Mindful Mixer Podcast

About Mindful Mixer Podcast

Welcome to the Mindful Mixer Podcast, hosted by Francesco Portoso, Janina Loureiro and Mengxi He . A space for deeper conversations and fresh perspectives. Each episode explores meaningful topics that shape our lives and it's inspired by the conversations sparked during our live events, where people come together to reflect and connect. Join us to challenge assumptions, dive into ideas that matter, and reflect together. Episodes feature thought-provoking discussions and community insights to inspire personal and collective growth. Tune in, slow down, and let the conversation continue.

Publisher

Mindful Mixer team

Category

education

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

19 Jul 2025

Latest episode

8 Oct 2026

Latest episodes

5 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   8 Oct 2026

   #5: Priorities

   In this Mindful Mixer Podcast episode, hosts Francesco Portoso, Janina Loureiro, and Mengxi He explore the topic of “Priorities”, reflecting on how our choices, habits, and use of time reveal what we truly value. Through personal stories and discussion, they examine the gap between stated priorities and lived priorities, the concept of opportunity cost, competing demands between family and personal time, and the influence of external pressures on our choices. The conversation also touches on instant gratification, identity, childhood experiences, future regrets, mindfulness, technology, and practical ways to bring our actions more closely in line with our values. The hosts also explore how priorities play out at a societal level, and leave listeners with a reflective call to action. Timeline (00:00) Intro (01:02) Why talk about priorities? (03:18) Your priorities vs. your actions (04:37) What do people actually prioritize? (07:04) Opportunity cost & competing priorities: every “yes” is a “no” (10:12) Finding balance (12:11) Instant gratification: always bad? (13:38) Forces shaping our priorities (15:33) How do you know your priorities are the right ones? Looking back and ahead. (20:40) Public Perception vs. Inner Reality (21:31) Staying aligned with your priorities (27:53) Individual priorities vs. society’s priorities (29:44) Call to action References & Further Exploration Yuval Noah Harari / Rich Roll podcast episode (https://youtu.be/_jl64f-821o?t=4435) Opportunity cost (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Opportunity_cost) Mindfulness (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mindfulness) Waking Up by Sam Harris (https://www.wakingup.com/) Instant gratification / delayed gratification (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Present_bias) “Are we solving the right problem?” HBR article (https://core-docs.s3.amazonaws.com/documents/asset/uploaded_file/1525608/Are_You_Solving_the_Right_Problems_-_HBR__Jan-Feb_2017.pdf)

2. 

   14 May 2026

   #4: Incentives

   In this Mindful Mixer Podcast episode, hosts Francesco Portoso, Janina Loureiro, and Mengxi He explore the topic of “Incentives”, reflecting on the hidden forces that shape our decisions, behaviors, and society. Through personal stories and thoughtful discussion, they examine the tension between intrinsic motivation and external rewards, exploring themes such as career choices, social media influence, instant gratification, fear-driven behaviors, and societal pressure. The conversation also touches on capitalism, gender expectations, misinformation, and how the environments around us can subtly shape our values and identity. The hosts also dive into role models, lifelong growth, and how becoming more aware of our incentives can help us live more aligned with our values. Timeline (00:00) Introduction to the Mindful Mixer Podcast (01:04) Why Incentives Matter (01:47) Intrinsic Motivation and Acting Without Rewards (03:16) The Island Test - What Would You Do Alone? (04:47) When Rewards Conflict with Values (10:44) How Incentives Shape Identity and Society: Social Media and Digital Influence (14:17) Incentives Driven by Avoiding Negative Consequences (17:09) Mental Health, Generational Patterns, "Postponing Life" and Learning from Others (22:07) Harmful Incentives in Society, Patriarchy, Social Expectations, Echo Chambers, Bots, and Deepfakes (28:57) Food for Thought - Incentives to Live Aligned With Your Values (33:35) Outro References & Further Exploration "Amusing Ourselves to Death" by Neil Postman (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Amusing_Ourselves_to_Death) "Thinking, Fast and Slow" by Daniel Kahneman (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thinking,_Fast_and_Slow) Intrinsic motivation vs. extrinsic motivation (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Motivation#Intrinsic_and_extrinsic) Echo chambers (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Echo_chamber_(media)) Instant gratification (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gratification)

3. 

   28 Feb 2026

   #3: Given or Chosen?

   In this Mindful Mixer Podcast episode, hosts Francesco Portoso and Janina Loureiro explore "Given vs Chosen", discussing how the traits we are born with and the choices we make intertwine to shape our identity. They explore how evolutionary instincts, genetics, and societal perceptions, such as the "halo effect", influence our lives. The conversation dives into complex themes like "free will", the "scarcity mindset," and how even our most personal choices, like a career path, can be deeply rooted in inherited influences. The episode ends with a discussion on ways to reshape ourselves. Timeline (00:00) Introduction to the Mindful Mixer Podcast (01:26) Introducing the Topic: Given vs Chosen (02:33) Evolutionary Judgments and First Impressions (03:25) Interactive Survey Insights: Health, Genetics, and Control (06:57) Free Will and the Illusion of Control (09:25) Traits as Double-Edged Swords (12:40) The Halo Effect and Appearance-Based Advantages (14:32) Identity and Inherited Influences (16:25) Acceptance vs Rejection of Given Traits (17:24) From Disadvantage to Strength, and Privilege Reflection (19:55) Cultural Identity and Stereotypes (21:30) Reshaping Ourselves Through Awareness, Therapy, Mindfulness, and Feedback (26:54) Closing Reflection (27:45) Outro References - Free Will by Sam Harris (2012) – explores the illusion of free will with thought experiments on choices - This Is Water by David Foster Wallace (2005 speech / 2009 book) – the "fish in water" analogy on unnoticed default realities - Halo effect – psychological bias where attractiveness influences perceptions of intelligence/kindness (Thorndike, 1920) - Lifespan vs. healthspan concepts – genetic baselines in aging & longevity science (e.g., David Sinclair, Peter Attia discussions)

4. 

   11 Nov 2025

   #2: Boundaries

   In this Mindful Mixer Podcast episode, hosts Francesco Portoso and Janina Loureiro explore boundaries - rules to protect oneself - which represent a common struggles in work, family, and self-relationships. They discuss how remote work blurs life boundaries, why self-awareness is key to setting healthy ones, and cultural/societal influences like gender norms and specific upbringing. They explore how boundaries might affect stress and life satisfaction, which areas are the most challenging, and the role of communication and empathy in relationships. Timeline (00:00) Introduction to Mindful Mixer Podcast (01:02) Understanding Boundaries: A Common Struggle (03:18) The Importance of Setting Boundaries and Where They’re Hardest to Establish (05:12) Healthy Boundaries and Self-Awareness (07:25) Boundaries and Time (08:00) Cultural Influences on Boundary Setting (12:08) Gender Dynamics and Emotional Intelligence (14:14) Communicating Boundaries: The Key to Healthy Relationships (17:08) Recognizing and Adjusting Boundaries (19:12) Navigating Guilt and Fear of Conflict (21:22) Balancing Short-Term Comfort with Long-Term Benefits (22:04) Personal Boundaries: Time and Self-Care (24:19) Tips for Boundary Setting (27:00) Outro References - "The Culture Map: Breaking Through the Invisible Boundaries of Global Business" by Erin Meyer https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/22085568-the-culture-map - "2022 survey" by Thriving Center of Psychology https://thrivingcenterofpsych.com/blog/setting-healthy-boundaries/ - "How to Set Healthy Boundaries & Build Positive Relationships" by Jo Nash, Ph.D. - https://positivepsychology.com/great-self-care-setting-healthy-boundaries/ Find more about us: https://tr.ee/mindfulmixer (https://tr.ee/mindfulmixer)

5. 

   19 Jul 2025

   #1: Community & Belonging

   In this Mindful Mixer podcast episode, hosts Francesco Portoso and Janina Loureiro discuss belonging and community, reflecting on a recent related event. They explore the human need for connection, its link to longevity, and the importance of shared purpose or experiences for meaningful communities. The hosts address modern challenges to belonging, the role of trust, and inclusivity, citing a relevant example. Timeline (00:00) Introduction to Mindful Mixer Podcast (01:00) Why Belonging and Community Matter (02:19) Challenges of Belonging Today (04:07) Trust and Relationships in Communities (05:00) Different Ways of Experiencing Community (08:42) What Makes a Community Truly Meaningful? (12:03) Example: The Role of Art in Community Building (14:00) Exclusivity helps building Communities? (17:06) Religion and Secular Belonging: How To Be Inclusive (20:11) The Impact of Intentionality & Gratitude (23:38) Call to Action for Community Engagement References - Cacioppo, J. T., & Patrick, W. (2008). Loneliness: Human Nature and the Need for Social Connection - Dunbar, R. I. M. (1998). The social brain hypothesis - Holt-Lunstad, J., et al. (2010). Social relationships and mortality risk. (2015). Loneliness and social isolation as risk factors for mortality. - Eisenberger, N. I., et al. (2003). Does rejection hurt? An fMRI study of social exclusion. - Ornish, D., et al. (1998). Intensive lifestyle changes for reversal of coronary heart disease. Find more about us: http://bit.ly/mindful-mixer (http://bit.ly/mindful-mixer)

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