About LP Sessions: Leading from the Heart with Fifi and Meryn
LP Sessions: Leading from the Heart is a podcast from Leading Perspectives for emerging leaders, thinkers, and believers who want to grow from the inside out. In each episode, we explore honest conversations about life, leadership, faith, and how to bring transformation through the power of the gospel.
Differentiation: The Leadership Skill That Changes Everything (Ep 12)
What does it look like to lead without becoming controlled by the emotions, expectations and reactions around you?
In this episode of LP Sessions, Fifi and Meryn explore differentiated leadership, which includes the ability to remain connected to people while maintaining your own clarity, values and emotional stability.
The conversation explores:
• What differentiation actually means
• The difference between emotional fusion, disconnection and healthy differentiation
• How leaders can change the emotional atmosphere of a team or organisation
• Why emotional regulation matters for leadership• How organisational cultures reinforce reactivity
• What happens when your identity becomes tied to success, approval or performance
• Why challenging unhealthy systems can bring shame or resistance
• How pain and shame can reveal areas where we're not differentiated
• Practical ways to become a more differentiated leader
• Why healthy outside voices and relationships matter
• How the gospel provides a secure foundation for identity and leadership
Chapters:
00:00 What Is Differentiated Leadership?
02:38 Learning to See Yourself Clearly
03:49 Fused, Disconnected or Differentiated?
07:23 Can One Leader Change the Atmosphere?
09:15 Why Leaders Need Emotional Regulation
11:31 What a Differentiated Leader Looks Like
13:18 Why Is Differentiation So Hard?
15:25 Breaking Cycles of Reactivity
16:04 How Leaders Create Culture
17:19 When Your Identity Gets Entangled With Leadership
19:16 What Happens When You Challenge the Status Quo?
21:00 When Our Lack of Differentiation Hurts Others
22:17 How Do You Become a More Differentiated Leader?
24:59 Don't Ignore the Places That Hurt
25:42 The Role of Shame in Leadership
28:00 The Gospel and a Secure Identity
30:21 Where Do You Actually Begin?
31:45 Why You Need People Outside Your Situation
33:04 Learning to Know and Accept Yourself
34:27 Final Thoughts
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1 Jun 2026
Cultures that Heal
Most churches want to see people healed, restored, and transformed. So why do some church cultures seem to help people grow in wholeness, while others unintentionally leave people stuck?In this episode of the LP Sessions Podcast, we explore what it means to build cultures that heal.We discuss the difference between gospel doctrine and gospel culture, why identity and belonging are central to healing, how church environments can either support or hinder transformation, and what it looks like to create communities where the love of Christ is genuinely experienced—not just preached.Along the way, we unpack:• What culture really is and how it shapes people• Why the most undeserving should feel the most welcome• Gospel doctrine vs gospel culture• Safety, belonging, and emotional healing• How identity is restored through community• Different forces that shape church culture• How authentic leadership creates trust and transformationIf you're a church leader, disciple-maker, or someone passionate about seeing people grow in wholeness, this conversation will help you think more deeply about the environments we create and the kind of people they are producing.
00:00 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rxD_IGNqRZ4) Why Some Church Cultures Heal (and Others Don't)01:15 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rxD_IGNqRZ4&t=75s) Culture: The Way We Actually Live04:00 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rxD_IGNqRZ4&t=240s) Why This Conversation Matters07:00 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rxD_IGNqRZ4&t=420s) The People Who Feel Most Undeserving Should Feel Most Welcome09:28 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rxD_IGNqRZ4&t=568s) When Gospel Doctrine Doesn't Become Gospel Culture14:30 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rxD_IGNqRZ4&t=870s) What Women's Experiences Reveal About Church Culture18:27 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rxD_IGNqRZ4&t=1107s) The Role of Safety20:00 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rxD_IGNqRZ4&t=1200s) Why Identity Is Central to Healing23:20 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rxD_IGNqRZ4&t=1400s) How God Rewires Our Identity25:25 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rxD_IGNqRZ4&t=1525s) The Healing Power of Community28:00 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rxD_IGNqRZ4&t=1680s) Building a Culture That Heals30:14 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rxD_IGNqRZ4&t=1814s) The Influence of Idols in Church Culture32:31 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rxD_IGNqRZ4&t=1951s) Fear, Control & Performance-Based Christianity33:37 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rxD_IGNqRZ4&t=2017s) Authentic Leadership Creates Trust35:28 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rxD_IGNqRZ4&t=2128s) Equipping People for Wholeness37:33 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rxD_IGNqRZ4&t=2253s) Closing Reflections
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31 Mar 2026
Resonant Relationships
What do a tuning fork and our discipleship relationships have in common?
In this episode, Fifi and Meryn explore the concept of resonance and why it’s essential for genuine, lasting transformation.
27 Dec 2025
Leaders Who Get People: Personality, DISC Profiles & Leading People Well (Ep 9)
In this episode of LP Sessions, Fifi and Meryn explore why understanding how people are wired is essential for effective leadership. They unpack the value of personality awareness and introduce the DISC profiles as a practical tool for recognising different strengths, motivations, and communication styles.The conversation highlights how people are motivated in different ways, how those differences show up in teams, and why leaders who learn to lead beyond their own wiring are better equipped to draw out the best in others.
11 Dec 2025
Pioneering, Church Planting & Stepping Out in Courage - Part 2 (Ep 8)
Join us for Part 2 of our conversation with Dewald & Nicolene. In this episode, we continue exploring their journey of pioneering, family, ministry, and trusting God in the unknown.
Find them at @incouragechurch and @nicolene_du_plessis.
4 Dec 2025
Pioneering, Church Planting, and Stepping Out in Courage (Ep 7, Part 1)
This week on LP Sessions, we’re joined by our friends and pastors, Dewald and Nicolene, for the first of a two-part episode. They open up about the realities of pioneering from the ground up, the ups and downs of church planting, balancing family and ministry, and the personal journey that prepared them to lead.
20 Nov 2025
Discovering Your Identity and Walking in Purpose (Ep 6)
In this episode, we talk honestly about identity, purpose, and the internal work that often gets overlooked. We explore how our beliefs are formed, why confidence is so closely tied to identity, and what it looks like to grow through the things that hold us back. If you’re in a season of reflection, transition, or wanting to lead from a healthier place, this conversation offers clarity, encouragement, and space to rethink who you’re becoming.
00:00 – Welcome & intro
01:10 – Why identity matters more than we think
04:32 – Where our beliefs about ourselves come from
08:45 – The impact of false narratives
12:28 – Seeing identity through a Kingdom lens
16:02 – Internal healing and the slow work of growth
20:40 – How identity shapes purpose
24:50 – Practical ways to discern your purpose
29:22 – Walking in confidence without pretending
33:05 – Final reflections & encouragement
30 Oct 2025
Growing Your Leadership Capacity (Ep 5)
What does it really mean to grow your capacity as a leader — without burning out? Fifi and Meryn explore the balance between growth and authenticity, the seasons God uses to shape us, and how true capacity comes from stewardship, not striving.
Episode Chapters:
00:00 Introduction
01:00 Why Capacity Matters
04:30 How God Uses Pressure to Develop Resilience
07:00 Authenticity and Growth
10:00 Seasons of Healing vs Growth
14:00 The Danger of Overdrive
21:00 Alignment and Design
27:30 Capacity Killers
38:00 Prophecy, Vision, and Capacity
44:30 Redefining Capacity & Closing Reflections
21 Oct 2025
Crossing the Threshold: Navigating Transition with God (Ep 4)
Our first video episode is here! 🎥 We’re still finding our best angles — quite literally (sorry for the half-face moments 😅). Thanks for being part of the journey as we keep leveling up our setup and our storytelling!
We all go through seasons of change—but what about the in-between?
In this episode, Meryn and Fifi unpack what it means to navigate transitions—those “fifth seasons” where the old no longer fits, but the new hasn’t fully begun. They explore how to discern when a transition is happening, what God might be doing beneath the surface, and why these in-between moments are often where the deepest growth occurs.
From processing loss and discontent to recognizing when grace is lifting and courage is needed to step forward, this episode will help you read the season you’re in and walk through it with wisdom, faith, and hope.
If you’ve been feeling in-between—no longer who you were, but not yet who you’re becoming—this one’s for you.
00:45 What Is Transition?
02:20 The Four Seasons of Life (and Faith)
06:40 The Season Between Seasons
07:12 Signs You’re in Transition
10:45 When Grace Lifts and Wisdom Is Needed
13:20 God's Kindness in Disruption
15:30 Identity and Transition
17:40 God Is Upgrading You
21:30 Idols, Trust, and Letting Go
24:10 Fifi's Story of Transition
27:50 When Others Don’t Understand Your Shift
31:50 When Fruit Isn’t Visible
36:50 The Right People for the Season
38:05 Recognizing the Threshold
46:10 Facing the past and Stepping Forward
16 Oct 2025
Doing New Things: The Courage to Chart a Fresh Course (Ep 3)
Fifi and Meryn unpack the raw, often messy process of starting something new — the emotions, doubts, and courage it takes to pioneer with God. It’s a heartfelt conversation about faithfulness over perfection, and the importance of having the right voices — spiritual “midwives” — who help nurture what God is doing in and through you.If you’ve ever felt both the excitement and fear of stepping into a new season, this one’s for you.
Chapters:
00:00 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yK0vJq5drtw) Navigating the Emotional Landscape of New Beginnings
02:57 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yK0vJq5drtw&t=177s) The Role of Courage in Pioneering
05:50 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yK0vJq5drtw&t=350s) Journaling as a Tool for Clarity
08:57 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yK0vJq5drtw&t=537s) The Concept of Spiritual Midwifery
11:49 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yK0vJq5drtw&t=709s) The Messiness of Starting Something New
14:44 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yK0vJq5drtw&t=884s) Dealing with Past Failures and Voices of Doubt
17:37 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yK0vJq5drtw&t=1057s) Embracing Complexity in Personal Growth
20:30 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yK0vJq5drtw&t=1230s) The Importance of Supportive Voices
23:20 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yK0vJq5drtw&t=1400s) Carrying Dreams and Navigating Criticism
In this episode of LP Sessions, Fifi shares his journey from a shy, introverted child fascinated by leadership to navigating the real challenges of becoming one.
He opens up about facing rejection, wrestling with confidence, and learning to lead with authenticity.
Through his story, Fifi reminds us that leadership isn’t about personality or charisma — it’s about purpose, identity, and walking out the mission God has placed on your life.
8 Oct 2025
Learning to Lead in the Deep End: Meryn's Leadership Journey (Ep 1)
In this episode of LP Sessions, Meryn shares her leadership journey — from her early call to step up to lead to the challenges and growth that shaped her along the way.
She reflects on how self-awareness and personal healing have transformed her approach to leadership, and why rest and emotional health are essential for leading well.
This honest and grounded conversation offers encouragement and insight for young leaders learning to lead from wholeness.
8 Oct 2025
Coming Back to the Heart of Leadership (Ep 0)
Welcome to LP Sessions!
In this opening episode, Fifi redefines leadership through the lens of what Jesus taught — a model rooted not in power or position, but in purpose, humility, and transformation.
He breaks it down into three anchors: a different ambition, a different way, and a different source. This is the kind of leadership we’re called to — and it changes everything.
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