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LOW VS HIGH EFFORT MEN, SHOULD WE GO 50/50? | NBM Podcast
Are we really supposed to go 50/50 in relationships? Or is that just what culture tells us?In this episode of the Not By Might Podcast, we break down the difference between low effort and high effort men, what effort actually looks like in dating and marriage, and whether 50/50 is even the right goal.Is provision only financial?Does leadership mean control?What does effort look like in real life, not just on social media?We talk honestly about expectations, roles, respect, and what builds a healthy, God centered relationship. This one might challenge you.Let us know in the comments.Do you believe in 50/50 or something different?Subscribe for more conversations on faith, marriage, culture, and real life.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jemiandshalom/https://www.instagram.com/notbymightpodcast/Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5PlPrRJPLdnsrKW56QT6Q8?si=sCp1WGMqS0iD_KKjVzYIWQTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jemiandshalom #NotByMightPodcast #HighEffortMen #LowEffortMen #MarriageTalk #ChristianMarriage #DatingAdvice #RelationshipStandards #FaithAndMarriage #ModernRelationships #BiblicalMarriage #CouplesPodcast #BlackLove #MarriageConversation #RelationshipDebate
31 Jan 2026
WAITING TILL MARRIAGE, IS IT WORTH IT??
Hi Friends! This episode was real, raw, and maybe a bit hard, but we really believe in the plans God has for us, and we have firsthand experienced the joy found in that! If you need any accountability and prayer, let us know, and we will pray for you! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jemiandshalom/https://www.instagram.com/notbymightpodcast/Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5PlPrRJPLdnsrKW56QT6Q8?si=sCp1WGMqS0iD_KKjVzYIWQTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jemiandshalom 🕊️ “Not by might nor by power, but by My Spirit,” says the Lord (Zechariah 4:6)👇 Be sure to like, share, and subscribe to stay up to date with new episodes every week!#ChristianPodcast #NotByMightPodcast #FaithBasedPodcast #Waiting #christianmarriage #christiandating #waitingongod #ChristianCouples #FaithOverFeelings #NBMPodcast #TrustGod #KingdomMarriage #ChristianLiving #marriagevideo #KirubaFamily #Zechariah46
24 Jan 2026
IS ATTRACTION IMPORTANT IN CHRISTIAN DATING??
Hi friends! We are so excited to be diving back into the NBM Podcast. In this season, the Lord has put on our hearts to talk about all things Christian Dating, Relationships, and Marriage. In this episode, we are diving into what the Word says about attraction. What do you think?? Is attraction important? Is it a deal breaker? Let's discuss in the comments! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jemiandshalom/https://www.instagram.com/notbymightpodcast/Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5PlPrRJPLdnsrKW56QT6Q8?si=sCp1WGMqS0iD_KKjVzYIWQTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jemiandshalom 🕊️ “Not by might nor by power, but by My Spirit,” says the Lord (Zechariah 4:6)👇 Be sure to like, share, and subscribe to stay up to date with new episodes every week!#ChristianPodcast #NotByMightPodcast #FaithBasedPodcast #PregnancyJourney #PostpartumSupport #ChristianMarriage #BuyingAHouse #YoungChristianCouples #FaithOverFeelings #NBMPodcast #GodInEverySeason #TrustGod #KingdomMarriage #ChristianLiving #NewBeginnings #KirubaFamily #SpiritualGrowth #Zechariah46
19 Jul 2025
What's New With The Kirubas
In this episode of Not By Might, we’re catching up on everything new in our lives. From pregnancy updates and buying our new home to navigating the challenges of postpartum and how easy it is to run to entertainment for comfort. We get real about where we’ve been, what God’s teaching us in this season, and how we’re learning to lean on His strength, not our own.Whether you’re in a season of transition, healing, or just trying to stay rooted in your faith, this conversation is for you.
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26 Oct 2024
The Great Commission
That is a wrap on Season 1 of the Not By Might Podcast!! We are taking a little break over the holidays, but until then, we leave you with Jesus's parting words.
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12 Oct 2024
God's Perfect Timing
Trusting in God's timing is hard, especially for planners. But God is faithful and truly his timing is perfect.
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6 Oct 2024
Q&A: Being Baptized to be Saved, The Sin of Colorism, and Hearing From God
Answering some of your questions! If you have more questions drop them in the comments below :)
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28 Sept 2024
Unraveling the Identity of the Holy Spirit
Who is the Holy Spirit? Is He a person? How does he work in our lives? Find out that and more on this episode of the Not By Might Podcast!
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21 Sept 2024
Why Suffering Is Biblical
What does the Word say about suffering? What does it look like to suffer well?
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14 Sept 2024
How To Walk With God In Your Day To Day
Life is hard, life is busy. How do we balance it all? We tackle that and more in our new Not By Might Podcast episode :)
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7 Sept 2024
Christian Dating and Relationships
What does Christian dating look like? Is desiring marriage wrong? What do I have to do to be married? All that and more we tackle in our new episode on the Not By Might Podcast
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31 Aug 2024
A Spiritual Awakening: Our Testimonies
Not everyone's testimonies are the same, yet we all have a responsibility to give an account of your experience with Jesus. What is yours?
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24 Aug 2024
Who Are We and What Even Is This??
Welcome to the Not By Might Podcast! We are so excited to launch this, it has been on our hearts for quite some time now. If there is anything you want us to address or speak about let us know and we will get to it!
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