Mommy, May I? is the podcast for the modern moms, gays, and theys who refuse to let motherhood or any other title define them. Hosted by Sika, a first-time mom juggling a career, marriage, and a social life, this show brings real, unfiltered conversations about everything from raising kids to navigating relationships, with a healthy dose of pop culture, crazy stories, and laughs along the way. It’s all about balancing it all without losing your individuality—because you can have it all, and still have fun while doing it.
The host of "Mommy May I?" discusses reaching 10K on YouTube, Beyoncé's Houston absence, birthday party differences, viral seafood boils, celebrity crushes, reality TV, dieting, and insurance hacks for a free boob reduction.
7 Jul 2025
Recession Indicators
The hosts discuss pop culture moments and social media trends as potential indicators of economic instability, exploring the underlying anxieties and behaviors driving these phenomena.
23 Jun 2025
Cry It Out
CEO Max shares his experience running a purpose-driven company and his personal surrogacy journey with host Jamie Lynn Sigler, who offers parenting advice in this interview.
15 Jun 2025
A Man Is Not A Plan
The host reflects on life milestones and the importance of showing up for friends, shares a reaction to an Instagram troll, and addresses a listener's messy relationship dilemma in this solo episode.
9 Jun 2025
No Thot Daughter, No Gay Son
Jordan discusses life as an LGBTQ+ business owner and favorite drag queens with the hosts in this interview episode.
2 Jun 2025
Gays in STEM
Host discusses etiquette, celebrity divorces, and new experiences with guest John in this interview episode, exploring modern social norms and personal growth.
26 May 2025
Thotin’, Plottin’, and Throwing A$$
Host discusses experiences parenting family members and adapting to California life with Javier, who shares his adoption journey and coming out experiences in this interview episode.
19 May 2025
Lipo or Another Baby?
I found myself googling “safe lipo recovery with a toddler”… so yeah, motherhood is mothering. In this episode, I weigh the pros and cons of a snatched waist versus expanding the family (again), spill a little tea on a recent fallout with some fake friends (bless their hearts), and answer a question from a mama-to-be who’s scared of losing herself once baby arrives. I also share some thoughts on navigating in-law situations (without burning bridges—or group chats).
And lastly, with care and compassion, I reflect on the heartbreaking details around Cassie’s story and what it brings up for so many women.
This one’s honest, personal, and a little unhinged—in the best way.
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12 May 2025
Postpartum, Pee Jugs & Everything In Between
It’s Mother’s Day, and I celebrated in Cabo—but that didn’t stop the feelings from showing up. In this episode, I go on a full stream-of-consciousness rant about the mayhem that is motherhood right now—from not loving the way I look 10 months postpartum to remembering that one time I had to pee into a gallon jug for 48 hours during pregnancy (and yes, it had to be refrigerated). This one’s raw, unfiltered, and a little chaotic—just like my life lately.
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5 May 2025
Cowboy C*nty
Yeehaw, baby — Beyoncé brought the boots out and I brought the trauma. I recap my night at the Cowboy Carter tour before taking y’all back to my “Welcome to NYC” moment, which included a sex worker roommate, the 75-year-old naked man I found sitting on my couch, and the kind of chaos that makes you question every life choice. Then, in true Mommy May I? fashion, I close with a jaw-dropping horror story from my favorite Facebook mom group: Sis’ husband comes back from deployment with more than just baggage — he’s got HIV.. Baby… the comments were on fire.
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28 Apr 2025
I'd Rather Be In Labor Than His DMs
In this episode, I’m joined by my close friends Alexis and Kia for some real talk (and even realer laughs). We swap horror stories from dating in LA — because honestly, nothing tests your strength like a first date with an LA man. I also share my birthing story, and somehow we all agree: being cut open, stitched back together, and surviving labor is still easier than surviving these streets. Grab a drink, this one’s a ride.
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21 Apr 2025
Meet Him Where He's At
This episode has range! My friend John joins me as we dive into toxic relationships — trigger warning: abuse is discussed — and react to a wild Facebook mom story where a stay-at-home wife is stuck with a husband addicted to porn, draining their bank account on cam girls. We talk through the madness and what we’d do in her shoes. Then we lighten things up with Smash or Pass, speculate on our personal prostitution rates (don’t ask), and debate whether those space-traveling baddies ever actually left the atmosphere. Chaos? Always. Judgment? Never.
21 Apr 2025
Don't Let Motherhood Stop You From Being a Hoe
It’s the very first episode and we’re diving straight in! I’m sharing the ‘why’ behind this podcast, what you can expect (hint: it’s chaos, comedy, and a little bit of healing), plus a story time about unhinged mom groups that had me side-eyeing the whole concept of ‘finding your village.’ Just because you had a baby doesn’t mean the fun stops—let’s yap!
17 Apr 2025
Before We Begin...
A quick teaser to let you know what Mommy, May I? is all about. Hosted by Sika, a first-time mom who’s still very much that girl, this podcast is for moms, gays, and theys who refuse to let any title box them in. Expect real talk, wild stories, pop culture tea, and unfiltered laughs—all while navigating motherhood, ambition, and identity with zero shame.
Who has been a guest on Mommy May I?
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Max
Jordan
John
Javier
Reach and audience
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YouTube views
77,052
Score snapshot 15 Sept 2025
Apple Podcasts (US)
5.0 / 5
14 ratings
Spotify
5.0 / 5
9 ratings
Podcast Authority Score: 65 / 100
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Quality
74
Social presence
0
YouTube
92
Engagement
51
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