Not Your Guru, Just Your Girl is a soul-centered podcast hosted by singer/songwriter, healer, and truth-teller Zenya (@misszenya). Each week, Zenya dives deep into the human experience — exploring relationships, healing, boundaries, spirituality, and self-discovery through open and heart-led conversations.
From candid solo episodes on manifesting and mindfulness to intimate talks with artists, thought leaders, and healers, Not Your Guru, Just Your Girl offers real wisdom without the pedestal. This isn’t about being perfect — it’s about being present, authentic, and connected.
Whether you’re navigating love, finding your purpose, or building your creative community, this podcast is your reminder that healing is messy, growth is beautiful, and you’re never alone in the journey.
A KandyHouse Production.
Resonance of the Human Experience with Kristen Shelt
I had a chance to sit down with one of my favorite women to follow on TikTok, Kristen Shelt (@kristen1942). We got to scratch the surface on an amazing conversation about the human experience and dissecting the reality we create around ourselves.
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7 Jan 2026
Becoming a Grammy Nominated Artist in a Year Ft. Blvk H3ro
First new episode of 2026! I sit down with Jamaican recording artist Blvk H3ro on his rise to success in the US. We talk about his journey of coming to America with nothing but a dream and how discipline is his current path to creating his latest upcoming album.
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12 Nov 2025
Why Dancers Make the Best DJ's with BB Bad
In this episode, Zenya talks with BB Bad (Bianca Dijkhoffz) (@bb_bad) a powerhouse dancer and DJ from St. Maarten who has performed with Karol G, Sean Paul, and Chris Brown. The two dive into what it means to be a woman navigating the entertainment industry, how Bianca transitioned from professional dancer to full-time DJ headlining her own tour, and the mindset it takes to evolve and stay authentic in a fast-paced creative world. They also talk about what’s next for BB Bad as she continues to carve her own lane in music and performance.
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Instagram: @bb_bad
Instagram: @notyourgurupodcast
Instagram: @kandyhousela
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29 Oct 2025
How Jason Facey Went from Dancer to DJ to Author
In this episode, Zenya sits down with Jason Facey a professional dancer and DJ from Jamaica, to talk about his journey from the Caribbean to Los Angeles. Jason shares his experience building a career in dance and music, being part of the Afrobeats and Dancehall scene, and witnessing how Caribbean influence has shaped mainstream culture over the past decade. Together, they explore the power of perseverance, cultural pride, and following your passion across borders.
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Instagram: @misszenya
Instagram: @jasonfacey1
Instagram: @notyourgurupodcast
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8 Oct 2025
Rochelle Chedz on Saying YES to Create Opportunity
In this episode, Zenya sits down with Trinidadian singer, songwriter, and content creator Rochelle Chedz (@rochellechedz) for a heartfelt conversation about saying yes — yes to your dreams, yes to taking risks, and yes to creating your own opportunities. Rochelle shares her journey as an independent artist navigating the music industry and how trusting herself opened doors she never imagined. Together, Zenya and Rochelle explore what it means to stay open, stay inspired, and step boldly into your purpose.
Connect:
Instagram: @misszenya
Instagram: @rochellechedz
Instagram: @notyourgurupodcast
Instagram: @kandyhousela
This podcast is a @kandyhousela production.
7 Oct 2025
Simon Baptiste Wants the World to Hear the Sounds of Soca Music
In this episode of Not Your Guru, Just Your Girl, Zenya sits down with entertainment specialist Simon Baptiste (@islandcane), who brings over 25 years of experience in the music industry. Together, they explore the roots of soca music, its cultural impact in the Caribbean, and the movement to elevate the genre onto the global stage. Simon shares his insights on the journey of soca, its unique identity, and what it takes for the genre to break through commercially in the same way reggae and dancehall have.
Connect:
Instagram: @misszenya
Instagram: @islandcane
Instagram: @notyourgurupodcast
Instagram: @kandyhousela
This podcast is a KandyHouse production.
7 Oct 2025
How Rex & The Rhythm Thrives an an Independent Artist in LA
In this episode of Not Your Guru, Just Your Girl, Zenya sits down with recording artist and close friend Rex & The Rhythm (@callhimerex). The two dive into the realities of life as independent artists without the backing of a record label, discussing the challenges, freedoms, and resilience it takes to carve your own path. Together, they reflect on the importance of leaning on community, building authentic connections, and thriving as creatives through collaboration and self-belief.
Connect:
Instagram: @misszenya
Instagram: @callhimrex
Instagram: @notyourgurupodcast
Instagram: @kandyhousela
This podcast is a KandyHouse production.
7 Oct 2025
Aleena Gibson Teaches You How to Price Your Music Career
In this episode of Not Your Guru, Just Your Girl, Zenya is joined by Aleena Gibson (@queenaleenamusic), a hit songwriter and singer from Sweden whose work has reached global audiences. Aleena shares her wisdom on placing value on your craft, understanding your financial worth as an artist, and navigating the business side of music without losing sight of creativity. This conversation is a guide for any artist learning how to balance passion with prosperity.
Connect:
Instagram: @misszenya
Instagram: @queenaleenamusic
Instagram: @notyourgurupodcast
Instagram: @kandyhousela
This podcast is a KandyHouse production.
7 Oct 2025
How Maya Jupiter Found Community in the Australian Hip-Hop Scene
In this episode of Not Your Guru, Just Your Girl, Zenya sits down with Maya Jupiter (@mayajupiter), a Hip-Hop Artivist who rose to prominence in Australia’s hip-hop scene in the late 90s and early 2000s. Maya shares her journey of finding community and building something meaningful with the resources at hand, not only as a path to self-fulfillment but also as a way to give back and uplift the communities she represents.
Connect:
Instagram: @misszenya
Instagram: @mayajupiter
Instagram: @notyourgurupodcast
Instagram: @kandyhousela
This podcast is a KandyHouse production.
7 Oct 2025
How Gabriella Wisdom Overcame a Mentally Abusive Relationship
In this episode, Zenya sits down with actor and model Gabriella Wisdom (@lil_bit_of_wisdom) to talk about the journey of overcoming a mentally abusive relationship. Gabriella shares her experience with healing through therapy, rebuilding her sense of self-worth, and learning how to step into a healthier, more empowered chapter of life. Along with sharing about red flags to spot early on in an unhealthy partner.
Connect:
Instagram: @misszenya
Instagram: @lil_bit_of_wisdom
Instagram: @notyourgurupodcast
Instagram: @kandyhousela
7 Oct 2025
How Tish Hyman Became a Hit Songwriter While Overcoming Adversity
In this episode, Zenya sits down with Grammy-nominated songwriter and artist Tish Hyman (@listen2tish) for an honest conversation about overcoming adversity in the music industry. Together, they explore the realities of balancing personal hardships while still showing up to entertain and inspire an audience, and what it truly takes to keep creating when life gets heavy.
Connect:
Instagram: @misszenya
Instagram: @listen2tish
Instagram: @notyourgurupodcast
Instagram: @kandyhousela
7 Oct 2025
How to Attract New Relationships Ft. Mark Mostaed
Episode 8 of Not Your Guru, Just Your Girl, Zenya is joined by Mark Mostaed (@theshadowcodeprocess), a relational coach and spiritual programmer. Together, they dive deep into what it takes to break free from trauma patterns and how to create space for healthy, conscious relationships. If you’ve ever felt stuck in cycles that no longer serve you, this episode offers powerful insights on healing, self-awareness, and stepping into new relational dynamics with intention.
Connect:
Instagram: @misszenya
Instagram: @theshadowcodeprocess
Instagram: @notyourgurupodcast
Instagram: @kandyhousela
7 Oct 2025
How Tracy Fowler Started Over in the US to Become a Producer
In this episode of Not Your Guru, Just Your Girl, Zenya sits down with Tracy Fowler (@yougotthistracy), a radio host, podcast producer, and fellow dream chaser originally from Barbados. Together, they share what it’s really like to leave behind your home country in pursuit of something bigger. In this case, building a new life and career in Los Angeles. From navigating uncertainty to trusting the process, this conversation is all about taking a leap of faith, chasing purpose, and building a life that feels aligned with your soul.
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Instagram: @misszenya
Instagram: @yougotthistracy
Instagram: @notyourgurupodcast
Instagram: @kandyhousela
7 Oct 2025
Write your life as if it has already happened
In this solo episode of Not Your Guru, Just Your Girl, Zenya dives into the transformative practice of "Scripting". A powerful manifestation tool that involves writing your life as if your goals have already come true. She breaks down how this meditative journaling technique can help rewire your mindset, shift your energy, and create real change in just 90 days. Whether you're new to manifestation or looking to deepen your spiritual practices, this episode offers a grounded, soulful guide to stepping into your future self.
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Instagram: @misszenya
Instagram: @notyourgurupodcast
Instagram: @kandyhousela
7 Oct 2025
How to Navigate Friendships in LA with Dessy Di Lauro
What does it mean to choose your family? And how do we protect those bonds in an industry that doesn’t always feel real? In this heart-centered episode, Zenya sits down with one of her closest friends, singer and songwriter Dessy Di Lauro (@dessydilauro), for a vulnerable and grounded conversation about friendship, loyalty, and navigating the entertainment industry with your heart still intact.
Zenya and Dessy explore the importance of chosen family, the deep friendships that often become stronger than blood and how to maintain those connections when life and career get chaotic. Together, they reflect on the sacredness of showing up for one another, the healing power of community, and what it means to hold space when the world can feel transactional.
Connect:
Instagram: @misszenya
Instagram: @dessydilauro
Instagram: @notyourgurupodcast
Instagram: @kandyhousela
7 Oct 2025
Seth Stewart on Healing Masculinity and Balancing Energies
What does healthy masculinity really look like in today’s world? In this episode, Zenya is joined by Seth Stewart, a former professional dancer for Madonna, Mariah Carey, and more, and an original cast member of the Broadway hit Hamilton. Seth now leads True Kings Academy, a space created to help men heal, evolve, and connect through community.
Together, Zenya and Seth dive into the importance of balancing masculine and feminine energy, breaking generational patterns, and the power of saying yes to emotional growth. From the stage to spiritual leadership, Seth shares how redefining masculinity can create stronger, more emotionally intelligent men. This episode is a deep conversation about self-work, safe spaces, and shifting culture from the inside out.
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7 Oct 2025
The Lenny Kravitz of Kundalini teaches us about 'The Sacred No'
When was the last time you said “no”—and really meant it? In this episode, Zenya is joined by friend and kundalini instructor River (@riverxshima) for a soul-deep conversation about energetic alignment, self-protection, and the powerful truth behind the “sacred no” and “expansive yes.” Together, they explore how learning to say no to what doesn’t serve you—and yes to what scares you—can open the door to a more grounded, meaningful, and fulfilling life. This episode is a permission slip to trust your intuition, establish boundaries, and expand into the highest version of yourself.
Whether you're navigating people-pleasing tendencies, starting a spiritual journey, or simply trying to reclaim your time and energy, this episode offers gentle insight and grounded wisdom to support your growth.
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7 Oct 2025
Lo Forgé on Ambush Dates & The Male Gaze
In Episode 2 of Not Your Guru, Just Your Girl, Zenya is joined by model, creative, and radiant truth-teller Lo Forgé for a conversation on perception, manipulation, and the blurred lines between business and romance.
Together, they unpack a frustrating and all-too-common experience of people who set up fake business meetings as a front for personal interest. The two dive into how women are perceived — not just by men, but by society at large — and the emotional labor that comes with constantly being on guard.
Zenya and Lo also read audience-submitted stories about ambush dates.
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7 Oct 2025
Zenya Reads The Worst Red Flags You've Heard
Welcome to the very first episode of Not Your Guru, Just Your Girl. A new series from KandyHouse hosted by singer, songwriter, and soulful storyteller, Zenya (@misszenya).
In this premiere episode, Zenya opens up about her perspective on love, self-worth, and navigating modern relationships. She answers questions submitted by her audience on Instagram — from the biggest red flags and the worst apologies from past partners to the best relationship advice they’ve ever received.
With her signature blend of vulnerability, wisdom, and humor, Zenya shares her own insights on healing, growing, and setting boundaries — all while keeping it real and relatable. It’s a soft launch into a series made for those who are tired of toxic love and ready for something deeper.
Whether you're looking for clarity, comfort, or just a girl who gets it, you're in the right place.
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