Probing In The Sheets

About Probing In The Sheets

At its core, we understand the vast ripple effect kink can have on our lives, rooted in pleasure, personal growth, and community. It’s time to tune into yourself and connect on a deeper level, while having delicious fun exploring topics within the kink and BDSM realm. In association with Probe Ottawa.

Publisher

Probing In The Sheets

Category

health & fitness

Language

en

Explicit

Yes

First episode

19 Sept 2025

Latest episode

23 Oct 2026

Latest episodes

41 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   23 Oct 2026

   S3E10 Come CLIMAX with Kosmick

   Kosmick, the resident rope instructor at Probe, joins us in the bondage bed, and ties us up in the process. They share how a childhood of getting captured by pirates in make-believe games grew into a life in rope, and how a self-tie practice during the pandemic led them to teach. Kosmick, Jamie and Miel get into power exchange, loving cruelty, and why the real story of a rope scene lives in the flow between partners rather than the finished tie. This very intimate, and very playful conversation is a reminder that sometimes the best way to figure something out is to just start doing it. Key topics Learning rope before there were local teachers Power exchange and why letting go feels so freeing Loving cruelty and the caretaker side of topping Daddy, deity and goddess energy in power exchange Flow tying versus structured ties Organic, asymmetrical rope inspired by Kanoko Taking rope off with intention Get your tickets for CLIMAX Conference (http://tickettailor.com/events/climaxconference/2240570) 15% Off With Code: SPEAKERSPECIAL *Episode produced by Nico Hurtubise About Kosmick Kosmick (they/them) has been getting tangled in knots most of their adult life, with an interest in the beauty and narrative power of bondage reaching back into childhood stories of damsels in distress. They began studying rope bondage in 2011, and intensified that study in 2016 after joining the Ottawa BDSM community. As an instructor, Kosmick takes an approach of breaking down classic structures and forms, with an emphasis on *why* things are tied the way they are, and an examination of the decision making processes of a tie. They are committed to demystifying rope bondage and empowering learners at all levels to experiment with what they know and pursue avenues to have fun with their rope. They view rope as a tool of expression, and look to inspire others to build connection and intimacy through their tying. Website: www.kosmickropes.com (http://www.kosmickropes.com) Instagram: @kosmick.kreationz (https://www.instagram.com/kosmick.kreationz/) @kosmick.kvlt (https://www.instagram.com/kosmick.kvlt/) About Miel Nannini Miel (they/them) is the visionary President and CEO of Probe Ottawa. As a nonbinary queer human, Miel is dedicated to cultivating an inclusive and accessible community rooted in respect and vulnerability. To Miel, kink is not only an exploration of desire, but also a deeply political act of pleasure activism that challenges societal norms and embraces the beauty and mess of human connection. They believe that pleasure is an inherent right and that diverse expressions of intimacy can provide the rich soil for healing and liberation to grow in. Work with Miel (https://www.probeottawa.ca/illuminate-your-path) Connect on IG @daddy.miel (https://www.instagram.com/daddy.miel/) About Jamie Walker As a Kink & Life Coach, Jamie (she/her) helps her clients navigate the desirable world of BDSM and kink, with safety education, and tools to connect to the deepest parts of themselves. The parts that the world has said to keep hidden. Through her personal journey, and coaching others, she understands that this is key in stepping into our individual power, and crafting the life we truly desire. Authentic connection and play are vital to us as humans, BDSM and kink gives you the container to explore, learn and create — and positively impacts the rest of your life. Work with Jamie (https://walkercoaching.ca/) Connect on IG @walkerxox (https://www.instagram.com/walkerxoxo) About Probe Ottawa Ottawa’s private members club — a sanctuary where individuals of all genders and orientations can embrace their true selves without fear or judgment. Nestled in the heart of the Byward Market of Ottawa this haven is where the boundaries of pleasure and self-discovery are pushed, empowering attendees to embrace their desires and unlock their inner strength. Visit Probe Ottawa (https://www.probeottawa.ca) IG @probeottawa (https://www.instagram.com/probeottawa/)

2. 

   19 Oct 2026

   S3E9 Come CLIMAX with Maddie and Natalia

   Natalia and Maddie, the duo behind Climax Conference and House of Kink, join us for our very first foursome in the bondage bed. They take us behind the scenes of building a conference, sharing how a constant stream of voice notes, gut instinct and deep trust keep it all running. We get into how the Climax program is co-created with speakers, what makes it different from other sex conferences, including the oysters, custom totes and dedicated podcasting space. They also preview Dark Desires, House of Kink’s (https://www.eventbrite.ca/e/house-of-kink-dark-desires-a-sinful-kinky-themed-dance-experience-tickets-2000626699313) upcoming party in a decommissioned church. This four-way conversation is a reminder that you never stop learning about sex, and that the best things get built with people you trust. Key topics Building a conference from idea to year two Business partnerships as intimate friendships Filling the gap between entertainment and academic sex conferences Body confidence and authentic expression on the dance floor Introductory kink and why you never stop learning Get your tickets for CLIMAX Conference (http://tickettailor.com/events/climaxconference/2240570) 15% Off With Code: SPEAKERSPECIAL *Episode produced by Nico Hurtubise About Maddie Madelaine Dorion (she/her) is a sex educator and entrepreneur with over 13 years of experience in the intimate wellness industry. Her work spans retail, product development, manufacturing, wholesale, education, and event creation. Through this work, she’s had the opportunity to learn from thousands of people and gain a real-world understanding of how individuals connect with sex, pleasure, and the tools that support them. With academic roots in Sexuality Studies at Concordia University and hands-on training from leading brands, Madelaine has consulted with everyone from curious individuals to healthcare professionals looking to better support their clients. Her approach is practical, inclusive, and anti-shame. Currently, she co-runs a community-focused pleasure shop with her mom that doubles as an educational space and platform for connection. Her mission is to normalize real conversations about sex, make high-quality products more accessible, and center pleasure as a core part of wellness. Website: wickedwandas.ca (http://wickedwandas.ca) Instagram: @madlenhuxley (https://www.instagram.com/madlenhuxley/) About Natalia Natalia Jaczkowski (she/her) is a sex educator, event producer, and founder of Kinks & Coffee, a sexual wellness brand dedicated to making conversations around intimacy, desire, and pleasure more approachable, inclusive, and stigma-free. Through immersive educational programming and community-centered events, Natalia creates spaces where people can explore sexuality with curiosity and confidence. Since founding Kinks & Coffee in 2020, Natalia has produced a wide range of sex-positive workshops, discussion panels, social experiences, and educational events that blend sexuality education with arts, culture, nightlife, and wellness. Her work has brought together hundreds of participants across intimate gatherings, large-scale community events, and collaborative experiences with local businesses and practitioners. Natalia’s work is informed by both lived experience and ongoing professional development in the field of human sexuality. In 2024, she studied under Dr. Justin Lehmiller through the Sexual Health Alliance Berlin Bound program, expanding her knowledge of evidence-based sexual science and contemporary research on relationships and desire. In 2025, she completed both the Mistress Class mentorship program and the advanced Shadow Series mentorship program led by Dr. Colette Pervette (PhD), refining her expertise in dominance, power exchange, and the transformative and therapeutic dimensions of kink. Natalia is also a 2026 participant in the Human Sexuality Intensive professional certificate program grounded in interdisciplinary research from the Kinsey Institute. Instagram: @kinksandcoffee (https://www.instagram.com/kinksandcoffee/) LinkedIn: Natalia Jaczkowski (Sex Educator & Event Producer) (https://www.linkedin.com/in/natalia-jaczkowski-8830933b8/) Work with Jamie (https://walkercoaching.ca/) Connect on IG @walkerxox (https://www.instagram.com/walkerxoxo) Work with Miel (https://www.probeottawa.ca/illuminate-your-path) Connect on IG @daddy.miel (https://www.instagram.com/daddy.miel/) Visit Probe Ottawa (https://www.probeottawa.ca) IG @probeottawa (https://www.instagram.com/probeottawa/)

3. 

   16 Oct 2026

   S3E8 Come CLIMAX with Muse

   Muse joins us in the bondage bed to talk about squirting, art and the politics of pleasure. She shares how squirting for the first time at thirty brought tears, then rage at everything she had been told about her body growing up. That rage turned into sixteen years of workshops, story-gathering and paintings made from the moment itself. Muse, Jamie and Miel get into the myths and science of squirting, porn as reclamation, and why joy, kink and psychedelics are political. They also take on the manosphere, unpacking why the men chasing alpha status might be more submissive than they think. This bold, unapologetic conversation challenges us to stop letting shame write the rules, and to imagine power that is shared rather than held over us. Key topics The myths, misinformation and science of squirting Squirting, orgasm and the many paths to pleasure Squirt painting Pornography as agency and reclamation Joy, kink and pleasure as political acts Sex, psychedelics and consent Patriarchy, matriarchy and dismantling hierarchy Relationship anarchy and choosing power dynamics Get your tickets for CLIMAX Conference (http://tickettailor.com/events/climaxconference/2240570) 15% Off With Code: SPEAKERSPECIAL *Episode produced by Nico Hurtubise About Muse Muse Fontaine (she/her) is an erotic content creator and adult performance artist focused on the social and political climate surrounding censorship of femme bodies and female sexuality. She is the founder of The Squirt Project, an educational network committed to the compilation and dissemination of accurate and experiential information on the topic of female ejaculation. Website: musefontaine.com (http://musefontaine.com) Instagram: @muse.fontaine (https://www.instagram.com/muse.fontaine/) @thesquirtproject (https://www.instagram.com/thesquirtproject/) About Miel Nannini Miel (they/them) is the visionary President and CEO of Probe Ottawa. As a nonbinary queer human, Miel is dedicated to cultivating an inclusive and accessible community rooted in respect and vulnerability. To Miel, kink is not only an exploration of desire, but also a deeply political act of pleasure activism that challenges societal norms and embraces the beauty and mess of human connection. They believe that pleasure is an inherent right and that diverse expressions of intimacy can provide the rich soil for healing and liberation to grow in. Work with Miel (https://www.probeottawa.ca/illuminate-your-path) Connect on IG @daddy.miel (https://www.instagram.com/daddy.miel/) About Jamie Walker As a Kink & Life Coach, Jamie (she/her) helps her clients navigate the desirable world of BDSM and kink, with safety education, and tools to connect to the deepest parts of themselves. The parts that the world has said to keep hidden. Through her personal journey, and coaching others, she understands that this is key in stepping into our individual power, and crafting the life we truly desire. Authentic connection and play are vital to us as humans, BDSM and kink gives you the container to explore, learn and create — and positively impacts the rest of your life. Work with Jamie (https://walkercoaching.ca/) Connect on IG @walkerxox (https://www.instagram.com/walkerxoxo) About Probe Ottawa Ottawa’s private members club — a sanctuary where individuals of all genders and orientations can embrace their true selves without fear or judgment. Nestled in the heart of the Byward Market of Ottawa this haven is where the boundaries of pleasure and self-discovery are pushed, empowering attendees to embrace their desires and unlock their inner strength. Visit Probe Ottawa (https://www.probeottawa.ca) IG @probeottawa (https://www.instagram.com/probeottawa/)

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