Polyam Living is your guide to the events, destinations, gatherings, and experiences where our community comes alive. From lifestyle resorts and festival weekends to local meetups and the hidden gems that only insiders know about, we find the places worth going and the moments worth showing up for. Whether you are looking for your next adventure, planning a trip with your people, or simply want to know where the community is gathering next, Polyam Living is the show that keeps you connected to the world we are building together.
Because the best part of this life is living it out loud.
What happens when your personal journey becomes a way to help other people feel less alone? In Polyam Living E011, “Loving Without Boundaries - Kitty Chambliss,” Alonzo Banx sits down with relationship coach, author, and podcast host Kitty Chambliss to talk about how Loving Without Boundaries grew from a personal blog into a larger community resource. Kitty shares her own path into consensual non-monogamy, the work she now does with people navigating open relationships, her approach to jealou...
27 Sept 2026
Nicole Prause; Neuroscience and Sexuality
What actually happens in the brain and body during orgasm, and why do we still know so little about it? In Polyam Living E008, Alonzo Banx sits down with neuroscientist and psychologist Dr. Nicole Prause for a fascinating look inside the science of human sexuality. From brainwaves, body temperature and reaction time to the mystery of post orgasmic illness syndrome, Nicole takes us inside a working sex research laboratory and shares some of the unexpected things researchers are beginning to se...
27 Sept 2026
Open with David Carlson
What happens when non monogamous people want more than visibility and start looking for community, resources and legal recognition? In Polyam Living E009, Alonzo Banx talks with David Carlson, Campaign Director for OPEN, the Organization for Polyamory and Ethical Non Monogamy. David explains how OPEN supports peer groups, local organizers and families looking for knowledgeable resources, while also working with communities pursuing protections for different family and relationship structures....
27 Sept 2026
Author Kathleen Labriola
Jealousy does not mean you are failing at polyamory, and compersion does not have to be the finish line. In Polyam Living E010, Alonzo Banx sits down with counselor, author and longtime polyamory advocate Kathy Labriola to talk about what actually helps when jealousy, fear and insecurity show up in non-monogamous relationships. Kathy shares practical approaches from decades of counseling and lived experience, including negotiated boundaries, temporary agreements, gradual change and the surpri...
15 Sept 2026
The First Time You Walk Into a Lifestyle Club
Your first night at a lifestyle club can feel intimidating long before anything actually happens. In Polyam Living E005, The First Time You Walk Into a Lifestyle Club, Noah walks through what a new guest can really expect, from the front door, membership rules, dress codes and tours to privacy, social spaces, consent and the conversation you should have before you arrive. The point is not to prove you belong or do everything in one night. It is to understand the space, ask questions, know you...
15 Sept 2026
How do Young People Feel About Polyamory
How do younger adults actually feel about monogamy, polyamory and commitment? In Polyam Living E006, How Do Young People Feel About Polyamory?, Brandy Beckett looks at research showing that younger adults are more open to non monogamy than older generations, while many still say they want committed relationships. The episode looks at that tension without treating those ideas as opposites, asking what younger people actually want, how relationship expectations are changing, and whether o...
15 Sept 2026
Feeld is Growing
Feeld is growing fast, but can the culture that made it valuable grow with it? In Polyam Living E007, Feeld Is Growing, Brandy Beckett looks at what happens when a platform built around polyamory, kink, queer identities and intentional connection starts attracting a much larger audience. The issue is not newcomers, monogamous people or curiosity. It is whether the culture of clear communication, boundaries and truth can survive mainstream growth. A bigger community can be a good thing, but on...
13 Aug 2026
The Online World of Poly Connections
There is no single online front door into the poly community. Some apps are built around dating. Some are better for events. Some are really social networks where relationships happen around the edges. In Polyam Living E004, The Online World of Poly Connections, Noah walks through Feeld, OkCupid, Hinge, #Open, Plura, helloPOLY, Meetup, FetLife and SwingHub, looking at what each one actually does and where each may fit. The goal is not to find the best app. It is to find the right door for the...
5 Aug 2026
Do Dick Pics Actually Work
Do dick pics work? Sometimes, but not as an introduction. Heather and Alonzo talk about what people actually look for in a profile, why unsolicited images usually kill the conversation, when asking first changes everything, and how respect, timing, and presentation determine whether a photo is welcomed or ignored.
5 Aug 2026
How to Enter a Club or Munch
Walking into a club or munch for the first time can feel like entering a room where everyone else already knows the rules. Heather and Alonzo break down how to approach people, read the room, connect with couples, contact the host, understand the venue, and enter a new community without making yourself or everyone around you uncomfortable.
8 May 2026
What happens at a munch.
What exactly happens at a munch? Usually, people eat, talk, laugh, and get to know the local community without the pressure of walking into a club or play event. In this episode of Polyam Living, Alonzo Banks explains what newcomers can expect, how to find the right gathering, and the basic rules around privacy, consent, and showing up respectfully.
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