Plenty of Husbands Podcast

About Plenty of Husbands Podcast

In the Plenty of Husbands : Success in Midlife Love podcast, Robin Fisher Roffer proves that love isn’t just for the lucky or the young. It’s for women who are older, wiser, and hotter, and anyone willing to dive into the messy, beautiful chaos love throws their way, and still say, “Bring it on, baby!” Each episode features expert guests who share their wisdom on navigating the complexities of finding love later in life—think dating apps, texting etiquette, sex, step kids, and dealing with exes. With humor and candor, Robin reflects on her journey through nine proposals and three marriages, revealing the lessons learned from relationships that fell short and the growth that led her to finding her true love at 55. This is juicy stuff and a true celebration of resilience and self-acceptance, offering hope that love is always within reach, no matter how many husbands it takes.

Publisher

Robin Fisher Roffer

Category

health & fitness · society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

4 Mar 2026

Latest episode

14 Oct 2026

Latest episodes

32 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   14 Oct 2026

   Empty Nest, New Identity: Rediscover Yourself & Find Love in Midlife with Dr. Heidi Anderson Sauder

   For years, you've been someone's mother, partner, wife, or caregiver. You've spent so much time showing up for everyone else that you may have forgotten what makes YOU feel alive. And now, in midlife, everything is shifting. Who are you when the roles that once defined you begin to change? And how do you rediscover love, intimacy, and desire when you barely recognize yourself? In this episode of *Plenty of Husbands*, host Robin Fisher Roffer sits down with clinical psychologist and intimacy expert Dr. Heidi Anderson Sauder for an honest conversation about identity, the empty nest, relationships, and finding your spark again after 50. IN THIS EPISODE, WE EXPLORE: • Why becoming an empty nester can leave you questioning who you are • How to rediscover your identity after years of putting everyone else first • Why finding yourself matters before finding a romantic partner • How married couples can reconnect by getting curious about each other again • Why sex and intimacy don't have to disappear after 50 • How to feel sexy and confident again after divorce, widowhood, illness, or years without intimacy • Why friendship, trust, and emotional safety matter in romantic relationships • How to explore new experiences without judging yourself for wanting something different Dr. Heidi reminds us that intimacy isn't just about sex, and finding love isn't necessarily about finding someone new. Sometimes it's about getting to know yourself again—and discovering what's possible in this next chapter. LET'S TALK: If your children have grown up or your relationship has changed, what's been the hardest part of rediscovering yourself? And if you're over 50, do you believe your best years of love and intimacy are still ahead of you? Share your thoughts in the comments. We'd love to hear from you. Subscribe to Plenty of Husbands for honest conversations about dating, love, relationships, sex, and starting over in midlife. #DatingAfter50, #LoveAfter50, #SexAfter50, #IntimacyAfter50, #EmptyNest, #EmptyNestSyndrome, #MidlifeWomen, #MidlifeRelationships, #FindingYourself, #RelationshipAdvice, #MarriageAfter50, #RediscoverYourself, #WomenOver50, #PlentyOfHusbands, #DrHeidiAndersonSauder,

2. 

   7 Oct 2026

   How to Know If a Relationship Is Truly Right for You

   Can you recognize the difference between genuine connection and familiar dysfunction? In this episode of Plenty of Husbands, Robin Fisher Roffer speaks with behavioral specialist, relationship expert, dating coach, and grief counselor Jace Stapley about breaking self-sabotaging dating patterns and creating healthier relationships in midlife. Jace explains why we often repeat familiar relationship dynamics—even painful ones—and how slowing down can reveal whether someone’s actions truly match their words. They also discuss how to date with intention, avoid rushing into commitment, maintain your identity in a relationship, and grieve the end of a relationship so you can genuinely move forward. Key Takeaways · Self-sabotage is often a form of emotional protection rooted in fear of the unknown. · Familiar does not always mean healthy—or compatible. · Give new relationships the test of time before making major commitments. · Create your non-negotiables and deal breakers before you begin dating. · Compare perception with facts, and make sure someone’s actions match their words. · Healthy relationships require psychological safety, equal communication, and active listening. · Maintain your independence by staying connected to your values, boundaries, interests, and voice. · Grieving a relationship is an important part of healing and moving forward. Whether you’re dating after divorce, rebuilding your confidence, or hoping to find lasting love, this conversation offers practical guidance for navigating your next chapter with clarity and courage. #MidlifeDating #DatingAfterDivorce #FindingLoveAgain #HealthyRelationships #RelationshipAdvice #DatingTips #SelfSabotage #RedFlags #GreenFlags #DealBreakers #NonNegotiables #EmotionalSafety #Boundaries #WomenOver40 #WomenOver50 #MidlifeLove

3. 

   30 Sept 2026

   Open Your Heart Without Losing Yourself

   Dating again after divorce, loss, or a painful relationship can feel overwhelming. How do you trust your instincts? How do you avoid repeating old patterns? And how do you open your heart without losing yourself? In this episode of Plenty of Husbands, Robin Fisher-Roffer sits down with relationship expert and dating coach Christine Baumgartner to talk about healing, confidence, and finding love again in midlife and beyond. Christine shares how understanding your relationship patterns, releasing outdated baggage, and becoming clear about what you truly want can help you attract healthier, more fulfilling connections. In this episode: • How to rebuild confidence after divorce or loss • Recognizing and changing unhealthy dating patterns • Becoming clear about what you want in a partner • Moving from a victim story to a growth story • Removing the blocks that have kept you single • Meeting people through activities and shared interests • Dating online without losing your authenticity • Why you should look for connection—not instant chemistry • Letting yourself receive love, support, and partnership Whether you’re dating after divorce, grieving the loss of a partner, or simply ready to open your heart again, this conversation offers practical wisdom for finding a relationship that truly fits. Follow Plenty of Husbands for more conversations about dating, relationships, and creating your greatest love story. #DatingAfter40 #LoveAfter40 #MidlifeDating #DatingAfterDivorce #FindingLoveAgain #DatingConfidence #RelationshipAdvice #HealthyRelationships #PlentyOfHusbands

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Apple Podcasts (US)

5.0 / 5

7 ratings

Spotify

5.0 / 5

169 ratings

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