Hosted by Jayy aka Jayywitdaink, P's in a Pod's sole mission is to make ya think outside the box. Change your mindset from simpin 2 pimpin & learn some jewels along the way.A lot of men are lost, alot can't and don't know hoe to approach a woman, nor can they lead. That's why we're here to save ya from that mindset. Tap into us as we dive into subjects dared to be touched and talked about.
How long should you really wait before having sex with somebody you’re dating? 30 days? 60 days? Until you know they’re serious? Or does waiting actually tell you NOTHING about whether someone is going to stay?
This episode of Peas in the Pod Live gets WILD, hilarious, uncomfortable, and surprisingly deep as the crew debates sex, dating, relationships, consistency, body count, attraction, commitment, and whether withholding sex actually adds value to a relationship.
The conversation starts with some VERY unfiltered adult talk before turning into a serious debate about one of dating’s biggest questions:
Does making someone wait for sex make them value you more?
The crew goes back and forth on whether a man can genuinely like a woman without sex being involved, whether consistency proves someone’s intentions, why some people go back to familiar partners, and what happens when you wait weeks or months only to discover the chemistry isn’t there.
IN THIS EPISODE:• How long should you wait to have sex?• Does waiting actually make someone take you more seriously?• Can someone be consistent for months and still disappear after sex?• Does sexual compatibility matter before committing?• Why do people return to familiar partners?• Does having a “hoe phase” affect dating later?• Are men and women approaching casual sex differently?• What does it really mean when someone says they “like” you?• Does withholding sex add value—or is it simply a personal boundary?• Can great chemistry turn into a bad relationship?• And why does this crew NEVER know when to stop talking?
This is Peas in the Pod Live at its most unfiltered—real people, real opinions, relationship debates, and absolutely ZERO shortage of controversy.
QUESTION FOR THE COMMENTS:How long should somebody wait before having sex with a person they're dating—and does waiting actually change the outcome of the relationship?
Drop your answer in the comments. We already KNOW this one is going to start an argument!
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29 Sept 2026
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