Make Him Wonder

About Make Him Wonder

Dating and Relationship Coach Paula Grooms, LMSW invites real women to talk about their romantic lives. In these intimate, one-on-one conversations, Paula helps each guest get-real, get focused, and get moving on what works with men for connected and committed love.

Publisher

Coach Paula Grooms

Category

education · health & fitness · health & fitness

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

23 Aug 2023

Latest episode

25 May 2026

Latest episodes

5 of 85 episodes have a transcript.

1. 

   25 May 2026TRANSCRIPT

   S5E21: HE'S SEPARATED AND KEEPS COMING BACK—IS THIS TIME DIFFERENT?

   Coach Paula Grooms guides Blake through deciphering a cryptic message from her separated ex, Carlos, revealing insights into navigating complex relationship dynamics.

2. 

   15 Apr 2026TRANSCRIPT

   S5E20: GHOSTED TWICE BY THE SAME MAN—BUT THIS TIME SHE'S READY

   Upon reuniting after five months of no contact, 44-year-old Skylar reached out to 44-year-old Jason to reset his image of her—and it worked. Jason began showing up for Skylar, communicating more, and treating her like a girlfriend. But after a minor moment of awkwardness between them, Jason ghosted again—this time for nearly nine months. Since then, Skylar has done the work and is finally ready to show Jason that she no longer accepts the treatment she once tolerated. In this episode of Make Him Wonder, Skylar gets my coaching on what she can realistically expect now—and how to handle Jason’s next texting spree so this connection has the best chance of becoming healthy and whole.

3. 

   1 Apr 2026

   S5E19: WHEN HIS ACTIONS FEEL LIKE PROOF - BUT AREN'T

   After three tumultuous years in an affair with a married man, 44-year-old Morgan finally has 47-year-old Jim all to herself. Jim is making real efforts to show up—trying to please Morgan, and even talking about living together. Yet instead of feeling secure, Morgan finds herself questioning Jim’s motives, loyalty, and true desires - misreading his insecurities as being about her. Morgan returns to Make Him Wonder to explain to Paula what she sees as the problem with Jim, only to discover that the real fix is something completely within her control.

Inside a recent episode

S5E21: HE'S SEPARATED AND KEEPS COMING BACK—IS THIS TIME DIFFERENT?

Published 25 May 2026 · Transcript excerpt

[…] By doing the no contact as you have, you've shifted that. And I bet over the last nine months, when you say, I've felt good about what I'm doing, I've grown, I've worked on myself, that that's where you're getting to that point of, no, I can't be pushed off my stance. And I know what I deserve. And that's a really good place to be because that's what men find to be catnip. And that is what will change the man to whatever degree he has the capability of change. I agree with you. I don't really have anything more to add to that. I think you're right. Yeah. Yeah, it makes a lot of sense. So you are in a good position. […]

Who has been a guest on Make Him Wonder

Names identified in recent episode analyses. Showing up to five guests.

• Blake
• Robin
• Audrey

Reach and audience

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YouTube views

158,582

Score snapshot 15 Sept 2025

Apple Podcasts (US)

4.3 / 5

55 ratings

Spotify

5.0 / 5

12 ratings

Podcast Authority Score: 53 / 100

A composite of feed quality, social presence, YouTube performance and engagement. Read the methodology.

Quality

51

Social presence

0

YouTube

86

Engagement

50

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