Heyyy lovely leader! I’m Lindsey, your go-to girly for all of the leadership skills that help women lead in ways they were never taught.
We talk about the stuff no one teaches you at work: The emotional, mental, and energetic skills that sit underneath the strategies.
✨ Each episode feels like a mini masterclass: packed with powerful questions, mindset shifts, and truth bombs that help you grow your leadership practice week by week.
So if you’ve ever thought, “There has to be another way to lead…” Then this space is for you.
Let’s redefine leadership. Together.
See you on the pod!
Lindsey is traveling this week, so she's bringing back an episode from the archive. But the timing couldn't be better...
Between mid-year review season and that back to school energy in the air, it's the perfect moment to actually ask yourself what you want next.
Whether that's reimagining your current role or considering something totally different, this episode gives you the clarity Lindsey's clients have been finding on their own calls lately.
And no, you don't need January 1st for any of this. New year energy starts whenever you decide it does.
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5 Aug 2026
Are You Curious?
Everyone talks about curiosity like it's a personality trait. This week Lindsey is telling you it's a leadership strategy. And honestly? It's kind of a genius one.
We're getting into:
- How to use questions instead of statements to actually get buy-in
- How to manage up without losing your mind
- How to get your ideas heard by the people who matter (yes, even the ego-driven ones).
And of course, we're not skipping the part where Lindsey turns it around and asks YOU a few questions, because none of this works if you're not in the right headspace to ask them in the first place.
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14 May 2026
The Right Leader Called — She Doesn't Exist
In this episode, Lindsey is calling out the thing nobody in leadership development wants to admit: the "right leader" you've been trying to become? She doesn't exist. She never did.
Lindsey walks you through the spectrum of how this shows up, why it makes complete sense that you ended up here, and what it's actually costing your leadership practice.
If you've ever had that Sunday feeling that something is just... off, even when everything looks fine on paper, this one's for you.
Links mentioned-
→ Free Connection Call: https://calendly.com/lindseymaza/connection-call
→ 1:1 Leadership Coaching: https://theselfloveknowing.com/leadership-coaching
11 Jun 2025
Why Delegating Feels So Hard
Lindsey Pollak explores the emotional challenges of delegation, revealing why it's difficult to hand off tasks and manage the underlying anxieties.
29 May 2025
What If It’s Not About Balance? Redefining How We Work, Live and Lead
Lindsey Adams discusses work-life intentions, moving away from the outdated concept of balance to provide a more realistic and empowering approach to integrating work and life.
23 Apr 2025
Come Get Ready With Me (GRWM) - Self-Love Edition!
Putting on your makeup, making your coffee, or going for your morning walk?
Get ready with Lindsey as she gives you a friendly pep talk with a few deep breaths, empowering questions and self-love reminders.
File this under - GRWM Self-Love Edition!
16 Apr 2025
Leadership Lessons from a Year of Surviving Not Thriving
April is Lindsey's birthday month and she's reflecting on the last couple of years! Spoiler alert - they weren't that fun.
She's giving us 3 leadership reflections and then something she is planning on doing differently this year.
Tune in for reflections that may shape how you live and feel for your next year around the sun!
28 Mar 2025
Are Women Holding Women Back at Work?
In this episode, Lindsey dives into a topic that’s been quietly shaping how women navigate leadership — the way we’ve been conditioned to see other women as competition instead of collaborators.
From media narratives that pit women against each other to the unconscious judgments we carry, it’s time to unpack the ways we might be holding each other back. Lindsey shares five common ways this shows up, from the double standards placed on women in leadership to the scarcity mindset that fuels competition.
But it’s not about blame — it’s about awareness. Because when we recognize these patterns, we can change them. Lindsey also opens up about the importance of acknowledging privilege and amplifying diverse voices in these conversations. It’s a call to shift from tearing each other down to building each other up.
If you’re ready to challenge old beliefs and embrace a more supportive, empowered way of leading, this episode is for you. Let’s break free from the narratives that no longer serve us — together!
5 Mar 2025
Connect with Your Feminine Energy Meditation
Take a deep breath and reconnect with your feminine energy. This guided meditation from Lindsey will help you feel grounded, confident, and aligned as you step into your day with ease and power! Press play and let’s begin. ✨
26 Feb 2025
A New Approach to Emotional Intelligence
We’ve all been told that emotional intelligence is the key to being a great leader. But the the thing is - emotions aren’t meant to be neatly managed or checked off a list. They’re meant to be felt.
In this episode, Lindsey is pulling back the curtain on what EQ misses and why emotional embodiment is a different way to approach this soft skill. She’s here to challenge the outdated idea that controlling your emotions makes you a better leader - because real leadership isn’t about suppressing what you feel, it’s owning it.
If you’re ready to stop overthinking and start actually feeling your way to more powerful leadership, this episode is for you!
11 Feb 2025
The Most Underrated Soft Skill in Leadership!
When we talk about leadership, we hear a lot about emotional intelligence, executive presence, and even mastering corporate dynamics. But, what if we told you there’s one soft skill that makes ALL of those easier—and most people completely overlook it?
In this episode, Lindsey is diving into the most underrated and overlooked leadership skill!
This soft skill is what gives you the confidence to speak up, the clarity to make aligned decisions, and the resilience to lead in a way that actuallyfeels good.
Tune in for a fun, unexpected breakdown of why this soft skill is the foundation for advancing your career (while also enjoying your life) and creating a workplace people actually want to be part of!
See you on the call!: https://calendly.com/lindseymaza/not-your-dads-leadership-call
30 Jan 2025
Leading From Where You Are
In this deeply reflective episode, Lindsey shares a raw and honest account of the past few weeks—starting the new year with excitement, only to be met with unexpected heaviness. From the fires in LA to the weight of the world’s events, Lindsey explores what it means to lead with vulnerability, compassion, and humanity.
The conversation dives into the messy reality of being a leader in times of personal and collective heaviness, challenging the outdated ideals of stoicism and perfection.
Whether you're grappling with self-doubt, struggling to hold it all together, or just wondering how to lead in a way that feels real, this episode will remind you that you’re not alone—and that being human is the greatest gift you can bring to the table.
Take a moment for yourself, tune in, and let these reflections inspire you to embrace the messiness of your journey with courage, resilience, and self-compassion.
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19 Dec 2024
Tapping Into Self-Love and Confidence for the New Year
In this final episode of the year, Lindsey guides you through a soothing EFT tapping session designed to help you release stress, honor yourself for everything you’ve navigated this year, and step into the holiday season with renewed self-love and confidence.
Learn how EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques) works by tapping on meridian points to calm your nervous system, clear emotional blocks, and recenter yourself. Whether you’re feeling overwhelmed by holiday pressures, reflecting on the year, or preparing to enter 2025 with intention, this practice is here to support you.
Take a moment for yourself, tap into your power, and let this session be a reminder that you are worthy of rest, love, and everything you desire in the year ahead.
11 Dec 2024
Becoming Her: Creating Your Leadership Vision for 2025
As we step into a new year, it’s the perfect time to dream bigger and align with the version of yourself you’re ready to become.
In this episode, we’ll dive into your vision for 2025, uncover how you want to feel, and get clear on who you want to be as a leader—both in your own life and for others.
This isn’t about resolutions or rigid plans, it’s about connecting to your desires, scripting your perfect day, and exploring what’s possible when you fully step into your power. Let’s get intentional and start designing a life and leadership pratice that truly feels like you! 🌸
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4 Dec 2024
How to Actually Celebrate Yourself and Your Team as a Leader
In this episode, Lindsey dives into the often-overlooked practice of celebrating yourself and others in the workplace. She explores why women struggle to acknowledge their own achievements, unpacking societal and systemic pressures that keep high-performing women small. Through relatable stories, neuroscience-backed insights, and tangible tips, Lindsey reveals how celebrating yourself builds confidence, beats imposter syndrome, and sets the stage for more success.
Lindsey also shines a light on the power of celebrating others, creating a ripple effect of connection and trust in leadership. She shares practical questions to help you reflect on your wins, learn from mistakes, and embody a leadership style that feels empowering. Whether you’re a manager, a rising leader, or simply looking to show yourself some love, this episode will leave you feeling uplifted, inspired, and ready to celebrate all that you’ve accomplished this year.
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20 Nov 2024
How Self-Acceptance Inspires Authentic Leadership
Self-acceptance is the ultimate leadership superpower, but what does it actually mean, and how do we embody it in a world that often pressures women to conform? In this episode, we’re diving deep into the link between self-acceptance, authenticity, and leadership. Sharing her own journey of trying to fit into boxes that never quite felt right, Lindsey uncovers how embracing who we are at our core unlocks authenticity and builds the safety needed to lead effectively. You’ll hear practical insights on what self-acceptance really means, why it’s so foundational to authenticity, and how to bring it into your life this week with affirmations designed to deepen your self-love.
https://theselfloveknowing.com/leading-with-self-love-course
13 Nov 2024
Embracing Feminine Leadership + Realigning With Your True Power
Ready to rethink how you lead and show up at work? In this episode, we’re diving into what feminine leadership is really about and why it might be the missing piece in your leadership practice. We'll talk about how to recognize when you’re out of alignment with your own natural, empowered way of leading and explore small shifts that bring you back to yourself.
From unpacking everyday signs of misalignment to experiencing more ease, confidence, and connection, this episode is like a mini roadmap to embodying feminine leadership in a way that feels authentic and energizing. And if you're wondering how to create this shift in your own life and work, tune in and stay until the end for an actionable tip on owning your power.
Listen in, and let’s transform how you lead—on your own terms.
Download our FREE Feminine Leadership Guide: https://theselfloveknowing.com/the-girls-girls-guide-to-leadership
30 Oct 2024
Welcome to Not Your Dad's Leadership
In this debut episode, Lindsey breaks down Not Your Dad’s Leadership—a fresh, feminine approach that’s reshaping how we lead. Discover what feminine leadership really means, why it’s more essential than ever in today’s world, and get an inside look at Lindsey’s personal journey that inspired it all. Plus, a sneak peek into upcoming episodes and what to expect as we dive deeper into a new era of compassionate, human-first leadership.
Perfect for new managers, ambitious women, or anyone ready to redefine leadership on their terms!
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