Meet Vanessa and Xander Marin, your new BFF couple friends! She’s a sex therapist with 20 years of experience and he’s a regular dude. Together they’re the shockingly open, slightly nerdy, and seriously funny couple you want to grab sushi with. They share the ups and downs in their relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours. Subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally do-able sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors, and so much more. It’s the sex education you WISH you’d had!
Pillow Talks
Claim This Podcastby Vanessa & Xander Marin
4.9(334 reviews)
269 episodes
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Meet Vanessa and Xander Marin, your new BFF couple friends! She’s a sex therapist with 20 years of experience and he’s a regular dude. Together they’re the shockingly open, slightly nerdy, and seriously funny couple you want to grab sushi with. They share the ups and downs in their relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours. Subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally do-able sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors, and so much more. It’s the sex education you WISH you’d had!
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Recent Episodes
July 16, 2026
E269: Tie-Breakers: We Referee Your Realest Relationship Standoffs
Hosts Vanessa and Xander referee real-life relationship standoffs, offering insights on common couple disagreements like foreplay, pet duty, and friendship dynamics.
July 9, 2026
E268: Ask Us Anything: Only Fans, The Ick, & Creeps In The Comments
Hosts Vanessa and Xander answer listener questions about OnlyFans, the "ick," and online creeps, revealing intimate details of their relationship.
July 2, 2026
E267: The Hygiene Episode
Hosts Vanessa and Xander address listener questions about sexual hygiene, demystifying body care and reducing shame around intimacy.
269 total episodes available with 130 transcripts
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