Money Clarity Conversations

About Money Clarity Conversations

If money feels stressful, confusing, or emotional, you’re not alone. Welcome to Money Clarity Conversations with Money Coach Kris. This podcast explores the emotional side of money, helping you understand how your past, patterns, and relationships shape your financial habits. Through real conversations, you’ll gain clarity, confidence, and tools to feel more in control of your money.

Publisher

Money Coach Kris | Kristina Vividor

Category

education

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

1 Apr 2026

Latest episode

15 Sept 2026

Latest episodes

11 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   15 Sept 2026

   The Return On Joy: A New Way To Measure Your Money

   In this episode of Money Clarity Conversations, Money Coach Kris steps away from the Financial Attachment Styles series to talk about a concept she's been sitting with: return on joy. Prompted by the recent loss of a longtime client's wife, and the retirement trips the couple never got to fully take, Kris asks a question she now brings into every planning conversation, did they get a good return on joy, not just a good return on investment? She traces the idea back to the book Die With Zero and to chapter 23 of the second edition of her own book, Re-Wired for Wealth, and shares her own story of chasing a seven-figure income, the burnout, divorce, and therapy that followed, and the coaching question that changed how she measures success. Kris walks through how to build a financial foundation first and let a "joy fund" grow on top of it, why she calls herself "ambitiously lazy," and what she's learning from teaching this balance to eighth graders in Lakeland, Florida. She closes with a direct question for listeners: what are you postponing right now, and what would it take to create that feeling today instead of waiting for the perfect amount of money. Financial Attachment Style Quiz: moneyclarityco.com/attachment-style-quiz-opt-in Money Clarity Community: moneyclarityco.com/community-sign-up Money Clarity Method blog: moneyclarityco.com/money-clarity-method Re-Wired for Wealth (2nd edition, ch. 23): https://www.amazon.com/Re-Wired-Wealth-Financial-Attachment-Actually-ebook/dp/B0FCJNXYLV (https://www.amazon.com/Re-Wired-Wealth-Financial-Attachment-Actually-ebook/dp/B0FCJNXYLV) Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3fsSov0hy6Xgh8vLEmp4cT (https://open.spotify.com/show/3fsSov0hy6Xgh8vLEmp4cT) YouTube: https://youtube.com/@moneycoachkris (https://youtube.com/@moneycoachkris)

2. 

   2 Sept 2026

   Freedom Facilitator: The Financial Attachment Style Built On Autonomy

   In this episode of Money Clarity Conversations, Money Coach Kris continues the Financial Attachment Styles series with a deep dive into the Freedom Facilitator, the style most like an avoidant attachment pattern. Kris explains why Freedom Facilitators resist money dates and financial meetings, the real strengths this style brings (independence, confidence, self-expression, and giving others room to be themselves), and the challenges that come with it (appearing distant, resisting structure, missing long-term planning details). She walks through what a Freedom Facilitator is actually protecting (autonomy), how this shows up for commission-based earners and entrepreneurs with inconsistent income, and the two practical rules that work for this style: defining the why before a purchase, and creating boundaries (not rules) around saving and spending. Kris closes with how the Money Date Game and Money Date Playbook can help a Freedom Facilitator (or the person who loves one) start talking about money without it feeling like a trap. Financial Attachment Style Quiz — moneyclarityco.com/attachment-style-quiz-opt-in Money Clarity Community — moneyclarityco.com/community-sign-up Money Clarity Method blog — moneyclarityco.com/money-clarity-method Shop — moneyclarityco.com/shop Re-Wired for Wealth — https://www.amazon.com/Re-Wired-Wealth-Financial-Attachment-Actually-ebook/dp/B0FCJNXYLV (https://www.amazon.com/Re-Wired-Wealth-Financial-Attachment-Actually-ebook/dp/B0FCJNXYLV) Spotify — https://open.spotify.com/show/3fsSov0hy6Xgh8vLEmp4cT (https://open.spotify.com/show/3fsSov0hy6Xgh8vLEmp4cT) YouTube — https://youtube.com/@moneycoachkris (https://youtube.com/@moneycoachkris)

3. 

   19 Aug 2026

   The Security Saver: The Attachment Style Behind "I Just Need to Feel Safe"

   This episode kicks off a deep dive into each of the five Financial Attachment Styles, starting with the Security Saver. A security saver feels most secure when the future feels protected. Safety, planning, and predictability aren't nice-to-haves for this style, they're emotional grounding. Kris walks through the strengths (excellent budgeting, long-term thinking, staying calm in financial storms) and the challenges (fear of spending even on things that bring joy, feeling rigid, struggling with spontaneity), then gives two rules that help: give every dollar a job, and spend on purpose, not emotion. For anyone with a commission-based income, like realtors, this style shows up in a specific way. A $20,000 commission check doesn't feel like relief, it feels like something to sock away, because the goalpost for "enough" keeps moving. Kris shares an anonymous client example: a physician who makes great money and is financially solid, and still can't let himself relax, even with his own family telling him it's okay. She also covers what happens when the pipeline goes quiet (the scarcity mindset spiral), why constantly bracing for the worst has a real cost (the backpack analogy), and what a healthy, balanced version of the security saver actually looks like. Curious if this is your pattern? Take the free Financial Attachment Style Quiz at moneyclarityco.com. Next episode: the Freedom Facilitator, the complete opposite of the security saver. Links Quiz (primary CTA): https://moneyclarityco.com/attachment-style-quiz-opt-in (https://moneyclarityco.com/attachment-style-quiz-opt-in) Free Community: https://moneyclarityco.com/community-sign-up (https://moneyclarityco.com/community-sign-up) Blog (Money Clarity Method): https://moneyclarityco.com/money-clarity-method (https://moneyclarityco.com/money-clarity-method) Discovery call booking: https://links.moneyclarityco.com/widget/bookings/financial-clarity-discovery-session (https://links.moneyclarityco.com/widget/bookings/financial-clarity-discovery-session) Podcast (Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/3fsSov0hy6Xgh8vLEmp4cT (https://open.spotify.com/show/3fsSov0hy6Xgh8vLEmp4cT) Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/money-clarity-conversations/id1896755867 (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/money-clarity-conversations/id1896755867) YouTube: https://youtube.com/@moneycoachkris (https://youtube.com/@moneycoachkris) Book, Re-Wired for Wealth: https://www.amazon.com/Re-Wired-Wealth-Financial-Attachment-Actually-ebook/dp/B0FCJNXYLV (https://www.amazon.com/Re-Wired-Wealth-Financial-Attachment-Actually-ebook/dp/B0FCJNXYLV)

4. 

   5 Aug 2026

   The Emotional Rollercoaster of Commission Income

   If you have commission-based income, you already know the swing. One month you're breathing easy, the next you're back in scarcity mode wondering where it all went. In this episode, Kris breaks down why that swing feels so emotional and why two people earning the exact same income can experience it in completely opposite ways. She walks through what actually happens in the days and weeks after a big check lands, why the stress most people feel is not really about money, it is about uncertainty, and how your financial attachment style shapes whether you hoard, spend, or spiral when income gets inconsistent. This one is framed around realtors, but it applies to anyone whose income depends on the next deal, the next client, or the next sale. You will walk away understanding why the number in your bank account is never the whole story, and one small mindset shift you can make this week to feel more at peace, no matter what season your income is in. In this episode: Why commission income creates an emotional rollercoaster, not just a financial one What separates a stressed high earner from an at-peace high earner making the same money Why the real trigger is uncertainty, not the dollar amount What happens emotionally in the days and weeks after a big check, and why that "coasting" period sets up the next crash How a Security Saver and a Gift Giver react completely differently to the exact same big month Why "chasing the next deal" is often about something other than money One small mindset shift to start this week, regardless of your income season Links mentioned: Take the Financial Attachment Style Quiz: https://moneyclarityco.com/attachment-style-quiz-opt-in (https://moneyclarityco.com/attachment-style-quiz-opt-in) Join the free Money Clarity Community: https://moneyclarityco.com/community-sign-up (https://moneyclarityco.com/community-sign-up) Read the Money Clarity Method: https://moneyclarityco.com/money-clarity-method (https://moneyclarityco.com/money-clarity-method) Book a free Financial Clarity Discovery Session: https://links.moneyclarityco.com/widget/bookings/financial-clarity-discovery-session (https://links.moneyclarityco.com/widget/bookings/financial-clarity-discovery-session) Get the book, Re-Wired for Wealth: https://a.co/d/0d8ToVCS (https://a.co/d/0d8ToVCS)

5. 

   22 Jul 2026

   Relief Isn’t Peace: Rewiring How You Handle Commission Income

   A big commission check can feel like relief and still leave you scrambling a few weeks later. In this solo episode, Kris breaks down why bigger checks do not automatically create financial security, and walks through the real difference between financial relief and financial peace, plus a new way to think about your money: your ROI, your return on investment, alongside your ROJ, your return on joy. In this episode: Why big commission checks disappear within 30 to 45 days without rules and boundaries in place The difference between financial relief (temporary) and financial peace (lasting) The emotional rollercoaster of commission-based income: abundance highs and scarcity lows Kris’s own story about tying her self-worth to material things, and what changed How financial attachment styles shape the way you respond to a windfall ROI vs. ROJ: balancing return on investment with return on joy What actually creates financial peace (hint: it is not the amount) Reflection questions to carry into your next commission check If you want to know which financial attachment style is driving your money decisions, take the free quiz at moneyclarityco.com/attachment-style-quiz-opt-in. If you want to be around other people doing this work in real time, join the free Money Clarity Community at moneyclarityco.com/community-sign-up.

6. 

   29 Jun 2026

   Money & Mindset in Real Estate with Dani Borow

   Real estate income swings. One month pays you more than you used to make in half a year, and the next goes quiet. The numbers move, and the story you tell yourself about your worth tends to move with them. In this episode I sit down with Dani Borow, a realtor, host of The American Dream, and a wealth builder who helps people rewrite the story standing between them and financial freedom. We get honest about the emotional side of commission income and the small daily practices that keep you steady through the ups and downs. We get into: Why your beliefs shape your results, and how Dani catches the stories that hold her back Dani's Financial Attachment Style as a Gift Giver, and the difference between giving from gratitude and giving from lack The question she asks before an emotional purchase: "Do I really need this, or do I just need a day off?" The reframe that stops a spiral in its tracks: "Is this the ultimate truth?" Using journaling to move out of fear and back into action Freedom versus flexibility, and why consistency is the real foundation Her advice for new agents: build your overflow account first The closing reframe every realtor needs to hear: you're not broken, you may have just never had the right roadmap Take the Financial Attachment Style Quiz: https://moneyclarityco.com/attachment-style-quiz-opt-in (https://moneyclarityco.com/attachment-style-quiz-opt-in) Join the Money Clarity Community (last Wednesday of every month): https://moneyclarityco.com/community-sign-up (https://moneyclarityco.com/community-sign-up) Re-Wired for Wealth: https://www.amazon.com/Re-Wired-Wealth-Financial-Attachment-Actually-ebook/dp/B0FCJNXYLV (https://www.amazon.com/Re-Wired-Wealth-Financial-Attachment-Actually-ebook/dp/B0FCJNXYLV) Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@moneycoachkris (https://youtube.com/@moneycoachkris) Connect with Dani Borow / The American Dream: https://www.instagram.com/daniborow https://www.youtube.com/@daniborow moneyclarityco.com

7. 

   24 Jun 2026

   What a Limiting Belief Actually Is (with Clare Tinsley)

   A limiting belief is invisible to the person carrying it. It feels less like a belief and more like a plain fact, so you rarely question it, and it quietly decides what you think is possible. In this episode I sit down with my friend Clare Tinsley, a mindset and limiting-beliefs expert, to talk about how these beliefs form, why they hide in plain sight, and how they show up around money. We connect her work on mindset with my Financial Attachment Styles and the emotional patterns underneath how we earn, save, and spend. In this episode: What a limiting belief actually is, and why people push back the moment you name one Why your beliefs are invisible to you, and how the people around you keep them in place How money beliefs form in childhood, in some cases by around age two The first step to change, which is smaller than you expect: hope, and the question "how could this be different for me?" Moving from hope to belief to knowing The gratitude reframe: you can have twelve dollars in your account and still choose not to call yourself broke Catching scarcity in real time and returning to "I'm the creator, not a victim" Why emotional regulation, not control, is the real goal with money Take the Financial Attachment Style Quiz: https://moneyclarityco.com/attachment-style-quiz-opt-in (https://moneyclarityco.com/attachment-style-quiz-opt-in) Join the Money Clarity Community (last Wednesday of every month): https://moneyclarityco.com/community-sign-up (https://moneyclarityco.com/community-sign-up) Re-Wired for Wealth: https://www.amazon.com/Re-Wired-Wealth-Financial-Attachment-Actually-ebook/dp/B0FCJNXYLV (https://www.amazon.com/Re-Wired-Wealth-Financial-Attachment-Actually-ebook/dp/B0FCJNXYLV) Connect with Clare Tinsley: https://www.instagram.com/claretinsleylife/ (https://www.instagram.com/claretinsleylife/) moneyclarityco.com

8. 

   1 Jun 2026

   Creating Consistent Money Habits with Inconsistent Income

   A fifty-thousand-dollar month followed by three quiet ones is normal life in commission work. How you ride that wave is rarely about the size of the check. It's about how you're wired with money. In this solo episode, I walk through how each of the five Financial Attachment Styles reacts to unpredictable income, why generic money rules fall apart, and how to build a foundation that actually holds when revenue is inconsistent. In this episode: Why inconsistent income feels like a math problem when the real pattern is emotional The same big month, five different reactions (Security Saver, Experience Creator, Gift Giver, Practical Provider, Freedom Facilitator) Why a rule that doesn't fit your personality is one you quietly abandon "Everything is made up, there are no rules, no one's in charge," and what that really means for your money The Money Clarity Playbook, and the shift from "this is my job" to "this is my business" What financial peace looks like: six months to a year of expenses set aside How consistently disciplined habits build the foundation that creates peace The mission: changing how the world sees money, one trickle-down impact at a time Take the Financial Attachment Style Quiz: https://moneyclarityco.com/attachment-style-quiz-opt-in (https://moneyclarityco.com/attachment-style-quiz-opt-in) Join the Money Clarity Community (last Wednesday of every month): https://moneyclarityco.com/community-sign-up (https://moneyclarityco.com/community-sign-up) Work with me one on one: https://links.moneyclarityco.com/widget/bookings/financial-clarity-discovery-session (https://links.moneyclarityco.com/widget/bookings/financial-clarity-discovery-session) Re-Wired for Wealth: https://www.amazon.com/Re-Wired-Wealth-Financial-Attachment-Actually-ebook/dp/B0FCJNXYLV (https://www.amazon.com/Re-Wired-Wealth-Financial-Attachment-Actually-ebook/dp/B0FCJNXYLV) moneyclarityco.com

9. 

   12 May 2026

   How Childhood Shapes Your Relationship With Money

   Most money habits start forming long before adulthood. In this episode of Money Clarity Conversations, Money Coach Kris explores how childhood experiences, emotional conditioning, family dynamics, and early financial messaging shape the way we handle money today. From scarcity and secrecy to safety, gifts, and financial stress, the experiences we grow up around can influence how we save, spend, avoid, give, and emotionally respond to money as adults. Kristina shares personal stories about how specific experiences shaped her own financial patterns and explains how financial attachment styles develop over time through both direct and indirect experiences. This episode also explores: • how emotional experiences shape money behaviors • why money habits are connected to the nervous system • how family dynamics influence financial decision making • the role childhood plays in financial attachment styles • why awareness matters more than perfection • how rules and boundaries can support healthier financial habits Key Takeaway: Financial habits are often rooted in emotional experiences and learned patterns, not personal failure. Understanding your financial attachment style creates awareness that can help you build systems and habits that feel more supportive and sustainable. Resources & Links: Take the Financial Attachment Style Quiz: https://moneyclarityco.com/attachment-style-quiz-opt-in (https://moneyclarityco.com/attachment-style-quiz-opt-in) Join the Free Money Clarity Community: https://moneyclarityco.com/community-info (https://moneyclarityco.com/community-info)

10. 

    28 Apr 2026

    Why You Struggle With Money (Even When You’re Doing Everything Right)

    You’re trying to be responsible. You’re making smart decisions. You’re doing everything you’ve been told to do with money. So why does it still feel hard? If you’ve ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or like you’re doing everything right and it’s still not working, you’re not alone. In this first episode of Money Clarity Conversations, Money Coach Kris breaks down one of the biggest misconceptions about money. The idea that it is purely logical. That if you just knew more, planned better, or had more discipline, everything would fall into place. But that is not actually how money works. Most money struggles are not about numbers. They are about patterns. They are about the experiences you had growing up, the things you witnessed, the conversations you heard or did not hear, and the emotions tied to all of it. Long before you ever started managing money on your own, you were forming beliefs, habits, and responses that still influence you today. In this episode, you will start to understand how your past shapes your present when it comes to money. You will learn why you might struggle with money no matter how much you make, feel anxious even when you are doing well financially, repeat the same habits over and over, swing between extremes with spending or saving, or feel like you just cannot get it right. This episode also introduces the concept of financial attachment styles. This is the idea that your relationship with money is driven by emotional needs like safety, connection, control, freedom, and stability. These attachment styles influence everything from how you spend, save, and plan to how you show up in relationships, business, and everyday decisions. And the most important part is this. There is nothing wrong with you. You are not bad with money. You are not broken. You are responding in ways that make sense based on your experiences and the emotional needs you are trying to meet. Once you understand those patterns, everything starts to shift. You can stop fighting yourself. You can stop forcing strategies that do not work for you. You can start creating habits, rules, and boundaries that actually align with how you are wired. Whether you are navigating money on your own, in a relationship, or in your business, this awareness changes everything. This episode is the foundation for everything we will build on inside Money Clarity Conversations. What You’ll Learn Why money feels hard even when you’re doing everything right How childhood experiences shape your relationship with money The real reason people repeat the same financial patterns Why money is emotional, not just logical An introduction to financial attachment styles How understanding your patterns can change the way you manage money Key Takeaway You are not bad with money. Your habits are rooted in patterns you learned through experience. Once you understand those patterns, you can start working with yourself instead of against yourself. If this episode resonated with you, the next step is understanding your financial attachment style. Take the quiz here: https://moneyclarityco.com/attachment-style-quiz-opt-in (https://moneyclarityco.com/attachment-style-quiz-opt-in) Or join the community for deeper conversations and support: https://moneyclarityco.com/community-info (https://moneyclarityco.com/community-info)

11. 

    1 Apr 2026

    Welcome to Money Clarity Conversations

    Most money problems aren't actually about numbers. They're about patterns. Welcome to Money Clarity Conversations, the podcast where Money Coach Kris helps you build emotional intelligence around money through your financial attachment style. If you've ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or like you're doing everything right and it's still not working, you're in the right place. Every episode is about understanding how your past, your relationships, and your patterns shape the way you handle money, so you can start working with yourself instead of against yourself. Some episodes are just Kris, and others are honest conversations with people she loves and trusts. Follow the show so new episodes land automatically, and find out which of the five Financial Attachment Styles is driving your money with the free quiz: https://moneyclarityco.com/attachment-style-quiz-opt-in (https://moneyclarityco.com/attachment-style-quiz-opt-in) moneyclarityco.com

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