Make Love Work with Chris and Megan Rea

About Make Love Work with Chris and Megan Rea

Welcome to Make Love Work - A fun, faith-filled podcast for Christian married couples who want to grow closer to God and each other. We're Chris & Megan - A real couple who love Jesus, love coffee, and believe marriage is one of God's greatest gifts. Each episode blends laughter, scripture, and practical tools to help you build a stronger, Jesus-centered marriage. Subscribe for weekly encouragement, real-life stories, and Biblical wisdom for every stage of marriage.

Publisher

Chris and Megan Rea

Category

education

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

8 May 2026

Latest episode

30 Sept 2026

Latest episodes

14 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   30 Sept 2026

   Is This Cheating? The Digital Boundaries Every Marriage Needs

   Is liking someone else's pictures cheating? What about sending a DM, texting an ex, or having a "work spouse"? Honestly, these are conversations we need to be having. Because the truth is, most betrayals don't start with one big decision. Sometimes they start with small, seemingly harmless choices. A little attention. A private conversation. A connection you don't tell your spouse about. And before you know it, lines have been crossed. In this episode, Chris and I are talking about micro-cheating, digital boundaries, and the little things that can quietly create distance in a marriage. We're walking through three simple questions that can help you recognize when something might be crossing a line. We're also talking about friendships, coworkers, social media, and why protecting your marriage is about so much more than just avoiding an affair. Because here's the thing: we don't want to spend our marriage asking, "Is this technically cheating?" We want to ask, "Does this honor my spouse? Does this protect what we're building together?" And that means not just setting boundaries, but continuing to pursue each other, flirt with each other, and make our marriage a priority. Let's talk about it! 💍 Ready to grow? Start watching the courses today: https://www.makelovework.me/ 📖 Book mentioned: His Needs, Her Needs https://www.amazon.com/-/es/dp/0800740998?linkCode=ssc&tag=nos09-20&creativeASIN=0800740998&asc_item-id=amzn1.ideas.3BOP40YT2KPLZ&ref_=aip_sf_list_spv_ofs_mixed_d_asin ❤️ Check out our From Roommates to Deeply Connected Again course: https://www.makelovework.me/FromRoommatestoDeeplyConnectedAgain Coffee we're drinking: https://amzn.to/4e3P6Wn 🔥 Don't miss what's coming next—join us on YT: https://bit.ly/4figEbn

2. 

   16 Sept 2026

   What If I’m Not Attracted to My Spouse Anymore?

   I think one of the scariest thoughts you can have in marriage is, “I’m just not as attracted to my husband/wife as I used to be.” And I get it. I’ve had seasons where stress, busyness, resentment, hormones, or just plain life can change how we see each other. But I’ve learned not to panic over a feeling or immediately decide, “Well, I guess this is just how it is now.” Instead, I try to ask myself, ‘’What changed?’’ Have we stopped flirting? Stopped pursuing each other? Is there some resentment I’m carrying around? And honestly, sometimes I need to check my own heart, too. Am I noticing everything that annoys me and forgetting all the things I love about him? Am I comparing my real-life husband to people online who I don’t have to live with? Because trust me, nobody looks quite as perfect once you know where they leave their socks. I’ve found that attraction can grow when we intentionally start looking for what we used to see. Pursue each other. Take care of yourself. Flirt. Compliment your spouse. Actually say the things you’re thinking instead of keeping them in your head. And if I’m struggling, I don’t need to drop the bomb, “I’m not attracted to you anymore.” I can say, “I miss us. I feel like we’ve lost some of our connection, and I really want to find it again.” That feels a whole lot more like an invitation than a rejection.

3. 

   10 Sept 2026

   How Do I Get My Husband to Lead Spiritually?

   If you’ve ever thought, “How do I get my husband to lead spiritually?” girl, I get it. I’ve asked that question too. And here’s what I’ve learned: ‘’You cannot nag a man into spiritual leadership.’’ I tried the subtle hints, the perfectly placed Bible, the “why don’t you go sit on the patio with Jesus?” routine. Chris was apparently not picking up what I was putting down. What works so much better? ‘’Encouragement.’’ When your husband takes a small step, prays with you, opens the Bible, or starts a spiritual conversation, notice it. Celebrate it. Praise the attempt! Instead of giving him a spiritual performance review, let him know you appreciate him. I’ve also had to remind myself that ‘’his spiritual growth is not my project.’’ I can pray for him, love him, respect him, and cheer him on, but I’m not the Holy Spirit. And husbands, you’re not off the hook! You don’t need a seminary degree or a 45-minute prayer. Grab her hand and pray. Open the Bible together. Take the initiative. Because healthy marriages aren’t about one person fixing the other. They’re about two people encouraging each other toward Christ, with a whole lot of grace, humility, and hopefully some laughter along the way. 🎯 Ready to grow? Start watching the courses today: https://www.makelovework.me/ 🔥 Don’t miss what’s coming next — join us on YT: https://bit.ly/4fjgEbn Coffee we're drinking: https://amzn.to/4e3P6Wn

4. 

   26 Aug 2026

   So… How Often Should Married Couples Have Sex?

   How Often Should We Actually Be Having Sex? Honestly? We get asked this all the time. And everyone wants a number. “Once a week? Twice? Three times? What’s the magic answer here, Chris?” But the truth is, there isn’t a magic number. We’ve been married long enough to know that life changes. Babies, toddlers, teenagers, stress, work, health stuff, hormones, you name it. Some seasons are easier than others. And sometimes you’re thinking, “Sex sounds amazing,” and other times you’re thinking, “Can I just go to bed?” What matters more than a number is connection. Do we feel loved? Pursued? Wanted? Are we making intimacy a priority? And we’ve had to learn that Chris and I don’t always experience intimacy the same way. Sometimes I need the emotional connection first, and Chris is like, “We had a conversation. I feel connected. Let’s go!” But we’re both after the same thing: feeling close to each other. So instead of comparing our marriage to some random statistic, we need to actually talk to each other. What feels realistic in this season? What helps you feel loved? How can we stay connected? Because we’re not trying to hit some magic number. We’re trying to have a healthy, fun, connected marriage, and honestly, that’s way more important than checking a box. 🎯 Ready to grow? Start watching the courses today: https://www.makelovework.me/ 🔥 Don’t miss what’s coming next — join us on YT: https://bit.ly/4fjgEbn Coffee we're drinking: https://amzn.to/4e3P6Wn

5. 

   19 Aug 2026

   Wait… Is Some of the Marriage Advice We’ve Been Given Actually Bad Advice?

   I feel like we’ve all gotten marriage advice at some point and just assumed, “Well, I guess that’s what you’re supposed to do.” But some of the advice we hear all the time… might actually be making things harder. In this video, we are talking through some of those really common marriage “rules” and asking, “Okay, but does this actually work?” And I’ll tell you, there are a few in here that might make you go, “Wait… you’re saying THAT is bad advice?” So come hang out with us, because we’re going to challenge a few things, probably ruffle some feathers, and hopefully give you a better way to think about love and marriage. 🎯 Ready to grow? Start watching the courses today: https://www.makelovework.me/ 🔥 Don’t miss what’s coming next — join us on YT: https://bit.ly/4fjgEbn Coffee we're drinking: https://amzn.to/4e3P6Wn

6. 

   12 Aug 2026

   We Let AI Plan Our Dates… Here’s What Happened

   Let’s be honest... sometimes date nights can start looking a lot like sitting on the couch, scrolling Netflix forever, and calling it a night. So we asked AI to plan three summer dates that felt like us, but also pushed us a little outside our comfort zone. And honestly, it did a pretty good job. Some dates were definitely better than others, but what I loved most was that they all got us out of our usual routine. The biggest takeaway for me? It wasn't that AI planned the perfect date. It just gave us a reason to try something new together. And sometimes that's exactly what you need to make date night feel fun again. 🎯 Ready to grow? Start watching the courses today: https://www.makelovework.me/ 🔥 Don’t miss what’s coming next — join us on YT: https://bit.ly/4fjgEbn Coffee we're drinking: https://amzn.to/4e3P6Wn

7. 

   30 Jul 2026

   If Your Marriage Feels "Off," Start Here

   Okay, real talk... if you've been married for, like, five minutes, you already know love doesn't magically make everything easy. We got to a point where we were basically really good roommates. We loved each other, but we just weren't getting each other anymore. Then we started reading a few marriage books, and honestly? They were total game changers. They helped us understand how differently we think, communicate without driving each other crazy, and actually feel connected again. These are the books I recommend to everyone because they genuinely changed our marriage, and I really think they can help yours too. 🎯 Ready to grow? Start watching the courses today: https://www.makelovework.me/ 🔥 Don’t miss what’s coming next — join us on YT: https://bit.ly/4fjgEbn Books: For Women Only: https://www.amazon.com/-/es/dp/1601424442?linkCode=ssc&tag=nos09-20&creativeASIN=1601424442&asc_item-id=amzn1.ideas.3BOP40YT2KPLZ&ref_=aip_sf_list_spv_ofs_mixed_d_asin For Men Only: https://www.amazon.com/-/es/dp/1601424450?linkCode=ssc&tag=nos09-20&creativeASIN=1601424450&asc_item-id=amzn1.ideas.3BOP40YT2KPLZ&ref_=aip_sf_list_spv_ofs_mixed_d_asin Men Are Like Waffles--Women Are Like Spaghetti: Understanding and Delighting in Your Differences: https://www.amazon.com/-/es/dp/0736968881?linkCode=ssc&tag=nos09-20&creativeASIN=0736968881&asc_item-id=amzn1.ideas.3BOP40YT2KPLZ&ref_=aip_sf_list_spv_ofs_mixed_d_asin His Needs, Her Needs: https://www.amazon.com/-/es/dp/0800740998?linkCode=ssc&tag=nos09-20&creativeASIN=0800740998&asc_item-id=amzn1.ideas.3BOP40YT2KPLZ&ref_=aip_sf_list_spv_ofs_mixed_d_asin Sex Begins in the Kitchen: Creating Intimacy to Make Your Marriage Sizzle: https://www.amazon.com/-/es/dp/0800731174?linkCode=ssc&tag=nos09-20&creativeASIN=0800731174&asc_item-id=amzn1.ideas.3BOP40YT2KPLZ&ref_=aip_sf_list_spv_ofs_mixed_d_asin 7 Things He'll Never Tell You: . . . But You Need to Know : https://www.amazon.com/-/es/dp/1414312091?linkCode=ssc&tag=nos09-20&creativeASIN=1414312091&asc_item-id=amzn1.ideas.3BOP40YT2KPLZ&ref_=aip_sf_list_spv_ofs_mixed_d_asin The Power of a Praying Husband: https://www.amazon.com/-/es/dp/0736957588?linkCode=ssc&tag=nos09-20&creativeASIN=0736957588&asc_item-id=amzn1.ideas.3BOP40YT2KPLZ&ref_=aip_sf_list_spv_ofs_mixed_d_asin The Power of a Praying Wife: Praying for Your Husband from Head to Toe: https://www.amazon.com/-/es/dp/B00DK8Q35A?linkCode=ssc&tag=nos09-20&creativeASIN=B00DK8Q35A&asc_item-id=amzn1.ideas.3BOP40YT2KPLZ&ref_=aip_sf_list_spv_ofs_mixed_d_asin The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: The Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy Marriages: https://www.amazon.com/-/es/dp/1601421214?linkCode=ssc&tag=nos09-20&creativeASIN=1601421214&asc_item-id=amzn1.ideas.3BOP40YT2KPLZ&ref_=aip_sf_list_spv_ofs_mixed_d_asin Cherish: The One Word That Changes Everything for Your Marriage https://www.amazon.com/-/es/dp/B01N4DCA61?linkCode=ssc&tag=nos09-20&creativeASIN=B01N4DCA61&asc_item-id=amzn1.ideas.3BOP40YT2KPLZ&ref_=aip_sf_list_spv_ofs_mixed_d_asin Happy Wives Club https://www.amazon.com/-/es/dp/1400205042?linkCode=ssc&tag=nos09-20&creativeASIN=1400205042&asc_item-id=amzn1.ideas.3BOP40YT2KPLZ&ref_=aip_sf_list_spv_ofs_mixed_d_asin The power of a praying wife: https://amzn.to/4z4QOPM The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: https://amzn.to/4cch4O5 Coffee we're drinking: https://amzn.to/4e3P6Wn

8. 

   22 Jul 2026

   The Hidden Reason Christian Marriages Still Fight

   Christian marriages often fall into the same destructive patterns as non-Christian marriages because, even though believers have faith, the Holy Spirit, and God's guidance, they are still human. People bring their past experiences, hurts, insecurities, fears, and selfish tendencies into marriage, which can lead to conflict, misunderstandings, and unhealthy relational patterns despite their love for God and desire to follow Him.. Using relationship research, there are four destructive patterns that commonly damage marriages: criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling. Ultimately, a healthy Christian marriage is not about finding a perfect partner but about becoming a more Christlike person. Through forgiveness, humility, self-reflection, and reliance on God’s strength, couples can break destructive patterns and build relationships marked by grace, mutual respect, commitment, and sacrificial love. The goal is not perfection but steady growth, creating a marriage that reflects God’s love and provides hope, security, and support for both partners. 🎯 Ready to grow? Start watching the courses today: https://www.makelovework.me/ 🔥 Don’t miss what’s coming next — join us on YT: https://bit.ly/4fjgEbn Coffee we're drinking: https://amzn.to/4e3P6Wn

9. 

   9 Jul 2026

   What Women Find Most Attractive in Men

   Many women are drawn not to perfection, but to qualities that create trust, connection, and emotional safety. Being a good listener, showing strength without being controlling, demonstrating confidence without arrogance, and maintaining a caring, emotionally engaged presence are often seen as highly attractive traits. A shared sense of humor also plays an important role, helping couples stay connected and navigate challenges together. Ultimately, attraction is less about appearance or grand gestures and more about feeling understood, respected, supported, and able to grow together through life's ups and downs. 🎯 Ready to grow? Start watching the courses today: https://www.makelovework.me/ 🔥 Don’t miss what’s coming next — join us on YT: https://bit.ly/4fjgEbn Coffee we're drinking: https://amzn.to/4e3P6Wn What Men Really Find Attractive in Women (It’s Not What You Think): https://youtu.be/sJcG9PjNH4U

10. 

    25 Jun 2026

    What Men Really Find Attractive in Women (It’s Not What You Think)

    Many men are attracted to qualities that go beyond physical appearance, including confidence, authenticity, competence, kindness, and emotional warmth. Women who are comfortable with themselves, genuine in their personality, capable of handling responsibilities, and thoughtful in the way they care for others are often viewed as especially attractive. Physical attraction is important, such as being flirtatious, intelligent, natural in appearance, or smelling good. Spirituality and shared values are also highlighted as important factors, with wisdom, faith, and personal growth contributing to stronger and deeper relationships. Overall, lasting attraction is based more on character, trust, authenticity, and a meaningful connection than on mere appearance. 🎯 Ready to grow? Start watching the courses today: https://www.makelovework.me/ 🔥 Don’t miss what’s coming next — join us on YT: https://bit.ly/4fjgEbn Coffee we're drinking: https://amzn.to/4e3P6Wn

11. 

    10 Jun 2026

    The Small Habits That Slowly Ruin Relationships

    Most couples don’t grow apart because of one major problem, but because of small, repeated habits over time that slowly become irritating. These everyday frustrations—like messiness, noise, forgetfulness, distractions, and communication habits—can build tension in a relationship if not addressed. The key is learning which issues are worth addressing and which are better to overlook. Minor annoyances often require patience and perspective, while more serious concerns should be communicated calmly without criticism or control. Healthy relationships improve when partners express needs clearly, focus on how behaviors affect each other, and avoid turning small habits into ongoing conflict. 🎯 Ready to grow? Start watching the courses today: https://www.makelovework.me/ 🔥 Don’t miss what’s coming next — join us on YT: https://bit.ly/4fjgEbn

12. 

    3 Jun 2026

    What No One Tells You About Marriage (But You Need to Know)

    Marriage requires intentional effort and growth, not just relying on what comes naturally. People often enter relationships without realizing their own selfish tendencies, the significant differences between partners, and the importance of clear communication instead of assumptions. Strong relationships are built by learning to be selfless, understanding each other’s emotional and physical needs, and openly expressing expectations. Practical boundaries—like maintaining privacy in conflicts and seeking wise guidance when needed—also help protect the relationship. Spiritual connection, such as supporting each other through prayer, can deepen intimacy and shift perspective during challenges. Ultimately, lasting marriages are strengthened over time through commitment, effort, and the willingness to work through difficulties together rather than giving up too quickly. 🎯 Ready to grow? Start watching the courses today: https://www.makelovework.me/ 🔥 Don’t miss what’s coming next!

13. 

    27 May 2026

    From Routine to Romance: Simple Ways to Reignite Love

    Romance in a relationship doesn’t usually disappear on purpose—it fades due to busyness and lack of intentional effort, causing couples to drift into feeling like roommates. Rebuilding that connection doesn’t require drastic changes, but small, consistent actions: thoughtful gestures, regular appreciation, distraction-free conversations, physical affection, shared fun, and intentional intimacy. Even with challenges like kids or busy schedules, prioritizing each other and communicating openly can restore closeness. Overall, strong relationships thrive when both people are intentional about nurturing connection, rather than letting life run on autopilot. 🎯 Ready to grow? Start watching the courses today: https://www.makelovework.me/ 🔥 Don’t miss what’s coming next — join us on YT: https://bit.ly/4fjgEbn

14. 

    8 May 2026

    "I Married My Opposite:" The Guide to Making Your Differences Work.

    "I Married My Opposite:" The Guide to Making Your Differences Work. Ever feel like you and your spouse are speaking two different languages? Whether its your taste in food, how you spend your Saturday, or how you handle the budgetbeing "opposites" can feel like a constant tug-of-war. In this episode of Coffee with Chris & Megan, were getting real about our own "date night fails" and sharing how we moved from "Why are you like this?" to "Im so glad you aren't me." In this video, you'll learn: *Why "Oneness" doesn't mean "Sameness" (and what 1 Corinthians 12 has to say about it). *The "Third Way" Rule for finding common ground without anyone being miserable. *Practical tools and apps to help you stay curious about each other. Stop living on autopilot and start leaning into the strength of your differences. ( RESOURCES MENTIONED: 18 Free Date Night Ideas Video: https://youtu.be/gNk4E1krvMk?si=jHwX3SACf3gVJ7pi The Gottman Card Deck App: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/gottman-card-decks/id1292398843 Our "Make Love Work" Course: https://www.makelovework.me/ Partner with our Non-Profit: https://nosmalllife.me/Next Steps: Purchase our marriage course: https://www.makelovework.me/make-love-work-marriage-course Purchase our pre-marriage course: https://www.makelovework.me/make-love-work-pre-marriage-course Join us for church every Sunday-In person if you're in the Detroit Metro area or online at https://cccsterling.org/ Join our email list=I https://www.makelovework.me/no-small-life Visit our Website: https://www.makelovework.me/ Visit our Amazon Store: https://www.amazon.com/shop/nosmalllife Let's connect! INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/ChrisAndMeganRea/ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/ChrisAndMeganRea/ PINTEREST: https://www.pinterest.com/NoSmallLife/ EMAIL: nosmalllifebooking@gmail.com I can't tell you how much I long for you to enter this wide-open, spacious life. We didn't fence you in. The smallness you feel comes from within you. Your lives aren't small, but you're living them in a small way. I'm speaking as plainly as I can and with great affection. Open up your lives. Live openly and expansively! 2 Cor 6:11-13 **Some links may be affiliate. By purchasing an item from an affiliate link, we receive a small commission'but you are not charged more or less by clicking or purchasing through the link. Thank you for supporting us!

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