Essay and Chaunesty discuss all things marriage, relationships, polyamory and more. They share the depths of their journey through storytelling, comedy, and healthy communication. This real and raw perspective dives into the truth behind dating and poly experiences. Married and Then Some, is for everyone.
Chaunesty and Essjay wrap up season 2 with laughs and hopes for a healthy dating season as summer approaches. They explore the realms and boundaries of queer lifestyle and polyamory; defining what it is and what it isn't.
5 May 2025
Chapter 15: Leave That N*gga Where He At
In the height of a discourse dating scene, Chauntesy and Essjay discuss why the past should remain in the past and why love most times is worth the wait. While we all wait for the Zinzi to our Ryan Coogler, we're discussing everything we don't want in between.
21 Apr 2025
Chapter 14: I Got Some Cuddy Last Night
Chaunesty and Essjay are back with another week of jokes and intriguing conversation; discussing the layers of polygamy and growth in their dynamic as a couple.
14 Apr 2025
Chapter 13: I'm Just a Girl
For the first time ever in Married and Then Some History, we have guest appearances. Chaunesty and Essjay invite Sasha Bangz and Yoni Light to discuss the in's and out's of their relationship as a queer and poly couple. This episode is not only rich with love, but also perspective and healing too.
7 Apr 2025
Chapter 12: Bad Gays and Black Trauma
Chaunesty and Essjay have give us a few hot takes on some controversial topics including: Neyo, Dr. Umar, Tyler Perry and every thing in between. It's another funny episode through the perspective of realness.
31 Mar 2025
Chapter 11 : At the End of the Day, Choose You
Chaunesty and Essjay wrap up their story and conclusions about the infamous "Scar" ending the end of a dark era and planting seeds for the next. Jan introduces a new segment and discussing a bit about her dating life.
24 Mar 2025
Chapter 10: Why You Being Weird to Me?
Chaunesty and Essjay continue the story of their hiatus and give us more details about the infamous "SCAR" and all the troubles he put them through. There is laughter, there are triggers and everything else in between.
17 Mar 2025
Chapter 9 - We Listen and We Don't Judge
WE'RE BACKKKKK! Chaunesty and Essjay are back and ready to tell it ALL with details of their hiatus and the lessons they learned along the way. Tea is being spilled and stories are being told.
4 Jun 2024
Chapter 8: Pimpin' Ain't Dead, N*ggas Just P*ssy
Essjay and Chaunesty close out their 1st Season celebrating 10 years together. They disclose the intricate details that have kept them together all these years, while telling the story of their wedding day and beyond. They discuss healthy tips and real situations that cause modern day relationships to fail.
27 May 2024
Chapter 7: High Thoughts
Essjay and Chaunesty tell us about their cross country chronicles; from Minnesota, to Florida, to Vegas, they discuss being separated, being married and what they've learned from their dating experiences in between.
20 May 2024
Chapter 6: Rebellion and Bad D*ck
Would you whoop a** for the love of your life? Chaunesty and Essjay tell a story about fighting for love and all the toxic things they had to unlearn along the way. They discuss sexually traumas and the intimacy that comes along with having a long-term partner.
13 May 2024
Chapter 5: D*ckcombobulated
As the chapters unfold, so does the details of their story. Chaunesty and Essjay discuss their reason for being polyamorous and how they reached their current dynamic. The share the in's and out's of actively dating and choosing a partner amongst themselves and each other.
6 May 2024
Chapter 4: Pocket Pousee (Stick 'n' Move)
LISTEN LINDA! Chaunesty and Essjay spill the tea about their dating experiences and the difficulties that come with being a poly couple. They talk all things sex, strap-on's and love making. Breaking stereotypes and busting myths in between.
29 Apr 2024
Chapter 3: That's What Marriage is All About
From broken sinks to big ole' freaks, Chaunesty and Essjay joke and play their way through their trials and tribulations around their marriage. They discuss building the foundation of their relationship and what it meant to be black, femme and "half-gay".
22 Apr 2024
Chapter 2: Pimps, Psychos & Potential
Chaunesty and Essjay storytell their way through the honesty that love requires and what the streets are lacking; doubling down on some of the truths behind polygamy and some of their failures and lessons learned along the way.
15 Apr 2024
Chapter 1: Once Upon a Time
Essjay and Chaunesty discuss the beginnings of their relationship, polyamorous dating and the journey to ten years.
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