This week on Not So Dear A.B.B.Y., we hear about how one woman’s belongings go missing every time her sister and posse come to visit. Whose sticky fingers are behind the missing personal items, dollar store trinkets, laundry pods and rat traps? Hide your kids, hide your wives, hide your husbands, because “Sissy” is coming to visit and she’s snatching up everything! Then we hear about an ex-wife who wants her ex-husband and his new girlfriend to babysit her baby (with another man) while she go...
18 Nov 2025
Hey, What’s Up Hello…
This week we get into group chat policy. Can you relate? Are you the “attention keeper”? The like/lover? The silent reader? Friendship, especially the older we get requires a different level of intimacy. How can we do better? Reach out to those long time friends that we don’t always chat with. Send a comment, or advice questions, or say hello! We can not respond, but could answer you in a future podcast! Thanks for being here :) See You Next Tuesday! Thanks for tuning in to Not So De...
4 Nov 2025
Group Seven Unite
This week on Not So Dear A.B.B.Y., the ladies trade wine glasses for personality charts and find out what really makes each of us tick… or snap. Cyn, Tammy, and the crew dive into their 16Personalities (Myers-Briggs) results and unpack what it means to be an INFJ, ENFJ, and everything in between. From overthinking friendships to being the “therapist friend” everyone calls at midnight, we get hilariously honest about how our personality types show up in love, work, and girls’ trips gone side...
4 Nov 2025
S2E3
Send a comment, or advice questions, or say hello! We can not respond, but could answer you in a future podcast! Thanks for being here :) See You Next Tuesday! Thanks for tuning in to Not So Dear A.B.B.Y. Podcast! Don’t forget to subscribe, share, and join the conversation. New episodes drop every Tuesday—so mark your calendar and we’ll See You Next Tuesday! 🎙 Not your Grandma's Advice Column! Connect: Facebook: NotSoDearAbbyPodcast: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1C3otN5Q2j/ Email...
4 Nov 2025
Cold Feet and Hot Beer
This week on Not So Dear A.B.B.Y., we uncover a skeleton in one widow’s scandalous closet and deliberate on whether there’s any way to dress it up to make it not look so bad. We jump “cold feet” first into relationship doubts, a cancelled wedding and the fact that there are many stories of people who jump ship before the “Big Day”…and others who should have. Let’s face it, sometimes there’s just nowhere to steer to keep some relationSHIPS from hitting an iceberg. Then we discuss the gea...
30 Sept 2025
Rewind: Why Buy The Cow When The Milk Is Free
Welcome to Not So Dear A.B.B.Y., where the wine is chilled, the advice is unsolicited, and the friendships are real. In our 2nd episode we explore our segments What Grinds My Gears, Weekly hot topic on “cutting” and teen issues, and Am I the Asshole? 🤗 Pull up a chair, pour a fresh cup of coffee, and a glass of your favorite toddy, and join us for Episode 2. Buckle up ~ it’s about to get unfiltered, a little unhinged, and absolutely unforgettable. Not your grandma’s advice column! We ar...
23 Sept 2025
Confessions, Catfights, and Corporate Crap with Rick and Henry
This week on Not So Dear Abby, a Christian widow wants to confess a decades-old affair to her brother-in-law (who just so happens to be newly single). We crown dogs superior to humans (Hotels, take note! Fido never smoked in your rooms or wrecked the furniture). A wedding AITA: after planning the wedding and helping the bride find a dress…she’s not invited. Meanwhile, her husband is standing proudly with the family. WHAT?! Red flags flying everywhere! What Grinds Our Gears: ...
16 Sept 2025
#8 Laura's Episode: ONLINE Dating & "Nice Lamps"
Join this week's host Laura & co-hosts Tammy, Shelly & CYN as we talk about online dating situations and unsolicited photos! 🎙 Episode Title: Online Dating, Unsolicited Photos & Facebook Games 📄 Episode Summary: This week on Not So Dear A.B.B.Y. Podcast, we’re diving into the messy, funny, and sometimes cringe-worthy world of modern dating. From swiping right to sending way too much, way too soon, online dating is full of pitfalls—and we’re talking about the big one: unsolicited...
9 Sept 2025
You’re Too Big To Fit In There Gnomie!
This week on Not So Dear Abby we’re talking about husbands and their wild ideas. One wife wrote in fuming because her husband didn’t want her to cut her hair short—Abby told him her scissors, her choice. Another swapped out his wife’s car for a truck because “they didn’t need it”… yeah, she’s not exactly revving with excitement. Of course, we can’t just leave it there. We spiral into clearance stickers that are practically superglued, how social media has desensitized us to showing we actua...
2 Sept 2025
Becky with the Good Notes
This week, it’s all about the sisterhood, both sweet and sour. We dig into a Dear Abby letter from Smothered in PA, whose sister has no concept of boundaries and somehow ropes in the in-laws. Then we unravel a DNA-test disaster that turned one family upside down over a misunderstanding about dads, secrets, and science. Plus, we talk family meetings (yes, with toe-pinching Tammy and slurping Mitchel), what it really means to be an aunt, and why sometimes the messiest family stories make the be...
26 Aug 2025
Respect the damn Sandwich Mildred
This week on Not So Dear A.B.B.Y. Podcast, we dive into some wild relationship dynamics: from a wife nicknamed “Mildred the dead wife,” to juggling young coworkers and their office romance drama, to dealing with a longtime partner who is suddenly into an overnight co-ed hobby meetup group… and swingers? 🍍 Along the way, we talk about what happens when love, betrayal, and illness collide. Two full readings of Dear Abby: • “Dead Wife’s Memory Haunts Man’s Romance With Widow” - (8/27/1991 ...
19 Aug 2025
Marriage, Mischief, and a side of Spanking
This week on Not So Dear A.B.B.Y., the ladies dive into some jaw-dropping real-life advice column stories and serve them up with their signature sass and honesty. Double Life Drama: A wife finds herself in a 16-year marriage to a man who’s juggling another partner on the side. Can you really “have your cake and eat it too”? Spanking in the Courtroom?! We unpack the shocking case where a U.S. judge actually gave a husband permission to spank his wife when she “misbehaves” and how quickly disci...
12 Aug 2025
Don’t Talk About My Friend Like That!
In this episode of Not So Dear A.B.B.Y. Podcast, we’re covering it all from the way we talk to ourselves, to the little everyday annoyances that drive us nuts, What Grinds My Gears, to an all new “Am I the Asshole?” scenario you won’t want to miss. Also all new Not So Dear A.B.B.Y. letters that we discuss and cuss about! We’ll dig into the power of self-talk and how it shapes our mindset, vent about the small things that really grind our gears, and put our judgment caps on to decide if someon...
5 Aug 2025
Why Buy The Cow When The Milk Is Free
Welcome to Not So Dear A.B.B.Y., where the wine is chilled, the advice is unsolicited, and the friendships are real. In our 2nd episode we explore our segments What Grinds My Gears, Weekly hot topic on “cutting” and teen issues, and Am I the Asshole? 🤗 Pull up a chair, pour a fresh cup of coffee, and a glass of your favorite toddy, and join us for Episode 2. Buckle up ~ it’s about to get unfiltered, a little unhinged, and absolutely unforgettable. Not your grandma’s advice column! We ar...
31 Jul 2025
Allow Us To Introduce Ourselves
Welcome to Not So Dear A.B.B.Y., where the wine is chilled, the advice is unsolicited, and the friendships are real. In our very first episode, we’re introducing ourselves, four friends who turned an RV and a few big ideas into a traveling podcast studio. We’re giving you a peek into how this wild ride started, what "A.B.B.Y." really stands for (spoiler: it’s not what you think), and what you can expect in episodes to come. Buckle up ~ it’s about to get unfiltered, a little unhinged, and abso...
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