Parenting Matters

About Parenting Matters

Parenting Matters is a brand-new podcast from Early Childhood Matters, hosted by parenting educators Rebecca Walsh and Belann Giarretto. Each episode tackles real questions from real parents—covering everything from toddler tantrums to teen boundaries with warmth, insight, and zero judgment. Whether you’re in the thick of sleepless nights or navigating screen time battles, Parenting Matters is here to support you with practical advice and honest conversation. Listen, share, and join the community - because your parenting matters.

Publisher

Rebecca Walsh and Belann Giarretto

Category

education · kids & family

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

16 May 2025

Latest episode

21 Jul 2026

Latest episodes

17 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   21 Jul 2026

   Episode 16: The Anger Reset: Teaching Emotional Regulation by Modeling It First

   Episode 16: The Anger Reset: Teaching Emotional Regulation by Modeling It First In this episode of Parenting Matters, we’re talking about the very real challenges of managing parental anger when kids are home more and routines feel different. We’ll explore why summer stress can push our patience to the limit, how to recognize our triggers before emotions take over, and practical strategies for responding with more calm and connection. You’ll learn how to create space for your own emotions, communicate boundaries without shame or blame, and model healthy ways of handling big feelings—so your children can learn those skills, too. If you’ve found yourself counting down the minutes until bedtime, feeling touched out, or wondering how to stay patient through the rest of summer, this episode offers encouragement and tools to help you reset. Because the goal isn’t perfect parenting—it’s building stronger relationships, one moment at a time. Connect with us: Website: earlychildhoodmatters.com/podcast Instagram: @EarlyChildhoodMattersSFFacebook facebook.com/ecmsf Got a question for a future episode? List it in the comments, comment on our web site, or email info@earlychildhoodmatters.org. We’d love to hear from you! If you enjoyed this episode: Please follow or subscribe wherever you listen. Leave us a rating or review—it really helps other parents find the show Share this episode with a friend or parent group! It’s by word of mouth that our small business grows best!

2. 

   7 Apr 2026

   Episode 15: Overcoming Perfectionism: How to Encourage Risk Taking and Growth in Kids

   Episode 15: Overcoming Perfectionism: How to Encourage Risk Taking and Growth in Kids Moving from "I Can’t" to "I’ll Try" In this episode, we explore the "perfectionism trap" and how our own praise might be accidentally stopping our kids from taking risks. Questions we answer: - How do I help my child keep going when they want to give up after failing at a physical task, like falling off a bike? - How should I respond when my child refuses to draw or try art because they don’t think they are "good" at it? - How do I re-engage a child who was previously "natural" at something (like puzzles) but now quits the moment it becomes challenging? How can I stop "over-functioning" for my child in daily tasks—like dressing or building—so they develop the resiliency to handle their own struggles? The Takeaway: Whether it's a bike ride or a "potty word" marathon, your child isn't looking for a "foolish" adult who can't be bothered—they are looking for a leader who loves them enough to set a limit. Are you struggling with a "mountain" that started as a "molehill"? Reach out and let us know. We'll try to answer on an upcoming episode! Connect with us: Website: earlychildhoodmatters.com/podcast Instagram: @EarlyChildhoodMattersSF Facebook facebook.com/ecmsf Got a question for a future episode? List it in the comments, comment on our web site, or email info@earlychildhoodmatters.org. We’d love to hear from you! If you enjoyed this episode: Please follow or subscribe wherever you listen. Leave us a rating or review—it really helps other parents find the show Share this episode with a friend or parent group! It’s by word of mouth that our small business grows best!

3. 

   16 Mar 2026

   Episode 14: Why You Should Never Ignore Behavior That You Don’t Like

   Parenting advice often says to “just ignore it,” but what message does that actually send to a child? In this episode, we dive into the complexities of responding to challenging behaviors—from tantrums to those small but persistent habits that test every parent’s patience. Learn more about how ignoring certain behaviors can create confusion for children and why our reactions play a powerful role in shaping what they learn. We discuss being present during difficult moments, setting loving but firm limits, and helping children understand boundaries. We also talk about how kids observe adult reactions, why they test limits for reassurance, and how parents and caregivers can redirect behavior in ways that build confidence and emotional security. Finally, we discuss the role of socializing children—teaching them when certain language or behaviors are appropriate and how to navigate different environments. Explore our strategies to help you respond with clarity, connection, and intention—even in the most frustrating moments. In This Episode, We Explore: What message does ignoring a child’s behavior actually send? How do children learn from the way adults react to their actions? Why can setting limits be one of the clearest ways to show love and care? What might children feel when their tantrums are ignored? Why do children test boundaries, and what are they really looking for in those moments? When should parents address annoying behaviors instead of ignoring them? How can redirecting behavior be more effective than simply tuning it out? What does it really mean to socialize children and teach them appropriate language? Why is it important to acknowledge every feeling—even difficult ones? How do clear boundaries help children feel safer and more secure? Connect with us: Website: earlychildhoodmatters.com/podcast Instagram: @EarlyChildhoodMattersSFFacebook facebook.com/ecmsf Got a question for a future episode? List it in the comments, comment on our web site, or email info@earlychildhoodmatters.org. We’d love to hear from you! If you enjoyed this episode: Please follow or subscribe wherever you listen. Leave us a rating or review—it really helps other parents find the show Share this episode with a friend or parent group! It’s by word of mouth that our small business grows best!

4. 

   27 Jan 2026

   Episode 13: Not listening, not getting dressed and tantrums, oh my! - Our most common parenting questions answered

   If your preschooler ignores you, refuses shoes, or collapses into a puddle the moment you say “no,” this episode is for you. We unpack why these behaviors happen, why they happen even more with a strong-willed child, and share practical strategies to help you get back your confidence and your joy in parenting. In this episode, we tackle three of the most common—and exhausting—challenges parents of preschoolers face: not listening, power struggles over everyday routines, and full-blown tantrums when the answer is “no.” Drawing from decades of professional experience and many personal parenting stories, we explore why these behaviors are not signs of “bad parenting,” but normal developmental phases—especially for strong-willed, spirited children. Through real-life examples like refusing to put on shoes, throwing snack wrappers on the floor, and melting down over yogurt before dinner, we break down practical, compassionate strategies that actually work. We discuss why repeating yourself undermines authority, how to set clear limits without punishment, and how calmly following through builds trust, self-esteem, and emotional resilience in young children. This conversation reframes “choosing your battles,” explains why giving in during tantrums backfires, and shows parents how to stay steady in the face of big feelings—without yelling, bribing, or threatening. Most importantly, it reminds parents that enjoying parenting is not only possible, but essential, even when raising a challenging child. If you’ve ever felt worn down by daily power struggles or unsure how to respond when your child tests limits, this episode offers reassurance, perspective, and concrete tools to help you parent with confidence and calm. Connect with us: Website: earlychildhoodmatters.com/podcast Instagram: @EarlyChildhoodMattersSF Facebook facebook.com/ecmsf Got a question for a future episode? List it in the comments, comment on our web site, or email info@earlychildhoodmatters.org. We’d love to hear from you! If you enjoyed this episode: Please follow or subscribe wherever you listen. Leave us a rating or review—it really helps other parents find the show!

5. 

   29 Dec 2025

   Episode 12: And Mom and Dad Can Hardly Wait for School to Start Again

   Rebecca and Belann dive into the complexities of sibling dynamics, especially the everyday challenges parents face around bedtime routines, discipline, and perceived fairness. Drawing on real-life examples and practical strategies, they explore how parents can respond with consistency, calmness, and clarity while strengthening sibling relationships. Throughout the episode, they emphasize the impact of parental presence, preparation, and communication on children’s behavior and emotional security. Covered in this episode: Bedtime has been a total circus lately! One will be going to brush his teeth and then the younger one will decide to do a nudy run and then the older who was originally on task, will follow. They are starting to figure out they can team up against us! My younger sibling weaponizes being the youngest! She screams, gets away with things and I am often at a loss of how to discipline. You never get Rosie in trouble, she’s your favorite-if I did that I would have been in so much trouble-why doesn’t she have a consequence? This episode offers thoughtful insights and actionable tools for parents navigating the emotional and logistical challenges of raising siblings. Connect with us: Website: earlychildhoodmatters.com/podcast Instagram: @EarlyChildhoodMattersSFFacebook facebook.com/ecmsf Got a question for a future episode? List it in the comments, comment on our web site, or email info@earlychildhoodmatters.org. We’d love to hear from you! If you enjoyed this episode: Please follow or subscribe wherever you listen. Leave us a rating or review—it really helps other parents find the show Share this episode with a friend or parent group! It’s by word of mouth that our small business grows best!

6. 

   25 Nov 2025

   Episode 11: The Gift of Enough: What Children Teach Us About the Magic of the Holiday Season

   Short Overview: Rebecca explores the beautiful (and sometimes jarring) contrast between Thanksgiving gratitude and the consumer rush of Black Friday and the holiday season. She reflects on how to nurture a spirit of thankfulness in young children, shares her family’s long-loved gratitude traditions, and offers gentle ways to shift the holiday focus from buying to truly being together. Rebecca also breaks down her early-childhood-teacher-approved approach to gift giving — including the play-based curriculum framework she uses to choose toys that last, spark creativity, and discourage materialism. From blocks and dramatic play to arts, outdoor toys, sensory materials, books, music, and experiences, she highlights meaningful gift ideas that grow with children rather than overwhelm them. If you’re looking for a heart-forward, calmer holiday season and a thoughtful gift guide, this episode will leave you inspired, grounded, and ready to create magic that lasts far beyond Christmas morning. Rebecca also breaks down her early-childhood-teacher-approved approach to gift giving — including the play-based curriculum framework she uses to choose toys that last, spark creativity, and discourage materialism. Check out our 'ECM Approved' holiday gift guide here. Full transcript here. Connect with us: Website: earlychildhoodmatters.com/podcast Instagram: @EarlyChildhoodMattersSFFacebook facebook.com/ecmsf Got a question for a future episode? List it in the comments, comment on our web site, or email info@earlychildhoodmatters.org. We’d love to hear from you! If you enjoyed this episode: Please follow or subscribe wherever you listen. Leave us a rating or review—it really helps other parents find the show Share this episode with a friend or parent group! It’s by word of mouth that our small business grows best!

7. 

   11 Nov 2025

   Episode 10: Sibling Rivalry

   The conversation explores the concept of fairness in childhood, particularly in the context of sibling rivalry. It emphasizes that striving for fairness can exacerbate conflicts among siblings and suggests that parents should focus on helping children understand and accept differences instead of insisting on fairness. The discussion references the book 'Siblings Without Rivalry' as a valuable resource for parents. Key takeaways: Kids often equate fairness with equality. Striving for fairness can increase sibling rivalry. It's important to help kids understand that life isn't always fair. Differences among siblings should be embraced, not judged. The concept of fairness can be detrimental in parenting. 'Siblings Without Rivalry' offers valuable insights for parents. Encouraging kids to accept differences fosters emotional intelligence. Parents should focus on teaching acceptance over fairness. Fairness is a subjective concept, especially for children. Helping kids navigate feelings of unfairness is crucial.

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   15 Oct 2025

   Episode 9: Baby Makes 4 - Navigating the Transition to a New Sibling

   Connect with us: Website: earlychildhoodmatters.com/podcast Instagram: @EarlyChildhoodMattersSF Facebook facebook.com/ecmsf Got a question for a future episode? List it in the comments, comment on our web site, or email info@earlychildhoodmatters.org. We’d love to hear from you! If you enjoyed this episode: Please follow or subscribe wherever you listen. Leave us a rating or review—it really helps other parents find the show Share this episode with a friend or parent group! It’s by word of mouth that our small business grows best!

9. 

   17 Aug 2025

   Episode 8: From Sandcastles to Circle Time: The Summer-to-School Shift

   summaryIn this episode of Parenting Matters, Rebecca Walsh discusses the complexities of parenting during the middle school years, focusing on the emotional and physical changes children experience. The conversation covers topics such as shifting friendships, hormonal changes, and the importance of community support for both children and parents. Walsh emphasizes the need for understanding and compassion as children navigate these transitions, encouraging parents to embrace their child's individuality and foster connections with others. Takeaways Friendships often change during middle school due to identity shifts. Children's brains undergo significant changes during puberty. It's important for parents to understand hormonal changes start early. Support for early and late bloomers is crucial for self-esteem. Comparison among peers can be detrimental; every child develops at their own pace. Community support helps normalize the challenges of adolescence. Encouraging imaginative play is vital for emotional health. Parents should embrace their child's unique interests and passions. Understanding that hormonal changes can lead to mood swings is essential. Creating a supportive environment fosters resilience in children.

10. 

    7 Jul 2025

    Episode 7: Too Young for Sex Ed? Think again - How to start "The Talk" in Preschool with Konika Wong of Girl Power Science

    Host Rebecca interviews Konika Wong of Girl Power Science about initiating conversations on puberty and body literacy with preschool-aged children, emphasizing the importance of early education and positive framing.

11. 

    29 Jun 2025

    Episode 6: Everyone in 7th Grade Was Invited to the Birthday Party Except Me!

    Dr. Nina Kaiser explores middle school social dynamics with host Rebecca, highlighting social exclusion, early intervention strategies, and the crucial role of parental support in fostering resilience and communication in this interview episode.

12. 

    11 Jun 2025

    Episode 5: The Kids are Ready for Summer - Are You? Middle School/HS Edition

    Host Rebecca interviews her son Joey about balancing screen time with real-life activities and discovering passions during the summer for middle and high school students.

13. 

    11 Jun 2025

    Episode 4: The Kids are Ready for Summer - Are You? - For parents of young children (preschoolers + grades K-5)

    Host Rebecca Walsh shares strategies for parents to make learning fun, provide structure, and empower children during summer breaks, balancing freedom with responsibility.

14. 

    3 Jun 2025

    Episode 3: You Can't Come to my Birthday Party!

    Hosts on "Parenting Matters" explore children's social rejections, offering parents tips for teaching resilience, problem-solving, and navigating birthday party etiquette, ultimately helping kids cope with exclusion.

15. 

    28 May 2025

    Episode 2: Fostering Independence in the Pre-Teen and Teen Years

    Parenting experts REBECCA WALSH and BELANN GIARRETTO examine fostering independence in pre-teens and teens by increasing responsibilities, building life skills, and encouraging problem-solving to improve self-esteem and prepare children for adulthood; this is an informational episode.

16. 

    16 May 2025

    Parenting Matters - Episode 1: Increasing Independent Play in Toddlers

    Hosts Rebecca and Belann explore the importance of independent play for toddlers, offering parents practical strategies to foster autonomy and build emotional resilience in their children in this episode.

17. 

    16 May 2025

    Parenting Matters: Why This Podcast?

    Hosts Rebecca Walsh and Belann Giarretto introduce "Parenting Matters," a podcast offering practical advice and honest conversations on diverse parenting challenges, from toddler tantrums to teen boundaries.

Who has been a guest on Parenting Matters

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• Konika Wong
• Dr Nina Kaiser
• Joey
• BELANN GIARRETTO

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Apple Podcasts (US)

5.0 / 5

10 ratings

Podcast Authority Score: 19 / 100

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Quality

25

Social presence

0

YouTube

0

Engagement

32

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