Cheating is rarely just about sex—it’s about unmet needs, unspoken boundaries, and the parts of us we keep hidden. Once A Cheater is a raw, reflective, and sometimes ruthless deep-dive into infidelity, non-monogamy, and the messy space between freedom and betrayal.
As a queer, polyamorous woman navigating power exchange, trust, and kink—I’m not here to justify the past, I’m here to unpack it. From vanilla relationships to BDSM dynamics, from ghosting to group chats, I’m talking about the real reasons we break rules and blur lines.
Whether you’ve cheated, been cheated on, or just want to understand why people self-sabotage the things they crave most—this podcast is for the curious, the kink-aware, and the emotionally honest.
Real talk. Real confessions. Real consequences.
This ain’t therapy—but it might feel like it.
This “Cheat Code” is about honesty without punishment. Not confessions, not walking on eggshells, just being able to say what you feel in real time without it turning into a problem. I talk about how a lot of us were raised to suppress our thoughts, how that shows up in relationships, and why I need a partner who can hear me, ground me, and not make honesty feel unsafe. Because if I can’t be real with you, what are we even doing?
20 Jan 2026
2025 didn’t break me but it definitely ran the fades.
Welcome to Season 2 babes! This episode is me talking through a year that tried me physically, emotionally, spiritually, and logistically. Health stuff, hard realizations, quiet losses, and the kind of growth you don’t get a round of applause for, all showed up at once. I’m not here to relive it or explain myself. I’m just naming what changed, what stayed, and why I’m moving differently now.
25 Sept 2025
Rumor Has It… Ion Got No Type Ep. 9
It’s been a month, and life has been life-ing hard! Health scares, dating curveballs, and a whole lot of self-reflection. In this episode, I get into the question I hear almost daily: “What’s your type?” The truth? I don’t have one. My “type” is safety, reciprocity, and the kind of love that doesn’t turn me into a shell of myself. I unpack how my old patterns had me mistaking chaos for passion, why I’m no longer settling for half-love, and how calm, consistent partnership is my new standard. ...
20 Aug 2025
Hot Wax & Wet Cats Ep. 8
This episode is pure afterglow. I break down my weekend at Hot Wax 25! From fire shows and kinky artistry to coochie waffles (yes, you read that right). I share how a sensual candle turned into one of the most intimate nights with my Virgo, and why sometimes the smallest rituals can unlock the biggest sparks. This isn’t just a recap, it’s a reminder that pleasure is art, and your the canvas. Names Dropped: @ploc_shop @freddyhydro_kinkyhut @I.am.tastee
11 Aug 2025
I’m “Poly” Gonna Lose My Bitch Over This
Polyamory sounds cute until you’re staring down the possibility of losing your primary partner. In this episode, I unpack the messy beauty of open love. The late-night talks, the boundary checks, and the emotional labor no one warns you about. I’m sharing the lessons I’ve learned from missteps, what it really takes to keep love ethical when it’s shared, and why honesty will always cost you something… but lying costs more. If you’ve ever juggled love, lust, and loyalty….you’ll love it here.
1 Aug 2025
Strategically Planning the Comeback of My Tits Ep.6
In this week’s episode, I talk about how pregnancy temporarily destroyed my body and mind, while also softening my heart and shaping my future. From postpartum depression to body image and the weight of early motherhood, this is an unfiltered look at what it means to lose yourself…and find peace.
25 Jul 2025
She’s Not Fast. She’s Wounded Ep. 5
Some wounds don’t scab over, they shape how we love, how we cope, and how we carry shame we never asked for. This episode peels back the layers of early trauma, misunderstood girls, and what it means to reclaim your body, your voice, and your story. It’s a soft landing for anyone still untangling the silence they were raised in. Got a story of your own? I want to hear it. DM me, tag the show, or just sit with it until you’re ready. We’re not here to perform strength. We’re here to tell the ...
16 Jul 2025
A Little Queer, A Lot of Chaos Ep.4
This episode is kinky and chaotic. Queer and quirky. I talk about my alliance with bisexual studs, my close encounter with a very intense Scorpio with a huge third leg, and that time I gave a straight man the gayest ride of his life. If you’ve ever questioned a label, blurred a line, or done something freaky in the name of self-discovery — this one’s for you. It’s messy, honest, and maybe a little unhinged… but so am I. Tap in, laugh a little, blush a lot, and go back drinking water and ...
10 Jul 2025
Not Code-Switching…Soul-Switching Ep.3
Ever had to outgrow the version of yourself that survival built? This one’s for the folks who’ve had to crawl inside themselves, question everything, and come out the other side. Tender, tired, but real. In this episode, I unpack the kind of transformation that requires a full mindset reboot — not just code-switching, but deep soul-shifting. I talk about the discomfort of being misunderstood while evolving, the power of being heard, and why reciprocity is now my love language. Also… ADHD ...
2 Jul 2025
Once a Cheater, Never a Liar Ep. 2
This episode is about choosing honesty over comfort, clarity over control. It’s about walking the path of ethical non-monogamy with an open heart and a steady mouth. I talk about my oath to be honest with women, my longing for a partner who feels like 100%, and the quiet shame that lingers when you agree to share love — even when it’s your choice.
25 Jun 2025
Once a Cheater Always a Cheater Ep. 1
This episode is a confession, a breakdown, and a little bit of a sermon. I talk about how cheating became my comfort zone, how I got introduced to BDSM through a situationship that awakened something primal, and why getting my lick back felt better than closure ever did. This isn’t about guilt—it’s about ownership. So if you’ve ever lied, got lied to, or healed your heartbreak with somebody else’s body… welcome home. I’m not here to make you comfortable. I’m here to be real. And if that trigg...
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