on time management and productivity.
Chapters
00:00 Exploring Identity and Disability
02:40 The Impact of Unmet Needs
05:39 Navigating Social Perceptions
08:38 The Complexity of Accessibility
11:32 The Role of Time in Disability
14:30 Embracing Slower Living
17:17 Invisible Disabilities and Their Challenges
20:21 The Intersection of Disability and Work
23:27 Coping with Chronic Pain
26:14 The Influence of the Pandemic on Work Culture
29:20 Rethinking Time and Productivity
32:07 The Future of Accessibility
35:00 Reflections on Identity and Experience
8 Dec 2025
What Doesn't Kill You: Uncertainty & Endurance
This episode takes a candid look at disability as an endurance sport—where identity, resilience, and community reshape what care and compassion mean.
We explore the emotional and physical endurance of living with a disability, framing daily life as a constant act of adaptation. Our conversation delves into how identity evolves through loss and uncertainty—especially within medical systems that often lack answers. We reflect on how we cope with fundemental changes to our sense of self and how resilience is forged from adversity.
27 Nov 2025
Prioritize the Possible: When Our Needs Clash with Self-Perception
Needing to use a cane or wheelchair can throw a person into an identity crisis because of the stigma they carry. Accepting the use of an aid can be a difficult transition and one that many people resist or reject even when an aid is important for their safety and independence.
This conversation delves into how our sense of self is impacted by our needs and how we can reframe our thinking on aids to get the most out of the technology available to us.
31 Oct 2025
Laura's Journey: Learning to Be Present in the Body
In this conversation, Laura shares her journey of living with spina bifida. She discusses the challenges she faced growing up with disability and the innovative therapies her family sought out to help her thrive. She shares her experiences trying to fit in at school, the isolation she felt, and how she finally gave up her mission to make other people comfortable with her limitations. Laura also reflects on her discovery of the Mind Body Solutions (MBS) program and how yoga transformed her relationship with her body, leading to a deeper understanding of self-acceptance and peace.
10 Oct 2025
Pity & Perception-Part 2- Friends & Family
"It's that they make lemonade out of lemons. Instead of looking at what's hard about it, they look at how to transform your disability into something beautiful, something intimate, something fun, something other than what it is...(because it's not any of those things)... but it can be experienced differently if you have the right person with you."
In part 2 of our "Pity & Perception" conversation we talk through the delicate dynamics of friendships and what it means to us to feel fully seen, considered, and included.
- Even friends get it wrong - Navigating the stories of those closest to us
- The Complexity of Emotional Reactions
- Feeling Included vs. Excluded
- The Grief of Limitations
- The Importance of Community
- Finding Joy in Difficult Situations
- Creating Intimacy Through Shared Experiences
3 Oct 2025
Pity & Perspective [Bonus Episode] ....the man in the hallway continued
"Don't we always go through life with our story just ready to slap it on whoever's in front of us? And then just like that we're up and running with that story." Angelique and Samantha dive a deeper into a brief encounter with a stranger that left Anqelique stung by the disconnect between how she sees herself and how he reacted to her disability that we discussed in the episode "Pity & Perspective-Pt 1"
30 Sept 2025
Short Take: Cussing & Coping
We decided we are pro-cussing because sometimes it's better out than in and it can put that rage to good use.
26 Sept 2025
Pity & Perception-Pt 1 | Strangers Say the Strangest Things
Ever have someone look at you in a way that just deflates you and breaks your heart? What story have they overlaid on your experience and is it something you need to carry? In this episode, we talk about the different ways strangers relate to us--from sad looks to inappropriate comments to outrageous questions. And we talk a bit about both how those things land and how we have learned to cope with and move beyond them.
- Experiencing Pity: Personal Stories
- The Complexity of Reactions
- Insecurities and Emotional Responses
- The Misunderstanding Happiness
- Setting Boundaries and Personal Growth
- The Nature of Vulnerability
- Navigating Inappropriate Questions
- Perils & Prerogative of Rejecting Assistance
- Hypervigilance and Safety
23 Aug 2025
In Relationship with Our Bodies
"The choice that you make to live is the most important choice you make every day." -- In this episode, we get honest about the frustrations and fears that challenge us daily and how we struggle to cope and overcome them. With a little humor and a lot of candor, we share how our relationship with our bodies have evolved over time as we've learned to be kinder to ourselves and more patient with the set backs.
- The Choice to Live: Embracing Life's Value
- Perceptions of Disability: Beyond Extraordinary Achievements
- Navigating Daily Challenges: The Struggle of Normalcy
- Rest and Recovery: The Importance of Self-Care
- Adapting to Change: Learning to Listen to Our Bodies
- The Battle with Inaccessibility: Everyday Frustrations
- Body Image and Self-Acceptance: A Journey of Reflection
- Choosing Your Battles: Navigating Accessibility Challenges
23 Aug 2025
The Unbearable Sense of Almost Being
"I feel like there's this sort of tantalizing closeness to things, the almost there of a lot of experience." In this episode, we discuss how our limitations affect our relationships and our sense of what is possible in social settings. Our conversation touches on setting boundaries when something doesn't feel right and how wonderful it feels when our needs are understood.
- The Choice to Live: Embracing Life's Value
- Choosing Your Battles: Navigating Accessibility Challenges
- The Complexity of Social Gatherings and Accessibility
- The Emotional Toll of Planning and Energy Management
- Friendship Dynamics: Understanding and Inclusion
- Feeling Seen: The Importance of Consideration in Relationships
- The Limits of Accessibility: Feeling Excluded from Experiences
4 Apr 2025
More Than Curbs & Cuts - Demo Show
This is us making a good go of it and learning the ropes. We get into some of the issues around the misunderstandings people have--even those closest to us--about what it's like to live with a disability.
- Understanding Disability Beyond the Surface
- The Emotional Journey of Living with Disability
- The Pressure to Maintain Positivity
- Navigating Relationships and Expectations
- The Challenge of Sharing Personal Struggles
- The Complexity of Changing Dynamics in Friendships
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