Single Parenting (A young single dads perspective)
11 Nov 2022
"I love you" an important phrase for emotional development of kids and himand in general.
Dear Parents, Fathers in particular, make it a duty to say "I love you " to your daughters as often as possible so that they shouldn't think it's a big deal when they grow up and boys start saying it to them.
My African Parents please don't be shy plz.🤲🏼
My heart is heavy Just after listening to this story on NJAKA Line TV .
24 Nov 2021
Programming
Now let me tell you a little something about "programming". I really don't like the word but its the best that describes what adults(parents/guardiens) do to their kids during childhood untill they grow up. Ever heard this famous quote " If you don't program your kids, society will program them for you".
Programming your kids is ok because they are kids. They need someone to look up to. That someone should be you as a parent. If that someone isn't you then it should be someone you can seek expert advice from; someone in whom you have studied their SOURCE.( I explained this better in the podcast).
When you Program your kids, they may grow up snd grow out of the programming at a certain stage as they begin to understand or not. Your job is to keep programming them at their different stages of growth untill they become of age because if you don't society will still do it for you anyways.
Different stages of growth=Different programming.
First stage of growth for example a kid identifies to be a girl or a boy through your programing. At adulthood the child can decide to reverse that or stick with it.
Let me leave you with this question. On an average, how many minutes do you spend with your kids between the time they return from school and the time they wake up and are off to school again? Oh! you don't need to. Afterall you have paid lumpsum of school fees so let their teachers do their job right?😃
The sermon today is too long, spiritual and deep.
I will just drop a link to my podcast here. Tap on it and listen in your free time, a lot easier to digest when I spit orally.
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25 Oct 2021
How To Heal From A Trauma; The Process. My experience.
New episode of NJAKA_Line is here and it's a dedication to our beautiful Caro Luise.
I took few minutes to talk about my healing process and my relationship with Caro Luise; Who she is to me, has been a popular question i have been asked.
I also talked about a project in the pipeline that She was to play a role in, together with other kids in Buea and Limbe.
Tap on the link. (The text in blue) to listen.
18 Sept 2021
Kids With Abusive Parents
We know our kids are back in school but we also know some parents, especially those whose kids are just starting school for the first time this year can not "shock it". I saw on Facebook as a parent could not bring herself to go home after dropping her kid at school so she had to stay around the campus untill school was over so she can take her back home. I see me in her 😂.It's not easy.
Hi Itambi Delphine. 😂. All jokes aside, let's pray for those kids who are stock home with no food, abusive parent, and their only safe place is school.
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There are two types of Kids at school; those who are excited when the closing bell goes and those who are not excited about the closing bell or who do not want school to be over.
The former is common and very normal but the later is a huge call for concern. Hear me...
If you are teacher I want to thank you because you are doing an amazing job already but just add a little consciousness. Key word "Conscious" a solid word. For those who don't know, we are building a community "Concious Parenting" on Facebook click on the link and request to join.
A kid who is reluctant to return home after school hours is either a John book, Mary book or is afraid of something back at home. So you
can start from there. Talking to the kid is an option but it's not a guarantee that the kid will tell you what's going on. Very few kids are expressive, I mean you can't blame them because most situations their abusers have threatened them not to utter a word. Also, most of these kids do not even recognize an abusive situation. They just have a way of innocently communiting like the one about staying back after school hours.. That is why my @CBEC Program is designed to help kids to learn to identify any abusive situation and speak up.
Parents try to make your home peaceful and welcome and a place where these little angels will be happy to return to.
There is so much more on this in this episode.
Listen up. Click the link(text in blue) below.
1 Sept 2021
Back To School with CBEC
Back to School with CBEC
19 Aug 2021
Kids and Various Personality Types
In this episode we are worried about a parent who is seeking advice in how to "sharpen" the son's brain because she thinks the son is "dull".
Do you as a parent take time to study your kid? If yes what personality type does your kid possess? Is your kid an introvert or an extrovert? If you can't answer that, don't worry, after listening to this episode you will be able to answer that and more.
7 Aug 2021
Disciplining children
Hello, if today is your birthday. I wish you a happy one.
NEW PODCAST💥💥
"These little Angelic demons can make someone go mad..."🤦🏽♀️
Popular opinion asked for my opinion about hitting or spanking children.
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1 Aug 2021
About Shutting Down Schools In Cameroon. (Education Versus Schooling)
Happy New Month.
I'm very excited! Its my birth Month. August13th.
This month I'm particularly concerned about the reaction of young people after the results of public exams are published.
"About Shutting Down Schools In Cameroon" ...
Schooling❌
Education✅
Listen👇🏼
I personally think we give too much importance to these public exams. It's not that deep. Today I share with you a podcast I made on this sensitive topic.
20 Jul 2021
Unconditional love. Does it exist?
"Our children do not belong to us, they belong to their souls" Tengu solange.
A typical example of "unconditional" love used to be the one that exists between parents and their children. Is it still the case nowadays? Find out in this episode some ways to love your children unconditionally.
19 Jul 2021
Is it important to ask the opinion of kids?
While some parents think its useless asking the opinion of their kids before taking major decisions about their life, some think its absolutely necessary. Others just don't know. What about you? What do you think?
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