Not Related

About Not Related

Not Related is a podcast where two lifelong best friends—who call each other siblings—share their unfiltered takes on Reddit’s “Am I the Asshole” posts, pop culture, and music. Every Tuesday, we dive into juicy dilemmas, trending topics, and the songs we can’t stop playing—all with plenty of laughs and sibling-style banter. Tune in for the hot takes, stay for the vibes.

Publisher

Tobias, Dede

Category

comedy

Language

en

Explicit

Yes

First episode

7 Jan 2025

Latest episode

20 May 2025

Latest episodes

20 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   20 May 2025

   YBBSH

   Otherwise known as: YOU FAT BIG BACK STEALING H*E Episode Summary In this episode, co-hosts Tobias and Dede tackle the messy relationship of content creators Kai and Havo. Later, they will explore all that Reddit has to offer, from kleptomaniac roommates to pregnant lesbians. Listen as this duo gives their unfiltered takes on these stories. All this and more on Not Related. - - - (00:00:00) Introduction (00:07:35) Kai & Havo (00:19:55) For leaving my roommate stranded after she kept using my stuff without asking? (00:33:38) For not being willing to pick my wife up at 2AM? (00:46:42) My girlfriend of 4 years just told me that she's pregnant...I'm a woman, so it can't be mine. But she swears she didn't cheat. What do I do? (01:07:39) Epilogue - - - Messy TikTok - Kai and Havo Content Creators Kai and Havo are making waves on TikTok after the reveal of some messy relationship drama. The tea? Kai is pregnant by the man she was allegedly speaking with while she was with Havo. Oh, did we mention, Kai previously claimed she was a hardcore lesbian? ⁠Source 1⁠ AITJ - For leaving my roommate stranded after she kept using my stuff without asking? This is not a roommate. This is a problem. OP turns to the internet for advice, after friends claim she was the a**hole for abandoning her roommate when she needed a ride to the airport. Mind you, the roommate in question was low-key stealing from the subredditor. No, OP, you are not the jerk, but you need to establish and enforce your boundaries, because it is very clear your roommate does not respect you. AITA - For not being willing to pick my wife up at 2AM? Subredditor vents to the internet after one too many late-night trips picking up his drunk wife. He shares that his wife goes out to party with friends, sometimes as late as 2 AM, and expects him to pick her up. The problem? He has to get ready for work at 4 AM. No, you are not the a**hole. It just sounds like your wife is on some BS. BORU - My girlfriend of 4 years just told me that she's pregnant...I'm a woman, so it can't be mine. But she swears she didn't cheat. What do I do? This subredditor shares a plot-twisting tale about her girlfriend of 4 years, who ended up pregnant. If you think the girlfriend cheated? We thought so too. - - - Instagram: @cloudbias and @not_related90s Tiktok: @cloudbias and @mintycharme Email: not.related90s@gmail.com⁠ Reddit: ⁠ https://www.reddit.com/r/NotRelatedPod/⁠ - - - Hosts: Tobias & Dede Producer: Tobias Writer: Dede Graphic Designer: Dede Editor: Tobias

2. 

   13 May 2025

   FOR THREE YEARS?!?!

   In this episode, co-hosts Dede and Tobias explore all that Reddit has to offer. From bro codes and love triangles to vegans and allergies, listen as this duo gives their unfiltered takes on these stories. Later, they will discuss recent changes in the Academy of Motion Pictures, and a woman who shares how she cheated on her husband for three years. All this and more on Not Related. - - - (00:00:00) Introduction (00:01:14) AITJ: For ‘stealing’ my friend’s crush even though he was cheating on his actual girlfriend? (00:31:20) AITJ: For refusing to let my sister-in-law stay at my house because she’s “a vegan with a peanut allergy”? (00:40:35) Academy of Motion Pictures: Rule Update! (00:57:28) Woman Cheats on Husband with best friend. Husband takes her back. (01:23:00) Epilogue - - - AITJ: For 'stealing' my friend’s crush even though he was cheating on his actual girlfriend? (https://www.reddit.com/r/NotRelatedPod/comments/1kgm087/aitj_for_stealing_my_friends_crush_even_though_he/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button) OP turns to Reddit for advice! Is he in the wrong for pursuing a relationship with his friend’s crush, even though the person in question is cheating on his actual girlfriend? If you ask us, not only is this situation beyond immature, it sounds like your friend has no business being in a relationship, considering he doesn’t even value the woman he os with. So, to the unfortunate lady with that cheating disaster, run! AITJ: For refusing to let my sister-in-law stay at my house because she’s "a vegan with a peanut allergy"? (https://www.reddit.com/r/NotRelatedPod/comments/1kgmb0c/am_i_the_jerk_for_refusing_to_let_myisterinlaw/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button) OP wonders if refusing to let her sister-in-law stay at her house is wrong after the unreasonable demands that were 'asked' of her to make the sister's week-long stay comfortable. We find it interesting that a person thinks it is their given right to make changes in a home that is not their own. If you ask us? Tell your sister to stay at a hotel! Story - Academy of Motion Pictures: Rule Update! The Board of the Academy of Motion Pictures and Sciences officially declares that Academy members must watch nominated films to be eligible to vote for the Oscars. Question: why wasn’t this a rule before? ⁠Source (https://press.oscars.org/news/awards-rules-and-campaign-promotional-regulations-approved-98th-oscarsr) Story - Woman Cheats on Husband with best friend. Husband takes her back. A guest sits with a Christian to discuss alongside various topics, her infidelity of 3 years. Regardless of your religion, or even lack thereof, we posed this question: If your partner cheats on you for years, will you take them back? Source 1 (https://www.instagram.com/reel/DIegEtJOEvk/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link) Source 2 (https://open.spotify.com/episode/7zXlHrym7UfL1wupQIRl6Q?si=QjI1L2lTSgSWQR4rI-yRSA) - - - Instagram: @cloudbias and @not_related90s Tiktok:        @cloudbias and @mintycharme Email:         not.related90s@gmail.com⁠ Reddit: ⁠ (https://www.reddit.com/r/NotRelatedPod/)      https://www.reddit.com/r/NotRelatedPod/⁠ (https://www.reddit.com/r/NotRelatedPod/%E2%81%A0)

3. 

   6 May 2025

   Car Park Simulator

   In this episode, co-hosts Tobias and Dede explore all that Reddit has to offer, from exaggerated resumes to getting accused of adultery. Listen as this duo give their unfiltered takes on these stories. All this and more on Not Related. - - - (00:00:00) Introduction (00:10:10) Some of Y’all Need to Stop Bullshoosh On Your Resumes! (00:13:33) AITA: For wearing underwear to sleep? (00:32:13) Neighbors From Hell (01:42:09) Best of Redditor Updates - - - r/Interviews: Some of Y'all Need To Stop Bullshoosh On Your Resumes (https://www.reddit.com/r/NotRelatedPod/comments/1kf1gwq/some_of_yall_need_to_stop_bullshitting_on_your/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button)! OP is tired of the lies! This Redditor shares their experience interviewing a potential candidate for a role, only to quickly realize the interviewee has no idea what they put in their resume. If you're gonna lie about your expertise in a role, pretend to know your stuff. AITA: For wearing underwear to sleep? (https://www.reddit.com/r/NotRelatedPod/comments/1kf1h07/aita_for_wearing_underwear_to_sleep/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button) OP turns to the internet for advice after an awkward situation where his brother and his girlfriend walk into his bedroom, where he is awakened from his slumber. Here's the problem: he was naked, and something was standing at attention. Honestly, knock before you enter. Respect people's boundaries! AITA: If I charge my gf 1k for rent while I pay 2k+ (https://www.reddit.com/r/NotRelatedPod/comments/1kf1gtq/aita_if_i_charge_my_gf_1k_for_rent_while_i_pay_2k/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button)? OP seeks advice regarding his potential living arrangements. He wonders if charging his gf for rent makes him the a**hole. You guys might need to pause moving in together if expenses will be a concern while your girlfriend is still in school. NFH: Should I let it go?! (https://www.reddit.com/r/NotRelatedPod/comments/1kfsdly/should_i_let_it_go/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button) OP is stuck in a parking war with their neighbor and turns to Reddit for advice. Here’s our advice: your property? Own it! Call the authorities and get their car towed! BORU: I [28/F] started making sexy videos for my boyfriend [29/M/2 yrs.] as a surprise. He found out and thinks I'm cheating (https://www.reddit.com/r/NotRelatedPod/comments/1kf1gpy/i_28f_started_making_sexy_videos_for_my_boyfriend/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button) OP nearly ended her relationship! This Redditor shares how filming “private” films for her boyfriend led to her man accusing her of cheating. - - - Instagram: @cloudbias and @not_related90s Tiktok:        @cloudbias and @mintycharme Email:         not.related90s@gmail.com⁠ Reddit: ⁠ (https://www.reddit.com/r/NotRelatedPod/)      https://www.reddit.com/r/NotRelatedPod/⁠ (https://www.reddit.com/r/NotRelatedPod/%E2%81%A0) - - - Hosts: Tobias & Dede Producer: Tobias Writer: Dede Graphic Designer: Dede Editor: Tobias

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Spotify

5.0 / 5

1 ratings

Podcast Authority Score: 29 / 100

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Quality

45

Social presence

0

YouTube

0

Engagement

32

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