What if the emptiness you feel isn’t because you haven’t found love, but because you’ve been looking for the right love in the wrong places?
Misplaced Love is a faith-based podcast hosted by Lois Shallow, a Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner and woman of faith. Through testimony, Scripture, and conversations, Lois explores relationships, emotional wounds, identity, healing, and what happens when good things are asked to fill a place that belongs to God.
This isn’t about loving people less. It’s about putting love back in its proper order and returning to the One who loved us first.
Have you ever stopped and asked yourself what you were actually created to do?
In Episode 5 of Misplaced Love, I talk about purpose, identity, calling, and the ways we can drift toward careers, choices, and expectations that feel safe or practical but may not reflect what God placed inside of us.
I also share a personal story about learning to stop pushing my own plans onto my children and instead asking God to guide me in how to guide them.
This episode is a reminder that your purpose is not rooted in money, titles, approval, or fitting into someone else’s expectations. Sometimes finding your direction starts with going back to God and asking, “What did You make me for?”
If you’ve been feeling stuck, unfulfilled, or unsure of what direction you’re supposed to take, this episode is for you.
Learn more about Still Waters Psychiatry and available mental health services: https://www.stillwaterspsychnp.com/
25 Oct 2026
Obedience While You Wait
What does it look like to trust God when the answer is still unfolding?
In Episode 4 of Misplaced Love, I talk about faith, obedience, surrender, and the challenge of waiting on God when you’re used to handling everything on your own. I share how independence, finances, relationships, and the need to stay in control became areas God was asking me to release.
Sometimes faith isn’t knowing exactly how everything will turn out. It’s continuing to walk with God while you wait, trusting Him with the areas you’re tempted to take back into your own hands.
If you’re waiting for clarity, provision, healing, direction, or an answer from God, this episode is for you.
For additional mental health support and to learn more about Still Waters Psychiatry and available services, visit:
https://www.stillwaterspsychnp.com/ (https://www.stillwaterspsychnp.com/)
10 Oct 2026
When You Thought You Did Everything Right
What happens when you genuinely believe you did everything right, but life still doesn’t turn out the way you expected?
In Episode 3 of Misplaced Love, I share what it felt like to face another divorce and ask God, “How did I get here?” As my relationship with God grew, I began to understand that sometimes the issue isn’t that you’re a bad person. Sometimes major decisions are being made from wounds you haven’t recognized or healed yet.
This episode is about disappointment, unhealed wounds, relationships, discernment, and learning how healing can help you hear God more clearly. And because emotional and mental healing can sometimes require deeper support, Still Waters Psychiatry is here to provide professional psychiatric and mental health care alongside that journey.
If you’ve ever looked at your life and wondered, “I thought I did everything right, so why am I here?” this episode is for you.
Learn more about Still Waters Psychiatry and available services:
https://www.stillwaterspsychnp.com/ (https://www.stillwaterspsychnp.com/)
27 Sept 2026
When Achievement Becomes Your Identity
What happens when the things you worked so hard for become the very things you use to measure your worth?
In Episode 2 of Misplaced Love, Lois explores the pressure to achieve, perform, prove yourself, and keep accomplishing more, even when success still leaves you feeling empty.
This episode is about recognizing when degrees, titles, career, productivity, and achievement begin carrying more weight than they were ever meant to. Lois reflects on what it means to separate your identity from what you accomplish, find your worth beyond performance, and put love and God back in their proper place.
If you have ever wondered, “Who am I without what I’ve achieved?” this conversation is for you.
Learn more about Lois and Still Waters Psychiatry:
https://www.stillwaterspsychnp.com/ (https://www.stillwaterspsychnp.com/)
20 Sept 2026
Looking for Love in the Wrong Places
What happens when we look to relationships, success, achievement, approval, or even good things to give us what only God can provide?
In the first episode of Misplaced Love, Lois shares parts of her own journey and reflects on the places where love, identity, security, and worth can become misplaced. This episode is an honest conversation about recognizing what we have attached our peace to, healing what is underneath, and learning to put God back in His rightful place.
If you have ever found yourself thinking, “When I finally get the relationship, the career, the success, or the answer I’ve been waiting for, then I’ll be okay,” this conversation is for you.
Learn more about Lois and Still Waters Psychiatry:
https://www.stillwaterspsychnp.com/ (https://www.stillwaterspsychnp.com/)
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