Modern Day Bae is an award winning live-stream podcast exploring self-love and healthy modern-day relationships. Hosted by Elle the Druggg, the visual podcast dives into love, dating, growth, and healing, all in front of a live stream audience. Each week features raw, unfiltered conversation with ELLE and the dynamic Boss Bae Panel, bringing diverse perspectives, laughter, and truth. Modern Day Bae is recorded live every #TuesBae at 8PM EST on TikTok, available to watch on YouTube, and wherever you listen to your podcasts.
Modern Day Bae with ELLE
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Podcast Overview
Modern Day Bae is an award winning live-stream podcast exploring self-love and healthy modern-day relationships. Hosted by Elle the Druggg, the visual podcast dives into love, dating, growth, and healing, all in front of a live stream audience. Each week features raw, unfiltered conversation with ELLE and the dynamic Boss Bae Panel, bringing diverse perspectives, laughter, and truth. Modern Day Bae is recorded live every #TuesBae at 8PM EST on TikTok, available to watch on YouTube, and wherever you listen to your podcasts.
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4/3/2024
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Recent Episodes
August 4, 2026
What Does it Mean to be Emotionally Secure?
<p>Are you emotionally secure...or just hoping nothing goes wrong?</p><p>In this episode of <strong>Modern Day Bae</strong>, we're unpacking one of the most overlooked qualities of a healthy relationship: emotional security. We discuss why security isn't about having all the answers or guarantees—it's about trusting yourself enough to handle whatever comes your way.</p><p>Join us as we explore anxious attachment, overthinking, reassurance, self-trust, and why the healthiest relationships are built on confidence, not control.</p>
July 28, 2026
Do You Believe in Second Chances?
<p><strong>Do People Deserve Second Chances?</strong></p><p>Everyone makes mistakes. But does everyone deserve another chance?</p><p>In this episode of Modern Day Bae, we explore one of life's most complicated questions: <strong>Do people deserve second chances—and if so, where do we draw the line?</strong></p><p>Forgiveness can be freeing, but repeated disappointment can be costly. We examine the tension between believing people can grow and protecting ourselves from patterns that never seem to change. Is there a point where another chance becomes permission? And when does grace begin to communicate what we're willing to tolerate?</p><p>Through the lens of self-love, boundaries, and accountability, we challenge the idea that forgiveness and reconciliation are always the same thing. Sometimes loving someone means believing in their potential. Other times, loving yourself means believing their actions.</p><p><strong>In this episode, we discuss:</strong></p><ul><li><p>Does everyone deserve a second chance?</p></li><li><p>Should second chances ever become third, fourth, or fifth chances?</p></li><li><p>The difference between a mistake and a pattern</p></li><li><p>How to recognize genuine growth versus temporary change</p></li><li><p>Whether forgiveness requires giving someone access to you again</p></li><li><p>How self-love influences who gets another opportunity in your life</p></li></ul><p>Because giving someone another chance isn't just a decision about them—it's also a reflection of what you've learned about yourself.</p><p>Whether you're wrestling with a broken friendship, a family relationship, or a romantic partner, this conversation will challenge you to think beyond forgiveness and ask the harder question: <strong>Has this person truly changed... or have I simply become more comfortable hoping they will?</strong></p>
July 21, 2026
Has Healing Become Performative?
<p><strong>Has Healing Become Performative?</strong></p><p>Everyone's talking about healing. Everyone's setting boundaries. Everyone's "protecting their peace." But are we actually becoming healthier—or have we just gotten better at speaking the language of therapy?</p><p>In this episode of Modern Day Bae, we dive into one of the most thought-provoking conversations of our time: <strong>Has healing become performative?</strong></p><p>From social media affirmations and therapy buzzwords to the pressure to present yourself as endlessly evolved, we explore whether healing has become something we perform instead of something we practice. Is growth about becoming a better person, or has it become another way to curate our image?</p><p>We also wrestle with a difficult question: <strong>Can someone be emotionally intelligent and still be emotionally unavailable?</strong> Knowing the right words isn't the same as doing the hard work.</p><p><strong>In this episode, we discuss:</strong></p><ul><li><p>When healing becomes an identity instead of a destination</p></li><li><p>The difference between practicing self-awareness and performing emotional intelligence</p></li><li><p>Whether therapy language is helping us communicate—or helping us avoid accountability</p></li><li><p>Can someone know all the "right" things to say and still struggle with genuine intimacy?</p></li><li><p>How social media has changed the way we define personal growth</p></li><li><p>What authentic healing actually looks like when no one is watching</p></li></ul><p>Because healing isn't measured by how well you can explain your wounds—it's revealed by how differently you love, communicate, forgive, and show up in your everyday life.</p><p>This conversation invites us to move beyond curated growth and ask a more honest question: <strong>Are we healing... or are we just getting better at looking healed?</strong></p>
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