Welcome to a space where it's not only okay, but encouraged to open up, vent, and express yourself freely. This is your safe haven to unpack everything—whether it’s the ups and downs of love and relationships, navigating the chaos of trending topics, or tackling the real talk about life as we approach (and live through) our 30s. From personal growth and mental health to pop culture, career struggles, and everything in between, we're diving deep into the things that matter most, and we're doing it unapologetically. Get ready to rant, laugh, reflect, and maybe even heal, one episode at a time
In this episode of 'I Said Too Much Podcast', Deadra explores the complexities of adult friendships, particularly after the age of 30. She discusses the impact of COVID-19 on social connections, the rise of individualism, and the challenges of maintaining friendships in a world that often promotes low maintenance relationships. Deadra shares her personal experiences with social anxiety, the changing expectations around celebrations, and the difficulty of making new friends as adults. Ultimately, she concludes that adult friendships can be disappointing and that navigating them requires effort and understanding of shared values.
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19 Sept 2025
Jussie Smollett: What Do We Believe?
In this episode, Deadra Ussery delves into the controversial case of Jesse Smollett, exploring the complexities surrounding the incident, the investigation, and the subsequent legal battles. She discusses the impact of media narratives, public perception, and the role of the Chicago police department, while also reflecting on the broader implications of the case in relation to activism and societal issues.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Overview of the Case
02:27 The Jesse Smollett Incident: Background and Initial Reactions
04:45 Investigation and Controversies
10:49 The Arrest and Legal Proceedings
16:09 Public Perception and Media Influence
21:52 The Aftermath and Ongoing Discussions
26:33 Final Thoughts and Reflections
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Deadra's Instagram, & TikTok: deadraaaa
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12 Sept 2025
TikTok's Worst Takes
In this episode of the I Said Too Much Podcast, discusses various controversial topics trending on TikTok, including dating expectations, financial conversations in relationships, and the impact of social media on self-worth. She critiques the influencer culture that shapes unrealistic standards, particularly for women, and emphasizes the importance of emotional connection over financial expectations. The conversation also touches on political discourse, cultural conversations, and the policing of black women's natural hair, ultimately questioning the exhaustion that comes from societal pressures and expectations.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Podcast Updates
02:02 TikTok's Worst Takes: Coffee Dates and Dating Culture
08:34 Financial Expectations in Relationships
15:30 The Leftist Agenda and Political Discourse
19:52 The Gay Son vs. Thought Daughter Debate
22:56 Policing Black Women's Hair and Length Retention
27:40 Conclusion: Exhaustion from Social Media Discourse
Instagram: istm.podcast
Deadra's Instagram, & TikTok: deadraaaa
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Reach and audience
Public platform figures. Ratings count people who left a rating, not total listeners.
Apple Podcasts (US)
5.0 / 5
8 ratings
Spotify
5.0 / 5
6 ratings
Podcast Authority Score: 34 / 100
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Quality
48
Social presence
0
YouTube
0
Engagement
51
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