M.E.S.H.

About M.E.S.H.

Where your Mental, Emotion, and Social Health is always on the agenda!

Publisher

Dr. Pamela Brewer

Category

education · health & fitness

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

3 Sept 2025

Latest episode

7 Oct 2026

Latest episodes

60 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   7 Oct 2026

   Choice, Courage, Confidence: The Anatomy of Resilience

   What if fear didn't get to decide your next step—and resilience was simply a choice you could make again each morning? On this energizing episode of M.E.S.H., Dr. Pamela Brewer welcomes Michelle Kuei, founder of Elevate Life Coaching, for a conversation about courage, choice, and the quiet power of refusing to let expectations become your reality. 💛 Michelle shares the remarkable story of hiking 26 miles to the summit of Machu Picchu—on two crutches, at four feet four inches tall—and what that four-day journey taught her about belonging, possibility, and who she really is. Along the way, she offers her "Five C's" framework for building resilience, a practical reframing exercise anyone can try today, and a liberating truth: courage, like fear, is already inside you. This is a warm, galvanizing conversation for anyone who has ever felt too different, too afraid, or too anything to begin. 🌟 Topics Covered: How resilience begins with a single daily choice The Five C's: choice, commitment, courage, connection, confidence Lessons from hiking Machu Picchu on crutches Why fear and courage are both already within you Turning discomfort into useful information The role of accountability and community A simple reframing exercise for negative self-talk Moving from "comfortable" toward courageous Key takeaways: Resilience starts with recognizing the choices you make every single day. Courage isn't found outside you—it's already within, waiting to be cultivated. You can be fearful and courageous at the same time; fear doesn't have to decide. Discomfort is information, not a stop sign. Connection and accountability help you stick to the choices you make. You can reframe the story you tell yourself—one neutral or positive line at a time. Some questions I ask: What are your thoughts about how to overcome fear and build resilience? Can you tell us about hiking Machu Picchu on crutches? What did you learn about yourself at the end of that journey? Can you falter along the way, and what do you do then? You coach other coaches—help me understand that. Can you be courageous and fearful at the same time? What do you say to someone who feels too different, too old, or too afraid to begin? Learn more about our guest: Website: elevatelifecoaching.org (her story, her book, and her work as a marketing coach) Michelle Kuei is the founder of Elevate Life Coaching, a clinical pharmacist of over 20 years, an International Coach Federation–certified coach, author, speaker, and business and marketing coach for coaches Resource List: Books mentioned: Michelle Kuei's book (available via elevatelifecoaching.org) Programs mentioned: Elevate Life Coaching; business and marketing coaching for coaches patreon.com/meshjourney #Resilience #OvercomingFear #Courage #LifeCoaching #Mindset #PersonalGrowth #Confidence #Choice #MESHPodcast #PamelaBrewer #MichelleKuei #Empowerment #Dr.PamelaBrewer #Bravery

2. 

   30 Sept 2026

   The Trauma We Don't Call Trauma

   Show Notes What if the behavior we're quickest to punish is actually a wound asking to be understood? On this profound episode of M.E.S.H., Dr. Pamela Brewer welcomes Dr. Adam McCormick, a professor of social work at St. Edward's University, author, and facilitator of trauma and masculinity groups for boys and young men in the foster care and criminal legal systems. 💛 With deep compassion and clarity, Dr. McCormick reframes trauma not as the terrible things that happen to a young person, but as the wound left behind—and the stories a child constructs to make sense of it. He explains why boys so often push away the very connection they need to heal, how the most rigid institutions hold the most wounded young people, and why accountability and compassion can absolutely coexist. Through a striking story of a young man placed in 26 different foster homes, Dr. McCormick reveals both the depth of the harm and the profound hope at the center of his work: while we can't rewrite what happened, the meaning a young person makes of it is negotiable—and connection is what heals. This is a moving, illuminating conversation for parents, caregivers, helpers, and anyone who loves someone carrying old wounds. 🌟 Topics Covered: Understanding trauma as the wound, not just the event Why boys often can't access what they need to heal The stories traumatized children construct—and confirm How rigid, punitive systems deepen trauma Why boys are hungry, not reluctant, to open up Holding accountability and compassion together The brilliance of a child's survival adaptations Connection as the only true path to healing Key takeaways: Trauma is the  meaning we make of the wound—not simply the event itself. Boys often push away the connection they most need to heal. The most punitive systems tend to hold the most traumatized young people. Accountability and compassion can, and should, coexist. Connection and relationship are the only true path to healing trauma. Learn more about our guest: Book: "Healing the Helping Professional: The Unfinished Business of Childhood Trauma" Weekly author newsletter on trauma-related topics (linked via LinkedIn) LinkedIn: Dr. Adam McCormick https://www.stedwards.edu/directory/sociology-social-work/adam-mccormick (https://www.stedwards.edu/directory/sociology-social-work/adam-mccormick) Resource List: Books mentioned: "Healing the Helping Professional: The Unfinished Business of Childhood Trauma" by Dr. Adam McCormick Programs mentioned: Trauma and masculinity groups for boys and young men in foster care and criminal legal systems Organizations mentioned: St. Edward's University, Austin, Texas #Trauma #TraumaInformed #Masculinity #FosterCare #Healing #MentalHealth #BoysAndTrauma #Connection #MESHPodcast #PamelaBrewer #DrAdamMcCormick #ChildhoodTrauma

3. 

   23 Sept 2026

   Autism Across The Lifespan

   What does it really mean to be on the autism spectrum—and how can we build a world that meets people where they are? In this warm and illuminating episode of M.E.S.H., Dr. Pamela Brewer welcomes Alisha Simpson-Watt, a social worker, board-certified behavior analyst, author, and founder of Collaborative ABA Services. 💛 Drawing on both her professional expertise and her experience as the parent of a child on the spectrum, Alisha helps us understand autism as it truly is: not a one-size-fits-all diagnosis, but a spectrum that looks different across individuals and across a lifespan. She walks us through what autism can look like in children and adults, why early support matters, and how to talk about a diagnosis with family members who may be reluctant to hear it. Throughout, Alisha offers a message of grace and hope—reminding parents that a diagnosis is not their fault, that inclusion means adjusting our world rather than the person, and that focusing on a child's strengths changes everything. This is a compassionate, myth-busting conversation for parents, partners, employers, and anyone who wants to understand the spectrum more deeply. 🌟 Topics Covered: What autism is, and why it's understood as a spectrum How autism can present in children versus adults Recognizing developmental milestones and early signs Releasing parental blame and self-judgment Talking about a diagnosis with reluctant family members The meaning and value of true inclusion Reasonable accommodations at work and school What current science says about causes and vaccines Key takeaways: Autism is a spectrum—it looks different across individuals and across a lifespan. A diagnosis is not a parent's fault; give yourself grace and seek support early. Focusing on a child's strengths and needs is more helpful than focusing on a label. True inclusion means adjusting our environment and expectations, not the person. Reasonable accommodations are often simple, and protected by law. There is no scientific evidence linking vaccines to autism. Some questions I ask: What does it mean to be autistic, or to be on the spectrum? What does struggling with changes in routine actually look like? Are there adults on the spectrum, and how might it present? How early can a child be diagnosed, and what should parents watch for? Is an autism diagnosis the parent's fault? How can parents explain the diagnosis to reluctant family members? What does inclusion really mean when working with children? Do vaccines cause autism? Learn more about our guest: Website: www.collaborativeabaservices.com Book: "It's Okay, Maddie: A Story About Autism, Big Feelings and Learning to Cope" (includes a resource guide for adult readers) YouTube: Collaborative ABA Services — the "Collab Talk" series Instagram: Leading With Alisha LinkedIn: Alisha Simpson-Watt #Autism #AutismAwareness #AutismSpectrum #Inclusion #Neurodiversity #ABA #ParentingSupport #SpecialNeeds #MESHPodcast #PamelaBrewer #AlishaSimpsonWatt #AutismAcceptance

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