Polarity Unscripted is for people who want to heal the gender divide to create deeper romantic connections in their own lives.
Join Jack Bohannan, a relationship coach and writer, as he interviews subject matter experts, anonymous people across cultures, and even his buddy Mark.
If you listen to later episodes, expect value-add conversations with experts. If you listen to the earlier ones, you'll hear anonymous interviews about gender with everyone from shamans to sex workers.
Subscribe for weekly episodes to expand and deepen your relationships, understanding of the world, and connection with yourself.
If you want to improve your relationships or tell your story (on Zoom), email him at jack@polarityunscripted.com
This is the perfect FINAL episode for this podcast. (Video version launching soon under a different name!) Follow me on Instagram for the announcement: @jack.unscripted
Why is it the perfect last episode? Because my awesome guest -- Bern Mendez, a dating coach for women -- shares insights about relationships/gender that are aligned with my own.
After interviewing dozens of people about masculinity, femininity and gender, I have more appreciation for how our biology influences us (situationally) when it comes to relationships. But I refuse the gender essentialism popular in "gender polarity" content and some relationship advice. My personal inquiry is satisfied, and I'll get around to writing a book... someday.
Bern views relationships through a deeply compassionate, neurobiological lens that includes body, mind, and spirit.
We cover:
How primal instincts factor into our choice of partner -- and why turning away from our instincts may make us happy
Some key reasons why we get stuck in toxic patterns -- both as individuals and as a society
What to do about those issues to find healthy, happy partnership
Connect with Bern on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC8sZByHnbuaoVnWd_l23JgQ (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC8sZByHnbuaoVnWd_l23JgQ )
Free Webinar: How anxiously attached partners can get control and connection:
jackbohannan.com/heal (http://jackbohannan.com/heal)
jack@polarityunscripted.com
Instagram: @jack.unscripted (https://www.instagram.com/jack.unscripted/)
Medium: (https://medium.com/@jackbohannan)@jackbohannan (https://medium.com/@jackbohannan)
21 Aug 2025
Feeling in Layers w/Melissa Crook
In this episode, you’ll unpack the emotions that are blocking you from yourself, deeper connection, and happiness.
Melissa Crook works with clients to peel back the “layers” and put the power back in your hands to ask your questions and reclaim the questions you’re asking yourself.
Dealing with anger (as a woman)
Gaslighting, codependency and all the other fun stuff that’s likely to happen when you step into your truth
Radiant freedom, peace, and self-alignment
“Whatever you’re saying ‘yes’ to, you’re saying ‘no’ to something else. You better be okay with that thing you’re saying ‘no’ to — and it better not be yourself. So if anything is asking you to say ‘no’ to yourself…” — yeah woof
This one hits.
Listen now.
Learn more about Melissa’s work at embracinglayers.com (http://embracinglayers.com)
MY WEBINAR: How anxiously attached partners can get control and connection:
jackbohannan.com/heal (http://jackbohannan.com/heal)
jack@polarityunscripted.com
Instagram: @jack.unscripted (https://www.instagram.com/jack.unscripted/)
Medium: (https://medium.com/@jackbohannan)@jackbohannan (https://medium.com/@jackbohannan)
8 Aug 2025
Relational Clarity w/Dr. Foojan Zeine
A packed interview with couples therapist and author Dr. Foojan Zeine. We discuss themes that, for me, circled the concept of self-responsibility in relationships
How to remove projections and align with your partner as a team
The perils of hoping for you partner to change vs. hoarding responsibility
A big reframe: how to resolve issues rather than win arguments
Or simply leaving the monster of a partner (you’ve created in your head)
Listen now
Connect with Dr. Zeine:
foojanzeine.com
Or get her app at foojan.com
FREE WEBINAR: How anxiously attached partners can get control and connection:
jackbohannan.com/heal (http://jackbohannan.com/heal)
jack@polarityunscripted.com
Instagram: @jack.unscripted (https://www.instagram.com/jack.unscripted/)
Medium: (https://medium.com/@jackbohannan)@jackbohannan (https://medium.com/@jackbohannan)
Who has been a guest on Polarity Unscripted
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Tiffany Newton
Jack Kammer
Fanny Tristan
Michelle Panning
A German man
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Apple Podcasts (US)
5.0 / 5
3 ratings
Spotify
5.0 / 5
2 ratings
Podcast Authority Score: 38 / 100
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Quality
44
Social presence
97
YouTube
0
Engagement
32
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