Funny, provocative and boldly opinionated, Love and Fly Shit is a highly anticipated lifestyle podcast featuring married millennials Jenna Nia and Donay. Join this unapologetic power couple in their unfiltered discussions on relationships, money moves and everything in between.
This week on Love & Fly Sh*t, Jenna and Donay sit down for a real conversation about the little things that can become BIG problems in relationships. They respond to a listener who says she loves her man but finds herself embarrassed by the way he dresses, talks, and acts in public. Is she being shallow, or is her embarrassment a sign that something deeper is going on?
Then Jenna and Donay get into the difference between annoying habits, relationship quirks, and real character issues. They talk about how resentment can make the smallest things unbearable, why you can love someone but stop liking them, and why paying attention to character early on can save you from realizing you're incompatible later.
The conversation also gets personal as they reflect on their own relationship, the things they've had to address over the years, and how marriage can magnify the little things. Plus, they play a game of "Can You Live With That?" and put each other's tolerance to the test.
Topics Discussed:
-The difference between a quirk and a character issue
-When the little things become BIG things
-Loving someone but no longer liking them
-Being embarrassed by your partner
-Accepting your partner for who they are
-Why chemistry isn't everything
-Paying attention to character while dating
-How resentment changes the way you see your partner
-Things that get magnified after marriage
-Communication when you're upset
-Keeping your relationship private
-Can you really live with your partner's annoying habits?
-The "Can You Live With That?" game
-Learning when to compromise and when to walk away
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10 Sept 2026
Lover Boy Era with Cortez Smith
This week on Love & Fly Sh*t, Jenna and Donay sit down with actor Cortez Smith, best known as Nuck from The Chi. Cortez takes us behind the character everybody loved to hate, what it was like bringing Nuck to life, and how his own experiences helped him understand the character on a deeper level.
Then we get to know the man behind Nuck. Cortez opens up about his new relationship, being a lover at heart, wanting marriage, and why having the right support can change how you move in love. The conversation gets real about ego, affection, peace, friendship in relationships, and whether some people mistake healthy love for being boring.
Topics Discussed:
-The truth behind Nuck’s story on The Chi
-On-screen chemistry & filming intimate scenes
-Cortez’s new relationship
-Being a lover at heart
-Marriage & finding the right person
-Why friendship matters in relationships
-Having a supportive partner
-Ego & learning how to receive criticism
-How men show love and affection
-Can healthy relationships feel boring?
-Choosing peace over unnecessary drama
-Growing and becoming a better partner
#thechi #nuck #cortezsmith #loveandrelationships
5 Aug 2026
Wifey Material
This week, Jenna and Donay tackle one of the biggest relationship debates of our generation: Do women still want marriage, or has the idea of being "wifey material" changed?
Sparked by a listener's letter, the conversation dives into why more women are choosing independence over traditional family life, whether social media has changed expectations around love and commitment, and if marriage is still something people genuinely aspire to. Jenna and Donay challenge each other's perspectives on modern dating, discuss what men and women are really looking for today, and share the lessons they've learned from building a marriage that's lasted nearly 12 years.
Topics discussed include:
-What does "wifey material" really mean today?
-Why fewer people are prioritizing marriage
-Independence vs. commitment
-The role social media plays in modern relationships
-Can you build a successful marriage in today's dating culture?
-Why choosing the right partner matters more than chasing a wedding
Whether you dream of getting married or you're perfectly happy on your own, this episode is an honest conversation about love, commitment, and what it really takes to build something that lasts.
#podcast #blacklove #marriage #relationships
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YouTube views
173,459
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Apple Podcasts (US)
5.0 / 5
19 ratings
Podcast Authority Score: 70 / 100
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65
Social presence
97
YouTube
86
Engagement
51
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