Love, Death & Disputes

About Love, Death & Disputes

Love, Death & Disputes is a podcast about the conflicts that arise during life’s most destabilizing transitions — divorce, death, inheritance, and major financial change. These conflicts rarely begin because people are selfish, irrational, or malicious. They arise when fear, loss, identity disruption, and unresolved history collide with systems that force decisions before people are ready. Each episode offers a calm, neutral exploration of why conflict forms, why it escalates, and why intelligent, well-intentioned people behave in ways that feel out of character under pressure. Rather than giving advice or telling listeners what to do, the show focuses on helping people understand what is happening while it is happening, and why some conflicts resolve while others cause lasting damage. This podcast is not about winning, fixing, or taking sides. It is a thinking space for individuals navigating conflict and seeking clarity, and for professionals who work with them. Love, Death & Disputes is created and hosted by Alison Hall, whose work focuses on money, conflict, and life transitions.

Publisher

Alison Hall

Category

education · society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

16 Jan 2026

Latest episode

10 Apr 2026

Latest episodes

13 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   10 Apr 2026

   Bonus Episode: Money Means More Than Math

   It's not just about the numbers. In divorce, money carries more weight than it appears to on the surface. This Mind Money Divorce bonus episode explores why financial decisions feel so high-stakes, how money becomes tied to stability and identity, and where people unintentionally make decisions that create longer-term challenges. The goal isn’t to simplify the decisions—but to understand them more clearly, so you can approach them with less pressure and more intention.

2. 

   3 Apr 2026

   Bonus Episode: Stability is the Goal

   You don’t need to solve everything—you need to steady yourself. When divorce starts to feel overwhelming, the instinct is often to fix everything at once. To respond, react, and try to regain control quickly. But that approach usually creates more pressure—not less. In this episode, we look at how to create stability when things feel uncertain, what actually helps you think more clearly, and where people unintentionally make things harder in an effort to feel better. Because stabilizing yourself isn’t about doing more—it’s about doing the right things, at the right pace.

3. 

   28 Mar 2026

   Bonus Episode: The First 72 hours

   The first 72 hours after a conversation, a realization, or a decision around divorce can feel disorienting. Nothing is finalized—but something has clearly shifted. In this episode, we focus on what actually matters in those early moments. Not from a place of urgency, but from a place of stability. What tends to help, what tends to escalate things quickly, and how to create just enough clarity to avoid decisions that are hard to unwind later. Because in divorce, the beginning isn’t about solving everything—it’s about not making it harder than it needs to be.

4. 

   20 Mar 2026

   Standing Still Has Consequences

   Sometimes conflict doesn’t explode—it just…stops. No agreement, no progress, no movement. In this episode, we examine what happens when both sides dig in and nothing changes. The financial, emotional, and long-term costs of staying stuck—and why stalemate is often more damaging than people realize. Because not making a decision is still a decision. And it carries weight.

5. 

   13 Mar 2026

   The Fantasy of Good Intentions

   Almost everyone starts with the same idea: We’ll handle this reasonably. And yet, many people find themselves in conflict they aren't prepared for. In this episode, we explore why that expectation often collapses under real-world pressure—emotion, fear, uncertainty, and competing priorities. Not as a criticism, but as a reality check—and a more grounded way to think about what “reasonable” actually requires.

6. 

   6 Mar 2026

   What Escalation Actually Looks Like

   Escalation doesn’t always look like shouting or dramatic conflict. Sometimes it’s subtle—withdrawal, documentation, scorekeeping, silence. In this episode, we break down how escalation actually unfolds in real life. The patterns, the turning points, and the behaviors that signal things are intensifying, whether anyone says it out loud or not. Because once escalation starts, it tends to follow a path—and recognizing it early matters.

7. 

   27 Feb 2026

   Signs of Conflict Are There Earlier Than You Think

   Conflict rarely comes out of nowhere. There are patterns—quiet signals—that show up long before things formally break down. In this episode, we look at the early indicators of future disputes: communication patterns, financial dynamics, avoidance, control, and unspoken expectations. Not to assign blame—but to understand what tends to lead people here, and what might still be interruptible along the way.

8. 

   20 Feb 2026

   How People Who Were Once Close Become Enemies

   Most people don’t expect to end up here—seeing someone they once loved as the opponent. This episode traces the subtle, often predictable path from connection to conflict. The small shifts, misunderstandings, and protective instincts that build over time until the relationship feels unrecognizable. Because becoming adversaries isn’t usually one big moment—it’s a series of smaller ones that go unchecked.

9. 

   13 Feb 2026

   Why People Are Fighting About Different Things

   On the surface, it looks like a disagreement about money, custody, or logistics. But underneath, something else is driving the conflict. In this episode, we unpack why people in high-stakes disputes are often arguing about entirely different things—fairness vs. security, control vs. respect, fear vs. stability. And why conversations keep breaking down when no one realizes they’re solving for different problems.

10. 

    6 Feb 2026

    One Situation, Many Lenses

    Two people can walk through the same relationship, the same moment, even the same conversation—and come away with completely different interpretations of what happened. In this episode, we explore how perspective shapes reality in conflict. Why each person feels certain they’re “right,” and how those competing lenses quietly fuel escalation. Because once you understand that you’re not arguing over the same version of events, the entire conflict starts to look different.

11. 

    31 Jan 2026

    How Conflict Escalates When People Aren’t Ready

    When Conflict Turns Into Escalation — and Why Timing Matters In this episode of Love, Death & Disputes, Alison Hall explores how ordinary conflict quietly turns into escalation — often before anyone realizes it’s happening. You’ll hear why escalation isn’t about being unreasonable or combative, but about feeling threatened, rushed, or forced to resolve the future before fully absorbing loss. The episode examines how mismatched timing — between grief and decision-making, readiness and process — fuels rigidity, urgency, and breakdowns in communication during divorce, inheritance, and major life transitions. This conversation also looks at why escalation often feels rational from the inside, how systems unintentionally reinforce it, and why pushing for resolution too soon can backfire. This episode is about understanding what’s happening while it’s happening — so conflict doesn’t quietly become something harder to undo.

12. 

    24 Jan 2026

    Money is Never Just About Money

    Money is often where conflict shows up — but it’s rarely where it starts. In this episode of Love, Death & Disputes, Alison Hall explores why money so reliably becomes the battleground during divorce, inheritance, and major life transitions, and what it’s actually signaling when emotions run high. You’ll hear why people aren’t usually fighting about money, but through it — and how fear, loss, identity disruption, and perceived scarcity shape financial disputes long before escalation becomes visible. The episode also introduces the difference between ordinary conflict and escalation, explaining how well-intentioned people can slide into rigid positions while believing they’re simply being practical. This isn’t legal advice or tactical guidance. It’s clarity — before positions harden and damage becomes harder to undo.

13. 

    16 Jan 2026

    Why Smart People End Up in Terrible Fights Over Love, Death, and Money

    Major life transitions like divorce and death often pull people into conflicts they never anticipated — and don’t recognize themselves inside. These conflicts rarely arise from ignorance or bad intent. They arise when fear, loss, identity disruption, and unresolved history collide with systems that force decisions before people are ready. In this episode, we explore the paradox at the heart of these disputes: why intelligent, capable, well-intentioned people behave in ways that feel out of character, escalate instead of resolve, and make decisions they later regret. We look beneath the surface of “money fights” to examine what’s really driving them — and why these conflicts are far more predictable than people realize. This episode sets the foundation for the series by reframing conflict not as personal failure, but as a patterned human response to vulnerability, loss, and perceived threat.

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