Our Main Character Era: The 90 Day Lock-In

About Our Main Character Era: The 90 Day Lock-In

The 90-Day Lock-In is your non-negotiable execution challenge. For 90 days, you commit to core habits (health, money, spirit) with zero excuses. We follow the No Two Miss Rule to permanently eliminate failure and force you into your Main Character Era.

Publisher

Kay Lavonne

Category

business · education

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

4 Dec 2025

Latest episode

25 Feb 2026

Latest episodes

10 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   25 Feb 2026

   Episode 8: Jealousy, Envy, and Comparison Anxiety

   Our Main Character Era Hey everyone! Thanks so much for checking out my latest podcast episode! Ready to make the next 90 days your best yet? Join the #OurMainCharacterEra 90-day challenge! We're all about proving to ourselves that we can achieve our goals and that we're absolutely worth the effort. Check out my website https://ourmaincharacterera.my.canva.site/main-character-energy-landing-page for resources. To connect with the community, follow me @Our_Main_Character_Era. Let's make these last 90 days count!

2. 

   18 Feb 2026

   Episode 7: Motivation vs Discipline

   Hey everyone! Thanks so much for checking out my latest podcast episode! Ready to make the next 90 days your best yet? Join the #OurMainCharacterEra 90-day challenge! We're all about proving to ourselves that we can achieve our goals and that we're absolutely worth the effort. Check out my website https://ourmaincharacterera.my.canva.site/main-character-energy-landing-page for resources. To connect with the community, follow me @Our_Main_Character_Era. Let's make these last 90 days count! The speaker explored the distinction between motivation and discipline, explaining how discipline is crucial for sustained effort and transformation while motivation provides initial excitement and visible progress. They discussed how discipline requires consistent work even when motivation fades, using examples like maintaining exercise routines and following up on tasks. The speaker emphasized that discipline is essential for long-term success, even when external signs of progress are absent, and shared practical strategies for building discipline through small, manageable tasks that provide quick dopamine boosts. Next steps Listeners: Pick one small task to complete for an instant dopamine boost this week Listeners: Tackle one bigger task you've been avoiding after completing the small task this week The speaker discussed the difference between motivation and discipline, explaining that while motivation provides initial excitement and visible progress, discipline is essential for sustained effort and transformation. The speaker discussed the concept of using small, manageable tasks to create motivation and build discipline.

3. 

   11 Feb 2026

   Episode 6: Shoulda, Coulda, Woulda

   The speaker explored themes of personal growth and self-acceptance, encouraging listeners to move past regrets by reflecting on past decisions without judgment and focusing on learning and growth rather than dwelling on mistakes. They discussed reframing negative thoughts about past actions and emphasized that while the brain naturally holds onto past experiences, individuals can rewire their neural pathways by taking new actions and creating positive narratives. The message concluded by encouraging listeners to take control of their lives through small daily actions and affirmations, emphasizing that their current choices shape their reality and future rather than being defined by past events. Next steps • Listeners: Notice one shoulda, coulda, woulda thought this week • Listeners: Turn the thought into a statement of action or growth • Listeners: Take one small action towards the new version of yourself this week Summary Embracing Growth Over Regrets The speaker reflects on personal growth and challenges, particularly addressing a scarcity mindset and past financial and health decisions. They emphasize the importance of self-acceptance and giving oneself grace for past actions, encouraging listeners to focus on present growth rather than dwelling on regrets. Embracing Present and Future The speaker reflects on past regrets and encourages listeners to focus on their present and future rather than dwelling on what could have been. They emphasize that everyone makes choices based on their knowledge at the time and that it's important to give oneself grace rather than being defined by past mistakes. The message is centered around the idea that listeners are the main characters of their own lives and should step boldly into their future. Moving Beyond Regret The speaker discussed a two-step process for moving past regret: first, reflecting on past decisions without judgment to learn from them, and second, shifting from guilt to reflection to action. They emphasized that holding onto past mistakes keeps us trapped, while focusing on learning and letting go allows us to move forward. Rewiring Neural Pathways for Growth The speaker discussed reframing negative thoughts about past actions by focusing on learning and growth rather than regret. They explained that the brain is wired to hold onto past experiences, but by taking new actions and creating new stories, individuals can rewire their neural pathways for forward movement. The speaker emphasized that while the brain's fear of the unfamiliar is normal, growth doesn't happen in the safe zone, and practicing stepping outside of comfort zones can lead to personal development. Empowering Daily Action Steps The speaker emphasized the importance of taking small actions towards a desired future and encouraged daily practices like affirmations and gratitude. They challenged listeners to identify regretful thoughts and transform them into statements of action or growth, highlighting that individuals are not stuck in the past and can author their present. The message concluded by affirming that listeners are not too bad, late, or behind, and are enough as they are. Embrace Change, Shape Your Future The speaker encouraged listeners to take control of their lives by reflecting on past regrets but moving forward without guilt. They challenged the audience to identify a "shoulda, coulda, woulda" thought, reframe it positively, and take one small action towards creating a better future. The message emphasized that while the past doesn't define them, their current choices shape their reality and future.

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   4 Feb 2026

   Episode 5: Building Habits

   The speaker discussed the progress of a four-week habit-building challenge, emphasizing the importance of small, consistent habits and the 21-day threshold for forming or breaking new behaviors. They shared personal experiences with habit formation while encouraging participants to maintain a positive mindset and avoid letting occasional setbacks derail their progress. The session concluded with a practical exercise to help participants set new habits for the upcoming week, focusing on realistic goal-setting and reflection. Next steps Listeners: Complete the start, stop, continue exercise - pick one habit to start, one habit to stop, and one habit to continue Listeners: Reflect on what habits have been built over the last 21 days Listeners: Reflect on what habits have been successfully torn down Listeners: If no new habits have been built or old habits let go, adjust and recommit to the challenge Listeners: Level up current habits Summary Building Habits for Lasting Change The speaker reflects on the progress of a four-week challenge, emphasizing the importance of small habits in building lasting change. The speaker emphasized the importance of making small, consistent steps towards habit formation, rather than attempting drastic changes that may not fit into daily life. They shared personal progress, including building habits like daily walking and meal planning, while acknowledging areas for improvement such as procrastination. The speaker encouraged a positive mindset towards habits, suggesting that enjoyable and sustainable practices can lead to real change, contrasting with the traditional approach of hard work and suffering. They concluded by guiding listeners through a "start, stop, continue" exercise to set habits for the upcoming week, emphasizing reflection and realistic goal-setting.

5. 

   28 Jan 2026

   Episode 4: Mind Mapping

   Hey everyone! Thanks so much for checking out my latest podcast episode! Ready to make the next 90 days your best yet? Join the #OurMainCharacterEra 90-day challenge! We're all about proving to ourselves that we can achieve our goals and that we're absolutely worth the effort. This week, we are discussing limiting beliefs, manifesting and prayer, and mind mapping. Trust, this is an episode that you didn't know you needed! Check out my website https://ourmaincharacterera.my.canva.site/main-character-energy-landing-page for resources. To connect with the community, follow me @Our_Main_Character_Era. Let's make these last 90 days count!

6. 

   21 Jan 2026

   Episode 3: Self Care vs Self Maintenance

   Hey everyone! Thanks so much for checking out my latest podcast episode! Today we talk about self care, and how making your own self care a priority, because you are the MAIN character! Ready to make the next 90 days your best yet? Join the #OurMainCharacterEra 90-day challenge! We're all about proving to ourselves that we can achieve our goals and that we're absolutely worth the effort. Check out my website for resources. To connect with the community, follow me @Our_Main_Character_Era. Let's make these last 90 days count!

7. 

   14 Jan 2026

   Episode 2: The 80/20 Rule for Time Management

   Stop Working Hard, Start Working Smart: The 80/20 Rule for Time Management Are you ready to stop chasing perfection and start demanding results? In this episode of The 90-Day Lock-In: Our Main Character Era, K. Lavonne dives into the powerful 80/20 Rule (Pareto Principle), but with a crucial twist: time management and self-care. K. Lavonne shares her own journey of tackling a difficult nightly routine and explains how focusing on that tiny 20% of effort can deliver massive 80% of your progress. Learn how to: Identify Your 'High-Impact' Tasks: Find the few actions in your business, fitness, or career that truly move the needle. Handle the Other 80%: Master the art of delegating, automating, or simply saying 'No' to low-value activities. Lock-In Your Focus: Get the High-Energy, High-Impact Block Assignment—a self-care tool designed to protect your most productive time. (Don't forget to grab your journal when K. Lavonne tells you to!)

8. 

   7 Jan 2026

   Episode 1: Introducing the Main Character

   The 90-day contract is signed. Learn the No Two Miss Rule and the 3 non-negotiable pillars to force your transformation.

9. 

   6 Jan 2026

   No More Resolutions: OMCE Introduction

   Welcome to The 90-Day Lock-In: Our Main Character Era! I’m your host, K. Lavonne, and I’m here to tell you that the era of waiting for permission, for the perfect moment, or for a magical bailout is officially over. This is where discipline meets destiny. This is where you grab the pen and start writing the blockbuster script of your life. Listen, we're not doing "New Year's Resolutions." You know how it goes: you're fired up on January 1st, but by Week 6, the discipline is gone, and the goal is just another thing you "always fail" at. Not this year. We are establishing a Yearly Reset—a 90-day, 12-week challenge designed to create an unshakeable, strong foundation that will propel you through 2026 and beyond. This is not a quick fix; this is a foundational build. For 12 weeks, we are locking in. We’re moving from the side character role—waiting for validation, waiting for the green light—and stepping fully into our power. If you’re ready to trade in your excuses for execution, and your self-doubt for self-actualization, then welcome home. Let's lock it in!

10. 

    4 Dec 2025

    Bonus Episode: Thanksgiving

    You have the vision, you have the mindset, and now you have the map. The time for waiting is over. Let’s make this happen. To download the Listener Guide and get those powerful 8 AI Prompts, head over to my website, which is listed in the description. Have you heard??? tThere's a community!!! If you want to connect with like-minded individuals, Please join us on our Instagram at our_main_character_energy, or take a look at my description to join my Instagram group. And don’t forget to SUBSCRIBE right now so you don't miss out on any episodes! Let’s make the next 90 days the most impactful of your life. Go Build your empire… Ill see you at the top

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