ON THE CONTRARY, presented by Onsite!
ON THE CONTRARY is the podcast presented by Onsite! that explores love, dating, sex, marriage, divorce, city girls, f@#$ boys, and everything in between. Each episode, our hosts pull up a seat for honest, unfiltered conversations about relationships, boundaries, friendship, and the messy in-between moments everyone's lived through but few talk about out loud.
Equal parts funny, real, and a little chaotic; this is the group chat you wish you were in.
Available on YouTube and wherever you listen to podcasts.
When To Stop Giving Men the Benefit of the Doubt | On the Contrary.
Season 2, Episode 12: Outgrew or Grown Into?
Every one of us came into adulthood with a set of rules that felt like law. Things we swore we would never do. Lines we said we would never cross. And then life happened.
Kash the Sexologist, Luis, Rico, and Taz are back at the table. This episode, they're getting into something that makes people uncomfortable: the rules you made for yourself that you don't live by anymore. Are you outgrowing them? Or are you just getting comfortable with things you used to know were wrong? Because there's a difference. And not everybody wants to admit which one is actually happening.
Rico opens with a question that immediately divides the panel: name a relationship rule you completely reversed on. What changed? Luis comes in with his answer and the room has thoughts. Kash gets honest about the moment she stopped giving men the benefit of the doubt, and what it cost her before she finally got there. And Taz? Taz's answer is short, and it lands harder than anything else said at the table.
Then, Kash drops a story about an ex that ends with him on the news. The panel cannot believe what they're hearing, but somehow it all connects back to the same lesson: when people tell you who they are, believe them the first time.
Plus, the panel plays a game that has everyone taking shots and nobody walking away with their dignity fully intact. You have to see it!
Growth is supposed to be uncomfortable. If it isn't—check which one you're actually doing. We're not letting anybody off the hook. On the contrary.
29 Sept 2026
Are We Dropping the Ball on Appreciation in Relationships? | On the Contrary.
Season 2, Episode 11: "Are We Dropping the Ball on Appreciation in Relationships?"
The panel opened with a simple question: when was the last time you told someone you appreciate them? Somehow, it ended up somewhere nobody saw coming. 🗣️💔
Rah Ali, Kash the Sexologist, Luis, Rico, and Taz are back at the table. This episode, they're digging into something that sounds simple until you actually sit with it: do we actively show appreciation in our relationships, or do we just assume the other person already knows? Because assuming is never the same as showing—and the panel has very different opinions on what appreciation actually looks like in practice.
Taz kicks things off with an appreciation story that has the whole table losing it before the first commercial break. Rico wants to know the dollar amount, Luis says it was long overdue, and Kash is stuck between being scandalized and impressed! 😂
From there, the conversation dives into love languages, how people receive appreciation differently, and why what feels like "enough" to you might feel like absolute bare minimum to your partner.
And then Rico tells a story: his homies, a high-stakes rock-paper-scissors tournament, Trojan condoms, and a dinner tab that did not get settled the way anyone planned. The moral of the night? Always bring your own money. Period.
Show appreciation before someone else steps in and shows them how. We're not letting anybody off the hook. On the contrary
29 Sept 2026
Fake Gurus & Unsolicited Advice: Who Should You Trust? | On The Contrary.
Season 2, Episode 10 "Thanks for the Advice"
Everybody on social media is an expert. But who should you actually be listening to? 🗣️📉
Rah Ali, Kash the Sexologist, Luis, Rico, and Taz are back at the table, and this episode they are getting into something the internet has made impossible to avoid: unsolicited advice, unqualified experts, and the courses, content, and gurus that are everywhere you look. Who is actually qualified to give you life-altering information? And more importantly, why aren't people doing their own due diligence before they hand over their time, their money, and their trust?
Luis comes in immediately for the credit repair gurus and the LLC builders, breaking down exactly why some of what they're selling doesn't hold up under real financial scrutiny. Rico pulls back the curtain on how the system actually works and where the real workarounds are hidden. Kash makes the case that advice is never neutral—it always comes from someone's experience, their biases, and their agenda. And the panel fully agrees on one thing: if you took bad advice and acted on it without vetting it first, that's on you.
Then, a caller writes in with a situation that takes the whole conversation somewhere deeply personal: her "work mom" of ten years doesn't approve of her fiancé. The panel is heavily divided on whether she should listen, whether she needs to cut off the information flow, and whether the real problem is the advice itself or the fact that she's been sharing way too much at work. 🚩
Information is everywhere. Discernment is rare. Before you take advice from anyone, ask yourself if you'd trade lives with them.
We're not letting anybody off the hook. On the contrary
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4.5 / 5
12 ratings
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4.4 / 5
7 ratings
Podcast Authority Score: 63 / 100
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