Sex, trauma, and relationship psychotherapist dives into all things relational, sexual, and psychological. A podcast about the under-researched, under-discussed, and misunderstood topics often left unsaid in psychotherapy and sexuality. Through insightful interviews with friends, strangers, and experts in the sexuality and psychology fields, Psych and the City aims to provide scientific and nuanced psychosexual education.
Sides and Mixed Orientation Marriages With Dr. Joe Kort
Sarah speaks with psychotherapist Dr. Joe Kort, PhD, LMSW about his 40-years long work with individuals and couples trying to strengthen their relationships. Dr Kort specializes in marital problems and conflict, mixed orientation marriages, male sexuality, and out of control sexual behavior to name just a few of his areas of expertise.
In 2013, Dr Kort coined the term 'sides', finally terming an identity that many share but few named. Sides typically describes gay men who do not engage in anal sex, instead preferring other forms of outercourse.
We discuss mixed orientation relationships, clinical considerations when working with certain populations, as well as the problem with 'sex addiction.'
Resources and Contact:
Mankind project
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TIktok: DrJoeKort
Facebook: DrJoeKort
Linkedin: DrJoeKort
DrJoeKort.com
Instagram: @psychandthecitybk
www.sarah-kelleher.com
29 Mar 2025
I'M GLAD WE DON'T REUSE CONDOMS ANYMORE - HISTORY OF CONDOMS
Sarah speaks to Dr. Kate Stephenson, a historian with a particular set of specialties - school uniforms, sex in Edinburgh, and condoms. Coined as the 'condom historian,' Kate and Sarah speak about sex in Edinburgh throughout time and the history of condoms. Women dominated the industry and people would reuse them again and again. The history is fascinating!
Find Kate's work: http://www.katestephenson.co.uk/p/home.html
or email: epstephenson@gmail.com (mailto:kepstephenson@gmail.com)
Find Sarah:
Instagram: @psychandthecitybk
Bluesky: @psychandthecity.bsky.social
6 Mar 2025
UNTIE YOUR TONGUE WITH STELLA HARRIS
Sarah interviews Stella Harris, certified intimacy educator, sex coach, and author. Stella gives the 4-1-1 on how to ACTUALLY listen, hear, and be a safer person when it comes to communication, especially about some of the scarier stuff - sex, relationships, and kink. Stella's tools will help you put language to what you want and share it.
Stella Harris is the author of two books, Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships, and The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes.
You can find Sarah on instagram @psychandthecitybk & @psychandthecity.bsky.social
and Stella at www.stellaharris.net
@stellaharriserotica on Instagram
or @stellaharris.bsky.social
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