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About PinkTaxChat Podcast

Welcome to DEAFinitely Not The One—the podcast where life, career, and boundaries get a masterclass in unfiltered, grown-up talk. We’re Tori and Taja, two millennial women navigating the world, sharing our journeys, and keeping it real. After a necessary hiatus, we’re back, rebranded, and bolder than ever. If you’re looking for authentic, witty, and insightful conversations from a perspective that’s as unique as it is relatable, you’ve found your new favorite space. Join us as we unpack the evolution of our lives and dive into the conversations that matter. Subscribe and join the evolution.

Publisher

Deafinitely Not The One

Category

society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

Yes

First episode

25 Jan 2024

Latest episode

7 Oct 2026

Latest episodes

57 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   7 Oct 2026

   How to Advocate for Yourself & Your Community When Systems Fail

   How do we navigate heavy world events, demand institutional accountability, and show up for our communities without burning out? In our Season Finale of DEAFinitely Not The One, we dive deep into what it truly means to advocate for yourself and your people.From dissecting the importance of local elections (District Attorneys, Sheriffs, and School Boards) to processing complex real-world news and campus culture, this conversation is grounded in truth, grace, and civic responsibility. Advocacy isn't just a buzzword—it’s an act of love.⚠️ TRIGGER WARNING & CONTENT ADVISORY:This episode contains brief discussions surrounding heavy real-world topics, including unexplained loss, systemic justice disparities, and campus safety allegations. Please prioritize your mental health while listening.📌 LEGAL DISCLAIMER:The commentary is based solely on publicly available reporting from official news outlets and court filings as of our recording date. The hosts are offering personal social commentary and systemic analysis, not legal conclusions or factual assertions regarding pending civil or criminal cases.⏰ TIMESTAMPS:0:00 - Season Finale Welcome & Community Check-In2:15 - Pre-Roll Advisory & Navigating the News Cycle6:40 - The Weight of Recent Events: Systemic Trust & Accountability15:30 - Campus Culture, Institutional Responses & Protecting Our Voice24:10 - Why Local Voting Matters: District Attorneys, Sheriffs & Judges33:45 - Self-Advocacy vs. Community Advocacy: Finding Your Balance41:10 - Season Finale Recap & What’s Next for DEAFinitely Not The One🔔 SUBSCRIBE to DEAFinitely Not The One for bilingual (ASL & SimCom) real talk on culture, mental health, and millennial life:https://www.youtube.com/@DEAFinitelyNotTheOnePodcast📱 FOLLOW US ON SOCIAL MEDIA:TikTok: @DEAFinitelyNotTheOneInstagram: @DEAFinitelyNotTheOneFacebook: DEAFinitely Not The One Podcast #DEAFinitelyNotTheOne #SeasonFinale #AdvocacyIsLove #LocalElections #SystemicAccountability #BilingualPodcast #ASL #MillennialWomen #CivicEngagement

2. 

   30 Sept 2026

   Escaping Real Life: Why BookTok & Romance Books Hit Different Right Now

   Are we reading romance novels for enjoyment, or are we using them to escape reality? In this episode of DEAFinitely Not The One, Ta'ja Nicole and Tori dive deep into the world of BookTok, dark romance, smut, self-help, and why reading has become our ultimate safe space. We’re unpacking what it really takes to find solace in books when real life gets overwhelming—and why diverse stories matter more than ever.Tori breaks down her favorite spicy romance authors (Kennedy Ryan), surviving severe "book hangovers," and why she binges romance when real-life dating falls short. Meanwhile, Ta'ja Nicole shares her struggle with ADHD reading slumps after college, using Starbucks body-doubling to lock in, and her favorite self-help and faith-based reads.🎧 Tune in, subscribe, and tell us: 1. What is one book that completely saved you from a reading slump?2. What is one book or story that made you believe in love again?⏱️ CHAPTERS & TIMESTAMPS:00:00 - Intro, Catching Up & Weekly Pulse Check03:15 - Discovering Local "Spicy" Bookstores & BookTok Culture04:53 - Starbucks Body Doubling Hack for ADHD & Reading Workspaces06:32 - What is BookTok? Highs, Lows, & Emotional Reads08:47 - Reading as Escapism: Romance Books vs. Real Life Love11:31 - What is a "Book Hangover"? (Kennedy Ryan & Comfort Reads)17:21 - ADHD Reading Slumps, Taja’s Self-Help & Non-Fiction Book Recommendations18:05 - Self-Help, Faith & "Why Can't I Get It Together?"22:53 - Finding the Right Bible & Personal Faith Journeys24:53 - Our Weekly Homework Assignment For You💡 BOOKS & AUTHORS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:• Long Shot / Block Shot / Real by Kennedy Ryan• The Last Letter by Rebecca Yarros• Finding the Soul by Tabitha Brown• Why Can't I Get It Together? by Amy Weatherly & Jess Johnston• Women's Everyday Study Bible (NLT Version)--------------------------------------------------🎙️ ABOUT DEAFinitely NOT THE ONE:Hosted by Ta'ja Nicole and Tori Serrano, DEAFinitely Not The One is a bilingual (ASL & Spoken English / SimCom) podcast exploring the intersection of identity, culture, financial empowerment, personal growth, and modern life without the filter. 📲 CONNECT WITH US:Instagram: @DEAFinitelyNotTheOne TikTok: @DEAFinitelyNotTheOne Facebook: @DEAFinitelyNotTheOne ⚖️ LEGAL & FINANCIAL DISCLAIMER:The content shared in this video and podcast is for informational, educational, and entertainment purposes only and should not be construed as professional financial, legal, or medical advice.#BookTok #RomanceBooks #BookRecommendations #ADHDReading #KennedyRyan #TabithaBrown #Podcast #DEAFinitelyNotTheOne #ReadingEscapism #SpicyRomance #DarkRomance #BookTokTroper #DiversityInPublishing #Podcast #RelationshipRedFlags #DeafCulture #BookTokRecs #DeafCreators #RepresentationMatters #Bookworm #Romantasy

3. 

   30 Sept 2026

   Who Decided What's "Professional"? (Code-Switching, Grad School, & Corporate Bias)

   Are you tired of shrinking yourself to fit someone else’s definition of "professional"? In this episode of DEAFinitely Not The One, we break down what it really means to navigate graduate school and corporate environments as Black and Latina Deaf women. From absurd grading penalties over blue nail polish to the heavy toll of code-switching, we’re asking the hard question: WHO actually gets to define professionalism? 💬 DROP A COMMENT BELOW:1. Who defined "professionalism" in your industry, and is it time to change it?2. What is one habit or workplace rule you refuse to conform to anymore?--- 📌 CHAPTERS & TIMESTAMPS:00:00 - Post-Check & Grad School Updates03:32 - The Difference Between a Bad Grad School & a Great One06:45 - Being the ONLY Deaf and Black Student in the Room12:00 - Do Professors Actually Care? Online vs. In-Person Learning18:35 - Code-Switching in Papers & Workplace Settings22:38 - How to Find Your Voice Without Losing Yourself24:00 - Hair Bias, Nails, & Unspoken Corporate Rules28:04 - "Points Deducted for Blue Nail Polish" (Real Story)30:38 - Redefining Professionalism: Our Homework Assignment For You--- 🔗 CONNECT WITH US:• Podcast Channel: @DEAFinitelyNotTheOne• Follow us on Instagram: @DEAFinitelyNotTheOne• TikTok: @DEAFinitelyNotTheOne #CodeSwitching #BlackInAcademia #DeafCulture #CorporateCulture #Professionalism #DEAFinitelyNotTheOne #GradSchoolLife

Reach and audience

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YouTube views

32,270

Score snapshot 15 Sept 2025

Apple Podcasts (US)

5.0 / 5

1 ratings

Podcast Authority Score: 45 / 100

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Quality

60

Social presence

0

YouTube

76

Engagement

0