Modern Day Bae with ELLE
ELLE The Druggg
5.0from 4 ratings
- 19
- Episodes
- 4
- Ratings
- Weekly
- Cadence
- 2024
- First episode
About Modern Day Bae with ELLE
Modern Day Bae is an award winning live-stream podcast exploring self-love and healthy modern-day relationships. Hosted by Elle the Druggg, the visual podcast dives into love, dating, growth, and healing, all in front of a live stream audience. Each week features raw, unfiltered conversation with ELLE and the dynamic Boss Bae Panel, bringing diverse perspectives, laughter, and truth. Modern Day Bae is recorded live every #TuesBae at 8PM EST on TikTok, available to watch on YouTube, and wherever you listen to your podcasts.
- Publisher
- ELLE The Druggg
- Category
- society & culture
- Language
- en
- Explicit
- No
- First episode
- 3 Apr 2024
- Latest episode
- 13 Oct 2026
Latest episodes
19 episodes in the feed.
13 Oct 2026
There's No Promise in Potential
We’ve all seen the potential. The vision. The person they could be, the relationship you could have, and the future you can practically see if they would just get it together. But here’s the thing about potential: it comes with no promises. This week on Modern Day Bae, we’re talking about the danger of falling in love with who someone could be instead of accepting who they are right now. How much time are we willing to invest in a possibility? When does being patient turn into making excuses? And how do you know when you’re supporting someone’s growth versus putting your own life on hold waiting for them to become the person you imagined? Because sometimes, the hardest truth to accept is that someone can have all the potential in the world and still not be the person you need them to be. Tune in as we unpack the difference between seeing someone’s potential and building a relationship around it—and why you have to stop confusing what’s possible with what’s promised. Because potential is a possibility, not a commitment. And you can’t build a future on a maybe.
29 Sept 2026
NO-- Without the Negotiation.
Why do we treat “no” like the beginning of a negotiation? In relationships, friendships, dating, and even family dynamics, we’re often taught to explain ourselves, soften the blow, and make our boundaries easier for other people to accept. But sometimes, no is a complete sentence—and it doesn’t require a presentation, an apology, or a second chance to convince you. This week on Modern Day Bae, we’re talking about the power of saying no, the discomfort that comes when someone doesn’t accept your answer, and the difference between communication and constantly having to defend your boundaries. Because respecting someone doesn’t mean agreeing with their decision. And loving someone doesn’t mean you’re entitled to access they’ve said no to. So what happens when “no” isn’t respected? When does asking for clarity become pressure? And have we become so accustomed to explaining ourselves that we’ve forgotten we’re allowed to simply decide? Sometimes the answer is no. And no is the final answer.
26 Aug 2026
The Great 50/50 Debate
The 50/50 conversation in dating has become one of the biggest debates in modern relationships—but what are we really talking about when we say we want things to be equal? In this episode of Modern Day Bae, we’re unpacking the controversial idea of going 50/50 in relationships. Does splitting everything down the middle actually create a healthy partnership, or can “equal” sometimes look very different from “equitable”? We’re talking about money, effort, emotional labor, expectations, gender roles, reciprocity, and the pressure to prove that you’re an independent partner. Because partnership isn’t always about both people doing the exact same thing—it may be about both people contributing in ways that feel fair, valued, and sustainable. So where do you stand? Is 50/50 the foundation of a healthy relationship—or is there more to true partnership than splitting the bill? 🎧 Press play and join the conversation. Because when it comes to love, fair doesn’t always mean equal.
25 Aug 2026
Empowering Yourself
What does it really mean to be empowered in your relationships?In this episode of Modern Day Bae, we’re talking about the difference between wanting to be chosen and knowing that you have the power to choose, too. Self-empowerment isn’t about being independent to the point that you don’t need anyone—it’s about knowing your worth, trusting your voice, honoring your boundaries, and refusing to abandon yourself just to keep a relationship.We’re unpacking what self-empowerment looks like when you’re dating, in a relationship, navigating conflict, making decisions, and deciding what you will—and won’t—accept in love.Because healthy love shouldn’t require you to shrink, silence yourself, or lose yourself.You can want love deeply and still be deeply rooted in yourself.
11 Aug 2026
Cultivating Intimacy
On this episode of Modern Day Bae, we’re going beyond sex and exploring what intimacy really means, why it’s essential to a healthy connection, and why it doesn’t always happen naturally. From emotional vulnerability and physical affection to communication, quality time, trust, and feeling truly seen—we’re talking about the many ways intimacy shows up in relationships.And because men and women don’t always experience or express intimacy in the same way, we’re unpacking those differences too.What is intimacy? Why is it so important? How do we intentionally create it? And what does it take to keep it alive once the relationship gets comfortable?Because chemistry might get you together…but intimacy is what helps you truly connect.
4 Aug 2026
What Does it Mean to be Emotionally Secure?
Are you emotionally secure...or just hoping nothing goes wrong? In this episode of Modern Day Bae, we're unpacking one of the most overlooked qualities of a healthy relationship: emotional security. We discuss why security isn't about having all the answers or guarantees—it's about trusting yourself enough to handle whatever comes your way. Join us as we explore anxious attachment, overthinking, reassurance, self-trust, and why the healthiest relationships are built on confidence, not control.
28 Jul 2026
Do You Believe in Second Chances?
Do People Deserve Second Chances? Everyone makes mistakes. But does everyone deserve another chance? In this episode of Modern Day Bae, we explore one of life's most complicated questions: Do people deserve second chances—and if so, where do we draw the line? Forgiveness can be freeing, but repeated disappointment can be costly. We examine the tension between believing people can grow and protecting ourselves from patterns that never seem to change. Is there a point where another chance becomes permission? And when does grace begin to communicate what we're willing to tolerate? Through the lens of self-love, boundaries, and accountability, we challenge the idea that forgiveness and reconciliation are always the same thing. Sometimes loving someone means believing in their potential. Other times, loving yourself means believing their actions. In this episode, we discuss: Does everyone deserve a second chance? Should second chances ever become third, fourth, or fifth chances? The difference between a mistake and a pattern How to recognize genuine growth versus temporary change Whether forgiveness requires giving someone access to you again How self-love influences who gets another opportunity in your life Because giving someone another chance isn't just a decision about them—it's also a reflection of what you've learned about yourself. Whether you're wrestling with a broken friendship, a family relationship, or a romantic partner, this conversation will challenge you to think beyond forgiveness and ask the harder question: Has this person truly changed... or have I simply become more comfortable hoping they will?
21 Jul 2026
Has Healing Become Performative?
Has Healing Become Performative? Everyone's talking about healing. Everyone's setting boundaries. Everyone's "protecting their peace." But are we actually becoming healthier—or have we just gotten better at speaking the language of therapy? In this episode of Modern Day Bae, we dive into one of the most thought-provoking conversations of our time: Has healing become performative? From social media affirmations and therapy buzzwords to the pressure to present yourself as endlessly evolved, we explore whether healing has become something we perform instead of something we practice. Is growth about becoming a better person, or has it become another way to curate our image? We also wrestle with a difficult question: Can someone be emotionally intelligent and still be emotionally unavailable? Knowing the right words isn't the same as doing the hard work. In this episode, we discuss: When healing becomes an identity instead of a destination The difference between practicing self-awareness and performing emotional intelligence Whether therapy language is helping us communicate—or helping us avoid accountability Can someone know all the "right" things to say and still struggle with genuine intimacy? How social media has changed the way we define personal growth What authentic healing actually looks like when no one is watching Because healing isn't measured by how well you can explain your wounds—it's revealed by how differently you love, communicate, forgive, and show up in your everyday life. This conversation invites us to move beyond curated growth and ask a more honest question: Are we healing... or are we just getting better at looking healed?
20 Jul 2026
Should Women Make the First Move?
Who should make the first move—and why are we still debating it? In this episode of Modern Day Bae, we tackle one of dating's most polarizing questions: Should women make the first move, or does that change the dynamic from the very beginning? Some believe confidence is attractive regardless of gender. Others argue that how a relationship starts can influence how it unfolds. We unpack the expectations, double standards, and dating rules we've inherited, while asking whether they're still serving us in 2026. More importantly, we explore how self-love shapes the way we pursue connection. Is making the first move a sign of confidence—or could it sometimes come from a fear of not being chosen? And is waiting to be approached always about standards, or can it be rooted in fear of rejection? In this episode, we discuss: Whether traditional dating roles still have a place today The difference between confidence and chasing How self-worth influences dating decisions Are men intimidated by women who shoot their shot? Does making the first move set the tone for the relationship? Can both people pursue each other without creating a power imbalance? Whether you're bold enough to send the first text or believe some things should unfold naturally, this conversation challenges the assumptions behind modern dating. Because the real question isn't just who should make the first move—it's whether you're moving from confidence, clarity, and self-love... or from the fear of missing your chance.
19 Jul 2026
Where is the Balance Between Grace vs Enabling?
Grace vs. Enabling: Where's the Line? When does understanding someone's pain become an excuse for accepting their behavior? In this episode of Modern Day Bae, we're unpacking one of the most difficult relationship questions: What's the difference between extending grace and enabling harmful patterns? Whether it's a romantic partner, a friend, a family member—or even ourselves—we've all struggled with knowing when compassion becomes self-sacrifice. Is offering another chance an act of love, or are we simply teaching people what we'll tolerate? Together, we explore the fine line between empathy and accountability, the danger of confusing potential with reality, and why self-love sometimes means letting go instead of holding on. Because grace should never require abandoning yourself. In this episode, we discuss: How to recognize when grace has turned into enabling Why understanding someone's trauma doesn't erase the impact of their choices The difference between patience and self-betrayal Why boundaries and compassion can exist at the same time How self-love changes the way we decide who gets access to us If you've ever wondered whether you're being kind—or simply avoiding a difficult truth—this conversation is for you. Sometimes the most loving thing you can do for someone else is stop rescuing them. And sometimes the greatest act of grace is finally extending it to yourself.
19 Jul 2026
Modern Day Freedom
Juneteenth Special: What Does Freedom Mean in 2026? What does freedom really look like when no one is physically holding you back—but fear, shame, people-pleasing, and self-doubt still are? In this Juneteenth special, Modern Day Bae explores the evolving meaning of freedom in 2026. We honor the legacy of those who fought for our liberation while asking the harder question: What are we still carrying that no longer belongs to us? From generational expectations and relationship patterns to body image, survival mode, and the pressure to constantly prove our worth, this conversation challenges us to examine the invisible burdens we continue to bear long after the chains have been broken. Because freedom isn't only about what you've been released from—it's also about what you're willing to finally put down. Join us for a powerful conversation on self-love, healing, identity, and the courage to live as your fullest, most authentic self. This episode asks: What does freedom mean in today's world? Which emotional burdens have we mistaken for responsibility? Can we truly love ourselves while carrying stories that no longer serve us? What would your life look like if you finally gave yourself permission to be free? This isn't just a Juneteenth conversation. It's an invitation to reclaim yourself.
29 Oct 2024
Battle of the Sacrifice ft King MVP
This week on Modern Day Bae, Join ELLE, the Boss Bae Panel, and special guest co-hostKing MVP, as they discuss the ins and outs of sacrifice and who sacrifices most in relationships. Modern Day Bae w ELLE is the only live streamed podcast exploring self-love and healthy modern day relationships and is recorded in front of a live stream audience every Tuesday at 11 PM EST, exclusively on the Tagged app. Host: ELLE The Druggg Boss Bae Panel: Ms. Sassy Red Naj Top Badge Double El Production: Aquarian Soul Berry Brûlée Top Badge Vetty Theme Song: Vocals - Thuddy Ocho Produced by Ova TV Visuals: Tawag Visuals Editing: ATA Virtual Marketing and Media Sponsors: Tawag Visuals DJ Richbeats Modern Day Bae is a Scoutz🔰 production.
22 Oct 2024
I Can See Your True Transparency ft Top Badge King of Diamonds
This week on Modern Day Bae, Join ELLE, the Boss Bae Panel, and special guest co-host Top Badge King of Diamonds, as they deep dive into the value of being transparent but not over-sharing when dating. Modern Day Bae w ELLE is the only live streamed podcast exploring self-love and healthy modern day relationships and is recorded in front of a live stream audience every Tuesday at 11 PM EST, exclusively on the Tagged app. Host: ELLE The Druggg Boss Bae Panel: Ms. Sassy Red Big Bag Harley Top Badge Jokes on You Production: Aquarian Soul Berry Brûlée Top Badge Vetty Theme Song: Vocals - Thuddy Ocho Produced by Ova TV Visuals: Tawag Visuals Editing: ATA Virtual Marketing and Media Sponsors: Tawag Visuals DJ Richbeats Modern Day Bae is a Scoutz🔰 production.
15 Oct 2024
Cheaters Never Win ft Top Badge Vetty
This week on Modern Day Bae, Join ELLE, the Boss Bae Panel, and special guest co-host Top Badge Vetty, as they deep dive into the aftermath of cheating in a relationship. Modern Day Bae w ELLE is the only live streamed podcast exploring self-love and healthy modern day relationships and is recorded in front of a live stream audience every Tuesday at 11 PM EST, exclusively on the Tagged app. Host: ELLE The Druggg Boss Bae Panel: Ms. Sassy Red Naj Top Badge Double El Production: Aquarian Soul Berry Brûlée Top Badge Vetty Theme Song: Vocals - Thuddy Ocho Produced by Ova TV Visuals: Tawag Visuals Editing: ATA Virtual Marketing and Media Sponsors: Tawag Visuals DJ Richbeats Modern Day Bae is a Scoutz🔰 production.
8 Oct 2024
Eartha Kitt would Never ft Top Badge Carmel
This week on Modern Day Bae, Join ELLE, the Boss Bae Panel, and special guest co-host Top Badge Carmel, as they deep dive into the difference between compromise and settling for less than you desire. Modern Day Bae w ELLE is the only live streamed podcast exploring self-love and healthy modern day relationships and is recorded in front of a live stream audience every Tuesday at 11 PM EST, exclusively on the Tagged app. Host: ELLE The Druggg Boss Bae Panel: Ms. Sassy Red Big Bag Harley Top Badge Teflon Gambino Production: Aquarian Soul Berry Brûlée Top Badge Vetty Theme Song: Vocals - Thuddy Ocho Produced by Ova TV Visuals: Tawag Visuals Editing: ATA Virtual Marketing and Media Sponsors: Tawag Visuals DJ Richbeats Modern Day Bae is a Scoutz🔰 production.
1 Oct 2024
Let's Get Physical ft Top Badge Fame
This week on Modern Day Bae, Join ELLE, the Boss Bae Panel, and special guest co-host Top Badge Fame, as they deep dive into how important physical attraction is in a relationship. Modern Day Bae w ELLE is the only live streamed podcast exploring self-love and healthy modern day relationships and is recorded in front of a live stream audience every Tuesday at 11 PM EST, exclusively on the Tagged app. Host: ELLE The Druggg Boss Bae Panel: Naj Top Badge Baanks Top Badge Jokes on You Production: Aquarian Soul Berry Brûlée Top Badge Vetty Theme Song: Vocals - Thuddy Ocho Produced by Ova TV Visuals: Tawag Visuals Editing: ATA Virtual Marketing and Media Sponsors: Tawag Visuals DJ Richbeats Modern Day Bae is a Scoutz🔰 production.
24 Sept 2024
R.E.S.P.E.C.T. ft Virgo the Vixen
This week on Modern Day Bae, Join ELLE, the Boss Bae Panel, and special guest co-host Virgo the Vixen, as they deep dive into what causes a loss of respect in relationships and if lost, how can be gained back. Modern Day Bae w ELLE is the only live streamed podcast exploring self-love and healthy modern day relationships and is recorded in front of a live stream audience every Tuesday at 11 PM EST, exclusively on the Tagged app. Host: ELLE The Druggg Boss Bae Panel: Ms. Sassy Red Big Bag Harley Top Badge Teflon Gambino Production: Aquarian Soul Berry Brûlée Top Badge Vetty Theme Song: Vocals - Thuddy Ocho Produced by Ova TV Visuals: Tawag Visuals Editing: ATA Virtual Marketing and Media Sponsors: Tawag Visuals DJ Richbeats Modern Day Bae is a Scoutz🔰 production.
17 Sept 2024
No Strings Attached ft Kind Hearted Babe
This week on Modern Day Bae, Join ELLE, the Boss Bae Panel, and special guest co-host Kind Hearted Babe, as they discuss what it truly means to love unconditionally. Modern Day Bae w ELLE is the only live streamed podcast exploring self-love and healthy modern day relationships and is recorded in front of a live stream audience every Tuesday at 11 PM EST, exclusively on the Tagged app. Host: ELLE The Druggg Boss Bae Panel: Naj Top Badge Baanks Top Badge Jokes on You Production: Aquarian Soul Berry Brûlée Top Badge Vetty Theme Song: Vocals - Thuddy Ocho Produced by Ova TV Visuals: Tawag Visuals Editing: ATA Virtual Marketing and Media Sponsors: Tawag Visuals DJ Richbeats Modern Day Bae is a Scoutz🔰 production.
3 Apr 2024
How deep is your love? --ft Casper "The Disaster"
Modern Day Bae w ELLE is the newest visual podcast phenomenon to hit the LIVE community, and the only show on Tagged exploring self-love and healthy modern day relationships. This a weekly show, broadcasted every Tuesday at 11 PM EST on the Tagged app Modern Day Bae is brought to you by The Scoutz. This week on MDB, Join ELLE, the Boss Bae Panel, and special guest co-host Tagged Top Streamer, Casper "The Disaster", as they discuss unconditional love and loyalty.
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