Queer Connections

About Queer Connections

Welcome to Queer Connections, the podcast where we explore the ins and outs of Queer dating and relationships. Join us as we delve into the unique challenges and joys of forming connections in the queer community. I will bring on guests from all walks of life to share their experiences and insights into the world of dating and relationships. From experts in the field to individuals with personal stories to share, we offer a wide range of perspectives on what it means to navigate the complexities of queer romance.

Publisher

Queer Connections

Category

education

Language

en

Explicit

Yes

First episode

18 Jun 2023

Latest episode

1 Jun 2025

Latest episodes

18 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   1 Jun 2025

   I Lost Everything and Found Myself | The Year that Broke Me

   Host discusses experiencing significant personal losses and discovering emotional sovereignty, offering insights into self-abandonment and choosing oneself.

2. 

   8 Mar 2025

   Reconnecting: When Exes Become Partners Again

   In this episode, I sit down with Lauren and Nathalie, the creative minds behind Her+Her, to delve into the complexities of relationships, breakups, and personal growth. Join us as we discuss the crucial elements of building and maintaining healthy relationships and the importance of emotional safety. Throughout our conversation, Lauren and Nathalie highlight the necessity of prioritizing your emotional well-being and maintaining a balance between personal growth and relationship dynamics. We also explore the value of distancing from external opinions to better understand yourself and your partner. Listen in as we discuss creating safe spaces for communication and how to handle conflicts constructively. The episode wraps up with actionable insights and resources for anyone looking to enhance their relationship skills. Key Takeaways: Prioritize personal and relational growth to foster healthier connections. Self-awareness and authenticity are fundamental in building genuine relationships. Creating safe spaces for communication is essential for resolving conflicts. Taking breaks can offer clarity and facilitate personal reflection. Listen to your own needs to navigate relationship dynamics effectively. CONNECT WITH LAUREN AND NATHALIE: Social Media: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@HerandHerGF (https://www.youtube.com/@HerandHerGF) Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/herandhergirlfriend/ (https://www.instagram.com/herandhergirlfriend/) TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@herandhergirlfriend (https://www.tiktok.com/@herandhergirlfriend) Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/herandhergirlfriend (https://www.facebook.com/herandhergirlfriend) Podcast: Divine Reconnection Podcast with Lauren + Nat Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/70Ge3hYr4rUZxBKcwPILV4 (https://open.spotify.com/show/70Ge3hYr4rUZxBKcwPILV4) Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/ke/podcast/divine-reconnection-with-lauren-nat/id1752923620 (https://podcasts.apple.com/ke/podcast/divine-reconnection-with-lauren-nat/id1752923620) Ebooks: Fight Less, Love More ebook:  If you and your partner want to communicate better, resolve conflicts faster, and deepen your connection without drawn-out arguments, Fight Less, Love More is a game-changer. It’s full of simple yet powerful language shifts that help couples navigate tough conversations with more ease and understanding—so you can spend less time fighting and more time truly enjoying each other. link: https://www.laurenandnat.com/fight-less-love-more-ebook-digital-download (https://www.laurenandnat.com/fight-less-love-more-ebook-digital-download) The Beginners Checklist for Moving to Thailand: If you’re serious about moving to Thailand but don’t know where to start, this checklist gives you a clear, step-by-step roadmap to prepare with confidence. Whether you’re dreaming of a fresh start or actively planning your move, this guide will help you avoid mistakes, save time, and take action the right way. link: https://www.laurenandnat.com/thailand-free-relocation-checklist (https://www.laurenandnat.com/thailand-free-relocation-checklist)

3. 

   18 Feb 2025

   Navigating Friendship Loss in Relationships

   In this episode of the Queer Connection podcast, we discuss the impact of romantic relationships on friendships, the challenges of navigating family dynamics, and the importance of prioritizing self in relationships. Hear out personal experiences and insights on rebuilding trust, understanding emotional connections, and the significance of surrounding oneself with healthy relationships. The conversation emphasizes the need for open communication and self-awareness in maintaining friendships and relationships. Takeaways: Priorities naturally shift when entering a relationship. It's common for friends to blame a partner for lost connections. Rebuilding friendships requires willingness from both parties. Emotional connections can be complex and sometimes codependent. It's essential to prioritize self-care in relationships. Healthy relationships should be the focus, not just social obligations. Growth in relationships is a sign of health and maturity. Surrounding oneself with supportive and healthy relationships is crucial. Chapters: 00:00 Introduction and Personal Updates 03:06 The Impact of Relationships on Friendships 12:27 Navigating Family Dynamics and Expectations 18:06 Self-Prioritization in Relationships 28:14 Rebuilding Trust and Friendships 33:18 Navigating Relationship Dynamics 40:03 The Importance of Healthy Friendships 46:11 Communicating Concerns in Relationships 53:31 Shifting Perspectives on Happiness 57:33 Growth and Change in Relationships

4. 

   28 Jan 2025

   Unpacking ADHD's Impact on Relationships

   You do not want to miss this captivating discussion with my friends, Rhianna and Bella, as we dive into how ADHD can shape and shake the dynamics of romantic relationships. In this episode, we explore the unique challenges and unexpected advantages that ADHD brings to love and partnership. From navigating communication hurdles to celebrating intense bonds in the midst of hyperfixation to understanding the impact ADHD has on each partner. Rhianna and Bella shed light on personal experiences and how to navigate challenges and implements unique systems as a couple. Whether you’re in an ADHD-impacted relationship or just curious about the interplay between neurodiversity and romance, this episode offers a heartfelt, enlightening perspective that’s not to be missed. Tune in to discover how this couple is thriving through understanding and adapting to the fun world of ADHD.

5. 

   2 Oct 2024

   Exploring The Different Phases Of Dating

   Ready to decode the dating journey? Whether you're navigating your first date or figuring out how to define the relationship, we've got you covered! Join us as we break down every phase of dating—from exciting beginnings to the milestones that matter. Whether you're single, in a fresh relationship, or diving back into the dating scene, this episode offers key insights and expert tips to help you succeed at every step. Don't miss this deep dive into the stages of dating!

6. 

   10 Jul 2024

   PRIDE/Coming Out

   Yes June/PRIDE Month is over, but being proud of who you are and what you offer this world is ongoing. In this episode we talk about: COMING OUT: Is it necessary? Is it insulting when someone says they already knew Share our coming out stories PRIDE: What does PRIDE means to us How PRIDE was different this year AND SO MUCH MORE! INNER CIRCLE: For exclusive content and to become part of a supportive community, join the QC Inner Circle. ⁠https://qc-inner-circle.mn.co/plans/3...⁠ (https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbVR6MExFT1R2QzRFYThWYktYUWdlZUNjbFJOQXxBQ3Jtc0ttUU43TmlDNEhNdkF4WG1UQnducHZmQVFhaVVkd0VycXhKMDJuemVONEwwUFJ4VHZtSlFERUZCcng0ZDQ4U1AyOWRWcGNlSUQzRU9TUGhGN0pRS0cxSDljbHJRZWJKdTJQUjIwNnFXMDdVSGJQb2EtNA&q=https%3A%2F%2Fqc-inner-circle.mn.co%2Fplans%2F391016%3Fbundle_token%3Dcaa8af5f023ec4818e774c935c69c5f7%26utm_source%3Dmanual&v=6nJGleB_NEQ) ASK US ANYTHING: Have a burning question about dating or relationships? We want to hear from you! Submit your questions and we will discuss them in upcoming episodes! CLICK HERE ⁠https://www.honeybook.com/widget/kita...⁠ (https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbUI4UDF3NjV0SUo2UlZXWmpFNU9BY3UzTXlzQXxBQ3Jtc0tsZ1Q5aGJPeGF0UlJ2MEg4MHhRWHBhQmpMRlU0V0lDVTE5T1ZRcVZjUHVVanJvVWhqTVJQLWJVSzF3UVgxbWhyM1pzdWw3WDJTS0tBRTNMM2huUzB1LTNCaU1hTHJlNzh2NVJIbDRPMklqT1NKVGM2Zw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.honeybook.com%2Fwidget%2Fkita_adams_coaching_llc_183955%2Fcf_id%2F6494c2f31be635141f7fea8a&v=6nJGleB_NEQ)

7. 

   8 Jul 2024

   Exploring the Masc Shortage in the Lesbian Community

   In this thought-provoking episode, we delve into a hot topic that's been buzzing through the community—the perceived shortage of masculine-presenting individuals in lesbian circles. We'll explore what "masc shortage" means, its implications on dating dynamics, and how it affects identities and relationships within the lesbian community. Join us as we discuss with guests who bring diverse perspectives, from academic researchers studying gender expressions to individuals sharing their personal experiences. We'll examine whether this is a reality or a misconception, how cultural and social dynamics influence this perception, and what it means for those seeking relationships. For exclusive content and to become part of a supportive community, join the QC Inner Circle. https://qc-inner-circle.mn.co/plans/3... (https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbVR6MExFT1R2QzRFYThWYktYUWdlZUNjbFJOQXxBQ3Jtc0ttUU43TmlDNEhNdkF4WG1UQnducHZmQVFhaVVkd0VycXhKMDJuemVONEwwUFJ4VHZtSlFERUZCcng0ZDQ4U1AyOWRWcGNlSUQzRU9TUGhGN0pRS0cxSDljbHJRZWJKdTJQUjIwNnFXMDdVSGJQb2EtNA&q=https%3A%2F%2Fqc-inner-circle.mn.co%2Fplans%2F391016%3Fbundle_token%3Dcaa8af5f023ec4818e774c935c69c5f7%26utm_source%3Dmanual&v=6nJGleB_NEQ) Have a burning question about dating or relationships? We want to hear from you! Submit your questions and we will discuss them in upcoming episodes! CLICK HERE https://www.honeybook.com/widget/kita... (https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbUI4UDF3NjV0SUo2UlZXWmpFNU9BY3UzTXlzQXxBQ3Jtc0tsZ1Q5aGJPeGF0UlJ2MEg4MHhRWHBhQmpMRlU0V0lDVTE5T1ZRcVZjUHVVanJvVWhqTVJQLWJVSzF3UVgxbWhyM1pzdWw3WDJTS0tBRTNMM2huUzB1LTNCaU1hTHJlNzh2NVJIbDRPMklqT1NKVGM2Zw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.honeybook.com%2Fwidget%2Fkita_adams_coaching_llc_183955%2Fcf_id%2F6494c2f31be635141f7fea8a&v=6nJGleB_NEQ) Tune in to gain insights and perhaps, challenge your own perceptions. Whether you're deeply entrenched in these discussions or just curious about the topic, this episode promises to offer valuable perspectives and lively debate.

8. 

   16 Mar 2024

   From Frustration to Fulfillment: Navigating the Path to Conscious Dating

   Wondering if true love is a myth? You're in the right place. In this episode, we delve into transforming dating despair into a roadmap for love and fulfillment. We explore: The trap of illusions in dating and how striving for authenticity can lead to deeper connections. The art of learning from every relationship's end, turning 'failures' into lessons. The power of forgiveness in freeing yourself from past relationship baggage. How to define what you truly need and want in a partner, setting the stage for meaningful connections. The importance of staying open to the myriad forms love can take, surprising you in the best ways. FREE Dating Kickstart Guide, we're here to change the narrative around dating. CLICK HERE (https://stan.store/QueerConnections) Join the Inner Circle to redefine your approach to love, blending self-discovery with intentional dating practices. CLICK HERE (https://qc-inner-circle.mn.co/plans/391016?bundle_token=caa8af5f023ec4818e774c935c69c5f7&utm_source=manual) Ready to transform your love life? Tune in and join us on this journey to conscious dating, where every step forward is a step towards the love you deserve.

9. 

   21 Dec 2023

   Embracing Intimacy: A Candid Conversation with Queer Sex & Pleasure Coach Whitni Miller

   Join us in this enlightening episode as we dive deep into the world of intimacy and pleasure with renowned Queer Sex and Pleasure Coach, Whitni Miller. Together, we explore the elusive "spark" in dating and how to navigate it, empowering you to foster genuine connections. Whitni shares her expert insights on how to openly communicate your sexual needs with a new partner, ensuring a fulfilling and respectful relationship. But that's not all! We also discuss the transformative power of embracing pleasure over orgasms, redefining what sexual satisfaction means. Whether you're in a new relationship or looking to enhance your current one, this episode is packed with wisdom, tips, and so much more to enrich your romantic and sexual life. Tune in and let's celebrate the joy of intimacy! ABOUT WHITNI: Whitni Miller, CEO of BDE Moves, is a sex educator & pleasure coach specializing in queer sex & relational communication. She uses Instagram & TikTok to disseminate pleasure centered, sex education to the general population. Whitni is trauma-informed, kink-informed, & utilizes her yoga philosophy background to facilitate healing that empowers her clients to own their pleasure. Her goal is to expand our knowledge & understanding of intimacy, sex, arousal, desire, & all the in between. Ultimately creating a judgment free space for humans to feel safe being curious. You can find her on TikTok: @bdemoves Patreon: https://patreon.com/bdemoves Follow Kita on TikTok: @queerconnections Date Coaching Services: www.queer-connections Don't forget to LIKE, FOLLOW and SUBSCRIBE to the channel! #lgbtq #dating #intimacy #datingcoach #wlw #podcast #queer

10. 

    21 Dec 2023

    2024 Dating Trends Unveiled

    Today I delve into the transformative dating trends of 2024. Discover why this year is all about breaking free from the pursuit of perfection and embracing genuine connections. Packed with insights, personal anecdotes, and expert opinions, this episode is your guide to navigating the ever-evolving landscape of queer dating. Whether you're considering dating outside your type, aligning your love life with your core values, or simply looking for a more authentic way to connect, this episode has something for everyone. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and hit that bell for more insightful episodes. Stay open, stay curious, and remember – love is an ever-evolving adventure. Want to make 2024 the year you intentionally date and find love?! Click here to work with me and find the relationship you desire in 6 months.

11. 

    11 Dec 2023

    2023 Relationship Reality Check: Break Free from Illusions

    Welcome back to Queer Connections, everyone! Today we're diving deep into the transformative relationship lessons from 2023. 🏳️🌈 Venus retrograde sure did shake things up, and it's time we talk about it. In this video, I'll share with you the crucial insights I've gained throughout the year - insights that could revolutionize your approach to relationships in 2024. 🔑 Here’s what we’ll explore: Living in Illusions: Unveiling the dangers of chasing perfection and the power of embracing authenticity in relationships. Serious but Not Personal: A guide to handling criticisms constructively while staying true to yourself. Nothing Ever Happens Suddenly: Understanding the subtle signs and gradual changes in relationships.

12. 

    11 Sept 2023

    The People-Pleasing Trap: Why 'Yes' Might Mean 'No

    In today's eye-opening episode, we're tackling the "Yes" Trap—the silent killer of genuine connections and authentic relationships. In this episode you will: Discover how saying "yes" triggers a dopamine rush that can become addictive. Learn why the quest for approval and validation is not just detrimental to your well-being but also a form of self-abandonment. Gain groundbreaking strategies to say "NO" and "YES" authentically. Are you a people pleaser? Take the quiz and find. out what type of pleaser you are. https://kitaadamscoaching.typeform.com/to/ezf1pY5q Ready to take your journey to the next level? Join our exclusive INNER CIRCLE for tips, strategies, and one-on-one coaching that will shift you into a realm of infinite worth and unshakeable confidence. CLICK HERE TO JOIN (https://qc-inner-circle.mn.co/plans/332795?bundle_token=cab6573e4168889c49c2ede411885043&utm_source=manual)

13. 

    27 Jul 2023

    Decoding Love: Understanding Attachment Styles

    In this revealing episode, we journey into the intriguing world of attachment styles. Joining me is the charismatic and knowledgeable Kara Laricks, a respected dating coach and matchmaker from Three Day Rule. With her deep understanding of human connection, Kara helps us unravel the complex tapestry of attachment theory. We delve into the various attachment styles - secure, anxious-preoccupied, dismissive-avoidant, and fearful-avoidant - discussing how each can impact our relationships and personal happiness. Understanding your attachment style, we suggest, is not about placing yourself in a box but about recognizing patterns and harnessing this awareness for personal growth and healthier relationships. Importantly, we also explore how those with insecure attachment styles can not only survive but genuinely thrive in their relationships. Kara shares valuable insights on how recognizing and understanding your attachment style can guide you towards more meaningful, fulfilling connections. We also discuss strategies for cultivating security within yourself and your relationships, regardless of your attachment style. The highlight of our conversation is a frank discussion on how to navigate a relationship when you and your partner have differing attachment styles. From communication tactics to empathy exercises, we offer practical advice that can help bridge the gap and foster a deeper bond. Whether you're single and navigating the dating scene or in a relationship and looking to deepen your connection, understanding attachment styles can transform the way you approach love. Tune in for an insightful exploration of how the heart bonds and the ways we can use this knowledge to enrich our love lives. You might be surprised to learn how these invisible strings of attachment are shaping your love story. If you are ready to take on your dating life to the next level and make it your last, then sign up for my 2-day virtual dating event at the link below: https://www.queer-connections.com/virtual-dating-event

14. 

    20 Jul 2023

    Ignite Your Love Life: The "Spark" vs. The "Slow Burn" in Dating

    In today's episode, we'll be unpacking a topic many of us grapple with on our quest for love: the elusive "spark" versus the steady, soulful "slow burn". Often, in our search for romantic connection, we're taught to chase that immediate, electrifying chemistry. But is that instantaneous spark always the best indicator of lasting love? We delve into why the "spark" might not be your best bet when it comes to long-term happiness. Sure, it's exhilarating, but can it be blinding, too? I'll be sharing my thoughts on how the pursuit of an immediate spark can lead us astray, causing us to overlook potentially profound connections. Instead, I propose a shift in focus towards the "slow burn" - a gradual kindling of feelings that can grow into a stable, passionate flame over time. We'll explore the benefits of this approach, including the depth of connection, the discovery of shared values, and the development of emotional intimacy that can only unfold with time. I'll also offer practical advice on how to cultivate the "slow burn" in your dating journey. From mindful communication to appreciating the beauty of the mundane, we'll discuss how to nourish a connection that can withstand the trials of time. If you're tired of chasing sparks that fizzle out and ready to ignite a love that lasts, this episode is for you. Let's transform your approach to dating and open up new horizons in your love life. Tune in and let's set your heart ablaze with a slow burn love story.

15. 

    27 Jun 2023

    How to REALLY use Astrology when Dating

    "My ex was a Leo, I'll never date another Leo again." "I'm not compatible with a Cancer". Many of us at some point have used astrology to determine how and IF we will date someone. But, are we really using astrology the right way?? In this enlightening episode, we dive deep into the cosmos with a very special guest, Deb from Queerstrology. As an influential voice in the Queer community and a renowned expert in astrology, Deb brings a unique perspective to the celestial conversation about how to really use astrology when dating. We go beyond the well-known sun, moon and rising signs. In this episode Deb walks us through a Synastry reading where you get to discover how the often-overlooked importance of Venus and Mars placements in assessing romantic and sexual compatibility. Whether you're a seasoned astrology aficionado or a skeptical newcomer, this episode will inspire you to see the stars in a whole new way. Join us on this cosmic journey, and you might just find that your love story is written in the stars. Tune in and let's explore the universe of love together! Follow Deb on Instagram: @queerstrology (https://www.instagram.com/queerstrology) Submit your dating question to Kita. CLICK HERE (https://www.honeybook.com/widget/kita_adams_coaching_llc_183955/cf_id/6494c2f31be635141f7fea8a)

16. 

    18 Jun 2023

    Are You Ready to Date Again?

    How do I know if I am ready to date again? That is one of the most common questions I get from people all over the world. There will never be a sign that drops out of the sky that says, "Yes, it's time". Most of us probably feel like we don't need to be dating right now. We can be paralyzed by knowing IF we are really truly ready to date. In this episode, I will give you 5 questions to ask yourself to determine if you are ready to get back into the dating pool. These questions will give you clarity of where you are right now and where you need to be to before getting back out there to date. Check out the Conscious Queer Dating Program at https://www.queer-connections.com/conscious-queer-dating

17. 

    18 Jun 2023

    Make Your Next Dating Experience YOUR LAST

    I'm Kita Adams and I'm so excited to FINALLY launch my new podcast. In this first episode, I'm going to share a little bit about my journey and how I became a certified Queer dating expert and what you can expect from the show. This is not just about giving you advice. I, along with several of my friends, experts and relationship professionals, will be giving you tips, tools and strategies that you can use right now to transform all your relationships. This podcast will give you the chance to trust love one more time and always one more time! Check out the Conscious Queer Dating Program at https://www.queer-connections.com/conscious-queer-dating

18. 

    18 Jun 2023

    Welcome to Queer Connections

    Welcome to Queer Connections, the podcast where we explore the ins and outs of LGBTQ dating and relationships. Join us as we delve into the unique challenges and joys of forming connections in the queer community. I'm Kita Adams and I'm so excited to FINALLY launch my new podcast. Check out the Conscious Queer Dating Program at https://www.queer-connections.com/conscious-queer-dating

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Apple Podcasts (US)

5.0 / 5

2 ratings

Spotify

5.0 / 5

3 ratings

Podcast Authority Score: 32 / 100

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