Love Journey

About Love Journey

Love Journey is the podcast for women who love God and want a lasting, meaningful, and committed relationship. If you’re done with casual dating and ready to build something real, this show is for you. Each week, your host, Elana Patton—Christian Love Life Coach and founder of Love Journey XO—guides you through honest, faith-based conversations about dating, relationships, and preparing for marriage. You’ll learn how to break old cycles, set new godly standards, date with real discernment, and root your future relationship in Christ. Because here, it’s about more than just finding love. It’s about building it the right way—God’s way. Get ready to grow, heal, and prepare for the relationship you’ve been praying for. Follow Love Journey and never miss an episode.

Publisher

Elana Patton

Category

education · religion & spirituality · society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

18 Jul 2025

Latest episode

30 Oct 2025

Latest episodes

16 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   30 Oct 2025

   What We Learned About Love, Healing & Readiness (Season Recap)

   Sis, what a season. From healing old heartbreaks to learning how to date with discernment, we went deep this season—and now it’s time to look back and reflect on how far we've come. In this wrap-up episode of Season 1, I’m walking you through the three major themes we explored: 1: Healing Is the First Step Toward Healthy Love 2: Personal Readiness Comes Before Relationship Readiness 3: Discernment Is Your Dating Superpower 📣 BIG NEWS Love Journey is coming to WDJY 99.1 FM radio starting January 2026 as part of a new partnership with Hype Media Global! We'll shift from 15-minute episodes to a full hour format with deeper teaching, live segments, and real stories. Don’t worry—you’ll still be able to listen on Apple, Spotify, and YouTube just like always. NEXT STEPS: 👉 🎧 Catch up on missed episodes Go back and binge the Prepare for Love series or revisit your favorite teaching. 👉 📥 Download the FREE Resources Heal Then Love Workbook (https://drive.google.com/file/d/1c3mUI-vTN5VDpUKqPQuVjS5phxZAmigd/view) Prepare for Love Series Guide (https://drive.google.com/file/d/1LWk_-AptO8WyA0zZJ3R1d2aXFMt0I3ol/view) 👉 📞 Book a Free Love Journey Clarity Call Book Now (https://app.paperbell.com/checkout/packages/144500) 👉 📝 Take the Listener Survey Your voice matters. Help shape Season 2 and the upcoming radio format: Click to take the survey (https://forms.gle/qH3mEDWnbuB8XiUN6) 👉 📢 Rate, Review & Subscribe On Apple: From the show page, scroll to the bottom, leave 5 stars + a short review On Spotify: From the show page, tap the three dots → “Rate Show.” On YouTube: Subscribe to the channel, like, and comment on the episodes.

2. 

   24 Oct 2025

   Healing What Still Hurts: 4 Steps to Break Free from Past Pain

   Heartbreak can leave behind more than memories—it can leave wounds that distort your self-worth, faith in love, and trust in your discernment. In this powerful episode, we’re confronting the unresolved pain from past relationships that keeps you guarded, confused, or afraid to love again. Elana walks you through four healing steps rooted in biblical truth and emotional wisdom—so you can finally let go of what hurt you and make room for what God has for you. You’ll learn how to: Name the real wound so it can be treated, not repeated Grieve with God and not in isolation Reset your identity in Christ (not your past) Rebuild boundaries and date with peace, not pressure You don’t have to carry the old pain into your future. There is healing. There is hope. And yes, there is love after heartbreak. 🔁 Next Steps ❤️ Loved this episode? Here’s how to stay connected: ✍️ Leave a review on Apple or Spotify—it helps more sisters find the show! 📥 Download the free Heal, Then Love workbook to start your healing journey: click to download (https://drive.google.com/file/d/1c3mUI-vTN5VDpUKqPQuVjS5phxZAmigd/view) 💬 Share it with a friend who’s still hurting from a past relationship.

3. 

   16 Oct 2025

   “Where Are the Godly Men? How God Prepares You Before He Sends Him”

   “Where are all the godly men?” is a real question—but it might not be the right one. In this episode, Alana reframes the search by focusing on alignment, readiness, and becoming. Before God brings two people together, He prepares two hearts. We walk through spiritual, emotional, relational, and purpose readiness; the difference between positioning to be seen vs. to be recognized (Ruth/Boaz); and how to renew your mind so peace replaces pressure while you wait. You’ll learn: Why alignment with God precedes alignment with a man The difference between desire and readiness (spiritual, emotional, relational, purposeful) How Ruth’s life positioned her to be recognized, not just noticed What true beauty looks like (1 Peter 3:3–4; strength under control, peace over performance) Practical rhythms to “renew your mind” (Rom. 12:2) so you can wait well Scripture references: Prov. 3:5–6; Matt. 6:33; Gal. 5:22–23; Ps. 37:4; Ruth 2:11–12; 1 Pet. 3:3–4; Prov. 31:25; Rom. 12:2 ✅ Checkpoint Challenge (from the episode) Do an Alignment Inventory with God. Ask Him to show you one thing in each area—and take one step this week to realign. Spiritually: Where am I trusting God—and where am I still trying to control the outcome? Emotionally: Is there a wound or a fear I still need to surrender? Relationally: Am I showing love, forgiveness, and healthy boundaries with the people already in my life? Purposefully: Am I walking in what God called me to do—or waiting for someone else to give me permission? ➡️ Then write one step for each area to realign your heart with God this week. 📌 Next Steps ⭐ Leave a review on Apple/Spotify—it helps more sisters find the show. 📞 Book a free Love Journey Clarity Call Click to schedule clarity call (https://app.paperbell.com/checkout/packages/144500) to get personalized next steps. 💌 Send questions to hello@lovejourneypodcast.com. (mailto:hello@lovejourneypodcast.com.) for future Q&As.

4. 

   9 Oct 2025

   Signs He’s Serious About Marriage (Not Just Dating for Fun)

   Have you ever thought a man was serious—only to be left confused or heartbroken? In this episode of Love Journey, we’re talking about how to discern when a man is truly serious about marriage versus when he’s just dating casually. Elana shares powerful insight on what spiritual discernment looks like, how to evaluate a man’s fruit, and why words without action are not enough. If you’ve ever second-guessed your judgment in dating, this episode will give you clarity, wisdom, and peace. You’ll learn: The #1 reason why discernment is essential for Christian women dating for marriage What Jeremiah 17:9–10 teaches us about trusting our hearts How to test if his fruit matches his intentions The danger of surface-level spirituality in dating How to invite God into the process of discernment ✅ Checkpoint Challenge For the Week Ask God to reveal what only He can see. Stay in prayer and ask Him to expose anything hidden and confirm what’s true. While you observe the man in front of you, keep seeking the God above you. Let your discernment come from the One who searches hearts and sees what you cannot. 🔗 Next Steps: Book a free Love Journey Clarity Call to talk through your dating situation with Elana.Click to schedule clarity call (https://app.paperbell.com/checkout/packages/144500) Have a question you want answered on the show? Email: hello@lovejourneypodcast.com. (mailto:hello@lovejourneypodcast.com.) Leave a Review – If today’s episode blessed you, let us know by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts. Subscribe on YouTube – Hit the bell so you never miss an episode. Share it with a sister – Know someone who needs this message? Text them the link and bless their journey too.

5. 

   2 Oct 2025

   Dating Red Flags Every Christian Woman Should Pay Attention To.

   Have you ever seen red flags but stayed anyway—hoping things would change? In this heart‑to‑heart episode of Love Journey, Elana dives into the power of discernment in dating. Discover why Christian women often ignore red flags, how to recognize them early, and how to respond with wisdom, courage, and faith. If you’re dating with marriage in mind, this episode is your roadmap to clarity instead of confusion—so you can protect your heart before you give it away. You’ll Learn: Why we ignore red flags emotionally, psychologically, and spiritually The most common red flags Christian women must watch for How to respond to red flags with wisdom, boundaries, and faith How to anchor your dating decisions in God’s truth, not just your emotions ✨ Checkpoint Challenge: Grab your journal and answer these four questions: What red flags have I ignored in my past—and why? Are there any red flags I’m minimizing in my current relationship? What fruit am I actually seeing in this person’s life? Am I asking God for wisdom, or just hoping things work out? Let this reflection help you discern clearly and walk in peace. Next Steps: 💬Leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify—your words help more women find this sisterhood. If you listen to the podcast on YouTube, subscribe to the channel. Please leave a comment or like this episode. Doing these things will help to get the podcast in front of more people. 📧Got a question for Elana? Email hello@lovejourneypodcast.com. (mailto:hello@lovejourneypodcast.com.) to have it answered on a future episode. Want to work with Elana? Book a free Love Journey Clarity Call. Click to schedule clarity call (https://app.paperbell.com/checkout/packages/144500)

6. 

   25 Sept 2025

   Attraction Isn’t Enough: How to Date with Clarity, Not Just Chemistry

   You’re excited. The butterflies are real. But deep down, you’re not sure if it’s love—or just chemistry. In this episode of Love Journey, Elana unpacks the emotional, spiritual, and neurological side of attraction and how to stay clear-eyed when dating for marriage. You’ll learn the difference between connection and compatibility, how to evaluate the man you’re dating (or thinking about dating), and why feelings should never be the only guide. If you’ve ever rushed into a relationship, ignored red flags, or stayed too long because of “what you felt,” this episode will shift everything. 💡 What You’ll Learn: Why attraction is real—but not always reliable What happens in your brain during early dating (and why it’s so intense) The 5 evaluation filters every Christian woman should use when dating How to assess spiritual maturity, emotional health, compatibility, and future alignment What Galatians 5 and 2 Corinthians 6:14 reveal about dating with discernment 🛑 Checkpoint Challenge: 📝 Create Your Clear-Eyed Dating Filter List the top 5 traits you desire in a godly husband. Reflect: Are you living out these same traits? Choose one area to evaluate (Compatibility, Relationship Dynamics, Individual Character, Future Alignment, or Spiritual Maturity). Apply this lens to your current or past dating relationship. Ask the Holy Spirit: Have I been led by truth or just emotion? Let this reflection guide your next step in love with faith and clarity. ✨ Next Steps: 🔥 Book a free Clarity Call to talk through your dating situation with Elana. Click to schedule clarity call (https://app.paperbell.com/checkout/packages/144500) 💬 Have a question you want answered on the show? Email: hello@lovejourneypodcast.com. (mailto:hello@lovejourneypodcast.com.) ⭐ Leave a review on Apple or Spotify & share this episode with a friend!

7. 

   18 Sept 2025

   Clarity Over Confusion: Is He Serious or Wasting Your Time?

   How do you know if he’s serious about building a future with you—or if he’s just enjoying the benefits of your presence with no real plan for commitment? In this heart-to-heart Q&A episode, we’re answering two real listener questions: How can you tell when a man is serious and not just stringing you along? What should you do when you've been dating someone for years… and there’s still no ring? Elana offers biblically grounded, practical wisdom to help you discern intentions, set healthy standards, and stop wasting emotional energy on relationships with no direction. If you’ve ever felt stuck in confusion or been afraid of asking for clarity—this episode is your breakthrough. What You'll Learn: 4 signs a man is serious about you How to recognize the difference between commitment and convenience What to do if your relationship has stalled without a plan for marriage A biblical framework for clarity conversations The power of honoring your values, even if it means walking away Checkpoint Challenge: 📝 Write out your definition of a “serious man” in dating. ✍️ Make a list of 5–7 clear behaviors that represent commitment to you. 📅 Set a checkpoint on your calendar (60 or 90 days) to reflect on whether the relationship is progressing—or if it’s time to part ways. Next Steps: 💌 Got a question you want answered on the show? Email: hello@lovejourneypodcast.com. (mailto:hello@lovejourneypodcast.com.) 🌟 If this episode blessed you, don’t forget to: Leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify! Share with a sister who’s ready for clarity in love Follow the show for more weekly encouragement and wisdom

8. 

   11 Sept 2025

   Don’t Lose Yourself in Love: Boundaries That Protect

   What would it look like to date in a way that actually protects your heart? In this powerful finale of the PREPARE for Love series, Elana shares how to set healthy boundaries in dating—so you don’t lose yourself in the name of love. Whether you’ve ever overgiven emotionally, said yes too often, or felt drained trying to “prove” your worth in a relationship… this episode is your reset. ✨ You’ll learn: Why boundaries are God’s idea (see Proverbs 4:23) The 5 must-have boundaries for dating with wisdom Real examples of what emotional, physical, digital, social, and financial boundaries sound like. How to communicate and enforce your standards with confidence and clarity. 🛡️ Boundaries don’t push people away—they position you to experience love that is mutual, honoring, and aligned with God’s design. ✅ CHECKPOINT CHALLENGE: This week, your challenge is to: Write down: 1 Emotional Boundary 1 Physical Boundary 1 Digital Boundary 2. Share them with someone you trust who can lovingly hold you accountable. Let them be your safe place as you grow in dating with intention and wisdom. 📥 NEXT STEPS: 📘 Get the FREE Prepare for Love Workbook This companion guide includes all 7 steps from the series, Bible verses, journaling prompts, and space for your Checkpoint Challenges: 👉Get Prepare for Love Workbook here (https://subscribepage.io/Blkgog) 📝 Leave a Review If this series has blessed you, let the world know! Your review helps more women discover the podcast and walk their Love Journey. 💖 Leave a review on Apple or Spotify today! 📩 Have a Question for Elana? Send your dating or relationship question to 💌 hello@lovejourneypodcast.com. (mailto:hello@lovejourneypodcast.com.)

9. 

   4 Sept 2025

   “Dating With Old Wounds? Here’s How to Start Healing with God”

   What if what’s holding you back in love isn’t bad luck—but unhealed pain? In Episode 7 of the Love Journey Podcast, we’re talking about one of the most powerful steps in the PREPARE for Love framework: resolving past hurts. Because until we let God heal the hidden wounds of rejection, betrayal, or heartbreak, they’ll quietly shape how we date, who we choose, and what we believe we deserve. Through Scripture, reflection, and personal testimony, Elana shows how healing from the inside out is key to walking into a relationship that reflects God’s best for you. ✨ What You’ll Learn: How unhealed pain shows up in dating (and how to recognize it) The lies heartbreak teaches you—and how to replace them with truth How cognitive distortions from past relationships warp your self-worth The Scriptures that speak directly to your pain 6 practical steps to begin healing emotionally and spiritually. A powerful checkpoint challenge and healing prayer to guide your next step ✅ Checkpoint Challenge (Your Weekly Action Step): Journal with God – Ask: “Lord, what lie did I start believing because of my past?” Replace the lie with truth – Find Scripture and declare it daily. Speak this out loud: “God, I want to live from your truth, not my trauma. Heal what is hidden, rewire what was warped, and help me prepare for the love you have for me.” 💌 Got a Question? Email your love, dating, or relationship questions to: hello@lovejourneypodcast.com. (mailto:hello@lovejourneypodcast.com.) You may hear your question answered in an upcoming Q&A episode! 📌 Next Steps: Missed Episode 6? Listen to “Love Isn’t Enough: Why Alignment Matters” Episode 8 wraps up the PREPARE series with a powerful word on boundaries—don’t miss it! Share this episode with a sister who’s walking through heartbreak or holding onto unhealed pain. Follow me on Instagram @lovejourneyxoxo (https://lovejourneyxoxo/) or Facebook @lovejourneyxo (https://www.facebook.com/lovejourneyxo) for weekly encouragement and updates. Listen on YouTube @lovejourneyxo (https://www.youtube.com/@lovejourneyxo) Remember: God’s way isn’t always the quickest… But it is the way that leads to a love that lasts. 💕

10. 

    28 Aug 2025

    Love Isn’t Enough: Why Faith, Values & Calling Must Align

    You can be deeply in love with someone and still be completely misaligned. In today’s episode, we’re diving into the fifth step of the PREPARE for Love Series framework: Alignment of Faith, Values, and Calling. Because let’s be real—chemistry can’t carry a marriage. If your spiritual foundation, core values, and life direction don’t line up, love alone won’t be enough to hold you together. In this episode, we’re talking biblical truth, real-life lessons, and how to fix your “picker” by learning to recognize true alignment. ✨ What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why 2 Corinthians 6:14 and Amos 3:3 matter deeply in dating The biggest mistake Christian women make when assessing compatibility The 3 alignment pillars you MUST check before moving forward 1. Faith – Is Jesus truly Lord of his life? 2. Values – Do we agree on core life choices (family, money, roles)? 3. Calling—Are we moving in the same direction spiritually and practically How to stop relying on chemistry and start choosing with wisdom How alignment brings peace—and misalignment creates tension. ✅ Checkpoint Challenge (Your Weekly Action Step): Ask God in prayer: “Would this person help me walk more closely with Christ and pursue the calling on my life?” Write down what God reveals. And if you’re unsure, bring it to a mentor or spiritual friend for counsel. Clarity comes when you invite wise voices and God’s truth into the process. 💌 Got a Question for the Podcast? I’d love to hear what’s on your heart. Share your thoughts here (https://shareyourthoughtshere/) or email me at hello@lovejourneypodcast.com. (mailto:hello@lovejourneypodcast.com.) 📌 Don’t Miss This: Listen to Episode 5 on Purpose for Marriage if you missed it. It lays the foundation for why alignment matters so much. Episode 7 is coming next—and we’ll be talking about resolving past hurts so your future isn’t shaped by your old wounds.

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    21 Aug 2025

    If Your Reason for Marriage Is Wrong, Your Choices Will Be Too”

    If your reason for marriage is just “to be happy,” you might be missing the point. In this episode, we unpack the fourth step in the PREPARE for Love That Lasts series: Purpose for Marriage. Because when your why is off, your choices will be too. I’m sharing how God completely transformed my understanding of marriage—from something I thought would complete me to a spiritual calling that reflects His covenant love. If you’ve ever felt confused about what marriage is really for, this episode will bring clarity, conviction, and encouragement. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: The difference between worldly and biblical views of marriage What Ephesians 5 teaches us about the true purpose of marriage 6 biblical reasons God created marriage—and why they still matter What it looks like to date with a “marriage mindset” that honors God The questions you should be asking before choosing a partner How to align your desire for marriage with God's heart and timing Key Takeaway: “Marriage isn’t just about finding someone to love—it’s about creating a covenant that reflects how Christ loves us.” Checkpoint Challenge (Your Weekly Action Step): This week, take time to write out your personal WHY for marriage. Then ask yourself: “Are my reasons in line with God’s design for love and marriage?” If they aren’t, surrender them in prayer and ask God to align your heart with His purpose. I Want to Hear From You. Got something you want me to cover in the Q&A episode after this series? Share your thoughts here (https://shareyourthoughtshere/) or email me at hello@lovejourneypodcast.com. (mailto:hello@lovejourneypodcast.com.) Next Steps: Go back and listen to Episode 4 on character & emotional maturity—it sets the tone for this one. Subscribe so you don’t miss Episode 6, where we’ll talk about alignment in faith and calling—because love isn’t enough without shared purpose. Share this episode with a friend who’s praying for marriage but may need a deeper understanding of God’s design.

12. 

    14 Aug 2025

    Would You Marry You? Why Character & Emotional Maturity Matter in Love and Marriage

    Marriage won’t fix your character flaws—it will magnify them. In today’s episode, we’re diving into the third step of the PREPARE framework: Examine Your Character. This episode is all about the inner work—because emotional maturity, spiritual growth, and Christlike character are non-negotiables for a godly, lasting marriage. You’ll learn why doing this work now (before marriage) is one of the best gifts you can give your future husband… and your future self. Whether you’ve been dating, healing, or waiting, this is the growth episode your heart has been needing. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why marriage magnifies who you already are (it doesn’t magically make you better) The truth about emotional maturity and what it looks like biblically How to identify areas of character that God wants to grow in you The difference between reacting emotionally and responding with maturity 7 practical steps to grow in spiritual fruit and emotional health Why this kind of inner work prepares you for love—and helps you become the right partner Checkpoint Challenge (Your Weekly Action Step): Ask God this in prayer: “Lord, what fruit do you want to grow in my life right now?" Then choose one small step to take this week—maybe it’s meditating on Scripture, pausing before reacting, or journaling through your emotional triggers. Don’t wait for marriage to mature you. Let maturity prepare you for marriage. I Want to Hear From You. Got something you want me to cover in the Q&A episode after this series? Share your thoughts here (https://Shareyourthoughtshere) or email me at hello@lovejourneypodcast.com. (mailto:hello@lovejourneypodcast.com.) Next Steps: Missed Episode 3? Go back and listen to “Receive Community Counsel”—because we don’t grow in isolation. Subscribe now so you don’t miss Episode 5, where we’ll clarify your purpose for marriage. Share this episode with a sister who’s doing the deep inner work and preparing for God’s best in love.

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    7 Aug 2025

    Blind Spots in Dating: Why Community Can Save You Heartache.

    Sis, let’s be real—when you’re in love, it’s easy to miss things. The red flags. The warning signs. The subtle misalignments. That’s why you need trusted, godly people around you who aren’t afraid to tell you the truth… even when you don’t want to hear it. In this episode, we’re digging into Step 2 of the PREPARE for Love That Lasts series: Receive Community Counsel. You’ll hear how I learned this lesson the hard way (including the story of my mom’s “funny little feelings”), and why I believe wise voices are a gift from God to help protect your heart, confirm your discernment, and hold you up as you wait for God’s best. In this episode, we’ll cover: Why community isn’t optional when you’re preparing for marriage What the Bible really says about isolation, pride, and counsel How to recognize wise counsel versus emotional opinions What I wish I had listened to sooner in my dating journey 4 ways godly counsel will sharpen your love life A simple way to start inviting the right people into your relationship decisions Checkpoint Challenge (Your Weekly Action Step): This week, ask God to highlight one person who can be a wise voice in your love life. Then take the next step: 📲 Text them, set up a conversation, and ask, “Would you be willing to walk with me and speak into my relationship decisions?” ✨ Then promise yourself you’ll listen—even when it’s not what you want to hear. I Want to Hear From You! Okay sis, it’s your turn to talk to me! I don’t want this podcast to be one-sided—I want to hear your heart. 💌 Tell me: What’s one question you’ve been dying to ask about love, dating, or marriage? Or what’s one topic you want me to cover in a future episode? 👉 Share your thoughts here (https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdkcRxUW7DEPxUhjVKyy2Loq99hQnD3UUXtkgFEHf8RLTNu2g/viewform?usp=sharing&ouid=101120130832120638067) Or just send me a note at hello@lovejourneypodcast.com. (mailto:hello@lovejourneypodcast.com.) I’d love to hear from you! 📌 Next Steps: Missed Episode 2? Go listen to “Pursue God First”—it’s the foundation for all of this. Follow the show so you don’t miss Episode 4 (it's gonna be good—character check time 👀). Share this episode with a friend who is dating and needs a supportive community. Follow me on Instagram @lovejourneyxoxo (https://lovejourneyxoxo/) or Facebook @lovejourneyxo (https://www.facebook.com/lovejourneyxo) for weekly encouragement and updates. Remember: God’s way isn’t always the quickest… But it is the way that leads to a love that lasts.

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    31 Jul 2025

    Avoid the Wrong Relationships by Building the Right Foundation

    Episode Summary: This episode kicks off our The Prepare for Love Series, a 7-part journey walking you through the exact steps God used to transform my love life and prepare me for the marriage I have today. We’re starting with the “P” in the PREPARE framework—Pursue God First—because everything else hinges on this foundation. If you’ve been feeling frustrated in your love life or tired of ending up with the wrong people, this episode will show you why putting God at the center is the key to lasting change. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why pursuing God first is the foundation for dating and marriage The danger of letting relationships, timelines, or marriage itself take God’s place What Matthew 6:33 teaches us about priority and trust Practical ways to put God first in your everyday life so you can date with peace and confidence Checkpoint Challenge (Your Weekly Action Step): This week, set aside quiet time with God and ask Him: “Lord, are you truly first in my life, or have I been putting other things above you?” Write down whatever He shows you, and if there’s something you need to surrender, surrender it. This isn’t about shame—it’s about realignment. I Want to Hear From You! Okay sis, it’s your turn to talk to me! I don’t want this podcast to be one-sided—I want to hear your heart. 💌 Tell me: What’s one question you’ve been dying to ask about love, dating, or marriage? Or what’s one topic you want me to cover in a future episode? 👉 Share your thoughts here (https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdkcRxUW7DEPxUhjVKyy2Loq99hQnD3UUXtkgFEHf8RLTNu2g/viewform?usp=sharing&ouid=101120130832120638067) Or just send me a note at hello@lovejourneypodcast.com. (mailto:hello@lovejourneypodcast.com.) I’d love to hear from you! Resources & Next Steps: Subscribe to the podcast so you don’t miss the upcoming episodes where we’ll go deeper into each of these three areas. Share this episode with a friend who needs encouragement in her love life. Follow me on Instagram @lovejourneyxoxo (https://lovejourneyxoxo/) or Facebook @lovejourneyxo (https://www.facebook.com/lovejourneyxo) for weekly encouragement and updates. Let’s Connect: If this episode blessed you, would you take a moment to leave a review? Your feedback helps more women find this space and prepares them for the love God has for them.

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    31 Jul 2025

    Why Your Love Life Feels Stuck (and How God Can Shift It)

    Episode Summary: In this very first episode of Love Journey, I’m opening my heart and sharing the story behind my own relationship journey—the heartbreak, the lessons, and the transformation that prepared me for the marriage I prayed for. We’re diving into why simply wanting marriage isn’t enough and how God uses seasons of surrender, healing, and growth to prepare us for the love He has for us. If you’ve ever felt frustrated with your love life or wondered why it hasn’t happened for you yet, this episode will remind you that God’s plans are always good—and His timing is perfect. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why desiring marriage alone isn’t enough to build a lasting relationship The importance of surrendering your will and timing to God How my season of heartbreak became the foundation for the marriage I have today The three key areas that change everything in your love life: Personal Readiness—Letting God heal and grow you first Partner Selection—Learning to choose wisely with discernment Relationship Education—Gaining biblical and practical tools for a marriage that lasts Checkpoint Challenge (Your Weekly Action Step): This week, ask God in prayer: Lord, what do you want to heal or grow in me?” Write down what He places on your heart and allow Him to begin shaping you for the love He has for you. I Want to Hear From You! Okay sis, it’s your turn to talk to me! I don’t want this podcast to be one-sided—I want to hear your heart. 💌 Tell me: What’s one question you’ve been dying to ask about love, dating, or marriage? Or what’s one topic you want me to cover in a future episode? 👉 Share your thoughts here (https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdkcRxUW7DEPxUhjVKyy2Loq99hQnD3UUXtkgFEHf8RLTNu2g/viewform?usp=sharing&ouid=101120130832120638067) Or just send me a note at hello@lovejourneypodcast.com. (mailto:hello@lovejourneypodcast.com.) I’d love to hear from you! Resources & Next Steps: Subscribe to the podcast so you don’t miss the upcoming episodes where we’ll go deeper into each of these three areas. Share this episode with a friend who needs encouragement in her love life. Follow me on Instagram @lovejourneyxoxo (https://@lovejourneyxoxo) or Facebook @lovejourneyxo (https://www.facebook.com/lovejourneyxo) for weekly encouragement and updates. Let’s Connect: If this episode blessed you, would you take a moment to leave a review? Your feedback helps more women find this space and prepares them for the love God has for them.

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    18 Jul 2025

    Love Journey Trailer

    Love Journey is the podcast for women who love God and long for a lasting, meaningful relationship. If you’re done with casual dating and ready to build something real, this show is for you. Each week, your host, Elana Patton—Christian Love Life Coach and founder of Love Journey XO—guides you through honest, faith-based conversations about dating, relationships, and preparing for marriage. You’ll learn how to break old cycles, set new godly standards, date with real discernment, and root your future relationship in Christ. Because here, it’s about more than just finding love. It’s about building it the right way—God’s way. Get ready to grow, heal, and prepare for the relationship you’ve been praying for. Follow Love Journey and never miss an episode.

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