Pondering Podcast
Louis Patin, Erica Honore
5.0from 9 ratings
- 17
- Episodes
- 9
- Ratings
- 2025
- First episode
About Pondering Podcast
Erica Honore and Louis Patin are the owners and operators of Pondering Farms in Howe,TX. This podcast will discuss an array of topics based of their family life experiences. Together they have survived child loss, divorce, and a variety of other life events. Tune in to hear their story of surviving grief and everything in between
- Publisher
- Louis Patin, Erica Honore
- Category
- health & fitness · kids & family
- Language
- en
- Explicit
- No
- First episode
- 17 Jun 2025
- Latest episode
- 20 May 2026
Latest episodes
17 episodes in the feed.
20 May 2026
Life Lessons With Cecilia
What's the secret to a lasting marriage? In this heartfelt epiosde, Erica sits down with her mother-in-law Cecilia, for an honest and deeply personal conversation about love, loss, and life after more than 60 years marriage, Together, they reflect on the beauty and challenges of growing older with someone, the quiet moments that truly build a relationship, and the grief that comes with losing a lifelong partner. From lessons through decades of marriage to stories filled with laughter, wisdom, heartbreak, and resillience, Cecilia shares her perspective on what it really takes to make love last through every season of life. This episode feels like sitting at the kitchen table listening to generations connect through open conversation, cherised moments, and timeless advice. About Host Louis Patin & Erica Honore are husband and wife, and the owners of Pondering Farms. Erica Honore is a Certified Grief Specialist & Author of ''Loving,Losing&Living'' which is available on amazon thru the link below Form of Contact: EricaPHonore.com Facebook/EricaPHonore Erica@EricaPHonore.com https://www.amazon.com/Loving-Losing-Living-Navigated-Completely/dp/B0F6CXB2DT/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1PX7BLEOWV6A4&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.X9wq4MDE9O-gfps9HOp_QLPeE43viCXcdOoH7LMBimleZt_RxbIT8aHBbLK-56efLoAt_YaL_Pl1MBb0b3x8jmK1RT4zKozyUWL4YtQJApKoOGq-MCeFynfk5gJtwz6FUI_ebGj4jysMof-9KGNicMtfZYCBWFwU89h_QuyarNZ5O96PldL3eBCgp1NA8gXGJbR-wHnl7qyg9_TD4zOkri8SUxXYmtrGbnvlyD_ZnYY.EL-YfgkAgp-8Wfj9sYbDtgQ4uKkhXNo7CkeuwgVp8zQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=loving+losing+and+living&qid=1750128375&sprefix=loving+losing%2Caps%2C167&sr=8-1
6 May 2026
Back When 2026 Felt Brand New
Back in January, Louis and Erica recorded their reflections and thoughts on 2025- the grief, the growth, accomplishments and unexpected adventures. In this episode, they re cap the old year, and discuss their hopes and goals for 2026. Erica shares her emotional journey of publishing a book, what it was like sharing her story with the world, and how grief can reshape not only your perspective but future. They discuss upcoming plans on starting a new local crawfish business, reflect on their podcast adventure and where they think it's headed. From personal healing and accomplishments, new dreams, new goals, and family life, ambition, and marriage- this episode is about embracing the unknown while choosing to keep going and remain hopeful for what ''New Year'' brings! About Host Louis Patin & Erica Honore are husband and wife, and the owners of Pondering Farms. Erica Honore is a Certified Grief Specialist & Author of ''Loving,Losing&Living'' which is available on amazon thru the link below Form of Contact: EricaPHonore.com Facebook/EricaPHonore Erica@EricaPHonore.com https://www.amazon.com/Loving-Losing-Living-Navigated-Completely/dp/B0F6CXB2DT/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1PX7BLEOWV6A4&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.X9wq4MDE9O-gfps9HOp_QLPeE43viCXcdOoH7LMBimleZt_RxbIT8aHBbLK-56efLoAt_YaL_Pl1MBb0b3x8jmK1RT4zKozyUWL4YtQJApKoOGq-MCeFynfk5gJtwz6FUI_ebGj4jysMof-9KGNicMtfZYCBWFwU89h_QuyarNZ5O96PldL3eBCgp1NA8gXGJbR-wHnl7qyg9_TD4zOkri8SUxXYmtrGbnvlyD_ZnYY.EL-YfgkAgp-8Wfj9sYbDtgQ4uKkhXNo7CkeuwgVp8zQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=loving+losing+and+living&qid=1750128375&sprefix=loving+losing%2Caps%2C167&sr=8-1
16 Apr 2026
Conversations With My Mom Part 2
This episode contains discussions of death and grief. The content may be emotionally intese or triggering for some listeners. These conversations are raw and real, and they might be triggering for some. Take breaks listening as needed, skip or come back when you are ready. This episode contains discussions about race, segregation, and lived expereinces of discrimination. Listener discretion is advised as some topics may be emotionally impactful. Picking up from Conversations With My Mom Part 1, Erica and her mom continue the episode with discussing their grief journey about the lose of Austin and Erica's dad. How they both naviagted it, the different experiences, and the time leading up to the death of Erica's dad, as well as expereincing her second husband dying. Erica's mom shares stories of family memories, from her early adulthood to now. She gives a mother perspective on some of her decisions and the value of what family means to her. They also discuss the book Loving,Losing&Living written by Erica, and reshare the stories wrote and dive deeper into the emotional and true feelings being held at that time. Erica's mom shares her perspective on those stories and together they discuss the ''why's'', ''when'' and understandings of each other during those times. They end this episode off by discussing Erica's moms childhood, cooking, Lousiana expereinces and shared laughter of new and old stories. About Host Louis Patin & Erica Honore are husband and wife, and the owners of Pondering Farms. Erica Honore is a Certified Grief Specialist & Author of ''Loving,Losing&Living'' which is available on amazon thru the link below Form of Contact: EricaPHonore.com Facebook/EricaPHonore Erica@EricaPHonore.com https://www.amazon.com/Loving-Losing-Living-Navigated-Completely/dp/B0F6CXB2DT/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1PX7BLEOWV6A4&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.X9wq4MDE9O-gfps9HOp_QLPeE43viCXcdOoH7LMBimleZt_RxbIT8aHBbLK-56efLoAt_YaL_Pl1MBb0b3x8jmK1RT4zKozyUWL4YtQJApKoOGq-MCeFynfk5gJtwz6FUI_ebGj4jysMof-9KGNicMtfZYCBWFwU89h_QuyarNZ5O96PldL3eBCgp1NA8gXGJbR-wHnl7qyg9_TD4zOkri8SUxXYmtrGbnvlyD_ZnYY.EL-YfgkAgp-8Wfj9sYbDtgQ4uKkhXNo7CkeuwgVp8zQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=loving+losing+and+living&qid=1750128375&sprefix=loving+losing%2Caps%2C167&sr=8-1
10 Apr 2026
Conversations With My Mom Part 1
This episode contains discussions about race, segregation, and lived expereinces of discrimination. Listener discretion is advised as some topics may be emotionally impactful. A powerful conversation between Erica and her mother-covering life during segregation in Louisiana, the identify of being Creole, culture shock in California, and the deep grief of loosing a grandson. A story of strength, memory, and the unbreakable bond between generations. Across generations, stories carry weight. Together, they navigate the emotional terrain of culture, transitions, identiy and more. This conversation is about where we come from, what we carry, and how we share stories to future generations. About Host Louis Patin & Erica Honore are husband and wife, and the owners of Pondering Farms. Erica Honore is a Certified Grief Specialist & Author of ''Loving,Losing&Living'' which is available on amazon thru the link below Form of Contact: EricaPHonore.com Facebook/EricaPHonore Erica@EricaPHonore.com https://www.amazon.com/Loving-Losing-Living-Navigated-Completely/dp/B0F6CXB2DT/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1PX7BLEOWV6A4&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.X9wq4MDE9O-gfps9HOp_QLPeE43viCXcdOoH7LMBimleZt_RxbIT8aHBbLK-56efLoAt_YaL_Pl1MBb0b3x8jmK1RT4zKozyUWL4YtQJApKoOGq-MCeFynfk5gJtwz6FUI_ebGj4jysMof-9KGNicMtfZYCBWFwU89h_QuyarNZ5O96PldL3eBCgp1NA8gXGJbR-wHnl7qyg9_TD4zOkri8SUxXYmtrGbnvlyD_ZnYY.EL-YfgkAgp-8Wfj9sYbDtgQ4uKkhXNo7CkeuwgVp8zQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=loving+losing+and+living&qid=1750128375&sprefix=loving+losing%2Caps%2C167&sr=8-1
22 Mar 2026
Letters Home
Sending love and support to our military during this time.. During his two-week break from basic training, we sit down with our son for a conversation we'll never forget. We talk about what he expected before he left.. and what it's actually been like stepping into this new chapter of his life. From physical challenges to mental growth, he opens up about how he's handling it all-and suprisingly how much he likes it! Jordan shares what's been the hardest, what's pushes him the most, and how it's already changing him. This episode is about growth, proud parents and military insight to new beginnings. About Host Louis Patin & Erica Honore are husband and wife, and the owners of Pondering Farms. Erica Honore is a Certified Grief Specialist & Author of ''Loving,Losing&Living'' which is available on amazon thru the link below Form of Contact: EricaPHonore.com Facebook/EricaPHonore Erica@EricaPHonore.com https://www.amazon.com/Loving-Losing-Living-Navigated-Completely/dp/B0F6CXB2DT/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1PX7BLEOWV6A4&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.X9wq4MDE9O-gfps9HOp_QLPeE43viCXcdOoH7LMBimleZt_RxbIT8aHBbLK-56efLoAt_YaL_Pl1MBb0b3x8jmK1RT4zKozyUWL4YtQJApKoOGq-MCeFynfk5gJtwz6FUI_ebGj4jysMof-9KGNicMtfZYCBWFwU89h_QuyarNZ5O96PldL3eBCgp1NA8gXGJbR-wHnl7qyg9_TD4zOkri8SUxXYmtrGbnvlyD_ZnYY.EL-YfgkAgp-8Wfj9sYbDtgQ4uKkhXNo7CkeuwgVp8zQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=loving+losing+and+living&qid=1750128375&sprefix=loving+losing%2Caps%2C167&sr=8-1
5 Mar 2026
Still Married Still Talking
What does love look like after 32 years of marriage? In this heartfelt episode, we sit down as a couple and ask each other a series of thoughtful, sometimes surpising questions about our life together. From the early years to the seasons of loss, growth, and change, we refelct on what has truly kept our marriage standing the test of time. Through honest answers and shared memories, we talk about the moments that shaped us, the silly banter, and keeps us still going. Most importantly, we discuss the kind of love we hope our children see when they look at us- a love built on commitmeet, resilence, laughter, and the decision to keep choosing each other. After 32 years this conversation isn't just about where we've been- it's about what it takes to keep going even through grief and loss. About Host Louis Patin & Erica Honore are husband and wife, and the owners of Pondering Farms. Erica Honore is a Certified Grief Specialist & Author of ''Loving,Losing&Living'' which is available on amazon thru the link below Form of Contact: EricaPHonore.com Facebook/EricaPHonore Erica@EricaPHonore.com https://www.amazon.com/Loving-Losing-Living-Navigated-Completely/dp/B0F6CXB2DT/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1PX7BLEOWV6A4&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.X9wq4MDE9O-gfps9HOp_QLPeE43viCXcdOoH7LMBimleZt_RxbIT8aHBbLK-56efLoAt_YaL_Pl1MBb0b3x8jmK1RT4zKozyUWL4YtQJApKoOGq-MCeFynfk5gJtwz6FUI_ebGj4jysMof-9KGNicMtfZYCBWFwU89h_QuyarNZ5O96PldL3eBCgp1NA8gXGJbR-wHnl7qyg9_TD4zOkri8SUxXYmtrGbnvlyD_ZnYY.EL-YfgkAgp-8Wfj9sYbDtgQ4uKkhXNo7CkeuwgVp8zQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=loving+losing+and+living&qid=1750128375&sprefix=loving+losing%2Caps%2C167&sr=8-1
20 Jan 2026
Let's Rewind That
This podcast espiode is real marriage-no scripts, no perfect wording. Erica and Louis dive into the arguemnts, misunderstandings and hard conversations that couples actually have. From miscommunication and unmet expectations to learning how to listen without defending, this is a space for honest dialouge, growth, and choosing connection even when uncomfortable. They express their communication style, argument style and how to meet in the middle while also coming to a resolution. About Host Louis Patin & Erica Honore are husband and wife, and the owners of Pondering Farms. Erica Honore is a Certified Grief Specialist & Author of ''Loving,Losing&Living'' which is available on amazon thru the link below Form of Contact: EricaPHonore.com Facebook/EricaPHonore Erica@EricaPHonore.com https://www.amazon.com/Loving-Losing-Living-Navigated-Completely/dp/B0F6CXB2DT/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1PX7BLEOWV6A4&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.X9wq4MDE9O-gfps9HOp_QLPeE43viCXcdOoH7LMBimleZt_RxbIT8aHBbLK-56efLoAt_YaL_Pl1MBb0b3x8jmK1RT4zKozyUWL4YtQJApKoOGq-MCeFynfk5gJtwz6FUI_ebGj4jysMof-9KGNicMtfZYCBWFwU89h_QuyarNZ5O96PldL3eBCgp1NA8gXGJbR-wHnl7qyg9_TD4zOkri8SUxXYmtrGbnvlyD_ZnYY.EL-YfgkAgp-8Wfj9sYbDtgQ4uKkhXNo7CkeuwgVp8zQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=loving+losing+and+living&qid=1750128375&sprefix=loving+losing%2Caps%2C167&sr=8-1
24 Dec 2025
Grieving Through The Holidays
In this depply personal and heartfelt episode, Erica, Louis and Jordan, sit down together to talk openely about what it means to grieve through the holidays. Christmas, once filled with laughter, traditions, and memories shared with their sons and brothers who are no longer here, now carries a different weight-one shaped by absence, remembrance, and love that never fades. They reflect on Christmases past, the moments that still bring smiles, and the traditions that now hold both joy and pain. The family shares how the holidays changed after loss, what it felt like to walk into seasons that once centered around togetherness, and the ways they learned to navigate grief as a family-each person grieivng differently, yet leaning on one another. This episode alos offers gentle insight for anyone facing the holidays while grieving: how to honor loves ones who are gone, how to set boundaries, how to give yourself permission to feel both sandess and joy, and how to show up for others who are hurting during this season. It's an honest conversation about love, loss, resilience, and finding meaning during the most emotionally charged time of the year. About Host Louis Patin & Erica Honore are husband and wife, and the owners of Pondering Farms. Erica Honore is a Certified Grief Specialist & Author of ''Loving,Losing&Living'' which is available on amazon thru the link below Form of Contact: EricaPHonore.com Facebook/EricaPHonore Erica@EricaPHonore.com https://www.amazon.com/Loving-Losing-Living-Navigated-Completely/dp/B0F6CXB2DT/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1PX7BLEOWV6A4&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.X9wq4MDE9O-gfps9HOp_QLPeE43viCXcdOoH7LMBimleZt_RxbIT8aHBbLK-56efLoAt_YaL_Pl1MBb0b3x8jmK1RT4zKozyUWL4YtQJApKoOGq-MCeFynfk5gJtwz6FUI_ebGj4jysMof-9KGNicMtfZYCBWFwU89h_QuyarNZ5O96PldL3eBCgp1NA8gXGJbR-wHnl7qyg9_TD4zOkri8SUxXYmtrGbnvlyD_ZnYY.EL-YfgkAgp-8Wfj9sYbDtgQ4uKkhXNo7CkeuwgVp8zQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=loving+losing+and+living&qid=1750128375&sprefix=loving+losing%2Caps%2C167&sr=8-1
8 Dec 2025
Mixed Blended & Simmering
About Host ''Mixed blended & Simmering'' brings you into the kitchen with Erica Honore and her neice, Alexis, who cook, laugh and dig into what it really looks like to navigate step-parenting and blended family life. From recipes that feed the whole crew on holidays to honest conversations about love, bounadaries, healing and growth, this podcast serves up real stories with a side of comfort food. Pull up a chair-there's room at our table! About Host Louis Patin & Erica Honore are husband and wife, and the owners of Pondering Farms. Erica Honore is a Certified Grief Specialist & Author of ''Loving,Losing&Living'' which is available on amazon thru the link below Form of Contact: EricaPHonore.com Facebook/EricaPHonore Erica@EricaPHonore.com https://www.amazon.com/Loving-Losing-Living-Navigated-Completely/dp/B0F6CXB2DT/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1PX7BLEOWV6A4&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.X9wq4MDE9O-gfps9HOp_QLPeE43viCXcdOoH7LMBimleZt_RxbIT8aHBbLK-56efLoAt_YaL_Pl1MBb0b3x8jmK1RT4zKozyUWL4YtQJApKoOGq-MCeFynfk5gJtwz6FUI_ebGj4jysMof-9KGNicMtfZYCBWFwU89h_QuyarNZ5O96PldL3eBCgp1NA8gXGJbR-wHnl7qyg9_TD4zOkri8SUxXYmtrGbnvlyD_ZnYY.EL-YfgkAgp-8Wfj9sYbDtgQ4uKkhXNo7CkeuwgVp8zQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=loving+losing+and+living&qid=1750128375&sprefix=loving+losing%2Caps%2C167&sr=8-1
17 Nov 2025
Girls & Motherhood
Join Erica Honore and her daughter for this epsiode as Erica asks questions about becoming a mother and sharing light hearted conversation around the topic and perspective. This epside shows a difference from the Gen Z and Gen x persepctive on motherhood, how it was viewed as a child and how it is now. About Host Louis Patin & Erica Honore are husband and wife, and the owners of Pondering Farms. Erica Honore is a Certified Grief Specialist & Author of ''Loving,Losing&Living'' which is available on amazon thru the link below Form of Contact: EricaPHonore.com Facebook/EricaPHonore Erica@EricaPHonore.com https://www.amazon.com/Loving-Losing-Living-Navigated-Completely/dp/B0F6CXB2DT/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1PX7BLEOWV6A4&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.X9wq4MDE9O-gfps9HOp_QLPeE43viCXcdOoH7LMBimleZt_RxbIT8aHBbLK-56efLoAt_YaL_Pl1MBb0b3x8jmK1RT4zKozyUWL4YtQJApKoOGq-MCeFynfk5gJtwz6FUI_ebGj4jysMof-9KGNicMtfZYCBWFwU89h_QuyarNZ5O96PldL3eBCgp1NA8gXGJbR-wHnl7qyg9_TD4zOkri8SUxXYmtrGbnvlyD_ZnYY.EL-YfgkAgp-8Wfj9sYbDtgQ4uKkhXNo7CkeuwgVp8zQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=loving+losing+and+living&qid=1750128375&sprefix=loving+losing%2Caps%2C167&sr=8-1
25 Sept 2025
Love Languages and 31 Years
After more than three decades of marriage, this couple invites listeners into candid conversations about love, growth, and partnership. With 31 years of experience, they explore the power of ''Love Languages'', the importance of communication, and the lessons learned from navigating life earned wisdom. Love languages are different ways people express and recieve love. The five main love languages are: Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Receiving Gifts, Quality Time, and Physical Touch. Understanding your partners love language helps strengthen communnication, deepen connection and make each person feel more valued in the relationship. About Host Louis Patin & Erica Honore are husband and wife, and the owners of Pondering Farms. Erica Honore is a Certified Grief Specialist & Author of ''Loving,Losing&Living'' which is available on amazon thru the link below Form of Contact: EricaPHonore.com Facebook/EricaPHonore Erica@EricaPHonore.com https://www.amazon.com/Loving-Losing-Living-Navigated-Completely/dp/B0F6CXB2DT/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1PX7BLEOWV6A4&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.X9wq4MDE9O-gfps9HOp_QLPeE43viCXcdOoH7LMBimleZt_RxbIT8aHBbLK-56efLoAt_YaL_Pl1MBb0b3x8jmK1RT4zKozyUWL4YtQJApKoOGq-MCeFynfk5gJtwz6FUI_ebGj4jysMof-9KGNicMtfZYCBWFwU89h_QuyarNZ5O96PldL3eBCgp1NA8gXGJbR-wHnl7qyg9_TD4zOkri8SUxXYmtrGbnvlyD_ZnYY.EL-YfgkAgp-8Wfj9sYbDtgQ4uKkhXNo7CkeuwgVp8zQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=loving+losing+and+living&qid=1750128375&sprefix=loving+losing%2Caps%2C167&sr=8-1
7 Sept 2025
Culture, Coastlines & Common Ground
Louis and Erica both share the same heritage but grew up worlds apart- one surrounded by California coastlines, the other with deep Louisiana roots. Tune into this episode as they dive into the joys, quirks and challenges of blending their different upbringings, while surrounded by the same culture and views. From food traditions to family dynamics, city life differences, they uncover how childhood experiences shape who they are. They share their school experiences, sibling relationships, neighborhood, and compare the differences of timelines. They talk about the challenges of the younger generation carrying on older traditions, and the differences now vs then. This podcast episode explores the beauty of honoring your roots, even in different states and shapes. About Host Louis Patin & Erica Honore are husband and wife, and the owners of Pondering Farms. Erica Honore is a Certified Grief Specialist & Author of ''Loving,Losing&Living'' which is available on amazon thru the link below Form of Contact: EricaPHonore.com Facebook/EricaPHonore Erica@EricaPHonore.com https://www.amazon.com/Loving-Losing-Living-Navigated-Completely/dp/B0F6CXB2DT/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1PX7BLEOWV6A4&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.X9wq4MDE9O-gfps9HOp_QLPeE43viCXcdOoH7LMBimleZt_RxbIT8aHBbLK-56efLoAt_YaL_Pl1MBb0b3x8jmK1RT4zKozyUWL4YtQJApKoOGq-MCeFynfk5gJtwz6FUI_ebGj4jysMof-9KGNicMtfZYCBWFwU89h_QuyarNZ5O96PldL3eBCgp1NA8gXGJbR-wHnl7qyg9_TD4zOkri8SUxXYmtrGbnvlyD_ZnYY.EL-YfgkAgp-8Wfj9sYbDtgQ4uKkhXNo7CkeuwgVp8zQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=loving+losing+and+living&qid=1750128375&sprefix=loving+losing%2Caps%2C167&sr=8-1
4 Aug 2025
Love, Laughter, & ''Senile'' Moments
After 31 years we throw it back to the honeymoon phase and play the classic ''Newlywed Game''- but with two decades of life, love, and laundry under our belts. Join us for a new take on our podcast channel filled with laughter, unexpected answers as we test our memory to see if we are still on the same page after all these years. FULL VIDEO ON YOUTUBE Watch Now! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wtv7M8l7Z4g&list=PLdIHgGioz7Pjfj8EcW0O5jAmD4YD2jQc2 About Host Louis Patin & Erica Honore are husband and wife, and the owners of Pondering Farms. Erica Honore is a Certified Grief Speicialist & Author of ''Loving,Losing&Living'' which is avilable on amazon thru the link below Form of Contact: EricaPHonore.com Facebook/EricaPHonore Erica@EricaPHonore.com https://www.amazon.com/Loving-Losing-Living-Navigated-Completely/dp/B0F6CXB2DT/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1PX7BLEOWV6A4&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.X9wq4MDE9O-gfps9HOp_QLPeE43viCXcdOoH7LMBimleZt_RxbIT8aHBbLK-56efLoAt_YaL_Pl1MBb0b3x8jmK1RT4zKozyUWL4YtQJApKoOGq-MCeFynfk5gJtwz6FUI_ebGj4jysMof-9KGNicMtfZYCBWFwU89h_QuyarNZ5O96PldL3eBCgp1NA8gXGJbR-wHnl7qyg9_TD4zOkri8SUxXYmtrGbnvlyD_ZnYY.EL-YfgkAgp-8Wfj9sYbDtgQ4uKkhXNo7CkeuwgVp8zQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=loving+losing+and+living&qid=1750128375&sprefix=loving+losing%2Caps%2C167&sr=8-1
28 Jul 2025
#ArmyGuy 2.0
In this deeply personal epsiode, Erica, Louis and their youngest son, Jordan, sit down to share an emotional conversation about a pivotal moment in their lives- Jordan's decision to join the military. With raw honesty, they reflect on the legacy of their oldest son, Donovan, a proud service member whose life was cut short, and the profound impact his memory has on their journey today. Together, they explore the complex mix of emotions: the pride, the fear, the hope, and the grief. From a parent's perspective of sending another child off to serve, to a young man's choice to serve, this episode offers a rare and intimate glimpse into the heart of a family navigating sacrifice and healing. About Host Louis Patin & Erica Honore are husband and wife, and the owners of Pondering Farms. Erica Honore is a Certified Grief Speicialist & Author of ''Loving,Losing&Living'' which is avilable on amazon thru the link below Form of Contact: EricaPHonore.com Facebook/EricaPHonore Erica@EricaPHonore.com https://www.amazon.com/Loving-Losing-Living-Navigated-Completely/dp/B0F6CXB2DT/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1PX7BLEOWV6A4&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.X9wq4MDE9O-gfps9HOp_QLPeE43viCXcdOoH7LMBimleZt_RxbIT8aHBbLK-56efLoAt_YaL_Pl1MBb0b3x8jmK1RT4zKozyUWL4YtQJApKoOGq-MCeFynfk5gJtwz6FUI_ebGj4jysMof-9KGNicMtfZYCBWFwU89h_QuyarNZ5O96PldL3eBCgp1NA8gXGJbR-wHnl7qyg9_TD4zOkri8SUxXYmtrGbnvlyD_ZnYY.EL-YfgkAgp-8Wfj9sYbDtgQ4uKkhXNo7CkeuwgVp8zQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=loving+losing+and+living&qid=1750128375&sprefix=loving+losing%2Caps%2C167&sr=8-1
14 Jul 2025
Living On Love
In this episode, Louis and Erica open up about the early days of their relationship-when love was abundent, but money was not. From scraping together sandwich meat and bread for camping trips, starting a new business and being a SAHM while going back to College, they reflect on what it really meant to ''live on love''. Now, years later, with more financial stability and a whole new persepctive, they discuss how their views on money, sucess, and partnership have evolved. It's a candid conversation about growth, gratitude, and how new young married couples can naviagte financial challenges early on, by communication and comprising Wheather you're in the thick of this same journey in your marriage, buidling a new life as a family, or just love a good story of transformation and honest perspectives, this episode will inspire and entertain. About Host Louis Patin & Erica Honore are husband and wife, and the owners of Pondering Farms. Erica Honore is a Certified Grief Speicialist & Author of ''Loving,Losing&Living'' which is avilable on amazon thru the link below Form of Contact: EricaPHonore.com Facebook/EricaPHonore Erica@EricaPHonore.com https://www.amazon.com/Loving-Losing-Living-Navigated-Completely/dp/B0F6CXB2DT/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1PX7BLEOWV6A4&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.X9wq4MDE9O-gfps9HOp_QLPeE43viCXcdOoH7LMBimleZt_RxbIT8aHBbLK-56efLoAt_YaL_Pl1MBb0b3x8jmK1RT4zKozyUWL4YtQJApKoOGq-MCeFynfk5gJtwz6FUI_ebGj4jysMof-9KGNicMtfZYCBWFwU89h_QuyarNZ5O96PldL3eBCgp1NA8gXGJbR-wHnl7qyg9_TD4zOkri8SUxXYmtrGbnvlyD_ZnYY.EL-YfgkAgp-8Wfj9sYbDtgQ4uKkhXNo7CkeuwgVp8zQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=loving+losing+and+living&qid=1750128375&sprefix=loving+losing%2Caps%2C167&sr=8-1
2 Jul 2025
Captain Save A Hoe
This episode contains discussions of child loss and grief. The content may be emotionally intese or triggering for some listeners. These conversations are raw and real, and they might be triggering for some. Take breaks listening as needed, skip or come back when you are ready. ''Captain Save A Hoe'' is an epsiode based around Louis and Erica's oldest son, Donovan who died 10 years ago today. On his 10 year death anniversary they reflect on the pain of loosing him, after already loosing a son. They take a vulnarable approach and have raw conversation about what they felt, what they feel and allow themselves to share their emotions to each other and their audience. They discuss mens mental health and outlooks and options men have for grieivng, as well as discussing the ''its okay'' for men to allow themselves to greive.They speak on the devestation, the grief and how it affected them and still does, and reflect on how they came out of their dark moments and where they are now, 10 years later. About Host Louis Patin & Erica Honore are husband and wife, and the owners of Pondering Farms. Erica Honore is a Certified Grief Speicialist & Author of ''Loving,Losing&Living'' which is avilable on amazon thru the link below Form of Contact: EricaPHonore.com Facebook/EricaPHonore Erica@EricaPHonore.com https://www.amazon.com/Loving-Losing-Living-Navigated-Completely/dp/B0F6CXB2DT/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1PX7BLEOWV6A4&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.X9wq4MDE9O-gfps9HOp_QLPeE43viCXcdOoH7LMBimleZt_RxbIT8aHBbLK-56efLoAt_YaL_Pl1MBb0b3x8jmK1RT4zKozyUWL4YtQJApKoOGq-MCeFynfk5gJtwz6FUI_ebGj4jysMof-9KGNicMtfZYCBWFwU89h_QuyarNZ5O96PldL3eBCgp1NA8gXGJbR-wHnl7qyg9_TD4zOkri8SUxXYmtrGbnvlyD_ZnYY.EL-YfgkAgp-8Wfj9sYbDtgQ4uKkhXNo7CkeuwgVp8zQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=loving+losing+and+living&qid=1750128375&sprefix=loving+losing%2Caps%2C167&sr=8-1
17 Jun 2025
Introduction & Austin
This episode contains discussions of child loss and grief. The content may be emotionally intese or triggering for some listeners. These conversations are raw and real, and they might be triggering for some. Take breaks listening as needed, skip or come back when you are ready. Louis Patin & Erica Honore start their podcast off by introducing themselves and diving in to their first loss, their son Austin Patin, when he was only the age of 10. They begin by being open and valunerable and expressing that they want their podcast to be raw and real. Their hopes for future epsiodes will contain everything from grief, memories, real expereinces, honesty, divorce, and real conversations. In this episode the two of them sit next to eachother and share vulnurability of losing their child and sharing details on who he was as a child. Louis & Erica share some of their favorite memories of Austin, what he enjoyed and overall try to convey his one of a kind personality to listeners. They share him being on the spectrum and what that was like for them, and him as well. This episode was recorded on Father's Day and uploaded on Austin's death anniversary, marking this the begenning to their podcast journey. About Host Louis Patin & Erica Honore are husband and wife, and the owners of Pondering Farms. Erica Honore is a Certified Grief Speicialist & Author of ''Loving,Losing&Living'' which is avilable on amazon thru the link below Form of Contact: EricaPHonore.com Facebook/EricaPHonore Email: Erica@EricaPHonore.com (mailto:Erica@EricaPHonore.com) https://www.amazon.com/Loving-Losing-Living-Navigated-Completely/dp/B0F6CXB2DT/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1PX7BLEOWV6A4&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.X9wq4MDE9O-gfps9HOp_QLPeE43viCXcdOoH7LMBimleZt_RxbIT8aHBbLK-56efLoAt_YaL_Pl1MBb0b3x8jmK1RT4zKozyUWL4YtQJApKoOGq-MCeFynfk5gJtwz6FUI_ebGj4jysMof-9KGNicMtfZYCBWFwU89h_QuyarNZ5O96PldL3eBCgp1NA8gXGJbR-wHnl7qyg9_TD4zOkri8SUxXYmtrGbnvlyD_ZnYY.EL-YfgkAgp-8Wfj9sYbDtgQ4uKkhXNo7CkeuwgVp8zQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=loving+losing+and+living&qid=1750128375&sprefix=loving+losing%2Caps%2C167&sr=8-1
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