Nope! We're Not Monogamous
Hosted by host · Ellecia Paine
4.7from 112 ratings
- 167
- Episodes
- 93
- Transcribed
- 112
- Ratings
- Bi-weekly
- Cadence
- 2021
- First episode
- 86K
- YouTube views
About Nope! We're Not Monogamous
Ellecia Paine is a non-monogamy relationship coach who helps people navigate ENM (Enthusiastic non-monogamy), polyamory, open relating, swinging, kink, tantra and life in general. Listen in to the candid conversations that give you a peek into the inner lives of other non-monogamous folks. Hear how they've overcome challenges like jealousy, insecurity, and social scrutiny. And celebrate with them as they share all the reasons it's worth it to have relationships that don't fit in the box.
- Publisher
- Ellecia Paine
- Category
- education · health & fitness · society & culture
- Language
- en
- Explicit
- Yes
- First episode
- 19 Jun 2021
- Latest episode
- 24 Sept 2026
Latest episodes
93 of 167 episodes have a transcript.
24 Sept 2026TRANSCRIPT
My Marriage Ended.... That Doesn’t Mean It Failed, EP. 166
10 Sept 2026TRANSCRIPT
Rewind: Your Best Sex Isn't Behind You | Susan Bratton
27 Aug 2026TRANSCRIPT
Rewind: Jealousy, Compersion & the Messy Truth About Non-Monogamy with Dirty Lola
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My Marriage Ended.... That Doesn’t Mean It Failed, EP. 166
Published 24 Sept 2026 · Transcript excerpt
[…] What does it mean for a relationship to succeed? Right. Like we're we're handed this really narrow, incredibly narrow definition of relationship success. You meet someone, you fall in love, you commit, you stay together. And if you stay together until one of you dies, congratulations, successful relationship. Now you get your trophy. If you break up, obviously something went wrong. Someone failed. Someone didn't try hard enough. You chose the wrong person. You wasted all those years. What? Right. And even though those of us practicing non-monogamy, ethical non-monogamy, have questioned a whole lot of the traditional relationship scripts, I don't think we're always as good at questioning this part. […]
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- Susan Bratton
- Dirty Lola
- Ellecia Paine
- Candace Sogren
- Natalie Davis
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- YouTube views
- 85,664
- Score snapshot 15 Sept 2025
- Apple Podcasts (US)
- 4.7 / 5
- 50 ratings
- Spotify
- 4.7 / 5
- 62 ratings
Podcast Authority Score: 82 / 100
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- Quality
- 98
- Social presence
- 0
- YouTube
- 76
- Engagement
- 90
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