Marriage Sessions with Mike & Holly Worley

About Marriage Sessions with Mike & Holly Worley

Transform your marriage from stuck in routine to sent on mission. Here's how… Most marriage content either helps you survive a crisis or offers generic tips on "communicating better." But in Marriage Sessions, we teach something most couples never learn: how to hear God's voice for each other—so your marriage stops being about maintenance and becomes your greatest ministry. This isn't about praying together more. It's about building a discipleship relationship that brings Kingdom impact to your home, your city, and your church. Hosts Mike and Holly Worley share honest conversations, Scripture-based teaching, and practical steps you can use this week. If you're ready for a marriage that's Spirit-led, mission-driven, and purposeful, subscribe so you don't miss our weekly episodes. Every marriage has its own story. Take two minutes to tell us yours, and we'll send tools and encouragement for where you are right now: https://sparkdiscipleship.com/personalize/

Publisher

Mike Worley

Category

kids & family · religion & spirituality

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

20 May 2026

Latest episode

8 Oct 2026

Latest episodes

17 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   8 Oct 2026

   You Know What You DON'T Want in Marriage… But What DO You Want?

   You love each other, but where is your marriage going? Most couples know what they DON'T want their marriage to look like. But avoiding the patterns you grew up with isn't the same as building a shared vision for your future. In this episode of Marriage Sessions, Mike and Holly explore how to move from simply reacting to life to intentionally building a marriage that reflects your values, strengthens your friendship, and honors God. We talk about: • Why knowing what you don't want is only the beginning • How to imagine a thriving marriage 10–20 years from now • Becoming the kind of spouse who helps create that future • Building daily and weekly rhythms for connection, prayer, and intimacy • Making time to reflect, realign, and grow together • Modeling faith, grace, and healthy conflict resolution for your children Whether you're newly married or have been together for decades, this conversation will help you get intentional about the life you're creating together. What's one thing you want to be true of your marriage in 10 years? Share it in the comments! Subscribe for more honest conversations and practical, faith-centered tools for a stronger marriage. If you need resources and tools to help you in the current season of marriage you're in, take this marriage quiz! https://sparkdiscipleship.com/personalize/?utm_source=social&utm_medium=organic_social

2. 

   1 Oct 2026

   What Healthy Marriages Do Differently

   What does a healthy marriage actually look like? In this episode of Marriage Sessions, Mike and Holly talk honestly about the work behind a healthy marriage and why the couples we admire often have stories of pruning, conflict, healing, and growth that we never see. A healthy marriage isn't one without struggle. It's two people who are willing to bring things into the light, take ownership, pursue one another, and keep moving toward Jesus together. Because there's no quick fix or perfect formula for marriage. Healthy marriages are built over time through intentionality, humility, hard conversations, and a willingness to keep practicing what we know is true. In this episode, you'll learn how to: • Stop comparing your marriage to the highlight reels you see online • Recognize how each spouse's wounds can trigger one another and learn to take ownership of what God is revealing • Bring struggles into the light through honesty, confession, and vulnerability • Create an environment where you and your spouse can listen, communicate, and feel safe • Invite trusted couples into your marriage for encouragement, accountability, and wise perspective • Practice what you teach by pursuing reconciliation, forgiveness, and repair in everyday moments • Take a humble first step toward a healthier marriage by inviting Jesus into the struggle Mike and Holly also share about the difference between pressure and conviction, the importance of having people who can speak into your marriage, and why healthy couples don't avoid conflict but learn how to move through it well. Because a healthy marriage isn't about having everything figured out. It's about continuing to grow, repair, and pursue one another through every season. If you need resources and tools to help you in the current season of marriage you're in, take this marriage quiz! https://sparkdiscipleship.com/personalize/?utm_source=social&utm_medium=organic_social

3. 

   24 Sept 2026

   5 Boundaries That Protect Your Marriage

   What if boundaries aren't about keeping people out, but about protecting what's precious? In this episode of Marriage Sessions, Mike and Holly share five boundaries that can protect your marriage from the things that slowly compete with it. From outside influences, divided attention, to bitterness, and keeping score, they unpack what it looks like to protect your marriage as a covenant. Marriage isn't a 50/50 contract. It's both people giving 100%. And healthy boundaries can help couples protect what they've committed to, and choose each other through every season. In this episode, you'll learn how to: • Set a boundary around who has access to your marriage and learn the difference between seeking godly wisdom and seeking validation • Protect your attention and give your spouse your presence, not just your proximity • Discern outside influences and receive advice without handing others the steering wheel to your marriage • Stop keeping score and embrace a covenant mindset instead of treating marriage like a transaction Mike and Holly also share practical ways to set boundaries around phones, work, extended family, and other competing priorities. Because boundaries aren't meant to create distance. They're meant to protect the love, trust, connection, and covenant inside your marriage. If you need resources and tools to help you in the current season of marriage you're in, take this marriage quiz! https://sparkdiscipleship.com/personalize/?utm_source=social&utm_medium=organic_social

4. 

   18 Sept 2026

   Sex, Shame, and God's Design for Marriage

   What does God actually say about sex, intimacy, and marriage? In this episode of Marriage Sessions, Mike and Holly have an honest conversation about sex in marriage, why the church needs to talk about it without shame, and how God designed sexual intimacy as a good gift within the covenant of marriage. For many couples, sex can come with fear, shame, past trauma, confusing messages, or unspoken expectations. Mike and Holly share openly from their own journey and offer biblical wisdom for understanding intimacy as more than a physical act. It is about trust, vulnerability, connection, and being fully known by your spouse. In this episode, you'll learn how to: • Understand God's original design and purpose for sex within marriage • Recognize how shame, past experiences, and cultural messages can affect intimacy • See sexual intimacy as emotional, physical, and spiritual connection • Communicate openly with your spouse about sex, intimacy, and emotional connection • Identify unhealthy ways sex can become a tool for manipulation or control • Start meaningful conversations about the messages and beliefs you grew up with • Seek wise, biblical support when healing and deeper conversations are needed Sex is a powerful gift, and God's boundaries are not meant to diminish intimacy but to protect and cultivate it. Whether you're married, engaged, dating, or trying to understand what biblical intimacy looks like, this episode offers an honest conversation about sex, healing, communication, and God's good design for marriage. If you need resources and tools to help you in the current season of marriage you're in, take this marriage quiz! https://sparkdiscipleship.com/personalize/?utm_source=social&utm_medium=organic_social

5. 

   10 Sept 2026

   5 Ways To Prepare for Marriage

   How do you prepare for marriage before you meet your spouse or before you say "I do"? In this episode of Marriage Sessions, Mike and Holly share five essential ways to prepare for a healthy, Christ-centered marriage. Because planning for marriage involves far more than preparing for a wedding it means allowing God to shape your character, heal your wounds, and teach you how to love faithfully. Whether you're single, dating, engaged, or discerning a relationship, this conversation offers practical Christian dating advice and biblical wisdom for preparing yourself for marriage. In this episode, you'll learn how to: • Heal childhood wounds and past relationship struggles before marriage • Build your identity in Christ instead of expecting a spouse to complete you • Develop a shared mission and vision under the lordship of Jesus • Prioritize godly character over chemistry when choosing a spouse • Practice honesty, purity, communication, conflict resolution, and covenant faithfulness now Marriage is a beautiful gift, but it is not a requirement for spiritual maturity or personal completeness. Your deepest identity and value come from being a child of God. If you're wondering how to prepare for marriage, what to look for in a Christian spouse, or how to build a strong biblical relationship, this episode is for you. If you need resources and tools to help you in the current season of marriage you're in, take this marriage quiz! https://sparkdiscipleship.com/personalize/?utm_source=social&utm_medium=organic_social

6. 

   3 Sept 2026

   When Past Pain Shows Up in Your Marriage (It Happened to Us This Week)

   This past week, Holly had a hard moment, and we're being vulnerable and sharing what actually happened, how we worked through it, and what we're continuing to learn about loving each other well when past pain shows up in the present. In this episode, we talk about what to do when you're the one being triggered, how to recognize when your reaction may be connected to something deeper, and why taking ownership of your response matters, even when the emotions you're experiencing are very real. We also talk about the other side: how to support a spouse who has been triggered without becoming defensive, trying to force a conversation, or feeling responsible for fixing their pain. In this episode we talk about: • How past trauma can show up in present-day marriage • What to do when you realize you've been triggered • Why naming what you're experiencing matters • How to get curious instead of defensive with your spouse • Creating safety when your spouse isn't ready to talk • Why your spouse can support your healing without becoming your healer • When it may be time to seek additional support • How difficult moments can become opportunities for deeper connection and growth Our hope is that this conversation reminds you that a healthy marriage isn't a perfect marriage. You can learn to recognize unhealthy patterns, take ownership of what's yours, and love one another well even when old wounds surface. Curious what season your marriage is in? Take our Marriage Quiz to discover where your relationship is today and receive resources specifically designed for the season you're currently in: https://sparkdiscipleship.com/personalize/?utm_source=social&utm_medium=organic_social

7. 

   27 Aug 2026

   Dating Isn't Just for Getting Married, It's How You Stay Married

   Dating shouldn't end once you get married. In fact, dating your spouse may be one of the most important practices for building a strong, lasting marriage. Many marriages slowly drift as they become focused on managing schedules, raising children, paying bills, and keeping the household running. Before long, spouses can begin functioning more like teammates than best friends. In this episode, of Marriage Sessions we share why intentionally dating your spouse helps you to create a deeper connection, protect the friendship at the foundation of your marriage, build emotional intimacy and strengthen physical intimacy, and so much more! We also discuss practical date-night ideas for busy couples. Sometimes rebuilding connection starts with something as simple as taking a walk, putting away your phones, remembering a favorite memory, or asking your spouse what they are currently fearing, grieving, or dreaming about. You don't need an elaborate date or a perfect season of life to reconnect. You simply need intentional time to keep learning your spouse, protecting your friendship, and pursuing one another's hearts. Whether you're newly married, raising children, or working to reconnect after years together, we hope this conversation encourages you to make dating your spouse a consistent part of your marriage. Take our marriage quiz to discover what season your marriage is in and receive resources tailored to help you navigate it well: https://sparkdiscipleship.com/personalize/?utm_source=social&utm_medium=organic_social

8. 

   20 Aug 2026

   OUR LOVE STORY | High School Sweethearts, Long Distance & Marriage

   Our love story started at a church youth summer camp in 2002 and the road from high school sweethearts to marriage was an important journey for us. From Mike taking three days to realize Holly had an identical twin, to our first date at McDonald's, protective parents, a breakup in small group, to Holly dating Mike's best friend, and then finding our way back to each other, long-distance dating, and eventually getting married at 20 and 21… there's a lot to this story. More than 20 years later, we've officially spent more of our lives together than apart. Looking back, we can see how much God used those early years to grow us individually and ultimately redeem and restore our relationship. In this episode, we're sharing our full story: how we met, why we broke up, how we got back together, what it was like getting married young, and what we've learned about Christian dating, relationships, and marriage along the way. One of the biggest lessons we've learned? It's not just about finding the right person, it's about becoming the right person. Whether you're dating, engaged, newly married, or decades into marriage, we hope our story encourages you to trust God with yours. Subscribe to Marriage Sessions with Mike & Holly for honest conversations about Christian marriage, dating, relationships, intimacy, conflict, faith, and building a marriage that lasts. Curious what season your marriage is in? Take our Marriage Quiz to discover where your relationship is today and receive resources specifically designed for the season you're currently in: https://sparkdiscipleship.com/personalize/?utm_source=social&utm_medium=organic_social

9. 

   13 Aug 2026

   From the Outside, We Had It All… But Our Marriage Was Falling Apart

   This episode of Marriage Sessions is perfect for couples going through marriage problems, disconnection, resentment, or a difficult season. From the outside, our life looked successful, but behind closed doors, our marriage was falling apart. Around year nine of our marriage, a major business decision uprooted our family from Colorado to Dallas. Mike's business was thriving, but our marriage was crumbling underneath all the resentment and lack of communication. Before long, we stopped feeling like husband and wife on the same team and we both began questioning whether our marriage had been a mistake. In this honest conversation, Mike and Holly share the marriage struggles no one could see, the role business and ambition played in their disconnection, and the turning points that helped restore their marriage. If your marriage is struggling right now, their story is a reminder: don't make a permanent decision based on temporary pain. Healing can begin when we're willing to tell the truth, take ownership, seek help, and invite God into the places we've allowed to grow hard. Curious what season your marriage is in? Take our Marriage Quiz to discover where your relationship is today and receive resources specifically designed for the season you're currently in: https://sparkdiscipleship.com/personalize/?utm_source=social&utm_medium=organic_social

10. 

    7 Aug 2026

    How God saved Our Hardest Season

    What happens when the thing you're building starts costing you your marriage? In this episode, Mike and Holly open up about one of the hardest seasons of their marriage—a season marked by business pressure, loneliness, resentment, unmet expectations, and a growing distance neither of them knew how to fix. After relocating to Dallas for a business opportunity, they slowly found themselves operating on opposite teams. Holly wrestled with isolation and resentment, while Mike's pursuit of success began taking a place in his life he never intended it to. They share the honest turning points that helped save their marriage: prayer when connection felt impossible, difficult conversations they could no longer avoid, surrendering individual agendas, seeking wise counsel, and ultimately inviting God into the places they had been trying to fix on their own. If you're walking through a difficult season in your marriage, this conversation is a reminder: don't let temporary pain lead you to make permanent decisions. Healing often begins when we're willing to get honest, stay humble, and fight for each other instead of against each other.

11. 

    30 Jul 2026

    4 Ways The Enemy Attacks Marriages

    In this episode of Marriage Sessions, Mike & Holly discuss 4 of the biggest ways that the enemy attacks a marriage and how couples can recognize these patterns before they negatively impact your marriage. You'll learn: - How isolation quietly weakens your marriage - Why unresolved offenses turn into bitterness - How comparison steals joy and contentment - Why being too busy can leave you feeling emotionally disconnected - Practical, biblical ways to protect your relationship and stay united as a team Whether you're newly married or have been together for decades, these biblical marriage principles will help you build a stronger, healthier, and more connected relationship.

12. 

    23 Jul 2026

    The Conflict Nobody Warns You About When You Get Married

    Every marriage brings together two people, but it also brings together two family histories. In this episode of Marriage Sessions, Mike and Holly Worley share how childhood trauma, and generational patterns shape the way you show up in marriage. What they thought would be arguments about money turned out to be much deeper. Their biggest conflicts were rooted in the different environments they grew up in. They also open up about navigating complex PTSD, finding healing through biblical counseling, recognizing emotional triggers, and allowing God to use marriage as a tool for sanctification. If you've ever wondered why you and your spouse keep having the same arguments, or if you're trying to break unhealthy family patterns, this conversation will encourage and challenge you.

13. 

    26 Jun 2026

    The Real Reason Small Arguments Explode in Marriage

    Why do some arguments seem to explode over something small? In this episode of Marriage Sessions, we share why most marriage conflict isn't actually about the issue you're arguing over. More often than not, there's something deeper happening beneath the surface. Using a personal story about a disagreement over a garage door left open, we unpack how old wounds, fears, and deeply rooted lies can shape our reactions and create conflict in marriage. One of the most powerful lessons we've learned is that when we identify the lie underneath the argument, we stop fighting each other and start fighting the real problem together. Whether you're navigating frequent conflict or simply want to build a healthier marriage, this conversation will give you practical tools to communicate with greater understanding, grace, and connection. Curious what season your marriage is in? Take our Marriage Quiz to discover where your relationship is today and receive resources specifically designed for your current season: https://sparkdiscipleship.com/personalize/?utm_source=social&utm_medium=organic_social

14. 

    18 Jun 2026

    How Busy Couples Can Stay Emotionally Connected

    Are you and your spouse running a successful household but still feeling emotionally disconnected? In this episode of Marriage Sessions, we discuss one of the most common marriage challenges couples face today: staying emotionally connected in the middle of a busy life. When life is full of work, kids, responsibilities, and endless to-do lists, it's easy for conversations to revolve around schedules, logistics, and getting things done. But over time, many couples discover they know each other's calendars better than they know each other's hearts. In this conversation, we share practical ways to reconnect, build emotional intimacy, and stay close in every season of marriage. Whether you're newly married or have been together for decades, this conversation will help you move beyond surface-level communication and build a stronger emotional connection with your spouse. Take our Marriage Quiz to discover what season your marriage is in and receive resources tailored to your relationship: https://sparkdiscipleship.com/personalize/?utm_source=social&utm_medium=organic_social

15. 

    4 Jun 2026

    Why We Chose Homeschooling (And Why We'd Do It Again)

    Homeschooling was never part of our original plan. In this episode, we share the story of how God led our family to homeschooling, the fears we had to overcome, and what we've learned along the way. We talk honestly about socialization, individualized learning, discipleship, marriage, and why having a strong "why" matters when the difficult days come. Whether you're considering homeschooling, currently homeschooling, or simply curious about what it's really like, we hope this conversation encourages you to thoughtfully consider what is best for your family.

16. 

    28 May 2026

    Growing in Spiritual Mismatch | Do You Feel Closer to God Than Your Spouse?

    Marriage and faith don't always grow at the same pace. In this episode, we share honest encouragement for couples navigating spiritual differences in marriage, feeling spiritually disconnected from their spouse, and learning to love each other through different seasons of faith. We talk about what it looks like to support your spouse without pressure, and stay committed to the "long game" of spiritual growth within marriage. Whether your spouse feels distant from God, processes faith differently than you, or is walking through a difficult season, this episode offers practical biblical encouragement for Christian couples. If this conversation encouraged you, make sure to like, comment, and subscribe for more faith-based marriage conversations and Christian marriage advice!

17. 

    20 May 2026

    Prioritizing Your Spouse in the Busyness of Life

    Prioritizing your spouse can feel difficult in certain seasons of life, especially when life becomes consumed with kids, schedules, responsibilities, and simply making it through the day. In this episode, we're having an honest conversation about what it looks like to intentionally prioritize your marriage through every season of family life. We talk about the realities of parenting young children, the importance of understanding your spouse during those seasons, and why husbands and wives need to become students of one another as they grow and change through marriage, motherhood, and fatherhood. Progression in marriage starts with honest conversations and a willingness to truly understand one another. If you're navigating parenting, communication struggles, or simply trying to stay connected through a tiring season of life, we hope this conversation encourages you.

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