Podussy with Big Fat Gorilla

About Podussy with Big Fat Gorilla

The meme account owner has something to say…. A podcast that gives you tips on various subjects in life such as sex, relationships and mental health. Join the podcast by sending in ur questions at podussy.com (http://podussy.com), they will be shared anonymously <3 Don't forget to add your pronouns and sexuality (if it's about relationship advice)! That helps me a lot I am not a professional so take my advice or comments lighthearted!

Publisher

Podussy

Category

education · society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

Yes

First episode

7 Jun 2022

Latest episode

26 Apr 2023

Latest episodes

14 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   26 Apr 2023

   14: My Journey as an Extreme Consumer: From MAC Lipsticks to Influencer Hauls

   In this episode Big Fat Gorilla will be discussing the topic of consumerism, especially in the beauty industry and how she has been in a constant cycle of getting influenced by (shocking) influencers). She shares her experiences on how the beauty industry profited of her as a young girl, and how she bought products solely based on the status that came with them. As an adult, she admits to still being influenced by influencers and shares her thoughts about it and how she now tries to break out of that cycle. If you wanna be involved with the podcast, please ask me a question through my website https://podussy.com (https://podussy.com) or honestly just come visit cause it is really cool Please leave me a review if you liked it and follow me on my socials; https://www.instagram.com/podussywithbfg/ (https://www.instagram.com/podussywithbfg/) https://www.instagram.com/bigfatgorilla/ (https://www.instagram.com/bigfatgorilla/) https://www.instagram.com/barbaravginkel/ (https://www.instagram.com/barbaravginkel/)

2. 

   12 Apr 2023

   13: How To Know When It's Time To Dump Your Loser Boyfriend...

   Okay back to regular scheduling! Let's talk about breaking up with a man... In this episode Big Fat Gorilla is discussing the early signs to leave your man/situationship and when to ACTUALLY leave your relationship! Do you see yourself with this man in 5 years? Are you too blinded by your own feelings and not looking at the facts? Does he actually meet your standards? These questions might be uncomfortable to anwser, but it's probably better than waisting your time... If you wanna be involved with the podcast, please ask me a question through my website https://podussy.com (https://podussy.com) or honestly just come visit cause it is really cool Please leave me a review if you liked it and follow me on my socials; https://www.instagram.com/podussywithbfg/ (https://www.instagram.com/podussywithbfg/) https://www.instagram.com/bigfatgorilla/ (https://www.instagram.com/bigfatgorilla/) https://www.instagram.com/barbaravginkel/ (https://www.instagram.com/barbaravginkel/)

3. 

   5 Apr 2023

   12: Why Don't Men Care About Feminism As Much As I Do?

   In today's episode Big Fat Gorilla has returned from the grave and has blessed us with her thoughts and her thoughts only. Big Fat Gorilla sometimes struggles with the fact that men don't seem to understand a women's issue on the same level that she does. Do men just not get it? Is this a bad thing? Are men just not emotional intelligent? Does she just ask too much from men? The answer might surprise you! Sorry for being 5 months late btw lol. Shownotes: My favourite female youtube creators: https://www.youtube.com/@KhadijaMbowehttps:// (https://www.youtube.com/@KhadijaMbowehttps://) www.youtube.com/@TeeNoirhttps:// (http://www.youtube.com/@TeeNoirhttps://) www.youtube.com/@lipgloss7535https:// (http://www.youtube.com/@lipgloss7535https://) www.youtube.com/@gremlitahttps:// (http://www.youtube.com/@gremlitahttps://) www.youtube.com/@monicagreatgal (https://www.youtube.com/@KhadijaMbowehttps://www.youtube.com/@TeeNoirhttps://www.youtube.com/@lipgloss7535https://www.youtube.com/@gremlitahttps://www.youtube.com/@monicagreatgal) The Problem With ''Google is free'' Activism - Rowan Willishttps:// (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nbUwkCfT3vU)www.youtube.com/watch?v=nbUwkCfT3vU (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nbUwkCfT3vU) If you wanna be involved with the podcast, please ask me a question through my website https://podussy.com (https://podussy.com) or honestly just come visit cause it is really cool Please leave me a review if you liked it and follow me on my socials; https://www.instagram.com/podussywithbfg/ (https://www.instagram.com/podussywithbfg/) https://www.instagram.com/bigfatgorilla/ (https://www.instagram.com/bigfatgorilla/) https://www.instagram.com/barbaravginkel/ (https://www.instagram.com/barbaravginkel/)

4. 

   8 Nov 2022

   11: Surviving A Long Distance Relationship (E-Daters This Is For You)

   omfg long time no see y'all please forgive me! In this episode Big Fat Gorilla will discuss how she deals with her long distance relationship and discusses the pro's of it. Cause who doesn't want to date someone that is from another sexy country? Let's be honest though, long distance is hard work and it can get draining from time to time. Nothing sucks more than not being able to be with the person you love. Big Fat Gorilla thinks there always needs to be a light at the end of the tunnel (meaning one needs to move to the other) and discusses how to bring up this conversation. The tips she will give are honestly not that different from other relationship tips, so if you think ur relationship needs some spicing up, this is the one for you! Shownotes: BFG online questions favourites: 36 Questions Designed To Help You Fall In Love With Anyone https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fsi1c4/36_questions_designed_to_help_you_fall_in_love/ (https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fsi1c4/36_questions_designed_to_help_you_fall_in_love/) We're Not Really Strangers Card Game (omfg this is so illegal but fuck it) https://docs.google.com/document/d/1KLG6hXaIRGcS9-wz6vpKy8964tWiCniwcQgL7-wjmbA/edit (https://docs.google.com/document/d/1KLG6hXaIRGcS9-wz6vpKy8964tWiCniwcQgL7-wjmbA/edit) The 5 Love Languages Test https://5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language (https://5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language) 16 Personalities Test https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test (https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test) Dimension App https://www.dimensional.me/ (https://www.dimensional.me/) BFG IRL Games favourites So Cards: A Collection of Questions for Deeper Discussions https://www.bol.com/nl/nl/p/so-cards-a-collection-of-questions-for-deeper-discussions/9200000101949368/?Referrer=ADVNLGOO002027&gclid=CjwKCAiA9qKbBhAzEiwAS4yeDdSMgL1hbvElIk-SI6wtVTfPbpKPV7j_T9UXcP83wPgFOoZgJkBcJhoCodwQAvD_BwE (https://www.bol.com/nl/nl/p/so-cards-a-collection-of-questions-for-deeper-discussions/9200000101949368/?Referrer=ADVNLGOO002027&gclid=CjwKCAiA9qKbBhAzEiwAS4yeDdSMgL1hbvElIk-SI6wtVTfPbpKPV7j_T9UXcP83wPgFOoZgJkBcJhoCodwQAvD_BwE) Online activities to do together: Watch Netflix Together https://www.teleparty.com/ (https://www.teleparty.com/) Join An Online PubQuiz https://quiznight.nl/index.php/the-online-pubquiz/ (https://quiznight.nl/index.php/the-online-pubquiz/) NoteIt App (Send a drawing to your partners notescreen) https://apps.apple.com/nl/app/noteit-widget-get-it-now/id1570369625 (https://apps.apple.com/nl/app/noteit-widget-get-it-now/id1570369625) If you wanna be involved with the podcast, please ask me a question through my website https://podussy.com (https://podussy.com) or honestly just come visit cause it is really cool

5. 

   21 Sept 2022

   10: The Crab Basket Effect: Do Women Hold Each Other Back?

   The short explanation for the crab basket effect would be: If i can't have it, then she can't have it either! In this episode Big Fat Gorilla discusses all sorts of circumstances where she has brought women down. Why is it so that when we see another women have something that we don't have, or secrelty maybe even want, we are tempted to bring them down for the most misogynistic reasonings? Are we as women secretly in competition with each other? From wearing ''too'' much make up, instagram filters, bikini pictures, sleeping with multiple people, finding a characteristic about another woman would objectively be ''better'' than hers or even being the hotter ex, Big Fat Gorilla will break down all sorts ways she has brought women down on the expense of not only herself, but the other woman too. What's your opinion? Do all women crab? Can you ever get rid of these conscious or sometimes unconscious thoughts? Shownotes: Books: Krabben, Daan Borrel en Milou Deelen https://www.bol.com/nl/nl/p/krabben/9200000125491836/ (https://www.bol.com/nl/nl/p/krabben/9200000125491836/) I’m glad my mom died, Jennette Mccurdy https://www.amazon.nl/Im-Glad-My-Mom-Died/dp/1982185821/ref=asc (https://www.amazon.nl/Im-Glad-My-Mom-Died/dp/1982185821/ref=asc)df1982185821/?tag=nlshogostdsp-21&linkCode=df0&hvadid=572451176330&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=8123544260730302391&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=m&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9064512&hvtargid=pla-1530068095877&psc=1 Youtube: Lipglossssssssss Making fun of a woman’s looks is always more then just a joke (Jada and Will) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1tUTM0D0Pb4 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1tUTM0D0Pb4) Please leave me a review if you liked it and follow me on my socials; https://www.instagram.com/podussywithbfg/ (https://www.instagram.com/podussywithbfg/) https://www.instagram.com/bigfatgorilla/ (https://www.instagram.com/bigfatgorilla/) https://www.instagram.com/barbaravginkel/ (https://www.instagram.com/barbaravginkel/) If you wanna be involved with the podcast, please ask me a question through the google drive link down below or linked in my instagram bio :) https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1JXz1 (https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1JXz1)GT8svqR-57SdcXUcp8LHaOS5xJPdC7hcX_nbs/edit

6. 

   7 Sept 2022

   9: Questions & Questions: Am I Bisexual? And My Thoughts On Open Relationships

   Question episode! in this episode BFG anwsers all of your questions so you can get a better look on her personality! In this episode she discuss why men that cum in 1-2 minutes don't give a fuck about you, talks about her biggest fear (surprise: men), anwsers a listeners question on if she should feel guilty about liking other men in a relationship and tells her opinion on open relationships and why people in open relationships are probably the most mature people out there! Later in the episode she will discuss her sexuality. Should she feel guilty about labeling herself as bisexual while having no experience with women? let's talk about it. Please leave me a review if you liked it and follow me on my socials; https://www.instagram.com/podussywithbfg/ (https://www.instagram.com/podussywithbfg/) https://www.instagram.com/bigfatgorilla/ (https://www.instagram.com/bigfatgorilla/) https://www.instagram.com/barbaravginkel/ (https://www.instagram.com/barbaravginkel/) If you wanna be involved with the podcast, please ask me a question through the google drive link down below or linked in my instagram bio :) https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1JXz1 (https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1JXz1)GT8svqR-57SdcXUcp8LHaOS5xJPdC7hcX_nbs/edit

7. 

   24 Aug 2022

   8: When Is It Worth Getting Back With An Ex? (Oh And I Got Spiked)

   hello hello hello everyone!! In this weeks episode Big Fat Gorilla discusses getting back with an ex, cause let's be honest. Getting back with an ex can feel so sexy and exciting! She discusses the situations when it would occur to go back to an ex, the absolute no go's for going back and when it would be worth getting back with an ex. At the end of the episode she awnsers a listeners question about her specific situation and if she should go back with her ex, i recommend listening to the end cause that was for sure my favourite part of the episode! Oh, and she also has a little story time about how she got spiked on a festival. Please stay safe guys! Never leave ur friends alone at a party :) Please leave me a review if you liked it and follow me on my socials; https://www.instagram.com/podussywithbfg/ (https://www.instagram.com/podussywithbfg/) https://www.instagram.com/bigfatgorilla/ (https://www.instagram.com/bigfatgorilla/) https://www.instagram.com/barbaravginkel/ (https://www.instagram.com/barbaravginkel/) If you wanna be involved with the podcast, please ask me a question through the google drive link down below or linked in my instagram bio :) https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1JXz1 (https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1JXz1)GT8svqR-57SdcXUcp8LHaOS5xJPdC7hcX_nbs/edit

8. 

   10 Aug 2022

   7: Losing Your Virginity And How Porn Affected My Sex Life

   Hello hello hello! Big Fat Gorilla is back with her personal experience on losing her virginity and all the taboo's around it. From faking orgasms to your friends, being embarrased about not feeling pain when losing your virginity. Later in the episode she talks about how porn effected her sexual behaviours on a young age. Fake moaning and pleasing men by being in literal pain in the bedroom for male validation, feeling guilty when saying no to sex, she talks about it all! PS: she may or may not just told where the G-spot is located?! Ur gonna wanna listen to this one! Shownotes: Research on 88.2% of best selling pornography contains violence against women https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/20980228/ (https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/20980228/) Podcast reference: Podje van m’n Zus: #9 Milou Deelen: slutshaming https://open.spotify.com/episode/0iEkKaeJ7PP5K8s1aay6Ei?si=J0THiZDqQae8vjgCn98ECA&context=spotify%3Ashow%3A7ukebpqHKVrl4a0ZDA9o9K (https://open.spotify.com/episode/0iEkKaeJ7PP5K8s1aay6Ei?si=J0THiZDqQae8vjgCn98ECA&context=spotify%3Ashow%3A7ukebpqHKVrl4a0ZDA9o9K) Please leave me a review if you liked it and follow me on my socials; https://www.instagram.com/podussywithbfg/ (https://www.instagram.com/podussywithbfg/) https://www.instagram.com/bigfatgorilla/ (https://www.instagram.com/bigfatgorilla/) https://www.instagram.com/barbaravginkel/ (https://www.instagram.com/barbaravginkel/) If you wanna be involved with the podcast, please ask me a question through the google drive link down below or linked in my instagram bio :) https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1JXz1 (https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1JXz1)GT8svqR-57SdcXUcp8LHaOS5xJPdC7hcX_nbs/edit

9. 

   13 Jul 2022

   6: How To NOT Catch Feelings And Bodycounts

   BING BONG! In this episode Big Fat Gorilla is answering a listeners question on how to NOT catch feelings. Spoiler: These tips are not for people that are already in love with someone. In this episode she will share her holy grail on how to dissociate from your potential fuck buddy and will overshare a little bit about how she learned that these tips are crucial in unfortonately the hard way. Later, we will discuss body counts and why they shouldn't matter at all. PS: Sorry i said i would discuss ICKS in this episode, i didn't so i lied unprovoked. Please leave me a review if you liked it and follow me on my socials; https://www.instagram.com/podussywithbfg/ (https://www.instagram.com/podussywithbfg/) https://www.instagram.com/bigfatgorilla/ (https://www.instagram.com/bigfatgorilla/) https://www.instagram.com/barbaravginkel/ (https://www.instagram.com/barbaravginkel/) If you wanna be involved with the podcast, please ask me a question through the google drive link down below or linked in my instagram bio :) https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1JXz1 (https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1JXz1)GT8svqR-57SdcXUcp8LHaOS5xJPdC7hcX_nbs/edit

10. 

    6 Jul 2022

    5: My Problem With ''That Girl'' And Debunking Toxic Diet Culture

    In this episode big fat gorilla discusses the ‘’That Girl’’ trend on Tik Tok. On Tik Tok we need to stay critical on the footage that is shown to us. Big Fat Gorilla breaks down who that girl is and what that girl stands for. That Girl involves a lot of overwhelming routines and toxic diet culture. Big Fat Gorilla will debunks these diet rules and tells her opinion about this specific fitness industry. In her opinion, That Girl promotes herself as someone that is all about balance, but why is only one lifestyle shown and only by one type of person? She also slightly touches on eating disorders and how this trend may encourage them. All discussed in this episode! Shownotes: References: Leyva, J. (2013). How Do Muscles Grow? The Science of Muscle Growth. Built Lean https://www.builtlean.com/muscles-grow/ (https://www.builtlean.com/muscles-grow/) Harvie, M., Wright, C., Pegington, M., McMullan, D., Mitchell, E., Martin, B., ... & Howell, A. (2013). The effect of intermittent energy and carbohydrate restriction v. daily energy restriction on weight loss and metabolic disease risk markers in overweight women. https://www.cambridge.org/core/journals/british-journal-of-nutrition/article/effect-of-intermittent-energy-and-carbohydrate-restriction-v-daily-energy-restriction-on-weight-loss-and-metabolic-disease-risk-markers-in-overweight-women/BC03063A5D8E9446D5090DB083A4B226 (https://www.cambridge.org/core/journals/british-journal-of-nutrition/article/effect-of-intermittent-energy-and-carbohydrate-restriction-v-daily-energy-restriction-on-weight-loss-and-metabolic-disease-risk-markers-in-overweight-women/BC03063A5D8E9446D5090DB083A4B226) Black creators explaining Tik Tok algorithm Tee Noir: TikTok vs Black creators: If you hate us just say that https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4JewOZlqpU0 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4JewOZlqpU0) Khadija Mbowe: Beauty is in the eye of… the Colonizer? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hmqq9_XTelM (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hmqq9_XTelM) My favourite black creators on Tik Tok Lipglossssssssss Zioraaaa Bigbodybitchwithanopinion Galacticwh0r3 My favourite fitness influencers: Kateryna_fitlife on tik tok Taylorkayteee on Instagram Anabelle Hayes on YouTube Please leave me a review if you liked it and follow me on my socials <3 mwah: https://www.instagram.com/podussywithbfg/ (https://www.instagram.com/podussywithbfg/) https://www.instagram.com/bigfatgorilla/ (https://www.instagram.com/bigfatgorilla/) https://www.instagram.com/barbaravginkel/ (https://www.instagram.com/barbaravginkel/) If you wanna be involved with the podcast, please ask me a question through the google drive link down below or linked in my instagram bio :) https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1JXz1 (https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1JXz1)GT8svqR-57SdcXUcp8LHaOS5xJPdC7hcX_nbs/edit

11. 

    29 Jun 2022

    4: My Favourite Anti Feminist Break Up Lyrics

    BREAK UP EPISODE! To all the people that went to a relationship break up or SITUATIONSHIP break up (i hear you!), this is the episode for you! Big Fat Gorilla is providing a break up guide to heal you as fast as possible before hot girl summer. In this episode she will discuss why we need to be as cringe as possible during a break up, how to heal the damage that has been done and appreciate our friendships instead! Later in the episode she will discuss her favourite break up songs (spoiler: the best break up songs involve gun sounds) to let that person go forever! Please leave me a review if you liked it and follow me on my socials; https://www.instagram.com/podussywithbfg/ (https://www.instagram.com/podussywithbfg/) https://www.instagram.com/bigfatgorilla/ (https://www.instagram.com/bigfatgorilla/) https://www.instagram.com/barbaravginkel/ (https://www.instagram.com/barbaravginkel/) If you wanna be involved with the podcast, please ask me a question through the google drive link down below or linked in my instagram bio :) https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1JXz1 (https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1JXz1)GT8svqR-57SdcXUcp8LHaOS5xJPdC7hcX_nbs/edit Shownotes: Applying the 5 Love Languages to yourself https://psychcentral.com/blog/success/2016/02/applying-the-5-love-languages-to-self-love-how-to-love-yourself (https://psychcentral.com/blog/success/2016/02/applying-the-5-love-languages-to-self-love-how-to-love-yourself) Big Fat Gorilla discord server https://discord.gg/WMTYnMnt (https://discord.gg/WMTYnMnt)

12. 

    22 Jun 2022

    3: Trigger Warning! Men Holding Fish

    In this weeks episode Big Fat Gorilla is gonna talk about red flags and green flags for men and women on dating apps! (Shocker, she thinks women are always walking green flags) She shares some easy dating app tricks to get you more matches and talks about how to avoid men that just wanna hook up on dating apps. Later in the episode she will judge some people their dating app profile and help them to give them a little make over! Please follow the podcast on Instagram www.instagram.com/podussywithbfg and leave a review if you liked it! If you wanna ask her a question. Send them anonymously on https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1JXz1 (https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1JXz1)GT8svqR-57SdcXUcp8LHaOS5xJPdC7hcX_nbs/edit#responses

13. 

    15 Jun 2022

    2: Dating Like A City Girl

    CITY GIRLS UP! On this weeks episode Big Fat Gorilla is sharing all her tips and tricks to keep dating fun! She explains why rejection is a part of the dating game and why dating is rather about the experience, than the journey for love. Further in the episode shares some little trick you should ALWAYS apply for when you are on a date. Finally, She gives in to her misandrist self and explains why lying to men on dates is always justifiable and shares green flags and red flags you should look for on a date! If you enjoyed this episode please subscribe to the podcast and leave a review. It means the world! If you want to get more involved with the podcast and want to ask Big Fat Gorilla a question about ANYTHING (There's no limits) please follow the podcast instagram @podussywithbfg. In the instagram bio you can find a link where you can anonymously ask a question. Podcast also available on Apple and hosted by Barbara van Ginkel / @Bigfatgorilla

14. 

    7 Jun 2022

    1: Put A Mirror Infront Of Ur Pussy

    In this episode big fat gorilla will be horny on main. She will discuss the best way for women to initiate sex with a m*le. She is going to talk about how to get confident about ur wap and hand u some easy flirting tips (level 1, easy). If you liked the episode please leave a rating and review and get involved by sending in questions through the link in my instagram bio. That helps me a lot! Shownotes: Episode cover is made by @selfinflictive on instagram For getting loads of beautiful and all sorts of vagina's on ur instagram @the.vulva.gallery Why i photographed 100 vulvas by Laura Dodsworth And if you struggle with having bigger breasts, r/bigboobproblems on reddit might be a cool place for you to look on! Instagram: @bigfatgorilla @podussywithbfg and @barbaravginkel Disclaimer: i am not a professional, please take the advice lighthearted.

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