Nice Girls Don’t Win is a podcast hosted by reality icon Parvati Shallow and reality producer Amy Bean—working moms, best friends, and chronic oversharers on a mission to make life work for them (and have fun doing it). They ask the tough questions, tell it like it is, and dive deep with experts from all walks of life to bring you the real scoop on doing it al. Expect fresh TV talk, unfiltered conversations, and their fan-favorite segment, where they push their limits for your entertainment. Honest, funny, and insightful—tune in, and just like that, you’re part of the winners circle.
Hosts Parvati and Amy discuss Parvati's drag brunch and upcoming cat motherhood, Amy's overseas trip, summer plans, and their thoughts on Survivor 50 in this season finale.
Parenting expert Lauren Greeno discusses navigating parenthood, managing anxiety in children, and fostering gratitude with hosts Parvati Shallow and Amy Jo Martin in an interview.
21 May 2025
The Hadid Sister Who Manifested Taylor & Travis?
In this magical episode, we sit down with Marielle Hadid — the eldest sister in the iconic Hadid family. While you may know Gigi and Bella from the runway, Marielle once walked her own path as a model before stepping into a more soulful role as a devoted mom, spiritual card reader, and quiet force behind pop culture moments you thought were just coincidence.Marielle opens up about her love of manifestation, the handwritten cards she creates to inspire and uplift (including one that may have sparked the Travis Kelce and Taylor Swift romance), and her work on a stylish new sunglass line for Hadid Eyewear. Oh — and yes, she went to a Taylor Swift concert with Taylor herself, and we get the behind-the-scenes stories you’ve never heard before.If you’re into energy, synchronicity, manifestation, and style with a story — this episode is your vibe.
14 May 2025
Playing Dress-Up with ‘The Nanny’ Stylist Brenda Cooper
This week, Amy and Parvati sit down with legendary costume designer Brenda Cooper—the mastermind behind The Nanny’s iconic fashion. From Fran Drescher’s unforgettable looks to styling a cast of characters, Brenda shares how clothing can be both empowering and expressive. The girls play dress-up in some of Fran’s most fabulous outfits and revisit when Amy and Brenda worked together on Better Late Than Never with TV royalty like William Shatner and Henry Winkler.Brenda talks Studio 54, dream jobs, and her new book 'The Silhouette Solution: Using What You Have to Get the Look You Want' (available wherever you get your books), plus shares easy tips on how to dress for your body, your vibe, and your life. Amy, a fashion lover who thrives with a little guidance, gets inspired—and Parvati, who usually relies on a stylist, picks up tips for building an effortless, everyday look. If you want to feel your best by getting dressed, this is your episode.
7 May 2025
Mother’s Day Special: Meet the Moms Who Made Us
This week, it’s all about the women who shaped us. Amy and Parvati sit down with their real-life mamas for a heartfelt (and hilarious) Mother’s Day special. Hear how these iconic women were raised, who gave them their grit, and what their relationships with their moms look like today. Plus, we answer more listener questions and dive into your comments—so keep ‘em coming! Like, share, leave a review, and most importantly… call your mom. Happy Mother’s Day from Nice Girls Don’t Win.
30 Apr 2025
Drag Brunch recap and Rapid Fire with Amy & Parvati
It’s just the two of us, and we’re not holding back. In our first-ever solo episode, Amy puts Parvati in the hot seat with some rapid-fire questions—including the one we all want to know: what’s going on with her love life? We talk about becoming the person you want to be (hint: it has everything to do with the company you keep), and Parvati recaps her iconic Drag Brunch performance—which might just be her next career move. Plus, we answer listener questions straight from our Instagram polls, so if you’re not following @nicegirlsdontwin_, what are you even doing? Tune in for girl talk, life tips, and the kind of laughs that only come when it’s just us.
23 Apr 2025
Social Game So Strong, It’s Global with Survivor AU royalty Shonee Bowtell
Parvati and Amy are back in the studio—and this week, they’re joined by Australian Survivor legend and manifesting queen, Shonee Bowtell. A mom, a mastermind, and a fan favorite, Shonee dishes on social strategy, finding her dream guy, and why people compare her game to Parvati’s (they get into it).The girls also recap a recent Hulu event and tease some buzzy new shows, including Call Her Daddy: Overboard for Love. Plus, a little preview of Australian Survivor: Versus the World, airing this summer.If you like women who know what they want—and how to get it—this one’s for you.
16 Apr 2025
How to Win Reality TV with Survivor's Sandra Diaz Twine and Netflix's Million Dollar Secret Cara Kies
Thinking about being on a reality show? Want the inside scoop from people who’ve actually won? This episode is packed with insights, stories, and a touch of the supernatural.
With spring break around the corner, Parvati and Amy are headed up to Northern California—haunted houses and all—and they might just have a new show idea with legs. Joining them this week? Two massive guests: Reality TV legends Sandra Diaz-Twine (Survivor queen and two-time winner) and Cara Kies, the breakout mastermind behind Netflix’s new hit Million Dollar Secret.
Sandra and Parvati open up about their once-icy relationship, how they squashed the beef, and what they’ve learned from competing at the highest level. Then Cara reveals how she transformed from sweet gamer to ruthless strategist—and what it cost her emotionally to win big. Plus, producer Gaby Jones (Amy’s right-hand wizard) jumps in to share the behind-the-scenes story of Cara’s now-infamous “one sister” game move.
Whether you’re a superfan or a future castaway, this episode is for anyone curious about how to play—and win—the reality game.Sanra Diaz-Twine (@sassysdt)Cara Kies (@caralidia)Gaby Jones (@gabyyjones)
9 Apr 2025
White Lotus Finale w/ Comedy Couple Taylor & James + Million Dollar Secret's Sam Hubbard
This week, Amy and Parvati take Nice Girls Don’t Win on the road to the official White Lotus hotel, thanks to HBO and a slew of fabulous sponsors. Things get off to a chaotic start when they accidentally roll into the event… via the loading dock. Classic.Once inside, they’re joined by special guests and comedy power couple @taylorgraysen and @jamesmitchellneal—known for their hilarious TV spoofs and viral sketches. Appearing in character as Chelsea and Rick from the afterlife, they dish on what’s next for their fans and reveal why Parvati might just be the Jaclyn Lemon of the weekend. Also, it’s decided: Taylor is officially Amy and Parvati’s third. Don’t ask, just listen.The episode wraps with a surprise interview with Sam Hubbard—Netflix’s Million Dollar Secret star, real-life NYC cop, wife, mom, and low-key badass.If you like to laugh (and don’t mind things getting a little ridiculous), this one’s for you.
2 Apr 2025
Enneagram Types w/ Stephanie Barron Hall + Netflix’s Million Dollar Secret w/ Lauren Jean
It’s a big week for Nice Girls Don’t Win listeners, and this episode is packed with gems.
We highly recommend taking the Enneagram test before tuning in, because our guest Stephanie Barron Hall (@ninetypesco) is breaking down all nine personality types—and trust us, it hits different when you know your number. The Enneagram helps you understand your core motivations, fears, and patterns... and if you're anything like Parvati (a fun-loving Type 7) and Amy (a high-achieving Type 3 who really wants to be a 7), you’ll want to make all your friends and family take it too.
And don’t worry, we’ve got some juicy reality TV for you too. Stick around 'til the end to meet Lauren Jean (@laurenmidwest), the first millionaire from Netflix’s new reality hit Million Dollar Secret. She’s a self-proclaimed Enneagram 4, and the show is giving The Traitors energy—so you know Parvati (former Traitor) and Amy (producer of MDS) have thoughts.
Take the free Enneagram test via the link on our IG: @nicegirlsdontwin
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26 Mar 2025
David Genat Breaks Down his Deal or No Deal Island Victory
We’re joined by none other than Deal or No Deal Island champion (and Survivor Australia legend) David Genat, a.k.a. “The Golden God.” We talk through his wild final night, what was going through his head in those last moments, his favorite memories from the game, and what life’s been like since becoming a multi-millionaire.
He opens up about his relationships with the cast, how fans have reacted to his “fake family” storyline, and what his real family thought of it all. We also get into the big celebration party and the superfan bond that’s formed between him and Parvati — a friendship rooted in admiration, gameplay, and some seriously strategic minds.
And for the Survivor fans: yes, we talk about Boston Rob. David shares how his entire game persona — both on Survivor and now on Deal or No Deal Island — was born from a simple Google search of “Parvati and Boston Rob.” That one moment sparked the creation of an iconic player, and now? He’s not just the best to ever play Survivor in Australia… he’s also the best player to ever win Deal or No Deal Island.
Let’s just say, being nice wasn’t exactly part of the plan — and it paid off big. This one’s a must-listen.
19 Mar 2025
Parvati’s Game Is Over, But Chelsea’s Hacks Will Keep You Winning
This week on Nice Girls Don’t Win, Parvati is officially off the Banker’s Island—no more briefcases, no more multi-million-dollar stakes. She and Amy dive into what that experience was like, whether she misses the game, and what’s next. Plus, they break down White Lotus theories (yes, we’re talking about that kiss) and try to guess who the killer is.In book club, we’re halfway through The Chronology of Water by Lidia Yuknavitch—raw, tough, and pure storytelling. No spoilers yet, but we have thoughts.And our big guest this week? Chelsea Explains—Instagram’s overnight sensation and self-proclaimed Michael Jordan of babysitting. She’s got the ultimate hacks—not just for parenting, but for life. Chelsea shares her take on reality TV, why it’s not always a bad thing for women to be “bad,” and the simple yet powerful mindset that turned her creativity into a career.If you’re a tired mom, a reality TV lover, or just need a little motivation to go for that idea, this one’s for you. Listen now, and don’t forget to follow Chelsea on IG at @ChelseaExplains and TikTok @chelseaexplainsitall !
12 Mar 2025
Surviving The Traitors: Carolyn Wiger Tells All
In this laugh-out-loud episode, we sit down with "The Traitors" breakout star and infamous eye roller Carolyn Wiger! Finally free from the confines of the cold Scottish castle, Carolyn gets real about her mental state in and out of the game and what life looks like now that the cloak-and-dagger drama is over. Who’s she actually friends with? Who does she trust now? Is she dating? And of course, we finally get to the bottom of her surprising new friendship with Boston Rob! Tune in for laughs, behind-the-scenes scoop, and Carolyn’s unfiltered take on all things Traitors — and life beyond the castle walls.
5 Mar 2025
Rebecca Woolf on Pleasure, Parenting & Living Unapologetically
This week on *Nice Girls Don’t Win*, Parvati and Amy sit down with the trailblazing Rebecca Woolf—author, mother, and unapologetic pleasure advocate. As a single mother and widow raising four kids on her own terms, Rebecca is redefining what it means to thrive in life after loss. No shame, no filter, no apologies—just raw, real talk about life, loss, love, and vibrators.
26 Feb 2025
Survivor, Traitors & TV Icons: Cirie Fields Unfiltered
In honor of Survivor 48 airing tonight, we bring on the legend herself—Cirie Fields!
Cirie, Survivor icon, Traitors Season 1 winner, and proud mom of three strong boys, joins us for a deep dive into reality TV like never before. We chat about her and Parvati’s upcoming run on Australian Survivor (airing this summer!), the toughest game moves they’ve ever made, and why embracing vulnerability on TV is the real power move.
Plus, things get a little spicy during our Playtime segment. Tune in to hear what it really takes to become a reality TV legend!
#Survivor #RealityTV #CirieFields #NiceGirlsWin
20 Feb 2025
Reality TV Casting Secrets with Alison Kaz | Nice Girls Don't Win
Ever wondered how your favorite reality stars end up on screen? Today, we sit down with the queen of casting herself, Alison Kaz, who has an uncanny ability to find the perfect mix of personalities that make reality TV so addicting. She spills behind-the-scenes stories, shares what makes someone pop in an audition!And—because life is more than just camera time—we dive into a heartfelt chat about fertility, family, and what happens when the biggest challenge isn’t surviving tribal council, but starting a family. Whether you're a reality TV superfan, an aspiring cast member, or just trying to balance ambition and real life, this one’s for you!
13 Feb 2025
Hot Nerd, Big Dreams: Winning the game of life with Joe Mangianello
Parvati and Amy have officially upgraded their podcast studio with brand-new furniture, and for the first time ever, they welcome an in-studio guest! This week, they sit down with *Deal or No Deal Island* host—and the undeniable King of All Nerds—Joe Manganiello.
Joe is obsessed with reality TV (he even made a Survivor casting tape!) and shares his take on reality TV versus scripted TV. They dive into his gamer side, his passion for Dungeons & Dragons, and the highs and lows of his career. He also opens up about his journey with sobriety, dating apps, and, of course, DONDI.
But that’s not all—Joe is a proud dad to his 11-year-old rescue pup, Bubbles, and the conversation takes a turn as we find out if he really wants to be a dad in the future.
Plus, you do not want to miss “playtime” with this one—we get some behind-the-scenes stories that you won’t hear anywhere else.
Tune in for a fun, juicy, and totally unfiltered episode!
5 Feb 2025
Trust No One, Except the Universe
On Nice Girls Don’t Win, we’ve leveled up—new digs, same mission: to get this right. And guess what? We’re finally podding in the same room! Revolutionary.
This week, we’re spilling behind-the-scenes tea from Deal or No Deal Island, breaking down the latest episode of Traitors, and talking about a show we have some pretty fun connections to—The White Lotus. We’re also getting real about career highs, lows, and personal moments that’ll have you laughing.
But because we believe in winning, we’re calling in the cosmic reinforcements! The incredible psychic astrologer Carol Starr joins us to share her 2025 predictions and advice for every zodiac sign.
And for playtime? Well, let’s just say you’ll find out who’d rather be naked for a day or rock a toothless grin for a month. Priorities, people.
29 Jan 2025
Survival of the Smartest: Parvati, Amy & the Chaos of Reality TV
Welcome to the very first episode of Nice Girls Don’t Win! Host Parvati Shallow, reality TV legend and Survivor champion, teams up with powerhouse producer Amy Bean to pull back the curtain on the world of unscripted television. From their whirlwind friendship formed on Deal or No Deal Island to the behind-the-scenes chaos of reality competitions, they dive into the highs, lows, and unfiltered truths of playing—and making—the game.
And they’re not alone. This week, they’re joined by none other than Survivor icon and Traitors mastermind Boston Rob Mariano! Rob shares his strategy secrets, his experience navigating the mind games of Traitors, and what it really takes to win (hint: it’s not about being nice).
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