by Gabriel and Kristina Zachary
New Episode every Thursday High conversations in a Luxury Noir setting. LSM On The Rocks is a sophisticated, non-preachy deconstruction of love, sex, and marriage. Hosts Gabriel and Kristina Zachary take on the controversial topics that other couples are afraid to discuss. Calm, honest, and direct. Join us for a drink and a real conversation. Watch us on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LSMOnTheRocks
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April 24, 2026
<p>Watch it on YT: <a href="https://youtu.be/uPDXMXPOnfc" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">https://youtu.be/uPDXMXPOnfc</a></p><p>Most people want a simple yes or no on porn. This episode doesn’t let them off that easy.</p><p>We get into the real argument: porn may not automatically be cheating, but that does not make it harmless. If it violates the agreement inside the relationship, it becomes betrayal. And even when both people allow it, that still leaves bigger questions about trust, addiction, fantasy, fake expectations, and what it does to real intimacy over time.</p><p>We also get into the darker side of the conversation people love to ignore: the porn industry itself, the way porn can become a crutch, why some people mistake stimulation for freedom, and why what feels “normal” can quietly start running your life.</p><p>This episode is less about being politically correct and more about being honest.</p><p><br></p><p>New Episodes: Every Thursday</p><p>Subscribe and join the discussion.</p><p><br></p><p>Drink of the Month: Cowboy Carajillo — a decadent caffeinated cocktail from The Esquire Tavern in San Antonio featuring bonded bourbon, vanilla, espresso, banana, and morello cherry. A twist on the traditional Spanish carajillo.</p><p><br></p><p>About the Hosts: Gabriel and Kristina are San Antonio realtors, business partners, and architects of a blended family of four children. Both on their second marriage, they founded Love, Sex & Marriage… On The Rocks to provide a no-fluff, analytical deep dive into the structures that make modern partnerships work.</p><p><br></p><p>Contact:</p><p>info@gabrielandkristina.com</p><p>https://www.gabrielandkristina.com/</p><p><br></p><p>Disclaimer: Love, Sex & Marriage... On The Rocks is for informational and entertainment purposes only. Gabriel and Kristina are not licensed mental health professionals, therapists, or legal advisors. The content of this podcast involves mature themes and adult language; it is not intended for or suitable for children. We advocate for moderation and insist that our viewers drink responsibly.</p><p><br></p><p>Chapters:</p><p>00:01:00 Intro + Cowboy Carajillo</p><p>00:01:46 Is porn considered cheating?</p><p>00:03:02 Cheating vs betrayal</p><p>00:04:34 When porn is allowed — and when it isn’t</p><p>00:06:12 Porn as a gateway when relationships get weak</p><p>00:07:33 Why intention matters</p><p>00:08:33 “I thought you were trying to control me”</p><p>00:09:31 Why full focus mattered in this relationship</p><p>00:11:00 The dark side of the porn industry</p><p>00:11:42 Porn creates fake expectations about sex</p><p>00:12:41 Why sex felt more intense without porn</p><p>00:14:30 Ethical porn, nuance, and sex positivity</p><p>00:15:14 Men, porn, and the “we have needs” argument</p><p>00:16:30 Why porn becomes a crutch</p><p>00:18:30 Sexual energy, celibacy, and discipline</p><p>00:20:50 “I felt free… but I was chained”</p><p>00:22:28 How men talk about porn — and how to help</p><p>00:24:53 Final verdict: agreement, betrayal, and cheating</p><p>#IsPornCheating #PornInMarriage #RelationshipBoundaries #MarriageDebate #FakeIntimacy #QuietBetrayal #PornAddiction #ModernMarriage #IntimacyIssues #EmotionalBetrayal #MarriagePodcast #LoveSexMarriageOnTheRocks #SecondMarriage #BlendedFamily #RelationshipTruths</p>
April 17, 2026
<p>Watch it on YouTube: <a href="https://youtu.be/WFYtOx_HmYE" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">https://youtu.be/WFYtOx_HmYE</a></p><p><br></p><p>Everybody says jealousy is toxic. This episode pushes back.We get into the uncomfortable truth that a little jealousy can actually be healthy — and that pretending you’re above it, unfazed by it, or “too cool” to care can be its own kind of performance. We talk about where jealousy comes from, when it signals care and protection, and when it crosses the line into insecurity, control, and disrespect.We also get into one of the most debatable parts of the conversation: the “cool girl” persona, mutual boundaries, flirting vs compliments, and why some people feel pressured to tolerate behavior they’re clearly not okay with.If you’ve ever wondered whether jealousy is toxic… or whether zero jealousy is actually a red flag, this episode is going to start a conversation.New Episodes: Every ThursdaySubscribe and join the discussion.Drink of the Month: Cowboy Carajillo — a decadent caffeinated cocktail from The Esquire Tavern in San Antonio featuring bonded bourbon, vanilla, espresso, banana, and morello cherry. A twist on the traditional Spanish carajillo.Gabriel and Kristina are San Antonio realtors, business partners, and architects of a blended family of four children. Both on their second marriage, they founded Love, Sex & Marriage… On The Rocks to provide a no-fluff, analytical deep dive into the structures that make modern partnerships work.Contactinfo@gabrielandkristina.com<a href="https://www.gabrielandkristina.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">https://www.gabrielandkristina.com/</a>Chapters:00:01:11 Jealousy, control, or territory?00:02:00 Is a little jealousy healthy?00:02:39 The bar story that changed everything00:05:32 “Get your hands off my man”00:08:00 Why Gabriel saw that as love, not control00:10:30 Territorial vs jealous00:13:25 When jealousy is healthy — and when it becomes control00:14:59 Dressing sexy, protection, and “time and place”00:16:18 The difference between compliments and flirting00:18:43 The “cool girl” who pretends she’s never jealous00:20:05 Are men forced to tolerate disrespect?00:22:21 Mutual boundaries and different relationship styles00:23:08 Final verdict: healthy jealousy vs toxic jealousyDisclaimerLove, Sex & Marriage... On The Rocks is for informational and entertainment purposes only. Gabriel and Kristina are not licensed mental health professionals, therapists, or legal advisors. The content of this podcast involves mature themes and adult language; it is not intended for or suitable for children. We advocate for moderation and insist that our viewers drink responsibly.#Jealousy #RelationshipJealousy #MarriageDebate #ModernMarriage #RelationshipBoundaries #ToxicJealousy #HealthyJealousy #CouplesCommunication #LoveSexMarriageOnTheRocks #MarriagePodcast #BlendedFamily #SecondMarriage #RelationshipTruths #MenVsWomen #DatingDoubleStandards</p>
April 10, 2026
<p>Watch it on YT: https://youtu.be/Fo7EToqkE0M</p><p><br></p><p>The Hidden Problem With Couples Who “Never Fight”Most people think fighting is a red flag. We think pretending everything is fine is worse.In this episode, we get into the uncomfortable truth that couples who “never fight” may not be healthy at all; they may be avoiding, suppressing, disconnecting, or quietly building resentment. We break down the difference between healthy conflict and destructive conflict, when arguments actually help a relationship grow, and when silence becomes the bigger danger.We also talk about what makes conflict toxic: going below the belt, forcing resolution too fast, walking away the wrong way, making your partner feel abandoned, and treating each other like opponents instead of teammates trying to solve a problem.If you’ve ever been told fighting means your relationship is broken, this episode pushes back hard.New Episodes: Every ThursdaySubscribe and join the conversation.Drink of the Month: Cowboy CarajilloThe Cowboy Carajillo at The Esquire Tavern in San Antonio is a decadent, caffeinated cocktail featuring bonded bourbon, vanilla, espresso, banana, and morello cherry. It is a twist on the traditional Spanish carajillo, which usually consists of espresso and Licor 43. Typical Cowboy Carajillo Ingredients & Profile:- Spirit: Bonded Bourbon (for a higher proof, bolder flavor).- Coffee: Fresh Espresso.- Sweetener/Flavor: Vanilla, Banana, and Morello Cherry (adds complexity to the standard Licor 43 base).- Style: Shaken, served over ice.Gabriel and Kristina are San Antonio realtors, business partners, and architects of a blended family of four children. Both on their second marriage, they founded Love, Sex & Marriage… On The Rocks to provide a no-fluff, analytical deep dive into the structures that make modern partnerships work.Contactinfo@gabrielandkristina.comhttps://www.gabrielandkristina.com/DisclaimerLove, Sex & Marriage... On The Rocks is for informational and entertainment purposes only. Gabriel and Kristina are not licensed mental health professionals, therapists, or legal advisors. The content of this podcast involves mature themes and adult language; it is not intended for or suitable for children. We advocate for moderation and insist that our viewers drink responsibly.Chapters:00:01:00 Is fighting a red flag?00:01:46 Stop calling it “fighting.”00:03:10 Conflict isn’t the problem — unresolved conflict is00:05:58 The hidden problem with couples who “never fight.”00:06:35 When fighting actually becomes a red flag00:08:16 No conflict can mean no growth00:10:39 Don’t go below the belt00:13:10 Why taking space can trigger abandonment00:15:09 Accountability, ego, and resolving faster00:17:07 “You’re not the problem.”00:19:11 Fear is driving more fights than people admit00:20:12 When outside advice makes things worse00:22:53 Final verdict: Is fighting healthy or not?#WeNeverFight #RelationshipRedFlags #HealthyConflict #MarriageDebate #ModernMarriage #CouplesCommunication #RelationshipTruths #EmotionalConflict #Resentment #MarriageProblems #SecondMarriage #BlendedFamily #MarriagePodcast #LoveSexMarriageOnTheRocks #ToxicRelationships</p>
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New Episode every Thursday
High conversations in a Luxury Noir setting. LSM On The Rocks is a sophisticated, non-preachy deconstruction of love, sex, and marriage. Hosts Gabriel and Kristina Zachary take on the controversial topics that other couples are afraid to discuss. Calm, honest, and direct. Join us for a drink and a real conversation.
Watch us on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LSMOnTheRocks
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