Comedian Danny Bevins is a father of one, has been married over 20 years, hasn't been on a date in 25, and that's the only life he knows. His brother Darrell is a Never No, which means he has never been married and has no kids. It's a way of life that's fascinating to Danny, and he wants to learn as much as he can. In each episode Danny gets a little more insight as Darrell and others explain their Never No experiences and share stories about dating, knowing when to hold 'em, fold 'em, walk away, and run like hell.
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Perfecta Podcast Network
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health & fitness · society & culture · society & culture
Danny Bevins, Darrell Bevins, Kye Saunders, and producer John J. Murray debate whether you should smoke/drink before a date and what you wish you knew about someone before dating.
0:00 - intro
0:43 - The reefer store
6:18 - Smoking before a date
12:22 - Smokers/nonsmokers dating
14:47 - The Ick
15:32 - Couples with different values
23:30 - Wrap up
25:01 - Contact us at nevernopodcast@gmail.com or leave a message (727) 386-9098
25:32 - Credits
24 Apr 2022
#017 - Relationships So Bad They Ruin Dating For You
Dree Friar joins hosts Danny Bevins, Darrell Bevins, Kye Saunders, and producer John J. Murray a to discuss how bad relationships can ruin a person, insults that stick with you, and men who don’t prioritize a woman’s pleasure.
0:00 - intro
1:33 - Dree has given up on dating
2:39 - Darrell on a date
4:12 - It takes one bad relationship to ruin you
8:03 - Contentment in being alone
11:32 - Broken people
14:39 - Dree's dating story
16:00 - Problems in polyamory
18:03 - Profiling the "Never No'
20:25 - Men without drive
22:17 - Guys that won't go down
26:17 - Insults that last
28:13 - If you want something done, do it yourself
29:13 - wrap up
30:02 - Contact us at nevernopodcast@gmail.com or leave a message (727) 386-9098
30:34 - Credits
17 Apr 2022
#016 - Toxic relationships
Danny Bevins, Danny Bevins, John J. Murray and Kye Saunders welcome guest Sofia Sanchez to discuss finding someone with common interests, love through jiu-jitsu, and the definition of a toxic relationship.
0:00 - intro
0:52 - Sofia's relationships
3:04 -Grappling with love
6:13 - Sofia's wander years before current boyfriend
7:12 - Pregaming with Tinder
10:39 - Avoiding the wrong ones/dating a robot
13:16 - Sharing humor and interest on profiles
17:35 - The importance of a partner who tolerates your flaws
20:53 -The definition of "toxic"
26:48 -Wrap up
27:08 - Contact us at nevernopodcast@gmail.com or leave a message (727) 386-9098
27:39 - Credits
10 Apr 2022
#015 - Love/Hate Relationship with Dating Apps
Danny and John J. are joined by Kye, Dee, and Frankie to talk about their drastically different approaches to dating. Is the journey the destination or should the destination be a clearly defined, immediately obtainable goal?
0:00 - Intro
0:43 - Having fun with dating
3:54 - Dating with purpose
5:21 - Analyzing Darrell Bevins
6:34 - Gender roles
8:13 - Avoid the "fun sponge"
11:09 - Dating junk mail
12:41 - Etiquette of nudes
18:46 - Inconvenient nude
20:26 - Wrap up
20:53 - Contact us at nevernopodcast@gmail.com or leave a message (727) 386-9098
21:25 - Credits
3 Apr 2022
#014 - Moving from just friends to friends with benefits
Danny, Darrell, and John J. are joined by Kye Saunders about dating friends and friends with benefits.
0:00 - Intro
0:43 - Can friendships survive datiing?
3:56 - Waiting in the wings
8:02 - Darrell's big night
12:14 - It can be done
16:24 - Friends with benefits
21:45 - A situationship
25:23 - No one teaches us about love
27:46 - Wrap up
28:15 - Contact us at nevernopodcast@gmail.com or leave a message (727) 386-9098
28:47 - Credits
27 Mar 2022
#013 - Dating Friends, Creepy Messages, and Awkward Dates
Danny, Darrell Bevins and John J. Murray chat with Shelley about dating friends, creepy messages and awkward dates.
0:00 - intro
1:10 - Darrel's news
2:22 - What's you sign?
5:27 - Dating people with kids
7:09 - Dating friends
8:29 - What is a "f**k boy"?
10:16 - The next best thing
15:58 - Left at first sight
17:33 - Competition
19:27 - Shelley's creepy message
21:18 - Casting a wide net
22:39 - Wrap up
24:57 - Contact us at nevernopodcast@gmail.com or leave a message (727) 386-9098
25:29 - Credits
19 Mar 2022
#012 - Dating Before and During Dating Apps
Danny is off but Darrell Bevins and John J. Murray are joined by comedians Marie Williams and Hugh Carey. Hugh walks the hosts through his life dating as a gay man before and during the era of apps.
0:00 - Intro
0:43 - Meet the guests
2:34 - Face the Jury
5:34 - Hugh explains his first hookup
8:41 - Ups and downs in dating
11:54 - Hugh finds a longterm relationship without looking
14:48 - Differences in dating
17:44 - Open relationships
21:15 - Back to Grindr
22:51 - Hinge is the clearance section
26:03 - Wrap up
27:33 - Contact us at nevernopodcast@gmail.com or leave a message (727) 386-9098
28:04 - Credits
13 Mar 2022
#011 - Dating App Stories
Danny is off but Darrell Bevins and John J. Murray are joined by comedians Marie Williams and Kye Saunders who explain dating for a younger generation. What’s it like to have always had dating apps? Are young people seeking relationships? Is the traditional date dead? Listen and find out.
0:00 - Intro
0:44 - Meeting the guests and discussing the theme song
2:07 - Coming of age with dating apps
4:30 - Tinder Jr.
6:30 - In the beginning there was Tinder
9:26 - Researching Hinge
11:06 - What gets attention on Bumble?
12:37 - Saving friends from catfishing
15:36 - Are people in their 20s looking for relationships?
17:06 - Having a hard time having a hard time
21:33 - Making compromises to get lucky
25:46 - The benefits of casual hookups
27:54 - The decline of the dinner and a movie date
30:48 - Wrap up
31:15 - Contact us at nevernopodcast@gmail.com or leave a message (727) 386-9098
31:46 - Credits
6 Mar 2022
#010 - Dating as a Single Mom
The Never Nos are on vacation. Danny Bevins and John J. Murray are joined by single moms Ashley Mostoller and Amanda Wilson to discuss their views on dating with kids.
0:00 - intro
0:43 - Meet the guests
2:16 - online dating before apps
3:56 - Ashley's nightmare relationship
6:38 - Amanda learned to say "no" and recognize red flags
9:38 - Dating apps aren't for everyone
13:00 - Single parenting is no joke
14:03 - When to introduce people to your children
15:44 - How does a single parent find time to date
17:53 - Danny can't imagine his mother dating
18:56 - balancing romance with parenting
20:13 - How children deal with your breakups
21:42 - Modeling healthy relationships
23:24 - New addtitions to the family
24:39 - Advice to single moms
25:43 - Wrap up
26:07 - Contact us at nevernopodcast@gmail.com or leave a message (727) 386-9098
27 Feb 2022
#009 - Dating as a Single Dad
The Never Nos are on vacation. Danny Bevins and John J. Murray are joined by single dads Brad Gilmore and Jander Gray to discuss their views on dating with kids.
0:00 - intro
0:43 - No 'Never Nos', today's guests are single dads
2:10 - Just because you have a kid doesn;t mean you want to date someone with a kid
4:40 - Brad shares a recent heartbreak
7:25 - Brad thinks he's growing as a person
8:31 - Pansexuality
9:51 - Bad people make bad relationships
10:56 - Dating with a special needs child and a toxic co-parent
13:10 - Jander realized he wasn't ready to start dating again
14:21 - A dad can't date someone who hates children
15:56 - Getting caught by their kids
17:42 - Brad's advice for dads trying to date
20:30 - Jander's advice after a horrific divorce
23:03 - We all want love but we need to know how to love
25:30 - Wrap up
25:56 - Contact us at nevernopodcast@gmail.com or leave a message (727) 386-9098
26:28 - Credits
20 Feb 2022
#008 - Texting
Kaiti McCoy and Darrell Bevins explain how texting is utilized in today’s dating. Danny Bevins and John J. Murray are utterly lost.
0:00 - intro
0:43 - Danny is a bad texter
1:41 - Kaiti needs more than one word responses
3:55 - Kaiti had to learn to not stress out about grammar in texts
5:31 - You can learn a lot about person by the way they text and it is important to be mindful of your etiquette
8:58 - Do abbreviated words and slang mean the same things in texts? Do they mean the same things to everyone?
10:08 - Miscommunication in texts
11:48 - More explanation on abbreviations
12:34 - Emojis- do we all understand and agree on what they mean?
14:48 - Danny doesn't understand why people can't answer the phone
15:48 - Darrell think sit okay to wait a day before responding, but everyone else seems to disagree
21:45 - How to flirt in texting without coming on too strong or being a creep
25:21 - Moving from flirting to more intimate exchanges
27:04 - Danny is new to emojis and making mistakes
29:27 - We have to accept each other's texting habits
30:42 - Getting blocked
31:45 - Wrap up
32:10 - Contact us at nevernopodcast@gmail.com or leave a message (727) 386-9098
32:41 - Credits
13 Feb 2022
#007 - How Much Does Dating Cost?
Danny Bevins and John J. Murray ask Kaiti McCoy and Darrell Bevins what it costs to date these days, what's a good first date, who pays, and what are some automatic deal breakers the first time they meet a new person.
0:44 - Dating while broke
2:38 - Dating during Covid
3:53 - Dinner and a movie is a nightmare
5:44 - Meeting over Zoom
6:36 - Meeting at the beach
8:01 - Charcuterie
10:13 - Bike riding
11:33 - Netflix & Chill
12:14 - Checking out their dirty house
15:32 - The house that's too clean
17:00 - Guys with no furniture
17:28 - Messy car
18:23 - Discussing the cost of a date
19:18 - Who pays?
19:45 - Some guys want to pay to make their date feel obligated
21:43 - Being a gentleman (opening doors, paying for dinner, etc)
22:51 - Door test
24:19 - Older generations know the rules
26:54 - Contact us
27:23 - Credits
6 Feb 2022
#006 - Dating People with Kids
Danny Bevins asks Darrell Bevins, Kaiti McCoy, and John J. Murray about their experiences with and philosophies about dating people with children of various ages.
30 Jan 2022
#005 - Getting Back Out There
Danny Bevins swears he'll never date again if his wife were to leave him, and Jander Gray can give him plenty of examples of why he shouldn't. In this episode, Jander joins Danny, Darrell, and John in the studio to talk about dating life after being recently divorced.
23 Jan 2022
#004 - Dating Horror Stories
Ever had a first date where someone tries to pee on you... in the park? Lauren Lance has! We can't thank her enough for stopping by the studio to share that and other unforgettable tales from her dating life with Danny Bevins. Also in the studio: Darrell Bevins and John J. Murray.
0:46 - Darrell went on a date with someone who wouldn't speak
3:10 - Lauren Lance might have found someone
4:00 - Lauren's assessment of the dating sites
5:13 - You probably don't need dating apps
5:55 - Getting your friends to vet the new person
7:05 - Social media allows you to be shadier than ever
8:11 - There comes a point when using a dating app is a really bad sign
8:42 - Dating a cheater
9:30 - The poly thing
12:15 - Let's hear the bad stories
12:45 - Honesty is not the best policy, ladies
13:58 - Pegging
14:38 - Lauren's pee date
21:10 - Laura was honest and look where it got her
22:32 - Withholding info about fetishes doesn't help much either
24:15 - Lauren dodges a bullet
25:00 - Guys who drop the L word early
26:15 - Of course he does hair too
27:43 - The wrap up
29:00 - Contact us at nevernopodcast@gmail.com or leave a message at (727) 386-9098
29:30 - Credits
16 Jan 2022
#003 - What Does Dating Look Like Today?
Smoking weed in the park, watching Netflix at home, and meeting strangers in their vans. Darrell Bevins and Kaiti McCoy share some examples of their first dates while Danny Bevins and John J. Murray ponder how they're still alive.
0:46 - The reason for doing this podcast
1:17 - Danny got hired to write someone's dating profile
1:40 - Introducing the panel
2:28 - How do single people meet?
3:11 - Kaiti prefers to smoke a bowl on the first meetup
5:40 - How forthcoming should you be about weed, etc. when first meeting someone?
8:00 - Where do you meet up for the first time?
10:20 - Netflix and chill is the new dinner and a movie
11:45 - Do you call the first meetup a date?
13:51 - Getting your date to leave
14:15 - Do you really expect the date to lead to a relationship or marriage?
17:45 - What do you talk about at a meetup?
18:28 - Polyamory
19:15 - Managing expectations
19:51 - Talking about your ex on a first date
20:34 - Blind date making you their therapist
21:50 - Not all references to one's exes are bad
23:10 - Kaiti likes hearing about the exes
24:00 - Kaiti would meet people who lived in their vans
26:00 - Dating apps might not be the best way to look for long term relationships
27:22 - Where not to meet for the first time
28:01 - Wrap up
28:45 - Contact us at nevernopodcast@gmail.com or leave a message (727) 386-9098
29:15 - Credits
9 Jan 2022
#002 - Can Someone Explain Dating Apps to Danny?
Danny went off the market long before dating apps were a thing, so he has no idea what goes on in this world. Luckily he and John J. Murray have Darrell Bevins and Kaiti McCoy, two Never No's, to explain how single people navigate the dating scene in the cyber realm. After hearing the pros, the cons, the good stories, and the awful ones, Danny's even happier to say he's a married man.
0:44 - Islendiga - The app that will tell someone in Iceland if they're related to the person they want to date
1:24 - What is dating app?
3:15 - Tinder
3:53 - Kaiti was banned from Tinder
8:00 - What's a win when you're using dating apps?
9:04 - Bumble
10:07 - "In town for a few days"
11:28 - Setting up mini flings while traveling
15:20 - John's experience with dating sites
16:46 - Profile pic must be recent
18:00 - Don't fear rejection
19:55 - Ads on dating apps
21:35 - Danny' idea for an app
22:50 - Darrell's idea for an app
24:40 - Wrapping up
25:41 - Contact us
26:14 - Credits
2 Jan 2022
#001 - What is a date?
To open the podcast, Danny Bevins asks his panel a simple question: What is a date? Danny's brother Darrell, his friend Kaiti McCoy, and producer John J. Murray try to explain what it means to be on a date now to a man who hasn't been on a date in 25 years.
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