Not So Secret Lives

About Not So Secret Lives

Get ready for unfiltered conversations about dating, life, love, sex, and relationships with two best friends who have truly been through it all. From epic dating fails and steamy confessions to the ups and downs of finding real connection, we’re sharing our most raw and relatable stories with plenty of laughs and zero judgment. Whether you’re navigating the single life, figuring out love, or diving back into the dating pool, join us as we explore every twist and turn with honesty, humor, and heart. Stay Connected! Want to keep the conversation going? Follow us on social media! Instagram: @not_so_secret_lives TikToc: @not.so.secret.lives Facebook: Not So Secret Lives Podcast YouTube: @notsosecretlives Don’t forget to share your thoughts and tag us! We’d love to hear from you.

Publisher

Chantell Edwards and Karina Dustin

Category

society & culture · society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

Yes

First episode

28 Oct 2024

Latest episode

29 Jan 2026

Latest episodes

10 of 29 episodes have a transcript.

1. 

   29 Jan 2026TRANSCRIPT

   Are We Dating The Same Guy?

   The hosts discuss the "Are We Dating the Same Guy?" Facebook pages, exploring the line between women's safety and public shaming, and examining accountability in the digital age.

2. 

   11 Nov 2025TRANSCRIPT

   Foreplay For The Win

   Hosts discuss the importance of foreplay, exploring personal preferences and listener feedback to enhance intimacy and pleasure.

3. 

   5 Nov 2025TRANSCRIPT

   Love Bombed or Loved Right?

   Hosts Karina and Chan explore the nuances of healthy relationships versus love bombing, emphasizing the importance of trusting one's intuition and prioritizing personal happiness amidst external opinions in this episode.

Inside a recent episode

Are We Dating The Same Guy?

Published 29 Jan 2026 · Transcript excerpt

[…] Yeah. That is not how it has gone. No, it was like that in the beginning. You definitely started that way, which I thought it was a great concept. So I loved it. And I will tell you right now, I have searched guys on there to see if I could get any like tea on them or whatever that one guy that we found out that he did have like a lot of assault charges. And yes, and I was very thankful for that. Yeah, in that moment, because I would have had no idea, right? And he went to your house. Yeah. So after, yeah, which I mean, you and I, we couldn't care. We lived in the moment. I know we dated anyone in their mom. […]

Who has been a guest on Not So Secret Lives

Names identified in recent episode analyses. Showing up to five guests.

• Becky Whetstone
• Brook
• Jennie
• Haylie
• Fay

Reach and audience

Public platform figures. Ratings count people who left a rating, not total listeners.

YouTube views

4,191

Score snapshot 15 Sept 2025

Spotify

4.6 / 5

22 ratings

Podcast Authority Score: 46 / 100

A composite of feed quality, social presence, YouTube performance and engagement. Read the methodology.

Quality

44

Social presence

0

YouTube

68

Engagement

51