The Not There Yet Podcast is hosted by Phillip and Stephania Whitfield. Together, they share honest conversations about life, faith, family, and growth. It's not about having all the answers but about learning, relearning, and becoming who we were created to be.
If you have ever felt the tension between where you are and where you want to be, you will find encouragement, honesty, and hope here. Because the truth is, none of us have arrived. We are all still on the journey. We're not there yet...
In this season 2 premiere, Phillip and Stephania discuss what it means to stay, even when things get tough and don't look the way you thought they would.
25 Nov 2025
Episode 7 - Navigating the Holidays
Navigating the holidays with family can be full of memories; Phillip and Steph look back on how things were before and with marriage and kids.
Join in the conversation and share your favorite holiday memories!
17 Nov 2025
Episode 6 - Help! I'm an Introvert Married to an Extrovert!
Opposites attract, and then they have to figure out how to live together. In this episode, Phillip and Stephania share what it’s really like when one of you thrives on people and the other needs peace and quiet. From funny stories to honest lessons, they talk about learning to understand each other’s wiring, communicate better, and make space for both connection and calm because they’re not there yet, but they’re learning as they go.
11 Nov 2025
Episode 5 - Fighting for Friendship in Marriage
Marriage isn’t just about love; it’s about friendship. In this episode, Phillip and Stephania talk about what it looks like to fight for friendship when life gets busy, stress creeps in, or connection feels distant. From laughter to honest moments, this is a real conversation about keeping your marriage grounded in friendship, even when you’re not there yet.
4 Nov 2025
Episode 4 - Marriage: Should it be 50/50?
Phillip and Stephania discuss the concept of equality vs. equity in marriage. Does marriage always have to be an even 50/50 split?
28 Oct 2025
Episode 3 - The Concept of Community: Why is it so hard sometimes?
Phillip and Stephania talk about some of their personal struggles with building community, pushing into uncomfortable spaces despite previous experiences, and encouraging those who might feel the same about community.
21 Oct 2025
Episode 2 - Parenting: What We'd Do Differently (and What We'd Do Again)
In this episode...Phillip and Stephania tackle their list of three things they are glad they did as parents and three things maybe they would do differently.
14 Oct 2025
Episode 1 - What are we doing?
Phillip and Stephania introduce the new podcast and share some looks at their childhoods and set the stage for what listeners can look forward to as the podcast continues!
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